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Message started by Jonny on Jul 8th, 2008 at 9:22pm

Title: I dont ask for much.......(Update 3)
Post by Jonny on Jul 8th, 2008 at 9:22pm
but my brother just called and told me that my Mom has a cancer mass on one of her kidneys.

Most of you know that Mom was rushed to the hospital weeks ago, last Saturday was the third time. They did a CAT scan today and found the mass.

Thats all I know as of now, Mom told Mario that she did not want anyone calling the hospital tonight, but we can come up tomorrow (Moms scared)  :'(

I never bitch or ask for anything when it comes to my head because its my own private demon, but if you could throw something out there for my Mom, I would really appreciate it!!!!

If anyone NEEDS to check this out, shes at Quincy medical center in Quincy, Mass!.....Room 666 (Believe it or not)


Title: Re: I dont ask for much.......
Post by Cathi_Pierce on Jul 8th, 2008 at 9:31pm
Jonny,
OF COURSE!  I know you love your mom, and this must be breaking your heart, but, 2 things to consider.
First off, until they take the sample to the lab and biopsy it, they rarely-read never-say "cancerous"...that would not be today, it generally takes 2-3 days to be certain.
Second, you have seen, firsthand, how this place creates miracles.........
I'll bgin and many will follow behind me.......
BIG ole toughlove vibes goin out to you and your family from Portland(the one on Oregon)
hang on tight, now, Jonny......if you want to talk, pm me if you've lost my cell number.
Cathi :-/ ;) :-*

Title: Re: I dont ask for much.......
Post by ClusterChuck on Jul 8th, 2008 at 9:36pm
Jonny, everything I have is headed towards your Mom!  She gets my prayers, vibes, and good ju-ju.

... ... Although, being she is YOUR Mom, I bet she has a close and intimate relationship with the powers that be ... all the years of begging forgiveness for YOUR deeds!!!  heehee ...

But, in all seriousness, I AM praying hard for her.  Please keep us informed as to how she is doing, bro.  I know I care deeply, and I bet most others do too.

Let me know if you need ANYTHING!

Chuck

Title: Re: I dont ask for much.......
Post by Not4Hire on Jul 8th, 2008 at 9:38pm
yer mom's got our best wishes...

and so do YOU.

notfer

Title: Re: I dont ask for much.......
Post by nani on Jul 8th, 2008 at 9:38pm
You betcha, lil brother. I'm sending prayers, vibes and lots of good juju Mom's way.  :-*

Title: Re: I dont ask for much.......
Post by Jonny on Jul 8th, 2008 at 9:40pm
I to thought they needed a  biopsy, Cathi.......but was told by sister in law that went trough this that CAT scan today can see it.

I dont know what the fuck to think!

I will talk with Mom tomorrow.

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Post by Melissa on Jul 8th, 2008 at 9:43pm
Hugs and prayers for your mum Jonny!!!

:-*melly

Title: Re: I dont ask for much.......
Post by tuck on Jul 8th, 2008 at 10:03pm
hey dude, you will probably hear this alot but, here goes again,,"I understand". Truely I do, went through this with my mom a couple of years ago. I will definately say some prayers, and end this post the way I end all of them, "God bless",   Tuck

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Post by Mosaicwench on Jul 8th, 2008 at 10:05pm
Prayers for your mom dear, and also for you.

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Title: Re: I dont ask for much.......
Post by Mat on Jul 8th, 2008 at 10:31pm
You got it man.

Title: Re: I dont ask for much.......
Post by Jimi on Jul 8th, 2008 at 10:44pm
Well they have definately seen something so my prayer for your mom is that it be just a benign tumor and nothing more. Heading out tomorrow, but keep us posted on here.

Title: Re: I dont ask for much.......
Post by Brew on Jul 8th, 2008 at 10:49pm
You got it, bro. All I got headed your way and Mom's way.

I can't believe they have a room #666. It's like having a 13th floor.  They should have skipped it.

