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I'm falling apart at the seams...Updated
« on: Dec 31st, 2004, 2:55pm » |
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I have had 8 hours sleep in the last six days, I can't eat because I am so stressed out that I have ulcers in my mouth, my ex has been calling me every day at 3:30-4:30 am just to harass me (no I can't turn the ringer off or unplug the phone and he calls from different numbers each time so I can't block it), I cannot seem to stop crying today. Everything feels out of control and hopeless, and I don't know what to do to make it stop.
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« Reply #2 on: Dec 31st, 2004, 3:02pm » |
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Ive never heard of a phone you cant unplug
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« Reply #3 on: Dec 31st, 2004, 3:08pm » |
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Maybe you can change your phone number? I know it's a drag, but at least your ex won't be able to harrass you by phone.
I'm really sorry you're hurting Donna. I pray things get better for you soon.
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« Reply #4 on: Dec 31st, 2004, 3:13pm » |
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don't those mouth ulcers just make everything so much worse, they suck! vibes Donna, find a way to cut him off from contacting you, who needs that crap?
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milk of magnesia to coat and protect the mouth ulcers does wonders 
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« Reply #5 on: Dec 31st, 2004, 3:34pm » |
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(((((((Donna))))))))))))) 
Please try to take care of yourself, change your phone number, its time.... thinking of you and if you need to talk call me k? I am around...
Biggest hugs and good thoughts your way...
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Suck it up Princess...
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« Reply #6 on: Dec 31st, 2004, 3:53pm » |
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Sis...
you know how to reach me......
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« Reply #7 on: Dec 31st, 2004, 4:22pm » |
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Unplug the phone...sip some smoothies (like banana, chocolate and milk) and hang in there, sweetie.
Cry if you need to, it rids our bodies of toxins that build up...it's good for you. Don't let all the bullshit drag you down though, it's just not worth it. Play a game with the little ones, get silly, laugh too. Hey...why don't all 3 of you put butter in your hair tonight. Make it beauty night!
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« Reply #8 on: Dec 31st, 2004, 4:27pm » |
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I'll say it..................kick him in the balls D, followed by a hard left upper cut to the chin, followed by a straight right hand to his face babe  I hate punks 
Wish I lived closer
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« Reply #9 on: Dec 31st, 2004, 4:29pm » |
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Dontcha just love it when our brothers wanna come out swinging at anyone who bugs us?? I do. 
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« Reply #10 on: Dec 31st, 2004, 4:34pm » |
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I'm with Jonny. You should find a ringer cutoff somewhere too. Of course, maybe you need it connected but Nani's right. A good plan
I hope you can get a little shuteye and a little enjoyment out of the day. Your ex needs to play in traffic.
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« Reply #11 on: Dec 31st, 2004, 4:35pm » |
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If I were there I would give you the biggest hug!!! And if I were there I would pick the phone when he called and He'd be sorry he fucked with you right now!!! Hang on, it will get better. I promise you and remember what goes around comes around!!!
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« Reply #12 on: Dec 31st, 2004, 4:42pm » |
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Big hugs and vibes going out to you Donna. Unplug that phone and unwind a bit, if you can.
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« Reply #13 on: Dec 31st, 2004, 4:44pm » |
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And of course...I love it when our sisters get all riled up, too.
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« Reply #14 on: Dec 31st, 2004, 4:44pm » |
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Becky makes it easy for we the lazy to cut & paste deeply caring replies.
If I were there I would give you the biggest hug!!! And if I were there I would pick the phone when he called and He'd be sorry he fucked with you right now!!!
Be well DD.
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« Reply #15 on: Dec 31st, 2004, 5:30pm » |
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Make a couple of calls yourself.
One to the phone company and another to the police.
Then you go to the couthouse and tyake out a restraining order. If he calls he gets locked up.
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« Reply #16 on: Dec 31st, 2004, 5:36pm » |
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Doesn't the existing restraining order cover the phone? Get the police on his ass, and let him go back in the slammer as Bubba's wife. A great new year for his scuzzy ass!
Hope your phone is turned on now, as I am calling you.
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« Reply #17 on: Dec 31st, 2004, 6:01pm » |
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Donna... leave your cell phone on, shut off your home phone at night. Don't wait to alert the police about this either, because it can be really easy to just keep putting it off, especially if you're feeling stressed and down. Hasn't he already broken that order numerous times??
Think about you and your children first. If someone else tries calling you at home and can't get you, well tough nuts. Just make sure that you have given your cell# to the people you want to be able to stay in contact with.
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Hang in there girl....... remember no one, and I mean NONE, that makes you feel bad or bad about yourself deserves a tear or a drop of energy wasted on them. Those bad seeds feed on your vulnerability... you know what I'm saying.
Wish I could punch a sucker in the friggin pigeon nuts.....
You know you can get me on the horn anytime. Breathe. Remember the people that love you. Forget the ones that don't. 
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« Reply #18 on: Dec 31st, 2004, 6:04pm » |
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Donna,
I don't really understand what you want from this post. I wish i could end your pain, but sadly no one but YOU can.
Call the phone company and then call the police and then stand up in front of a mirror and scream to it's reflection that YOU WILL NOT ALLOW ANYONE TO HARM YOU OR YOUR CHILDREN. PERIOD. You'll be shocked at how easy it can be to end it. It's a state of mind. You mite not be there now. Unfortunately, you have babies who are waiting for you to GET there. They can't make the calls and they are helpless. It's up to you.
DO it NOW.
Later you can sit down and have a cold drink and a big sandwich while the mirror on the wall gives ya a wink.
Well wishes***
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Take care of yourself dear. Thinking of you.
Oh, btw here is the shit head a new years present!
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« Reply #20 on: Dec 31st, 2004, 6:39pm » |
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Uh I believe Texas is a "fair warning" state.....er right?
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« Reply #21 on: Dec 31st, 2004, 7:15pm » |
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Is fair warning the same as in range?....
Good luck from "ah hell..that's close enough for the 30'06'
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« Reply #22 on: Dec 31st, 2004, 7:21pm » |
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Not cool, call the cops. You don't need this Donna.
(((((Donna)))))
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« Reply #23 on: Dec 31st, 2004, 11:38pm » |
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I swear, this family is the greatest. I have been down and out since Christmas and getting worse every day. Today, I am at the end of my rope and I post and it is like the Cavalry came charging in...my phone has not stopped ringing all day.
I don't know how I would make it some days without all of you.
For the record. I do have a two year protective order against my ex. When he calls, EVERY time he calls I report it to the police...even at 3:30 in the morning. The DA's office has enough violations of the protective order to consider stalking charges, which carries a mandatory two years in prison. he is truly insane. The calls I have been recieving for the last week consist of him laughing hysterically and telling me "I will pay for all the wrong I ever did to him". I cannot unplug my phone right now as my Dad is not doing well at all and my mobile phone does not always work in the apartment. I have been "warned" that if I change my number that my ex will show up here. In addition, my mother and boss immediately contact the police if they cannot contact me (for obvious reasons). I am taking all the right steps....but that does not make it any easier. I am changing my number anyways after I send notice to my business clients (my home phone doubles as my work phone and I cannot afford to lose money right now) and get my new business cards and I am hoping the son-of-a-bitch doesn't try and make good on his promises.. .
Thank you all for the phone calls and messages...I cannot express to you how much it means to me. Thank you.
DD
PS. Still waiting on one particular phone call...hope it comes soon.
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