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(Message started by: brain_cramps on Dec 16th, 2003, 11:51am)

Title: Leaving for awhile.  I'll miss you guys...
Post by brain_cramps on Dec 16th, 2003, 11:51am
I would like to say that I hope the holiday season is great to everyone.

But for a very complicated reason, I have to leave at least for a while.  I really don't want to, but due to a recent dramatically life-changing situation that is far-reaching in its effects, I feel that this is best for everyone involved.

To those that I have angered or alientated recently with inappropriate/rash actions, I apologize.  I wish I could say "Its not the real me", but that's where the a part of the real problem lies.  (I'm not really sure what the "real me" is anymore.  [smiley=huh.gif] )  I feel that it is best if I don't risk angering or hurting any others.

I wish I could be less vague regarding this problem, but it is of a VERY sensitive nature.  Those of you that spoken with me recently will understand this statement.

I will most probably return when I have things worked out since some of you are some of my closest friends. I hope it only takes a while to resolve these problems, but there is no set schedule.  It could take weeksor months,  or it could take longer.

Happy Holidays and I'll be praying for pain-free time for all of you and most of all, missing you guys,
Grant



P.S.  To those of you that I pissed off before the last few weeks, that WAS the real me and to those that I haven't pissed off yet, I'll be back.    ;) ;;D

I will be answering my email if any of you want to contact me.  I think I could use a little support.

Title: Re: Leaving for awhile.  I'll miss you guys...
Post by Peppermint on Dec 16th, 2003, 12:17pm
.....but it says in your tag line you REFUSE to leave.

sorry, just trying for a little levity.  I hope things get better for you soon.  I have email too, you're welcome to use my inbox.  

Title: Re: Leaving for awhile.  I'll miss you guys..
Post by Miklos on Dec 16th, 2003, 12:26pm
One does what needs doing. Good luck working out whatever is making your life uncomfortable or miserable.

Title: Re: Leaving for awhile.  I'll miss you guys...
Post by pubgirl on Dec 16th, 2003, 12:28pm
Grant

I will miss you, but HEY, before you go, you haven't pissed me off yet!

Loads of luck with EVERYTHING!

Wendy
XXXXXXXXXX

Title: Re: Leaving for awhile.  I'll miss you guys...
Post by CHmess on Dec 16th, 2003, 12:34pm
I don't know you and you've never pissed me off but best of luck to you!!!!!!!!!!!!  And I'll be waiting for your return so you can have the opportunity to piss me off and I will hold you to that!!!!!!!!!  TAKE CARE!!!

Another CH Buddy!  ;;D

Title: Re: Leaving for awhile.  I'll miss you guys...
Post by cathy on Dec 16th, 2003, 12:37pm
Grant....I don't believe you could ever piss anyone off not really, you and I have shared some laughs and I hope you won't be gone for too long otherwise i'll have noone to pick on anymore.... ;)  hope things work out for you and that you get back here where you belong.... :-/

Sending you sort it out vibes...

Cathy  [smiley=hug.gif]

Title: Re: Leaving for awhile.  I'll miss you guys...
Post by BlueMeanie on Dec 16th, 2003, 12:39pm
Hey Cramps,

I,m sure there are more people out there that you have not pissed off, then the ones you have. I wouldn't be too hard on yourself.

Wishing you the best of luck and being PF.

Title: Re: Leaving for awhile.  I'll miss you guys...
Post by Jayne on Dec 16th, 2003, 12:47pm
AWWWWW don't bloody go...we have all pissed each other off at one time or another i am sure of it, some publicly, and some have just steamed to themselves about it....but we all get over it and move on. DON"T GO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Love Jayne

Title: Re: Leaving for awhile.  I'll miss you guys...
Post by Jimmy_B on Dec 16th, 2003, 1:05pm
I've said it before... it's very hard to get your true feelings across with just a few words, on a message board...I know there's been quite a few times where I wrote & a person took what I wrote completely out of context. Not that it was completely their fault. It's just hard to understand what the person is truly saying without the emotional hints...i.e. sound of their voice, facial expressions.

So, if you've pissed someone off...they'll get over it. If this site is important to you, don't let someone take it away from you. In other words "Don't leave Brain-Cramps" & if you've truly decided you must leave...make it a short vacation & get back soon.