Title: Re: I dont ask for much.......
Post by BobG on Jul 8th, 2008 at 10:57pm
All of our prayers and best hopes are coming to your Mom, you and all your family.
Bob and Renon

P.S. I'm on my 4th set of license plates with 666 on them. That's should be worth something.  :)

Title: Re: I dont ask for much.......
Post by kevmd on Jul 8th, 2008 at 11:02pm
I'm sure your mom is as tough as you are.  But prayers are coming any way.

Title: Re: I dont ask for much.......
Post by Mrs Deej on Jul 8th, 2008 at 11:40pm
All that we have is coming straight your way!!!

We love you!  Call us if you need ANYTHING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


Title: Re: I dont ask for much.......
Post by catlind on Jul 8th, 2008 at 11:41pm
All I've got and more is headed your way Jonny.  I will keep your Mom and your family close in my thoughts and my heart.  Many miracles have come from this place, one more will surely be there for you and your Mom and family.  

*hugs*
Cat

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Post by midwestbeth on Jul 8th, 2008 at 11:59pm
Prayers and vibes on the way for your Mom and you too.

Hugs,
Beth

Title: Re: I dont ask for much.......
Post by DonnaH_again on Jul 9th, 2008 at 12:05am
Praying for a miracle........I've seen them happen!!


Title: Re: I dont ask for much.......
Post by thebbz on Jul 9th, 2008 at 12:07am
All the best pronto.
Prayers for you and yours.
thebbz

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Post by alienspacebabe on Jul 9th, 2008 at 12:26am
Absolutely!!!

Title: Re: I dont ask for much.......
Post by Grandma_Sweet_Boy on Jul 9th, 2008 at 12:59am
Sending positive thoughts and prayers for your Mom and your family.

Keep us posted.

Carol

Title: Re: I dont ask for much.......
Post by jon019 on Jul 9th, 2008 at 1:26am
Prayers on the way Jonny... Nobody loves or is loved like a Mom. Please, tell her there's a whole family out here on her side.

Positive thoughts, find out what's going on first, and work from there.

Best,

Jon

Title: Re: I dont ask for much.......
Post by Mastifflvr28 on Jul 9th, 2008 at 1:37am
Vibes goin up to yer mum Jonny!!
Take care,
Mast

Title: Re: I dont ask for much.......
Post by George_J on Jul 9th, 2008 at 2:04am
You bet, bro.  Everything I've got headed your way.  

I know I'm way the hell and gone over this way, but anything you need that I've got to give, you've got it.  Just ask.

George

Title: Re: I dont ask for much.......
Post by Guiseppi on Jul 9th, 2008 at 2:05am
Sorry brother, all our families love and prayers going your way. :'(

Guiseppi

Title: Re: I dont ask for much.......
Post by mummymac on Jul 9th, 2008 at 2:21am
Jonny everything I have is on its way to you Mum, and to you too, try to stay strong and  to be postive.


Title: Re: I dont ask for much.......
Post by artonio7 on Jul 9th, 2008 at 2:33am
All that I have is coming your way Jonny.

with warm regards,
Tony

Title: Re: I dont ask for much.......
Post by sandie99 on Jul 9th, 2008 at 2:43am
Jonny,
prayers are on their way!

Sanna

Title: Re: I dont ask for much.......
Post by andrewjb on Jul 9th, 2008 at 4:11am
:-[. today jonny, i hope you hear what we'd all like you to hear. andrew.

Title: Re: I dont ask for much.......
Post by Jackie on Jul 9th, 2008 at 4:33am
Jonny,
All the prayers, positive thoughts and vibes I have are on the way to your beloved Mom....you too.

Holding you all close in my heart.

I love you my friend....
Jackie

Title: Re: I dont ask for much.......
Post by aloneuk on Jul 9th, 2008 at 5:35am
Sending all we have your way ! you and your family are in our thoughts

Title: Re: I dont ask for much.......
Post by barry_sword on Jul 9th, 2008 at 6:13am
Jonny, all the prayers we have are being sent to your Mom from the both of us.

