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(Message started by: jimmers on Dec 5th, 2007, 7:42pm)

Title: December 5th 1987
Post by jimmers on Dec 5th, 2007, 7:42pm
I lost my Dad.

I'm not whining but it never seems to get any easier :'( He was a good Man! Unfortunately he only made it to 50 years old. He taught me everything I know.

Love ya Pops!

Sometimes I think having lost someone is the only bad thing about the Holidays, no matter how long ago it was or what time of year. I guess if we keep people alive in our hearts, they will live forever but this time of year is always the toughest.



Jim

Title: Re: December 5th 1987
Post by Jonny on Dec 5th, 2007, 7:48pm
May 14 1996 at 75 yrs old.   :'(

Never forget!

Title: Re: December 5th 1987
Post by Rosybabe on Dec 5th, 2007, 7:49pm
yes Jim, it is tought but  you can be sure that every christmas He is right by your side.  They are still alive as long as we keep them in our hearts.

 You are always with me everytime I think of you.
                 
   Johnny (brother) 8 years old,  Feb 26, 1982
   Abuelita Juana (Granny) 72 years old,   Nov 12, 1997

                            :'( Rosy .

Title: Re: December 5th 1987
Post by JeffB on Dec 5th, 2007, 7:50pm
Yup, it sucks. This will be a somber xmas for the JeffB clan.

JimB   9/25/40    7/05/07

Title: Re: December 5th 1987
Post by DennisM1045 on Dec 5th, 2007, 7:59pm
Lost my old man following the 1st Sox World Series win.

November 4th, 2004

Old George was only 74.  God I miss him. :'(

My heart goes out to all of you.

-Dennis-

Title: Re: December 5th 1987
Post by barry_sword on Dec 5th, 2007, 8:03pm
Lost my Dad Dec. 31, 1988 at 7:30pm with me and my Mom at his side. Cancer . :'( :'(

Sorry Jim and everyone else here who has lost a loved one.

 Barry :'(

Title: Re: December 5th 1987
Post by Charlie on Dec 5th, 2007, 9:34pm
December 12th 1970...58

Geeze that's a long time ago but it doesn't seem that way.

A nice little tribute to your dad, Jim.

Charlie

Title: Re: December 5th 1987
Post by Melissa on Dec 5th, 2007, 9:36pm
Carla Kay
7/6/53 to 4/9/01  47 yrs old

miss you all the time mom...

Title: Re: December 5th 1987
Post by Mosaicwench on Dec 5th, 2007, 9:56pm
August 30, 1985 - 59 years old - Rest In Peace mom
November 18, 2006 - 81 years old - Rest well Dad

It's hard to get old and watch your family die off.

It's hardest of all at this time of year.

Bless you all in your sorrow and memories.

Title: Re: December 5th 1987
Post by George_J on Dec 6th, 2007, 2:09am
Lost my father on January 28, 2003, at the age of 82.

A fine man, a veteran of WWII (Army Air Corps), my mother's companion for over fifty years, and--my Dad.

I think about him every day.

Best wishes,

George

Title: Re: December 5th 1987
Post by sandie99 on Dec 6th, 2007, 3:03am
Jim... [smiley=hug.gif]

I lost my dad back in April 18, 1997. We were very close and the sorrow still hits me time to time. But this year, more than any other since his death, he has been appearing to my thoughts, looking happy and smiley and I take that as a good sign.

Sanna

Title: Re: December 5th 1987
Post by Jill on Dec 6th, 2007, 3:35am
I am sorry for everyone who has lost loved ones.  :'(

It never does get easier. My mom and I have always had a hard time at Christmas and other holidays since my dad died. This year is going to be harder because my grandma passed away a couple of months ago.

Birthdays are hardest for me - my dad and I shared the same one. I was born on his thirtieth birthday - that was cool. My grandma's birthday was on Christmas day.

Somehow we manage though. We keep their memories alive and then they are always with us. That is most important, at least to me.

