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Title: finally takin out the trash
Post by kimh on Jul 25^th, 2008 at 11:54pm

I'm finally a broke down mess.

No more riddles and no more horsing around. I'm scared and feel side-horsekicked.

Other people talk about their headaches along with their personal lives like it was easy. I could never do that. Thus, kimspeak. But I always knew abourt the pain. I just never knew how to SPEAK about it. The head pain comes and goes. I have gotten great at coping with that - it's been a long time and i'm a pro....but this post is not about that.

Three years ago i tried to get divorced. Since then, my life has been so turned upside down and inside out a person could lose sight of reality. I was made to be "the fugitive" ..

My husband was mad to say the least and went out of his way to hurt me the only way be c beould - THE KIDS.
It has been hell for me and three years later i'm still not divorced (LOL)

Recently my husband (still) has been diagnosed with gioblastoma multiforme (the brain tumor that Ted Kennedy has).

I'm struggling so much and can't tell everyone what has happened cuz it would take up too much space. But I sure could use some vibes****

Feeling sad,
stinko

Title: Re: finally takin out the trash
Post by KJ on Jul 26^th, 2008 at 12:40am

Good Lord Kim. Hang in there.

From one scared, side horse-kicked, broke down mess to another.....stay strong....I'm with you ;)

Vibes and love,

KJ

Title: Re: finally takin out the trash
Post by Jonny on Jul 26^th, 2008 at 6:51am

You got it, Kim!!!

Title: Re: finally takin out the trash
Post by barry_sword on Jul 26^th, 2008 at 7:31am

Positive vibes on the way to you Kim!

Title: Re: finally takin out the trash
Post by Kevin_M on Jul 26^th, 2008 at 7:36am

Kim's kitchen chats or by campfire light, I'll always be there for ya 'cause your friendship and company are boundless surroundings. Tossin' in an extra shiny penny or two ripplin' for wishing well.

Title: Re: finally takin out the trash
Post by Emily on Jul 26^th, 2008 at 8:32am

Sendin' the vibes your way Kim.

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Title: Re: finally takin out the trash
Post by Melissa on Jul 26^th, 2008 at 9:00am

Whatever you need Kim!!
[smiley=hug.gif]

Title: Re: finally takin out the trash
Post by nani on Jul 26^th, 2008 at 11:46am

Of course, Kim.
Some vibes:
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prayers:
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and lots of hugs:
[smiley=hug.gif] [smiley=hug.gif] [smiley=hug.gif]

Now, find the thread about the NYC meet and greet, then go and get you some cluster love. It helps.

lotsa love, nani

Title: Re: finally takin out the trash
Post by Jackie on Jul 26^th, 2008 at 11:53am

Prayers and positive thoughts for better days ahead, Sweetie....

Much love & big hugs,
Jackie

Title: Re: finally takin out the trash
Post by DennisM1045 on Jul 26^th, 2008 at 11:55am

Mega-sized (((VIBES))) coming your way hon. I'm sorry to hear how tough things have been and continue to be. But I'm glad you reached out.

[smiley=hug.gif]

-Dennis-

Title: Re: finally takin out the trash
Post by Sandy_C on Jul 26^th, 2008 at 1:33pm

Darn, Kim, what a mess.

Prayers and vibes coming to you. Just hang on tight, we've got the rope and won't drop it.

Sandy

Title: Re: finally takin out the trash
Post by mummymac on Jul 26^th, 2008 at 2:44pm

Vibes flying across the pond as we speak, hang in there Kim

Title: Re: finally takin out the trash
Post by midwestbeth on Jul 26^th, 2008 at 2:48pm

Prayers and vibes going out to you.

[smiley=hug.gif] Beth

Title: Re: finally takin out the trash
Post by Opus on Jul 26^th, 2008 at 4:14pm

[smiley=hug.gif] Kim,

I know NY is hell for divorces,

About your husband, you reap what you sow.

Hang in there, we are pulling for you.

Paul [smiley=smokin.gif]

Title: Re: finally takin out the trash
Post by Ray on Jul 26^th, 2008 at 4:23pm

Kim:

I'm so sorry about these events and am praying for you right now.

Wishing you the best,

Ray

Title: Re: finally takin out the trash
Post by Grandma_Sweet_Boy on Jul 26^th, 2008 at 5:00pm

Hang in there Kim. Sending you positive thoughts from Canada.

Carol

Title: Re: finally takin out the trash
Post by Charlie on Jul 26^th, 2008 at 5:37pm

So sorry Kim and a lot of vibes are on the way.

Hold tight Kim

Charlie

Title: Re: finally takin out the trash
Post by Callico on Jul 26^th, 2008 at 10:29pm

I'm praying for you Kim. Stay strong. We have your back.

Jerry

Title: Re: finally takin out the trash
Post by George_J on Jul 26^th, 2008 at 11:54pm

Sorry to hear about all this, Kim.

Sending the best we have your way.

George

Title: Re: finally takin out the trash
Post by sandie99 on Jul 28^th, 2008 at 3:39am

Kim,

prayers and vibes are on their way! [smiley=hug.gif] [smiley=hug.gif] [smiley=hug.gif]

Sanna

Title: Re: finally takin out the trash
Post by PollyPocket on Jul 28^th, 2008 at 10:09am

You got mine too Kim! Prayers and vibes for you from VA.

Hugs,
Jen

Title: Re: finally takin out the trash
Post by artonio7 on Jul 28^th, 2008 at 11:51am

Kim... so very sad to know that you're going through such a rough time. Venting is part of the best medicine and it takes allot of courage and trust to finally open up.

You and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers. Kick scream and vent when necessary.

with warm regards,
Tony

Title: Re: finally takin out the trash
Post by The mad viking on Jul 28^th, 2008 at 11:58am

You got mine too Kim! Prayers and vibes for you from Oslo Norway.

Title: Re: finally takin out the trash
Post by echo on Jul 28^th, 2008 at 2:27pm

Mine are on the way Kim. Sorry you're having to go through all this. Hang in there. Vent when you need to -- we're a listening bunch of clusters.

Title: Re: finally takin out the trash
Post by Peppermint on Jul 28^th, 2008 at 5:15pm

Kim -
After everything, and this news.. I don't even know what to say.
I wish things could be easier, but life sure has a way of complicating things.

I hope the girls are ok, your shiny pennies, give them love from me and Ericka.. jeez, we'll be going away for a few days, and cheeki will be gone after the 10th, but there's always the phone..

if you changed your # again, just send me a pm or text me if you want..

Thinking of you..
Patty

Title: Re: finally takin out the trash
Post by LeLimey on Jul 28^th, 2008 at 7:24pm

Oh Kimh,
If you can come and meet up with us on the 9th please do, we'll all support each other, same as always. I'm so sorry honeybun. I'm only at the other end of a phone if you want to send me a number I'll call

lots and lots of love
Helen xxx

Title: Re: finally takin out the trash
Post by tessistired on Jul 28^th, 2008 at 7:31pm

Kim I am so sorry that you are going through these really hard times.

I am praying for you and just have faith in yourself and believe that you can do anything...including overcoming this ordeal!

Many Blessings to you and yours

Tess

Title: Re: finally takin out the trash
Post by E-Double on Jul 30^th, 2008 at 3:36pm

My cell is still the same.
call me