 Barry&Angie

Title: Re: I dont ask for much.......
Post by Karla on Jul 9th, 2008 at 6:49am
Jonny, We will be praying for you and your Mother for a full recovery from this.  I will add your mother to our churches prayer chain.  God Bless you.

Title: Re: I dont ask for much.......
Post by Redd on Jul 9th, 2008 at 6:53am
Of course...and they are on the way.

Title: Re: I dont ask for much.......
Post by Dape on Jul 9th, 2008 at 7:13am
You got all i got and then some heading straight across the pond.


Title: Re: I dont ask for much.......
Post by jimmers on Jul 9th, 2008 at 7:50am
Were throwing them out there with both hands for your Mom!

Jim and Barb

Title: Re: I dont ask for much.......
Post by BarbaraD on Jul 9th, 2008 at 8:04am
Prayers are with you you...

Hugs BD

Title: Re: I dont ask for much.......
Post by gore2424 on Jul 9th, 2008 at 8:17am
++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++ vibes to you yours +++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++  Terry

Title: Re: I dont ask for much.......
Post by Kevin_M on Jul 9th, 2008 at 8:41am
Here for your thoughts.   :(

Hoping Mom will have a reprieve from the battle and their best for her at this point will turn this news into a carefully accomplished solution.    

Title: Re: I dont ask for much.......
Post by Peppermint on Jul 9th, 2008 at 8:58am
Jonny...have hope that it will all turn out ok.  Prayers and positive thoughts beaming on the way to your mom and you.

Pep

Title: Re: I dont ask for much.......
Post by Paul98 on Jul 9th, 2008 at 9:02am
Viber, Prayers and good thoughts going out to your mom and your family Jonny.

-P.

Title: Re: I dont ask for much.......
Post by Agostino Leyre on Jul 9th, 2008 at 9:29am
Hoping for the best.

Title: Re: I dont ask for much.......
Post by echo on Jul 9th, 2008 at 10:03am
You asked and I'm on it.  Hang in there brother.

Title: Re: I dont ask for much.......
Post by Jean on Jul 9th, 2008 at 10:05am
Love and prayers going up.......................

Jeannie

Title: Re: I dont ask for much.......
Post by TxBasslady on Jul 9th, 2008 at 10:32am
...Jonny

All my prayers, vibes and positive thoughts headed your way from Texas..

I love you, darlin',     :-*

Jean

Title: Re: I dont ask for much.......
Post by Jonny on Jul 9th, 2008 at 11:07am
This morning they took Mom down for an orthoscopic thingy, where they knock her out and put a camera down her throat to look around in her insides. Tomorrow they will be going in the other end. They need to do all this to make sure that the mass has not spread.

She has four different docs working on this and they all agree that her right kidney has to come out just because of the size of the mass.

Theres also an issue with an adrenilan(SP?) gland, but like the kidney she has two of and can live with one if they have to remove it.

Thank you all for being there for my Mom.....And Jacks!, an extra big SMOOOOCH for you!  :-* :-* :-*

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Title: Re: I dont ask for much.......(Update)
Post by Cathi_Pierce on Jul 9th, 2008 at 11:42am
Sounds like you have a great team working for Mom~ and  then, of course, you've got all of us!
For now, Jonny, please, inhale and exhale-repeat as necessary........
You're loved by many, and we are standing beside you!
Please continue to keep us posted.......
Oh, and I love that pic of you and MOM!

Vibing for you, Jonny!

Cathi :-*

Title: Re: I dont ask for much.......(Update)
Post by PollyPocket on Jul 9th, 2008 at 12:11pm
Jonny, you got my prayers and vibes and ju-ju for you, your mom, and the doctors.

Peace and strength to you all.