Jim Bassett

Title: Re: Leaving for awhile.  I'll miss you guys...
Post by JDH on Dec 16th, 2003, 1:07pm
Hey Grant, a man's gotta do what a man's gotta do.
Take care of yourself dude and hope everything works out.
Have a great holiday,

Jim

Title: Re: Leaving for awhile.  I'll miss you guys...
Post by Karla on Dec 16th, 2003, 1:19pm
Grant you will be missed.  Please hurry back home when your feeling better.  I will be praying for you.

Title: Re: Leaving for awhile.  I'll miss you guys..
Post by Kirk on Dec 16th, 2003, 1:47pm
Hey Grant:

Don't be a stranger. Atleast no stranger than you already are. Get it done get back dude.


TTFN

Title: Re: Leaving for awhile.  I'll miss you guys...
Post by chronic_chic on Dec 16th, 2003, 1:49pm
Grant,

Take good care of yourself and you will be missed!  I hope that you can work out whatever is going on, and you know how to reach me if you need anything.  PF vibes to you!

~Lizzie :)

Title: Re: Leaving for awhile.  I'll miss you guys...
Post by Ree on Dec 16th, 2003, 2:00pm
ok what did you do Grant?????? Ya really can't pick your family... You won't be gone long...oooooo and Im ditto-ing (if there is such a word) Wendy........ you haven't pissed me off yet either.........love ree

Happy Holidays and fast return...................!

Title: Re: Leaving for awhile.  I'll miss you guys...
Post by Lori on Dec 16th, 2003, 2:13pm
I understand completely..only because sometimes things come up that MUST be dealt with and sometimes we need to prioritize our life to deal. So, go take care of things and return well. Merry Christmas.

Title: Re: Leaving for awhile.  I'll miss you guys...
Post by ZAIRA on Dec 16th, 2003, 2:43pm
CAOS, this is our life. You feel that each important point loss... you loose each aim and surety.

Who are there aliens in our life, so enemies, so not under control, so hard towards our life?

Where do they come from?

You can’t understand...

You will rise and live for you and for the other people.

Life has an aim: many projects, don’t let fear win.

You will not loose your surety.

Mine is a recognice of your engagement and of the help you gave me.

I'll miss you,

Zazi


Title: Re: Leaving for awhile.  I'll miss you guys...
Post by OneEyeBlind on Dec 16th, 2003, 3:07pm
Sometimes in life we need to chip away at the problems one at a time, and that means ya can't be everywhere supporting all of the time.  Take the time ya need, but know, you will be missed.  Your true friends will be here waiting for ya.  Us cluster junkies are one of a kind.  We stick together.  

Email me anytime if you want a friend or just need someone to talk to.  

Title: Re: Leaving for awhile.  I'll miss you guys...
Post by jadedgazer on Dec 16th, 2003, 3:57pm
Grant,

I don't know you well, but I wish you the best. Work out what needs working and return soon.

Have a blessed holiday season.

Title: Re: Leaving for awhile.  I'll miss you guys...
Post by Tiannia on Dec 16th, 2003, 4:50pm
Grant, be well. Take the time that you need for you.  We will all be here when you return.  

May you find what you need to find and always know that you have friends here who will miss you terribly.

Tia

Title: Re: Leaving for awhile.  I'll miss you guys...
Post by kim on Dec 16th, 2003, 5:01pm
Grant, i am thinkin of ya and hoping you feel better soon.  You belong here ya know :)

Nothing is ever as bad as it seems*** :)

Title: Re: Leaving for awhile.  I'll miss you guys...
Post by Little Deb on Dec 16th, 2003, 7:51pm
Focus, Grant, on what you KNOW is important.  
When you decide you need us, we are here, ready to lend an ear, and give a computer generated  [smiley=hug.gif].  Leaving your #1 support group is not good!  You  need us, and we need you!

Focus, Grant, FOCUS!

({)(})

Little Deb ;;D

Title: Re: Leaving for awhile.  I'll miss you guys...
Post by stevegeebe on Dec 16th, 2003, 7:56pm
time for a......cool change...

Good luck on your journey Grant.

Steve G

Title: Re: Leaving for awhile.  I'll miss you guys...
Post by Prense on Dec 16th, 2003, 10:01pm
Hurry up and get back here so we can laugh at other people in IMs!   ;;D

Best wishes for you Grant...gonna miss ya man!

Chris

Title: Re: Leaving for awhile.  I'll miss you guys..
Post by don on Dec 16th, 2003, 10:10pm
How many years did they give you?

