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Message started by PollyPocket on Jul 28th, 2008 at 7:26pm

Title: this sux
Post by PollyPocket on Jul 28th, 2008 at 7:26pm
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Almost 18 years.  She is mine. I am hers. She cared for me, she loved me like no other.

Charlotte, thank you for trotting up to me that day, looking at me with those big beautiful brown eyes and telling me you were waiting for me.

Thank you for helping me raise "our" kids, playing so gently with Harry and running just a few steps ahead of him and looking over your shoulder to see if he was still coming, thn plopping down to let him "catch' you.  Thank you for running and jumping with Hannah and playing ball with her and frisbee and then letting her tackle you.

Thank you for thinking you were one of the kids, and wanting me to pick you up and carry you just like the other kids, and for snuggling with me on the floor when I cried and hurt and you didn't know anything more than Mommy hurts and i am taking care of her.

Thank you for laying in the garden, and spending time with me while I weeded and tended and we talked and you lovede the smell of the tomato plants.

Thank you for forgiving me the day I walked out of the house and you were so upset because you sensed something terrible was happening.

Thank you for accepting our new life in our new home,and still protecting me and the kids from that new guy, and nipping at his heal and lettinghim know we were and always would be "yours".

Thank you for ratting on me when you knew I was sick, even though I still wouldnt know for a few days, and making Darryl tell me to take my vitamins cuz Charlotte says you're sick.

Thank you for playing with me still, even when you really couldnt and fake biting me and waggign your silly fluffball tail and letting me know that each moment was precious to you.

Thank you for being my sweet Charlotte. For all the joy we shared, heartaches we endured, my protector, my confidante, my silly way too smart girl.  I love you.

Its time to say goodbye.

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Post by tessistired on Jul 28th, 2008 at 7:35pm
oh My Jenn I am so sorry hun!  I hate to see my friends hurting!  

But I am sure you know that even though you may need to say goodbye to Charlotte,  she isnt leaving you for good because she will always be living still in your heart and wonderful memories.

Anytime you need or want to give me a call.

Tess

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Post by jimmers on Jul 28th, 2008 at 7:48pm
I am so sorry Jen :'(

Jimmers

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Post by Jackie on Jul 28th, 2008 at 7:48pm
Jen,
My heart breaks for you.
I'm so very sorry.


Much Love,
Jackie

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Post by midwestbeth on Jul 28th, 2008 at 7:52pm
So sorry Jenn  :'( :'(

That is a beautiful tribute to Charlotte.

Hugs, Beth

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Post by LeLimey on Jul 28th, 2008 at 7:53pm
You know she'll be waiting for you Jen, just out if sight, around the corner. Lying in the sun by the tomato plants and waiting for you to comme and weed with her.

She'll be right there wagging her tail and smiling at you every time you shut your eyes and think of her too.

No one is gone while someone lives who loves and thinks of them


lots of love
Helen


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Post by George_J on Jul 28th, 2008 at 8:08pm
:'(

What a touching tribute to your faithful companion.  Very sorry to hear this Jen--they're never with us long enough.

Best wishes,

George

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Post by Jonny on Jul 28th, 2008 at 8:17pm
So sorry, baby!   :'(

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Post by barry_sword on Jul 28th, 2008 at 8:21pm
:'( Sorry.

 Barry [smiley=hug.gif]

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Post by Brew on Jul 28th, 2008 at 8:22pm
Very nicely said, Jen. It hurts real bad, but how lucky we are to have had them in our lives.

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Post by Charlie on Jul 28th, 2008 at 8:35pm
Nicely done Jen. She looks sweet and they tear our hearts out when they go.

Rats.

Charlie

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Post by Kevin_M on Jul 28th, 2008 at 8:39pm
I'm not a pet owner but can feel what she brought to life.   She's received your's and has her little post in heaven's forum for you, too.