Hugs,
Jen

Title: Re: I dont ask for much.......(Update)
Post by seasonalboomer on Jul 9th, 2008 at 1:46pm
You got it brother! Stay positive.

Scott

Title: Re: I dont ask for much.......(Update)
Post by sandie99 on Jul 9th, 2008 at 1:49pm
Thanks for the update, Jonny! :)

Prayers are on their way and I hope that everything goes well and turns out for the best.

Lots of hugs,
Sanna

Title: Re: I dont ask for much.......(Update)
Post by aprilbee on Jul 9th, 2008 at 2:29pm
all I got is headed for your Mom Jonny... :-*

Title: Re: I dont ask for much.......(Update)
Post by Gator on Jul 9th, 2008 at 2:41pm
The best of the best wishes for your Mom, bro.  For you, too.  

Mike


Title: Re: I dont ask for much.......(Update)
Post by HappyElaine on Jul 9th, 2008 at 2:42pm
Keep us posted Jonny when you can. Know that she is in my prayers along with you and your family.

Title: Re: I dont ask for much.......(Update)
Post by Ghost on Jul 9th, 2008 at 3:15pm
Any time my Friend Anytime!

Title: Re: I dont ask for much.......(Update)
Post by KJ on Jul 9th, 2008 at 4:50pm
Mom vibes on the way [smiley=headbanger.gif]  [smiley=hug.gif] [smiley=headbanger.gif] [smiley=hug.gif]

Title: Re: I dont ask for much.......(Update)
Post by JeffB on Jul 9th, 2008 at 5:53pm
Sending all that I have!!!!!!!!


Title: Re: I dont ask for much.......(Update)
Post by eyes_afire on Jul 9th, 2008 at 6:08pm
Best wishes to your Mom and your family.
She will beat this!!!

--- Steve

Title: Re: I dont ask for much.......(Update)
Post by phil_h on Jul 9th, 2008 at 6:20pm
I am praying for you and your mom . I had the Sisters of Mercy add your mom to their daily prayers . Miracles can happen . I survived cancer , yet I lost both parents to cancer . This remains in God's hands , however you certainly deserve special consideration from the big guy for all you've been through and all do for others . All my best vibes are with you and your mom ..........  phil h

Title: Re: I dont ask for much.......(Update)
Post by LeLimey on Jul 9th, 2008 at 6:39pm
Jonny give your mum my love

Helen xxx

Title: Re: I dont ask for much.......(Update)
Post by alchemy on Jul 9th, 2008 at 8:08pm
prayers and vibes headed your way

Title: Re: I dont ask for much.......(Update)
Post by Charlie on Jul 9th, 2008 at 8:23pm
You and your Mom have all the hopes, prayers and vibes that I can find here.

Hold on and let us know how it's going.  

Charlie

Title: Re: I dont ask for much.......(Update)
Post by Ray on Jul 9th, 2008 at 9:19pm
Jonny:

I just saw this thread, I've prayed for mom and will continue to do so.  I'm also praying for peace for you and wisdom for the doctors.

Wishing you and mom the best,

Ray

Title: Re: I dont ask for much.......(Update)
Post by Callico on Jul 9th, 2008 at 10:58pm
We'll be praying for her Jonny.  Don't give up on her yet.  I've seen God work to many miracles to quit believing now.

Jerry

Title: Re: I dont ask for much.......(Update)
Post by purpleydog on Jul 10th, 2008 at 12:26am
Your mom and you are in our thoughts. Sending healing vibes.

Title: Re: I dont ask for much.......(Update)
Post by DennisM1045 on Jul 10th, 2008 at 12:17pm
All I've got is on the way Jonny.  Give her a hug for me...  :'(

-Dennis-

Title: Re: I dont ask for much.......(Update)
Post by fubar on Jul 10th, 2008 at 12:26pm
Jonny,

It goes without saying, but I'm also thinking about you and your family.  Hang in there Bro.

