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Message started by Langa on Jun 22nd, 2008 at 2:20am

Title: MY MOM...
Post by Langa on Jun 22nd, 2008 at 2:20am
Passed away tonite - heart attack.  The nursing home was more than happy to wait for me before taking her away.  Sitting there it dawned on me that I came from the lifeless body that lied before me, was nursed by this body, was taken care of by the small hands before me.  I placed my head on her chest the way I used to do when I was upset and she knew me.  Gordon sat next to me while I hugged her thin body and sobbed my heart out.  

Before I left, I gave her kisses all over her face and told her we'll see each other again soon.  No more pain, no more tears, no more fear.

BYE FOR NOW MOM...

Love,
Langa



 

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Post by LeLimey on Jun 22nd, 2008 at 2:43am
Oh Maria I'm so sorry. She's safe now and back able to watch over you as she would like.

She'll never be gone while she lives in the hearts of those who love her, she'll be with you daily and I promise you, you'll feel her presence by you.

with love to you
Helen xxx

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Post by The  mad viking on Jun 22nd, 2008 at 4:08am
I am so sorry my friend

Helen said it really well so i wont repeat her.
Sending my deepest sympathies and condolences

Svenn

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Post by tuck on Jun 22nd, 2008 at 4:20am
My sincerest sympathies, you and your family will be in my prayers.                      Tuck

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Post by Jackie on Jun 22nd, 2008 at 5:23am
I'm so very sorry, Maria.  My deepest and most sincere condolences to you and your family.

May fond and sweet memories comfort you.  She will live in your heart forever.

Much love to you,
Jackie

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Post by Paul98 on Jun 22nd, 2008 at 7:03am
I'm so sorry for your loss Maria.  I know it has been a tough haul these last few years and I hope you both will find peace.  

Your mom not only gave you life and nursed you Maria, she gave her strength to you as well.  You have much to be proud of and a good part of that is due to her strength and wisdom.  She was a good woman.  God's speed.

Love, Paul


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Post by Grandma_Sweet_Boy on Jun 22nd, 2008 at 7:28am
I'm so sorry Maria.   :'(  Remember the love and the good times.


Hugs
Carol

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Post by Mosaicwench on Jun 22nd, 2008 at 7:54am
My deepest condolences on your loss.

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Post by George_J on Jun 22nd, 2008 at 8:04am
I'm sorry to hear this, Langa.  

All the best to you and your family during this difficult time.  

George

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Post by midwestbeth on Jun 22nd, 2008 at 8:23am
I'm so sorry for your loss Langa.  :'(  Deepest symapthies to you and your family.

Hugs,
Beth




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Post by BarbaraD on Jun 22nd, 2008 at 8:46am
My deepest sympathies Langa.

Hugs BD

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Post by PollyPocket on Jun 22nd, 2008 at 8:47am
I am so sorry for your loss Langa. Prayers for peace and comfort to you and your family.


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Post by Kevin_M on Jun 22nd, 2008 at 8:52am
My sympathies to you and family, Maria.   Many memories for you to embrace her sad loss will forever hold.

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Post by barry_sword on Jun 22nd, 2008 at 8:54am
So sorry Langa, our deepest condolences to you and the family. :'(

 Barry&Angie

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Post by Peppermint on Jun 22nd, 2008 at 9:01am
Mery- mama, I'm so sorry.  Those moments you remember were a beautiful testament of the love your mother gave you, still alive in you.  You will carry her love and knowledge with you always.

Que descanse en paz, our love to you amiga and to Gordon,
Patty & Ericka

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Post by Jimi on Jun 22nd, 2008 at 9:10am
I was sorry to hear of the death of your mom. I pray for strength for you in the next few days Maria and will see you in a couple of weeks.

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Post by Melissa on Jun 22nd, 2008 at 9:19am
Oh Maria, I am so very sorry for your loss. :(

Big hugs to you!

love,
mel

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Post by catlind on Jun 22nd, 2008 at 9:19am
Maria, my deepest sympathies.


Quote:
Life Unbroken

Death is nothing at all
I have only slipped into the next room.
I am I, and you are you:
Whatever we were to each other, we are still.
Call me by my old familiar name;
Speak to me in the easy way you always used
Put no difference into your tone;
Wear no air of solemnity or sorrow;
Laugh as we always laughed
At the little jokes we enjoyed together;
Play, smile, think of me, pray for me.
Let my name be ever
The household word that it always was.
Let it be spoken without effect;
Without the ghost of a shadow on it.
Life means all that it ever meant.
It is the same as it ever was.
There is absolutely unbroken continuity.
What is this death but negligible accident?
Why should I be out of mind because I am out of sight?
I am but waiting for you,
For an interval, somewhere, very near
Just around the corner.
All is well.

by Harry Scott-Holland



Cat

Title: Re: MY MOM...
Post by Redd on Jun 22nd, 2008 at 9:25am
My heart and thoughts and love are with you my Sister.  I'm so very sorry for your loss.

It wasn't long ago that I was in your shoes.  

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Post by Cathi_Pierce on Jun 22nd, 2008 at 9:35am
Maria, I am sorry. I, too, know the pain, since it was  just last July I lost my Mother. Ever so slowly, the pain of your loss will be filled with good memories, of her strength,her smile, her spirit, but, for now, please know, our sympathies are with you, and we're here for whenever you need a shoulder or an ear.

Cathi

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Post by deltadarlin on Jun 22nd, 2008 at 10:42am
Maria,
I am so sorry.  Sending you strength for the coming days.