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Post by Melissa on Jul 28th, 2008 at 9:21pm
Aw that was beautiful. :'(

I'm sorry it's time to let go, but it's so good you have such lovely memories!

hugs,
mel

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Post by Redd on Jul 28th, 2008 at 9:30pm
Oh Jen....

I'm so very sorry.

:'(

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Post by Jimi on Jul 28th, 2008 at 10:29pm
me too Jen. :'(

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Post by Mosaicwench on Jul 28th, 2008 at 11:17pm
I'm so sorry Jen.  I know how you feel and indeed, it sucks.

Have a good cry and try to remember that she knew love and a good life because of you.

:'( :'( :'(

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Post by Ray on Jul 28th, 2008 at 11:52pm
Jenn:

I'm so sorry.  Pets are in our minds and our hearts.

Ray  

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Post by cash5542 on Jul 28th, 2008 at 11:55pm
I was so fortunate to meet her a few weeks ago. She was at peace and ready. She was devoted to her family, even in the last days barking at any possible intruders yet a real gentle baby to all of us, lapping up the affection we all shared with her.
I am so very sorry for your loss and hope the pain is replaced with wonderful memories.

Charlotte

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Post by ClusterChuck on Jul 29th, 2008 at 12:00am
Jen,

I am SO sorry you are going through this.  It was fairly obvious, when we were at your house, for the BBQ, that this dog was not in good condition.  It was also very obvious to how much she was loved by all of you.

Remember, she will be there, on the other side of the Rainbow Bridge, waiting for you.

Chuck

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Post by mummymac on Jul 29th, 2008 at 2:35am
Jen

I am so very sorry for your loss, beautiful beautiful words that say so much to us all . :'(

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Post by gizmo on Jul 29th, 2008 at 2:59am
I'm very sorry for your loss. :'(

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Post by The  mad viking on Jul 29th, 2008 at 4:17am
I am really sorry Jenn i really am  . i sure could see the love between you 2 but also as Chuck well said it "It was fairly obvious, when we were at your house, for the BBQ, that this dog was not in good condition.  It was also very obvious to how much she was loved by all of you."

Once again both me and Bente are so sorry that you have to go trough this,but believe me when i say its the best thing to do my dear friend

Svenn

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Post by DennisM1045 on Jul 29th, 2008 at 12:50pm
They love completely and without condition.  They just aren't with us long enough.  Almost a year since we lost Abby.  I hurt with you Jen.

:'(

-Dennis-

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Post by sandie99 on Jul 29th, 2008 at 12:54pm
I'm so sorry, Jen... :'(

Sanna

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Post by purpleydog on Jul 29th, 2008 at 6:17pm
Jen, I am so sorry. Our pets are part of our lives, they become our lives. What a beautiful dog, she reminds me of my golden, who went to doggie heaven a few years ago. I still miss my doggies.  :'(

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Post by PollyPocket on Jul 29th, 2008 at 7:04pm
Thank you all. I am heartsick.  

She wwas calm the whole time, the drive there, and in the office, and I told her it was time to go night-night. And she relaxed and let me know that "its OK Mommy" My sis gave us a tomato plant branch and she wagged her tail at the scent. She breathd her favorite place on earth as she left cradled in my arms.

We brought her home and Hannah and I together buried her where the garden used to be.

Thank you for your comforting words.

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Post by artonio7 on Jul 29th, 2008 at 7:06pm
Jenn that was such a beautiful tribute to Charlotte. I'm sure you brought her as much joy and love as she brought you. There is just no reward for such grief we endure when we lose such a beloved family member.

My heart and sympathy goes out to you and your family during this heart breaking time.

with warm regards,
Tony

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Post by jon019 on Jul 29th, 2008 at 8:24pm
Oh my...what a beautiful tribute. I am sad and happy at the same time.

Our furry/feathered friends are not LIKE family, they ARE family. I'm remembering mine right now, and mourning yours.

Sad that Charlotte (what an elegant name) is gone, happy for the joy you all enjoyed together...

Best,

Jon

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