-Shawn

Title: Re: I dont ask for much.......(Update)
Post by cash5542 on Jul 10th, 2008 at 7:06pm
Prayers for a speedy recovery and comfort for your mom as well as strenghth to help her out.

Charlotte

Title: Re: I dont ask for much.......(Update)
Post by Jonny on Jul 10th, 2008 at 7:21pm
Well, I went and saw Mom today and she was pretty upbeat. But when my cell rang and it was Jacks she lit up like a Christmas tree!. Jacks sent her flowers not only this time, but the last time Mom was in for a long hospital stay (which was years ago). Mom was so happy that she could thank Jacks in person (so to speak) and told her that it was so nice that she included "And the Clusterville gang" on the card.

Jacks, your an amazing woman and even a better friend. I love you for taking time out of your vacation at the convention to see how Mom was doing, it was perfect timing!....Thank you!  :-* :-* :-*

Mom had another test today and another tomorrow, the docs will then put all the results together and then decide on how to proceed.

Mom wanted to me to thank each and every one of you by email, but I told her...."Mom, that would take forever".....LOL

So, thank you from my Mom!  :-*








Title: Re: I dont ask for much.......(Update 2)
Post by DonnaH_again on Jul 10th, 2008 at 7:32pm
That's really nice.  Jackie is a special person, no doubt.

It's nice that it made your Mom happy.

And that picture of you and your Mom!!  Her love for you shows through like a bright light.

Would it be possible for us to have a name and address for the hospital?  We needn't make Moms name public, but we could address cards to her room number.  Couldn't we?

Love you kid and prayers continue for all.


Title: Re: I dont ask for much.......(Update 2)
Post by Jonny on Jul 10th, 2008 at 7:48pm

wrote on Jul 10th, 2008 at 7:32pm:
Would it be possible for us to have a name and address for the hospital?  


Thank you, Donna! :-*

Quincy Medical Center
114 Whitwell Street
Quincy, MA 02169

Edith Grasselli.....room #666

Yeah I know the room number, but she is my Mom....LOL  ;)

Title: Re: I dont ask for much.......(Update 2)
Post by kimmiedawn81 on Jul 11th, 2008 at 10:27am
Too funny about the room number!

I sincerely hope that the cancer has not spread and they can do surgery to remove the masses and all will be well afterwards!  My thoughts and prayers for your mom and all loved ones!

Love ya!   ;)

Title: Re: I dont ask for much.......(Update 2)
Post by TomM on Jul 11th, 2008 at 11:19am
Jonny--I'm praying for your mom, you and your entire family.
TomM

Title: Re: I dont ask for much.......(Update 2)
Post by FramCire on Jul 11th, 2008 at 12:59pm
You have some prayers/thoughts/vibes and all coming out of southwest Missouri.  My son will send a few your way.


Title: Re: I dont ask for much.......(Update 2)
Post by Sandy_C on Jul 11th, 2008 at 2:37pm
Jonny, I'm so sorry I just got to this thread.

The pic of you and Mom is lovely.  She is a beautiful lady, you are one lucky man.

You've been a good friend to me for several years now and have helped me through many "stupid questions".  Please know, I'm here for you and if there is anything I can do to help you or your Mom, please let me know.

In the meantime, I'm sending every prayer I've got to Mom.  Please give her a hug and kiss from me.

Sandy


Title: Re: I dont ask for much.......(Update 2)
Post by Tiannia on Jul 11th, 2008 at 3:03pm
Jonny,

Sounds like you work really heard to take care of her. (And well everyone else to but that is another story)  Both ofyou are in my thoughts.

Bright Blessings. Tia

Title: Re: I dont ask for much.......(Update 2)
Post by The  mad viking on Jul 11th, 2008 at 4:50pm
All I got headed your way and Mom's way

Svenn & Bente

Title: Re: I dont ask for much.......(Update 2)
Post by BlueMeanie on Jul 11th, 2008 at 9:37pm
As you know jonny, I can definately relate. Prayers and vibes heading out to your mom.