So here is to my dad who died on April 26, 2003 at the age of fifty from a massive heart attack. And to my grandma who died on August 25, 2007 from cancer. I love you and miss you both. [smiley=heart.gif]

And here is to everyone else, for those who have moved and are no longer with us and to those left behind. [smiley=heart.gif]

Hugs to all.  [smiley=hug.gif]

Jill

Title: Re: December 5th 1987
Post by artonio7 on Dec 6th, 2007, 4:02am
I lost my dad August 7, 1983 @ 4:30 am est.
I lost my mom March 1, 1995 @ 7:30 pm est

Two fine people who I miss so very much.


with warm regards,
Tony

Title: Re: December 5th 1987
Post by zwibbs/Scott on Dec 6th, 2007, 7:31am
When they are in your hearts, they are with you at every moment of everyday.

Title: Re: December 5th 1987
Post by sandie99 on Dec 6th, 2007, 7:42am
Scott, that was beautiful, just beautiful. :)

Sanna

Title: Re: December 5th 1987
Post by JDH on Dec 6th, 2007, 7:46am
Worst night of my life was 1/14/85  :'(

Title: Re: December 5th 1987
Post by Angie on Dec 6th, 2007, 8:52am
Lost my Mom November 19, 2004

Miss you mom :'(


Title: Re: December 5th 1987
Post by Ray on Dec 6th, 2007, 8:56am
My dad died July 4, 2006, and he would be 85 on December 16, 2007.  I miss you dad, I pray you're in a better place.  I love you!

Ray   :'(

Title: Re: December 5th 1987
Post by aloneuk on Dec 6th, 2007, 9:05am
When i was 14 I lost my dad may 3rd 1997 age 43,
then 3weeks later i lost the best friend i will ever have age 14!  :'(

Tams dad died 20th nov 2005

So dearly loved, so sadly missed  :'(

Title: Re: December 5th 1987
Post by Jackie on Dec 6th, 2007, 9:24am

on 12/05/07 at 19:42:30, jimmers wrote:
Love ya Pops!


Yes, Jimmers, it's a hard loss.....bless your heart!

April 6, 2001....I lost my Daddy.  I was lucky...he was a wonderful Pop and I got to have him for a long time. I will love him forever and miss him until the day I die.

My heart goes out to all of you.... :'(

Jackie

Title: Re: December 5th 1987
Post by deltadarlin on Dec 6th, 2007, 6:39pm
Mama-May 2, 1976, Age 38 1 week before Mother's day (of a self-inflicted gunshot wound).
Grandaddy- Jan 22, 1985
Daddy-March 6, 1989
Grandmother, June 24, 1984
Debbie, my best friend, March 11, 2004


And now, since I have some memories resurfacing that I don't care to deal with, think I will find my solace in this fifith of very rare Middleton that I just bought.

Title: Re: December 5th 1987
Post by jimmers on Dec 6th, 2007, 8:29pm
God Bless all of our lost loved ones. I think by taking them, He already has ;)

Jimmers

Title: Re: December 5th 1987
Post by Maffumatt on Dec 6th, 2007, 8:43pm
:-[
Rest easy.

Title: Re: December 5th 1987
Post by Ree on Dec 6th, 2007, 10:51pm
Well you all supported me through that hard year in 2005  June 20th of that year I lost my Dad "Bud McGovern" and then lost my Mom "Doris McGovern" on November 11th four and a half months later.  Its been two years and though I am happy they are together... it feels like yesterday and I am bluer than blue this year.
I also went to my friends mothers wake last night it will be a tough one for them...

lookin at my mortality wondering when does it get fun again...

love you guys

Title: Re: December 5th 1987
Post by Melissa on Dec 6th, 2007, 11:09pm
As I've gone through my spiritual walk after my mom passed, I came to realize that death is not an ending, it's just a beginning.  It's not something to be feared or dreaded, but something that is so out of this world, so beyond our comprehension, that there is no explanation for it.

I do not fear death anymore but will embrace it when it's time for me to go and I'm sure I'll see/feel my mom and relatives again.  I hope everyone can find peace in that.

hugs to you all...

Title: Re: December 5th 1987
Post by Linda_Howell on Dec 7th, 2007, 1:13am

  I lost my Dad when I was 17  (I hardly knew him and to this day I wish I had)


  For all of you out there right now at this very time going through this...my heart goes out to you, but please thank God for the time you have spent with him that I never got .  That means you Jeff...and you Pat and Brew, and you Matt...

   Time to smell the roses and forget about the thorns.





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