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(Message started by: taraann on Sep 22nd, 2003, 11:34am)

Title: what to do oh what to do....
Post by taraann on Sep 22nd, 2003, 11:34am
My head is a mess, my life is a mess, I just want to crawl into my bed and sleep for a week.  

I got a wonderful job offer (I've been a stay at home mom for almost 4 yrs now) at a very well known machine shop here.  They will start me at $15 an hour and after abit I could be up to 17 an hour.  Great benefits.  Probably could get on 2nd shift too and that would work out very well.  But my head gets worse and worse as the day wears into night.  How can I start a new job with that going on.  Not only has it been so long since I've worked on a Lathe or Bridgeport (dont know which job I'd get but Iknow it'd be on one of those)  but its been so long since I've worked outside my house period.  I really don't care for working in a shop, but my father taught me well and I was really good at it way back when I did that kind of work.  This is a shop that ppl are always trying to get a job at.  One of the best paying and such great benefits.  I don't know what I'm going to do.  I'd hate to get a job and totally bomb cause I'm rusty cause its been so many years since I've worked in a shop.  I'd hate to get a job and lose it cause of these damn CH's.  But I'd also hate to turn down such a great opportunity when we really could use the money right now.

Wow that was a weird vent....alrighty I'm done ty for listening.

Title: Re: what to do oh what to do....
Post by TxBasslady on Sep 22nd, 2003, 11:49am
;)

Sounds like a great opportunity !!!!!       8)

Try not to worry so much.........I always have told my kiddos to "follow your heart"......

If it's right, you'll know it.

Sending lotz of vibes your way ....hope they keep you pf and help ya make the decision...                ;)

Jean

Title: Re: what to do oh what to do....
Post by forgetfulnot on Sep 22nd, 2003, 11:56am
I say you should go for it, if the beast gets in the way the worst thing they could do is let you go. Most companies allow at least 90 days to evauluate you no matter what. $7,200.00 looks pretty good to me.


Lee

Title: Re: what to do oh what to do....
Post by stevegeebe on Sep 22nd, 2003, 12:24pm
I'm with Lee but it's your call.

Good luck.

Steve G

Title: Re: what to do oh what to do....
Post by aprilbee on Sep 22nd, 2003, 12:30pm
*bump*

Title: Re: what to do oh what to do....
Post by Woobie on Sep 22nd, 2003, 1:02pm

 "When Opportunity Knocks......"


Take the Job, earn what ya can. Sounds like you could use some extra cash.


PF soooooooooon,

Ramon
 

Title: Re: what to do oh what to do....
Post by ClusterChuck on Sep 22nd, 2003, 1:51pm
Go for it, girl!  If you were as good as you say, you'll be fine.  Like riding a bike ... Might take a short time to work the rust out, but it'll come back ... Go for it!!!

Hell of a lot better than Mikey Dee's!!!

Good luck!!!

Chuck

Title: Re: what to do oh what to do....
Post by Mastifflvr28 on Sep 22nd, 2003, 2:01pm
Sorry for the tough descisions Tara...but you are strong, you'll figure out what's best.

BIG ASS Vibes going up to ya!!

And good luck!!
Mast

Title: Re: what to do oh what to do....
Post by cootie on Sep 22nd, 2003, 2:50pm
You could always quit if it ai't goin well...let it be YOUR choice. What about part time...do they offer that at all ? Lotta people'd give anythin ta git such an opportunity.....follow yer heart ! Pam that is sending
confidence and PF vibes to you

PS: can you be up front with them on yer ch's so you know how you stand in that area ?

Title: Re: what to do oh what to do....
Post by Ree on Sep 22nd, 2003, 3:05pm
YOu have to decide honey... I liked being at home too thats why I gave up my career.........to be a Child care provider (at home)... the money will be hard to give up and it sounds prosperous to me especially the bennies... go with your heart or at least try it out...If it doesn work then quit what will they do... take away your library card............. try it what do you have to lose... ree

Title: Re: what to do oh what to do....
Post by taraann on Sep 22nd, 2003, 4:20pm
First of all thanks for the advice...helped clearify my own thinking for me.