Bob

Title: Re: I dont ask for much.......(Update 2)
Post by E-Double on Jul 12th, 2008 at 6:05pm
hugs

Title: Re: I dont ask for much.......(Update 2)
Post by Sandra von der Laage on Jul 14th, 2008 at 5:32am
My best wishes for the full recovery of your mother from the cancer.  My father had that same type so I can understand how you must feel.  Be strong but also allow yourself to feel.
Sandra

Title: Re: I dont ask for much.......(Update 2)
Post by Melissa on Jul 14th, 2008 at 9:37am
How's mom doing today J?  Hopefully in good spirits!

My thoughts and prayers are with you all!

love & hugs,
:-*melly

Title: Re: I dont ask for much.......(Update 2)
Post by Broken on Jul 14th, 2008 at 12:34pm
There's not much that hasn't already been said Jonny but I still wanted to add my vibes to the collection. Tell your mom to hang tough, smile at death, fight like hell, and refuse to go down swinging. Same goes for you and the rest of your family. Much love and vibes headin your way my friend. :-*  [smiley=heart.gif] [smiley=hug.gif]

Broken

Title: Re: I dont ask for much.......(Update 2)
Post by HappyElaine on Jul 14th, 2008 at 4:14pm
Jackie is wonderful, she is a angel. Thanks for keeping us posted about your Mom. You both were thought of by all this week end.
Prayers and vibes are with you both.

Title: Re: I dont ask for much.......(Update 2)
Post by Jonny on Jul 14th, 2008 at 6:38pm
Well, Mom was suppose to have surgery today, but they canceled it to wait for the urine enzyme tests to come back from out of state......DUH!!!!

She is now at home awaiting the call to come back for the surgery. No use staying there if it will take days for the test results.

The docs are leaning towards it not being cancer, but will not know for sure until they get it out. It could be any day now.

If you sent a card dont worry, the hospital forwards all things sent.

Again, thank you for being there for me and my Mom!!!  :'(






Title: Re: I dont ask for much.......(Update 3)
Post by Broken on Jul 14th, 2008 at 6:49pm
Keeping my fingers crossed for you. Hope things work out in every way they can.

Broken

Title: Re: I dont ask for much.......(Update 3)
Post by George_J on Jul 14th, 2008 at 8:41pm
Glad to hear that your Mom's out of the hospital for at least a bit, Jonny.  Also glad to hear that the doctor's are disinclined to think that it's cancer.  Still sending the best that we can, and hoping to hear good news.

All the best to you and your Mom.

George

Title: Re: I dont ask for much.......(Update 3)
Post by barry_sword on Jul 14th, 2008 at 8:46pm
All the prayers and vibes still flowing for your Mom Jonny.

 Barry&Angie [smiley=hug.gif] [smiley=hug.gif]

Title: Re: I dont ask for much.......(Update 3)
Post by Mosaicwench on Jul 14th, 2008 at 9:36pm
Lots of clusterlove and vibes and prayers still heading East!!

Title: Re: I dont ask for much.......(Update 3)
Post by sandie99 on Jul 15th, 2008 at 10:54am
Still praying,

Sanna

Title: Re: I dont ask for much.......(Update 3)
Post by Tiannia on Jul 15th, 2008 at 5:32pm
Love, Light, Prayers and Energy for you and your mom.  It is great that they dont think it is cancer, but the waiting has to be hard.  Stay strong and give each other lots and lots of hugs.

Bright Blessings
Tia

Title: Re: I dont ask for much.......(Update 3)
Post by Lizzie2 on Jul 15th, 2008 at 10:01pm
Hey Big Bro,

Sorry I haven't responded to this until now!  Haven't been on the boards as much the past few weeks.  I am saying big time prayers for your mom, you, and your family.  You know how prayers from our CH family seem to work wonders!!!

Sending lots of prayers, love, and hugs,
Carrie :)

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