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Title: I am brand new and thankful Post by Karl on Jul 8th, 2008 at 12:17pm
Hello to all:
I just registered. mostly because I feel all alone my wife doesn't understand and questions me. My VA doctor is well meaning but I provide him treatment info that I research. all the doctors I have seen over the last six years just push NARCS at me (I am NARC free now x1 yr)or antidepressants. none of them even know what cluster headaches even are really. I finally found and got the o2 treatment (thank goodness). My HA seem to last for weeks and are around all day but freak out at the same times each day. nothing helps sitting standing,walking etc. such excruciating pain. my left temple and eye feel like someone shoving a spike in it and my left eye gets weak .I have to this all alone because I have little support. I don't understand the difference between episodiac and the other all I know is I hurt and know one understands me. I get grouped in with (oh he has migraines wink-wink) I am probaly not telling any of you all anything new. I am just hoping I can talk to someone who will hear me ![]() |
Title: Re: I am brand new and thankful Post by MJ on Jul 8th, 2008 at 12:53pm
You are in the right place for cluster headaches.
Narcotics tend to cause that all day feeling or strong shadows of full on attacks. Some antidepressants work well for CH and others cause the lingering headache. Your no longer alone if its CH you have. Welcome. |
Title: Re: I am brand new and thankful Post by Karl on Jul 8th, 2008 at 2:05pm
I have had one dr who treated me for a year till I had to move tell me it was ch and convinced the veterens hospital DR and they treat me for it now. I have had all the test poked and prodded. things shoved up my nose stapped in. mri,xray,ct, blah blah blah..
topamax and oxygen and zomig are the most help but some still come. I remember having some HAs in my 20s but no more till I turned about 40. anyway thankyou for the reply I have gotten to the point that I don't talk about it to anyone, but feel I am probably safe here. I am 46 have a federal job, play bass guitar(pitfully)christian,married,love music and creative writing.. I live in Idaho where knowledgable DRs aren't readibly available. sorry for going on Ill shut up now. I have so much pinned up inside. karl |
Title: Re: I am brand new and thankful Post by Karl on Jul 8th, 2008 at 3:52pm
I will get right on that, I am blessed with a Doc that will look at options with me.
thank you so much!!!! karl |
Title: Re: I am brand new and thankful Post by George_J on Jul 8th, 2008 at 3:56pm
Hi Karl,
Welcome from a fellow Idahoan. Granted, headache specialists in Idaho are pretty scarce on the ground. Haven't been to one in a long time, so I don't think I'll be of much help there. Good to hear that your doctors at the VA are pursuing some worthwhile treatments for your CH. As you've discovered, narcotics are usually of very little use in treating this condition. Especially glad to hear that you're getting oxygen. 15 liters per minute with a non-rebreather mask is the most effective approach--the nasal cannulae and lower flows are generally ineffective. You've gotten some sound advice from some good folks thusfar, so I won't add much. Just wanted to say "hello", mostly, and again--welcome. Feel free to vent, or ask any questions you'd like. Most of us here aren't doctors, but we've gotten to be expert patients. ;) All the best, George |
Title: Re: I am brand new and thankful Post by thebbz on Jul 8th, 2008 at 4:33pm
We know and understand. Welcome brother headbanger.
all the best thebb |
Title: Re: I am brand new and thankful Post by Guiseppi on Jul 8th, 2008 at 7:45pm
You've been given some great advice so I'll just say welcome, glad you found us, and NO!!! You're no longer alone. Glad you found your second home brudder!
Guiseppi |
Title: Re: I am brand new and thankful Post by Karl on Jul 8th, 2008 at 8:27pm
thanks you everyone, George from Boise you know what its like to find DRs but yes the VA is at least trying.
I just wish the pain would stop , i hate living around wondering when the next attack will be, down on my knees praying so hard that I just ramble, cursing then apologizing. crying from the pain then from being alone cause no one around me understands. pounding on my head and listening to loud rock music just to distract me (none of it really works). but maybe I can vent a little here thanks again. I am studying more. I can't wait till my next appt. George feel free to email if you like. karl |
Title: Re: I am brand new and thankful Post by George_J on Jul 9th, 2008 at 1:53am
Check your e-mail, Karl. :) Nice to hear from you.
Best wishes, George |
Title: Re: I am brand new and thankful Post by maalstroom on Jul 9th, 2008 at 4:21am
Hi Karl, be welcome!
Sorry to hear that your wife does not understand. Maybe you should send her here and have her read some of the stories, just so she sees you're not a little drama queen, so she sees there are others who suffer just as greatly as you do. Furthermore: educate yourself here and make some new friends! Painfree vibes comin' at ya from the Netherlands. |
Title: Re: I am brand new and thankful Post by Karl on Jul 9th, 2008 at 8:24pm
you all are so cool thanks, finally someone understands me and what i mean when I say oh crap its here again!!!!
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Title: Re: I am brand new and thankful Post by thebbz on Jul 10th, 2008 at 12:25pm
Glad your in better spirits.
keep up the fight thebb |
Title: Re: I am brand new and thankful Post by sandie99 on Jul 10th, 2008 at 12:45pm
Warm welcome, Karl! :)
Most of us have realized that our nearest and dearest do not understand what ch is all about and how it will affect us. Perhaps you can sit down with your wife on a PF moment and let her know what it's like for you and what you will need her to do - if there's something she can do. And yes, there is a place for supporters in here - she can talk to other supporters and get support herself. Wishing you PF days, Sanna |
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