Mrs Deej wrote on Jun 26^th, 2008 at 10:09pm:

How about this...let it go and take it behind closed doors.  Chris I'm shocked that you would actually continue something in this thread, especially towards Jonny.  Jonny, bringing up bullshit from the PM's, shouldn't have been brought out in the first place.  If it really happened, that disgusts me even more. It sadens me that this has been put into a thread about someones death, have a little respect for God's sake.   >:(

Stephanie, I really don't understand what you mean by "continuing" something in that thread. And especially towards jonny? After the insulting posts he made? Why is jonny special? I don't understand. Do you mean it's ok for him to make those posts?  

It's your MB, so what I say has no importance, but rest assured, I am deeply sorry for Annette's loss. Sometimes, as you said before, someone needs to step in and let people know what they are saying is unacceptable. If you are shocked by this, then so be it. Apparently, I was wrong. I was deeply offended by the posts, and I apologize for saying so in that thread.

I think it was the fact that the thread became hijacked that prompted the lock and comment.

Honestly, that thread went from people supporting Anette to people bickering.  If people have things to say, start a new thread and go at it, but not on THAT kind of thread.

FramCire wrote on Jun 26^th, 2008 at 11:03pm:

I think it was the fact that the thread became hijacked that prompted the lock and comment. Honestly, that thread went from people supporting Anette to people bickering.  If people have things to say, start a new thread and go at it, but not on THAT kind of thread.

Chris,
This is exactly what I meant.  Calling you and Jonny out was because you both had contunued your bullshit bickering.  We all here at CH.com know that you two don't get along, the fact that you "continued" it was because you brought all his posts back up.  Are you trying to make a point or an example?  Have a little class and respect and take it somewhere else, other than an obituary thread.  Do I think it was ok for Jonny to make the comments that he did on the public forum about the PM's, no.  I said something to him about them in a private PM and he conceded.  I believe he was trying to be defensive of a friend and loved one lost, unfortunately, that's the way Jonny comes off.  

This is not my MB, ultimately it's all of yours.  It's hard to find a MB you can freely speak your mind, maybe that's what will eventually grind this one to its death.  

In no way was I "justifying" anyones behavior.  My integrity is alittle more intact then that.

Just to clarify, I was not talking about all of jonny's posts, only the ones I quoted in that thread, of which there were more than just a post about PM's.  And calling people backstabbing motherfuckers, an ass, cowards, bigmouths and ass-holes and saying you are fucked in the head, not to mention posting a death threat... in that thread... was totally uncalled for, but since that is the way jonny comes off, I guess it's ok.

No need to explain your pm's, as that is your business, but thank you anyway.

Sorry, my mistake for trying to make a point about the crassness of his posts, in that thread. I won't let it happen again.

I should probably keep my nose out of this thread, but I can't.  You're all my extended family.

Strong feelings have been expressed, correction has been issued, PLEASE put this one to bed and move on.

I implore you!

Ray   :'(

Ray wrote on Jun 27^th, 2008 at 1:09pm:

I should probably keep my nose out of this thread, but I can't.  You're all my extended family. Strong feelings have been expressed, correction has been issued, PLEASE put this one to bed and move on. I implore you! Ray   :'(

Very well said Ray.

I just want to add that i think WE ALL mark WE ALL should sit down and think about what has been said or not said here.
I strongly believe we have had enough "stone trowing" here and stop it when its still time

PLEASE

Svenn

The Mad Viking wrote on Jun 27^th, 2008 at 2:21pm:

Ray wrote on Jun 27th, 2008 at 1:09pm: I should probably keep my nose out of this thread, but I can't.  You're all my extended family. Strong feelings have been expressed, correction has been issued, PLEASE put this one to bed and move on. I implore you! Ray   :'( Very well said Ray. I just want to add that i think WE ALL mark WE ALL should sit down and think about what has been said or not said here. I strongly believe we have had enough "stone trowing" here and stop it when its still time PLEASE Svenn

YES, PLEASE!

Things have been discussed behind closed doors.  This issue is over and done with, we'll leave it at that.

On with helping people.... ;)