You do what you got to do bud.

You gots me email.

Title: Re: Leaving for awhile.  I'll miss you guys...
Post by Ree on Dec 16th, 2003, 10:22pm
Ok so heres 23 people you didnt piss off... looks like a good reason to stay to me...23 friends I think you are doing quite well............ re think.........then return...love ree

Title: easy
Post by rumplestiltskin on Dec 16th, 2003, 10:59pm
Take the next right step

Walk in the sunshine
den

Title: Re: Leaving for awhile.  I'll miss you guys...
Post by Charlie on Dec 16th, 2003, 11:12pm

Quote:
Grant, i am thinkin of ya and hoping you feel better soon.  You belong here ya know  

Nothing is ever as bad as it seems***


Can't beat what Kim said and the fuzzy guy from Texas as well.  

I do feel cheated though. You didn't piss off me yet.

See you soon I hope

Charlie

Title: Re: Leaving for awhile.  I'll miss you guys...
Post by Patrick_A on Dec 17th, 2003, 12:52am
I'd just like to say..........................

Good Fucking Riddance

LOL, just joking man! Ya aint pissed me off, but if ya did, it could only be for a short term. Come back very soon bro, You'll be missed very much.

Patrick  :)

Title: Re: Leaving for awhile.  I'll miss you guys...
Post by fubar on Dec 17th, 2003, 1:42am
Whatever the deal is Grant, I hope to see you back soon.

Title: Re: Leaving for awhile.  I'll miss you guys...
Post by suzy617 on Dec 17th, 2003, 6:27am
Sorry to see your leaving Grant.  Hope you get it together and come back soon.

Suzy who you have never pissed off....

Title: Re: Leaving for awhile.  I'll miss you guys..
Post by jonny on Dec 17th, 2003, 5:20pm
Hurry back you horses ass ;;D

.............................Your King ;;D

Title: Re: Leaving for awhile.  I'll miss you guys...
Post by eyes_afire on Dec 17th, 2003, 6:28pm
Hurry back, Grant.

We're gonna miss you.

Take care.

--- Steve

Title: Re: Leaving for awhile.  I'll miss you guys...
Post by River_Rat on Dec 17th, 2003, 7:55pm
You piss me off all the time! NO! wait that's Jonny ;;D

Anyway good luck and GodSpeed, Take care of shit and get back here, I'm kinda worried about you man!

LEE

J/K Jonny

Title: Re: Leaving for awhile.  I'll miss you guys...
Post by Ann on Dec 17th, 2003, 9:01pm
Grant,

I don't know what is going on...(I rarely do!  ;;D)  but if that's the way you feel go for it.  Good luck and hurry back.

By the way...you can put me in the "haven't pissed off yet" list.  (for future reference)

hugs
Ann

Title: Re: Leaving for awhile.  I'll miss you guys...
Post by Callico_Kid on Dec 17th, 2003, 9:10pm
Hey Grant,

Go do what needs doing and come back.  You are in our prayers here, and you have my e-mail.  Let us know how we can help.

Jerry


Title: Re: Leaving for awhile.  I'll miss you guys...
Post by brain_cramps on Dec 18th, 2003, 9:10am
Hi

Just stopped in for a minute and wanted to say thanks for the well-wishes and email.  It really means a LOT to me.

hoping and praying that EVERYONE has a PF holiday season,
grant                       8)

Title: Re: Leaving for awhile.  I'll miss you guys...
Post by TomM on Dec 18th, 2003, 9:26am

on 12/16/03 at 19:56:08, stevegeebe wrote:
time for a......cool change...
Steve G

Steve, that is a GREAT tag line.

Grant--be safe... and lurk...you know you will. Come back stronger, better, faster....wiser???
Merry Christmas!
TomM

Title: Re: Leaving for awhile.  I'll miss you guys...
Post by Mac on Dec 18th, 2003, 12:23pm
Merry Christmas dude.
Glen

Title: Re: Leaving for awhile.  I'll miss you guys...
Post by CathiP on Dec 18th, 2003, 3:08pm
:P :P :P :P :P :P :PWell, personally, I don't miss you one lil bit, Grant! :P :P :P :P :P :P :P :P :P :P :P :P :P

Merry Christmas, Mr Cramping of the Brain, puter geeky-type buddy-o-miine!

And now that the masses have spoken...GET YER GLUTEUS MINIMUS BACK HERE!

Cathi



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