I have been getting many emails from various people on this site and I am truly offended at being accused of being someones wife. I do not use my real name, I live in Scandinavia and I am not even married. I came here to get support about my condition and now feel as if I am being forced to leave. Who honestly cares if I am so and so's wife anyway? Me that is who because I dont even know the guy.
Please stop emailing me with this stuff. Sophia

I am sure they are just being friendly  and trying to make contact with someone who hadn't been around for a while, I am sure  it is an honest mistake. You do not have your country showing  so that may lead to the confusion.  

I am not sure why you think it is a  major issue in the whole scheme of things.  Unless they were being very rude and nasty to you  then I do not see how you are being forced of the board.

re look at the motives of these people and see it for what it was a case of mixed identity

Sophia, nobody can "force" you to leave.  

If you're getting e-mails from some idiot (who I suspect may be a pathetic loser who hates women and hates CH.com--and has been banned here repeatedly), then simply block his e-mails, and his PM's.  

I don't know whether or not he's "back", but he's pretended to be two different genders from three or four different countries.  E-mailing women on the board with insinuating or threatening e-mails or PM's is pretty characteristic behavior for him.  He's a coward and a sleaze.

Ignore him and block him, if possible.

All the best,

George    

sophia
i'm really sorry that somebody is harassing you. let me know who it is and i'll drive my truck over to his house and  kick his ass.  ;D seriously though i do hope you can hang out with us.
                                                         
                                                     best wishes whatever you decide ;)
                                                                                johnny

So far as I know, you're welcome here. Not to worrry. I'm one of those old crabby Swedes that have been in this country for a century or more. We can be a testy bunch!

Mean Old Charlie

I noticed she said "various people" in the thread.

What gives, and do I need to give someone a beatdown? >:(

jimmers

Sophia,

PLEASE let me know if I or DJ can help you with this.  It is not our intention for those that are members of this forum to be harrasing.

All you got to do is say the word.

:-/

I would love to have a name or two....the back stabbing is one thing, but attacking newbies is so far over the line these people should be banned!

Fucking cowards!.......If you got something to say, say it so we all can judge what you have to say....dont hide, cowards! >:(

wrote on Jul 20^th, 2008 at 3:47pm:

attacking newbies is so far over the line these people should be banned!

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Now, that is effen funny.

Well I can honestly say anyone accusing me of being someone's wife, well a CERTAIN someone that is! - would make me feel quite ill too.  ;)

Steph beat me to it and you should listen to her. I would urge you to both pass the info on to her or DJ and name and shame too.

Don't you go anywhere, Sophia!
What's a board without a Dane?

Greetings, Pascal.

Sophia, don't let some lame-assed people bully you. You are very welcome here and you can and will get the support you deserve.  

Definitely contact Steph or DJ- that kind of behaviour is completely unacceptable, and I am sorry that some person or persons are giving you a hard time. Please don't let them be representative of the rest of us.

Hugs,
Jen

Consider the source, hit the delete button and get back to rowin.
Somebody could use your help. ;)
thebb

wrote on Jul 21^st, 2008 at 12:03pm:

Consider the source, hit the delete button and get back to rowin. Somebody could use your help. ;) thebb

You all are right. I am here to both give and get help. God aint done with me yet and no bully is making me back down. I have 7 brothers. I aint scared of nuthin'
Love you DECENT people and the BULLYS can go find another person to pick on. Perhaps in a mirror.
Sophia
I gotta laugh, it hurts too much to cry 8-)

Good attitude kid -- now get that oar and start rowing....

Hugs BD

Sophia: you go girl, that's the Viking attitude I'm talking about!

Now put on your sh*tkickers and kick some sh*t!

Sophia,

The great thing about Clusterville si that you take what helps and leave the rest.  We are all stronger then hell because of CH being in our lives, whether as a sufferer or a supporter.  

So tell people who are giving you a hard time to shove it.  Let Steff or DJ know who they are and let them help make sure that they stop... Unfortunately it might not be just you that they are bugging...  

Once that is done, blow then the f off and be a part of the family.  Just think of them as that lecherous Uncle that shows up at the Christmas Party.  You can either fight with him and leave, which means that you miss out on all the good stuff. Or you lock him in a closet and get on with the party.

Welcome to the CH Family.
Tia