Well I sat down and thought about it and what the hay I'm going to try it and if it don't work out I either quit or get fired lol.  And it'll be some really great money.  Keep your fingers crossed for me that it really is like riding a bike! I'm going down tomorrow to find more out.

Title: Re: what to do oh what to do....
Post by Ree on Sep 22nd, 2003, 4:45pm
COOL!!!YOU WOULD HAVE ALWAYS SAID I WISH I DID IT........GOOD FOR YOU... GOOD LUCK... REE

Title: Re: what to do oh what to do....
Post by Patrick_A on Sep 22nd, 2003, 5:14pm
Hey Tara, I too am a machinist. I got into CNC programming for about 5 years and got sick of it and went back to Machining. It really is like riding a bike. I was up to snuff in a week.

PF, Patrick

Title: Re: what to do oh what to do....
Post by Charlie on Sep 22nd, 2003, 11:02pm
Sounds great.

Take the job. If you can survive the worst thing that can happen, it's worth the shot.

Good luck kid

Charlie

Title: Chose, or don't chose
Post by Mr.Happy on Sep 22nd, 2003, 11:42pm

on 09/22/03 at 23:02:22, Charlie wrote:
Take the job. If you can survive the worst thing that can happen, it's worth the shot.

Uncle Chaz didn't live this long by displaying Ultimate Stupidity.
Take meds....on time.........
Take the job. See how it works out.  Never quit before you've failed in public or been fired. Acid test it is...........
Wish this was a lot cheerier.

Life is like that,
RJ

Title: my father taught mRe: what to do oh what to do....
Post by Linda_Howell on Sep 23rd, 2003, 12:23am
Hey Tarann,

I can't help you with the question of what you'll do if you lose a job over CH.  But I noticed a very important sentence in your post.

You said...."My father taught me well and I was really good at it"  

If he did and you were.   You'll do just great hon. !!!!!

          Kick ass,  Taraann.  We here rooting for you.

LindaH



Title: Re: what to do oh what to do....
Post by taraann on Sep 23rd, 2003, 3:14am
Thanks guys ;D I'll post when I get back from the shop to let you all know some of the details of the job.  Thanks for pulling for me ;D

Title: Re: what to do oh what to do....
Post by taraann on Sep 23rd, 2003, 2:55pm
Well I'm still a stay at home mom.... The deal I made with my hubby was if he didnt find a job by Monday evening, I would go and get a job.  Then the Machine shop offer came up and we were like ok there it is so lets take it.  Well hubby got THREE wonderful job offers this morning.  All with great pay and jobs he is very very interested in.  SO I am stepping back from the job scene again for now to see what turns out with his job offers.  My husband is the type of guy that is a great provider and hates the fact that his job situation has been less than perfect lately.  He is a hard worker and can't stand "sitting" around the house.  Unfortunately the 2 jobs he is leaning towards would not work out schedule wise if I took the shop job....

Just wanted to update you all on what is going on.  Thanks for all lyour well wishes and advice.  I'm actually dissapointed a little about not getting back to work.  I wont' work days cause I like being home with the kids.  Maybe a part time job in the evenings .... just gonna see what happens.

Title: Re: what to do oh what to do....
Post by cathy on Sep 23rd, 2003, 3:07pm
Every cloud has a silver lining....great to read that your hubby has got 3 job offers, let us know what happens....!

Cathy  :)

Title: Re: what to do oh what to do....
Post by Cerberus on Sep 23rd, 2003, 5:49pm
taraann,

"And when it rains......"


 good fer you guys, My best to the both of ya!

Ramon

Title: Re: what to do oh what to do....
Post by goaway on Sep 23rd, 2003, 10:54pm

on 09/22/03 at 13:51:29, ClusterChuck wrote:
Like riding a bike ... Might take a short time to work the rust out, but it'll come back ... Go for it!!!

Good luck!!!


What Chuckie said!

Title: Re: what to do oh what to do....
Post by hopefull on Sep 24th, 2003, 10:25am
what ever you do....Always BELIEVE IN YOURSELF!

What would you say to your closes friend in your shoes....then take your own advice and run with it...now or later....



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