Carolyn

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Post by Brew on Jun 22nd, 2008 at 10:46am
So sorry to hear this, Maria. My heartfelt condolences.

Bill

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Post by jimmers on Jun 22nd, 2008 at 10:54am
Maria, we are so sorry for your loss. Our heartfelt prayers and condolences are with you and your Family.

Much Love,

Jim and Barb

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Post by artonio7 on Jun 22nd, 2008 at 10:57am
Maria, I am so very sorry for your loss. You have my deepest sympathy.

with warm regards,
Tony

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Post by nani on Jun 22nd, 2008 at 11:46am
Oh sweetheart, I'm so sorry.  :'(

Her legacy lives on in her children and grandchildren.
My prayers are with all of you.
Rest in peace, mama.

love and lots of hugs, nani   [smiley=hug.gif]

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Post by Racer1_NC on Jun 22nd, 2008 at 11:48am
I'm so sorry......

Title: Re: MY MOM...
Post by Jonny on Jun 22nd, 2008 at 12:09pm
I'm sorry to hear this, Maria. :'(

Dont worry, my Dad meets everyone at the gate and takes good care of them. My Dad is a great guy!

Title: Re: MY MOM...
Post by jon019 on Jun 22nd, 2008 at 12:45pm
Dear Langa,

Your pain was perfectly and beautifully expressed. I cannot help but cry for your loss. Not so long ago it was mine. The following has helped me, I pray it is some comfort for you.

"When you are sorrowful look again in your heart, and you shall see that in truth you are weeping for that which has been your delight."

Kahlil Gibran

Best,

Jon




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Post by DennisM1045 on Jun 22nd, 2008 at 1:33pm
I'm so sorry for your loss Maria.  We are in the same boat together now.  Know that I am thinking of you and praying for peace in your heart.

-Dennis-

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Post by mummymac on Jun 22nd, 2008 at 2:09pm
I am so very sorry to hear about your Mum, My condolences  and may peace be with you all in body and in spirit  :'(

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Post by kevmd on Jun 22nd, 2008 at 2:18pm
thats very heart breaking.  My thoughts are with you

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Post by Ray on Jun 22nd, 2008 at 2:37pm
Dear Maria:

I'm so sorry for your loss.  There's no bond like a daughter and her mother -- My hope is that she's in a better place and my prayer is for peace for you and your family.  My heart goes out to you.

Ray

Title: Re: MY MOM...
Post by CostaRicaKris on Jun 22nd, 2008 at 2:46pm
I am so very sorry for your loss.   :'(  There is no relationship like the one we have with our mother. Cherish your memories.

On July 4th it will be 12 years since mine passed and I can tell you it does get easier with time.

~Kris

Title: Re: MY MOM...
Post by Langa on Jun 22nd, 2008 at 2:54pm
I just wanted to say thanks to everyone who replied and who pm'd.  I love you all for standing by me and I do feel covered in prayer.  Thank you.

Langa

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Post by broomhilda on Jun 22nd, 2008 at 3:58pm
Deepest condolences from my family to yours, so sorry to hear of your loss...

Hugs and prayers from Canada

Andrea

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Post by cash5542 on Jun 22nd, 2008 at 4:25pm
May the wonderful memeories you have of your mother comfort you in your loss.

Charlotte

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Post by Lenny on Jun 22nd, 2008 at 4:43pm
I am very sorry for your loss...My thoughts and prayers for you and yours... :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( with much sadness,Lenny

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Post by Charlie on Jun 22nd, 2008 at 5:26pm
Awfully sorry Maria.

All my condolences and my thoughts are with you.
[smiley=hug.gif]  
Charlie

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Post by Jean on Jun 22nd, 2008 at 5:36pm
I'm so sorry for he loss of your Mom.....  My deepest sympathies,

Jeannie

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Post by andrewjb on Jun 22nd, 2008 at 6:04pm
langa, its lovely you had time to make peace, be at peace. andrew.

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Post by DonnaH_again on Jun 22nd, 2008 at 6:47pm
:'(  I'm very sorry, Maria.  Praying for the strength you'll need and inner peace while you deal with this sorrowful time.

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Post by Lizzie2 on Jun 22nd, 2008 at 7:47pm
{{{{{{{{{Maria}}}}}}}}}

I'm so very sorry for your loss.   :'(  She will always live on in you.  You and your family are in my prayers that you all will find peace in her memory.

Much love,
Carrie

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Post by BudO on Jun 22nd, 2008 at 9:47pm
Most sincere condolences for your loss. She is now in the company of angels.

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Post by Donna_D. on Jun 22nd, 2008 at 11:45pm
Maria,

I am so sorry.  I cannot imagine what you are going through.  If you need anything, please let us know.


DD

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Post by Callico on Jun 22nd, 2008 at 11:49pm
I am so terribly sorry.  Wish I could be there for you, but you are in our hearts and prayers.

Jerry

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Post by seasonalboomer on Jun 23rd, 2008 at 5:47am
May you and your family find peace in the rhthym of life you described so well in your post. Our condolences.

sincerely,

Scott

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Post by Gator on Jun 23rd, 2008 at 10:38am
I am very sorry for your loss, Maria.  Please accept my deepest sympathies for you and your family.

Mike

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Post by sandie99 on Jun 23rd, 2008 at 12:33pm
Maria,

I'm so sorry for your loss. My deepest condolences. [smiley=hug.gif] [smiley=hug.gif] [smiley=hug.gif]

Sanna

Title: Re: MY MOM...
Post by lionsound on Jun 24th, 2008 at 2:20am
Maria, I am so sorry.
[smiley=hug.gif]

much love surrounding you,
Rori

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