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Leaving for awhile.  I'll miss you guys...
« on: Dec 16th, 2003, 11:51am »
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I would like to say that I hope the holiday season is great to everyone.
 
But for a very complicated reason, I have to leave at least for a while.  I really don't want to, but due to a recent dramatically life-changing situation that is far-reaching in its effects, I feel that this is best for everyone involved.
 
To those that I have angered or alientated recently with inappropriate/rash actions, I apologize.  I wish I could say "Its not the real me", but that's where the a part of the real problem lies.  (I'm not really sure what the "real me" is anymore.  Huh )  I feel that it is best if I don't risk angering or hurting any others.
 
I wish I could be less vague regarding this problem, but it is of a VERY sensitive nature.  Those of you that spoken with me recently will understand this statement.
 
I will most probably return when I have things worked out since some of you are some of my closest friends. I hope it only takes a while to resolve these problems, but there is no set schedule.  It could take weeksor months,  or it could take longer.
 
Happy Holidays and I'll be praying for pain-free time for all of you and most of all, missing you guys,
Grant
 
 
 
P.S.  To those of you that I pissed off before the last few weeks, that WAS the real me and to those that I haven't pissed off yet, I'll be back.    Wink Grin
 
I will be answering my email if any of you want to contact me.  I think I could use a little support.
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Re: Leaving for awhile.  I'll miss you guys...
« Reply #1 on: Dec 16th, 2003, 12:17pm »
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.....but it says in your tag line you REFUSE to leave.  
 
sorry, just trying for a little levity.  I hope things get better for you soon.  I have email too, you're welcome to use my inbox.  
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« Reply #2 on: Dec 16th, 2003, 12:26pm »
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One does what needs doing. Good luck working out whatever is making your life uncomfortable or miserable.
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« Reply #3 on: Dec 16th, 2003, 12:28pm »
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Grant
 
I will miss you, but HEY, before you go, you haven't pissed me off yet!
 
Loads of luck with EVERYTHING!
 
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« Reply #4 on: Dec 16th, 2003, 12:34pm »
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I don't know you and you've never pissed me off but best of luck to you!!!!!!!!!!!!  And I'll be waiting for your return so you can have the opportunity to piss me off and I will hold you to that!!!!!!!!!  TAKE CARE!!!
 
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Re: Leaving for awhile.  I'll miss you guys...
« Reply #5 on: Dec 16th, 2003, 12:37pm »
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Grant....I don't believe you could ever piss anyone off not really, you and I have shared some laughs and I hope you won't be gone for too long otherwise i'll have noone to pick on anymore.... Wink  hope things work out for you and that you get back here where you belong.... Undecided
 
Sending you sort it out vibes...
 
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« Reply #6 on: Dec 16th, 2003, 12:39pm »
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Hey Cramps,
 
I,m sure there are more people out there that you have not pissed off, then the ones you have. I wouldn't be too hard on yourself.
 
Wishing you the best of luck and being PF.
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« Reply #7 on: Dec 16th, 2003, 12:47pm »
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AWWWWW don't bloody go...we have all pissed each other off at one time or another i am sure of it, some publicly, and some have just steamed to themselves about it....but we all get over it and move on. DON"T GO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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« Reply #8 on: Dec 16th, 2003, 1:05pm »
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I've said it before... it's very hard to get your true feelings across with just a few words, on a message board...I know there's been quite a few times where I wrote & a person took what I wrote completely out of context. Not that it was completely their fault. It's just hard to understand what the person is truly saying without the emotional hints...i.e. sound of their voice, facial expressions.
 
So, if you've pissed someone off...they'll get over it. If this site is important to you, don't let someone take it away from you. In other words "Don't leave Brain-Cramps" & if you've truly decided you must leave...make it a short vacation & get back soon.
 
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« Reply #9 on: Dec 16th, 2003, 1:07pm »
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Hey Grant, a man's gotta do what a man's gotta do.
Take care of yourself dude and hope everything works out.
Have a great holiday,
 
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Re: Leaving for awhile.  I'll miss you guys...
« Reply #10 on: Dec 16th, 2003, 1:19pm »
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Grant you will be missed.  Please hurry back home when your feeling better.  I will be praying for you.
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Re: Leaving for awhile.  I'll miss you guys..
« Reply #11 on: Dec 16th, 2003, 1:47pm »
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Hey Grant:
 
Don't be a stranger. Atleast no stranger than you already are. Get it done get back dude.
 
 
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« Reply #12 on: Dec 16th, 2003, 1:49pm »
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Grant,
 
Take good care of yourself and you will be missed!  I hope that you can work out whatever is going on, and you know how to reach me if you need anything.  PF vibes to you!
 
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« Reply #13 on: Dec 16th, 2003, 2:00pm »
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ok what did you do Grant?????? Ya really can't pick your family... You won't be gone long...oooooo and Im ditto-ing (if there is such a word) Wendy........ you haven't pissed me off yet either.........love ree
 
Happy Holidays and fast return...................!
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« Reply #14 on: Dec 16th, 2003, 2:13pm »
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I understand completely..only because sometimes things come up that MUST be dealt with and sometimes we need to prioritize our life to deal. So, go take care of things and return well. Merry Christmas.
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« Reply #15 on: Dec 16th, 2003, 2:43pm »
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CAOS, this is our life. You feel that each important point loss... you loose each aim and surety.
 
Who are there aliens in our life, so enemies, so not under control, so hard towards our life?
 
Where do they come from?
 
You can’t understand...
 
You will rise and live for you and for the other people.
 
Life has an aim: many projects, don’t let fear win.
 
You will not loose your surety.
 
Mine is a recognice of your engagement and of the help you gave me.
 
I'll miss you,
 
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« Reply #16 on: Dec 16th, 2003, 3:07pm »
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Sometimes in life we need to chip away at the problems one at a time, and that means ya can't be everywhere supporting all of the time.  Take the time ya need, but know, you will be missed.  Your true friends will be here waiting for ya.  Us cluster junkies are one of a kind.  We stick together.  
 
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« Reply #17 on: Dec 16th, 2003, 3:57pm »
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Grant,
 
I don't know you well, but I wish you the best. Work out what needs working and return soon.
 
Have a blessed holiday season.
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Grant, be well. Take the time that you need for you.  We will all be here when you return.  
 
May you find what you need to find and always know that you have friends here who will miss you terribly.
 
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« Reply #19 on: Dec 16th, 2003, 5:01pm »
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Grant, i am thinkin of ya and hoping you feel better soon.  You belong here ya know Smiley
 
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« Reply #20 on: Dec 16th, 2003, 7:51pm »
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Focus, Grant, on what you KNOW is important.  
When you decide you need us, we are here, ready to lend an ear, and give a computer generated  hug.  Leaving your #1 support group is not good!  You  need us, and we need you!
 
Focus, Grant, FOCUS!
 
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« Reply #21 on: Dec 16th, 2003, 7:56pm »
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time for a......cool change...
 
Good luck on your journey Grant.
 
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« Reply #22 on: Dec 16th, 2003, 10:01pm »
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Hurry up and get back here so we can laugh at other people in IMs!   Grin
 
Best wishes for you Grant...gonna miss ya man!
 
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« Reply #23 on: Dec 16th, 2003, 10:10pm »
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How many years did they give you?
 
You do what you got to do bud.
 
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« Reply #24 on: Dec 16th, 2003, 10:22pm »
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Ok so heres 23 people you didnt piss off... looks like a good reason to stay to me...23 friends I think you are doing quite well............ re think.........then return...love ree
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