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Title: Missing My Mom Post by Jean on Aug 25th, 2008 at 12:19pm
She died 5 years ago today. I can't believe that it has been that long and at the same time it feels like forever. I'm feeling a little sad and wish that I could have just one more day to spend with her :'(.
Jeannie |
Title: Re: Missing My Mom Post by DennisM1045 on Aug 25th, 2008 at 12:25pm
:'( [smiley=hug.gif]
I feel for ya hon. It just doesn't seem to stop hurting does it. -Dennis- |
Title: Re: Missing My Mom Post by BrianJ on Aug 25th, 2008 at 12:31pm
im sorry your feeling so sad it is a hard thing to loose someone so close to you.
Best Wishes Brian |
Title: Re: Missing My Mom Post by tuck on Aug 25th, 2008 at 12:41pm
my heart is with you jeannie, the second aniversary of my moms passing is just a few weeks away. Just be thankful of the wonderful memories you have!! Tuck
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Title: Re: Missing My Mom Post by midwestbeth on Aug 25th, 2008 at 12:49pm
:'( [smiley=hug.gif]
Sorry you are hurting Jeannie. Beth |
Title: Re: Missing My Mom Post by Melissa on Aug 25th, 2008 at 12:53pm
Mine passed in 2001 and I am right there with you hon. It's the hardest while trying to raise children I think. At least it is for me.
So sorry! [smiley=hug.gif] ~mel |
Title: Re: Missing My Mom Post by artonio7 on Aug 25th, 2008 at 1:31pm
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I know your pain. with warm regards, Tony |
Title: Re: Missing My Mom Post by Guiseppi on Aug 25th, 2008 at 2:22pm
Still got my mommy, not looking forward to going down that dark road :'(. Hugs at you. [smiley=hug.gif]
Guiseppi |
Title: Re: Missing My Mom Post by Mosaicwench on Aug 25th, 2008 at 5:58pm
Aw Jeannie, I hear you and have walked your road. It never gets better, we just adapt to the loss.
My mom will be gone 23 years this Saturday. It's STILL a hard week for me. Hugs dear - we're here for you. |
Title: Re: Missing My Mom Post by Mosaicwench on Aug 25th, 2008 at 6:00pm Guiseppi wrote on Aug 25th, 2008 at 2:22pm:
Please give her a call and tell her that you love her. Just call for that reason, no other. You'll not regret it. |
Title: Re: Missing My Mom Post by barry_sword on Aug 25th, 2008 at 6:08pm
Sorry Jeannie :'( [smiley=hug.gif]
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Title: Re: Missing My Mom Post by Jean on Aug 25th, 2008 at 6:13pm
You all are the greatest. I have really come to depend on this family when I need support. Thank you! [smiley=hug.gif]
Jeannie |
Title: Re: Missing My Mom Post by Jackie on Aug 25th, 2008 at 6:27pm
My heart goes out to you, Jean......it's sure doesn't feel good.... :'(
Cherish the sweet memories. I'm miss my Daddy til the day I die and love him forever. Much Love & A Big Hug..... Jackie |
Title: Re: Missing My Mom Post by cash5542 on Aug 25th, 2008 at 7:36pm Mosaicwench wrote on Aug 25th, 2008 at 6:00pm:
My mom died a little more than 2 years ago. I still tend to jump to the phone to call out of habit. I talk to my Dad alot now but it just isn't quite the same. Mom's tend to listen unconditionally. I'm right there with you! Charlotte |
Title: Re: Missing My Mom Post by Charlie on Aug 25th, 2008 at 7:49pm |
Title: Re: Missing My Mom Post by jimmers on Aug 25th, 2008 at 8:06pm
Jean,
I feel your pain. She's in good hands, I promise :-* Jimmers |
Title: Re: Missing My Mom Post by BarbaraD on Aug 25th, 2008 at 8:44pm
My heart is with you sweetie -- Mine has been gone since 1994 and there's not a day that goes by that I don't think about her and wish I could just talk to her one more time.
Hugs BD |
Title: Re: Missing My Mom Post by jimmers on Aug 25th, 2008 at 9:25pm
Jean,
Look up Sissy's Song by Alan Jackson. Sorry if it makes you cry like me when I hear it, but I think it says it all about the Women/Moms/Sisters/Aunts/Grandmothers/Daughters we have all lost in our lives. Your feelings are just a reflection of the person that your are! And your are the Greatest!!!!!!!!! :-* I tried to post a link to the song, but my old computer wouldn't let me, either that or I am to stupid to figure it out, Anyways Love Ya, Jimmers and Barb! |
Title: Re: Missing My Mom Post by HappyElaine on Aug 25th, 2008 at 11:48pm
Listen to that song its a good one, but it will make you cry. I still have my Mom but lost my day March 2005 I miss him so much, we will always miss them and always shed tears for them. It hurts a lot no matter how much time goes by. I wish I could hug your neck.
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Title: Re: Missing My Mom Post by George_J on Aug 26th, 2008 at 1:56am
I'm sorry, Jean.
I lost my father in January, 2003. Not a day goes by when I don't think of him. All the best, George |
Title: Re: Missing My Mom Post by sailpappy on Aug 26th, 2008 at 4:24am
Jeannie,
All I have left of my Mother is the memories of her and a few photo's, somehow I ended up with her last Drivers License and my Uncle recently sent me the photo of her with her mom and my Aunt's mom on the day that my Aunt and Uncle married. For me its funny that I feel more of her influence now then I did when she was alive. It's been almost 20 years and I still think of her daily, I guess that's what unconditional Love is all about! Its the substance that fills the void when you think there is nothing left! My Heart feels you Love! John |
Title: Re: Missing My Mom Post by Jean on Aug 26th, 2008 at 11:18am
Thanks again for all of the kind words. I know that everyone can relate to the loss. I guess that eventually almost everyone will have to experience this feeling. For me it was the saddest time of my life. Just as I was beginning to recover from my mother's passing, five months later my father died. Some times I don't know how I ever got through. But time does ease pain and we learn to get used to life with out them. I really wish that they could have been here to know my children.
Big hugs to all of you who have been there, Jeannie |
Title: Re: Missing My Mom Post by sailpappy on Aug 26th, 2008 at 2:02pm
Jeannie,
Everyday since I left my 36 year marraige to runite with my high school sweetheart, I wish both her parents and my parents could be here to see the joy that we both experience by being back together. I know my Mom would be happy for us and I know her Mom would be happy for us, but our Dad's were both old school to the enth degree and never had a nice thing to say about anyone, so I Don't know if they would appreciate the love we feel for each other now! In the end the only thing that matters is that we are Happy, regardless of what anyone thinks! Extremely happy, but both wish Our Mom's could be here to share in our love again! John It's the Omni Present hole in our universe! |
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