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Message started by sandie99 on Aug 28th, 2008 at 12:06pm

Title: It's raining at my house
Post by sandie99 on Aug 28th, 2008 at 12:06pm
Last night I cried myself into sleep. I heard earlier news, which nearly broke my heart.

Timo, my boyfriend & best supporter, has always been very close to his mother's side of the family. His cousin and godmother, the daughter of his favourite aunt (the very same aunt who helped Timo's mother to raise him and she is still like a second mother to him), was diagnosed with cancer not that long time ago. Timo's sister told him that he might want to take time off from work and visit his godmother this week, because she might not live to see September.

Timo took his sister's advice and is now on that journey. But it was too late, because last night Timo's favourite aunt called and told us that her daughter had already passed away. :'(

I got to meet this lovely lady just once, but I recall her fondly. Her husband and two teenaged daughters have a long road ahead of them and my thoughts and prayers are with them.

And I'm thinking and praying for Timo's favourite aunt and her husband as well; those sad news mean that both of their chidren are now passed away before their parents. And I don't need to be a mother to know how heartbreaking that must be to them... :'(

I know very well that Timo is hurting too. His mother died because of cancer as well; it runs in that side of the family, but it was still a sad surprise.

I'm kind of glad that it's been raining the whole day in here - it suits my mood perfectly. Aguess this has been another reminder about how precious life is and how quickly it alters.

Wishing you all nothing but the best,
Sanna :'(


Title: Re: It's raining at my house
Post by jimmers on Aug 28th, 2008 at 12:08pm
I am so sorry Sanna :'(

Jim

Title: Re: It's raining at my house
Post by Ray on Aug 28th, 2008 at 12:14pm
I too am so sorry.  May God soon turn your mourning to dancing.

I wish you and Timo the very best,

Ray   :'(

Title: Re: It's raining at my house
Post by Em on Aug 28th, 2008 at 1:57pm
Sanna,

I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. It's so hard losing someone you love.

Sending out some healing vibes to Timo.

Em
x

Title: Re: It's raining at my house
Post by George_J on Aug 28th, 2008 at 2:41pm
All good wishes to Timo, and to you as well.

Sorry to hear of your loss.

Best wishes always,

George

Title: Re: It's raining at my house
Post by mummymac on Aug 28th, 2008 at 4:01pm
So very sorry to hear this news.  love and light to you and Timo through this difficult time

Title: Re: It's raining at my house
Post by midwestbeth on Aug 28th, 2008 at 4:25pm
Deepest sympathies to you and Timo.  I am so sorry for your loss  :'(

Beth

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Post by Charlie on Aug 28th, 2008 at 4:52pm
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Some serious vibes on the way to both of you.

Charlie

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Post by Jean on Aug 28th, 2008 at 4:55pm
So sorry for your loss.  Love and hugs for you and Timo.  

Jeannie

Title: Re: It's raining at my house
Post by Jonny on Aug 28th, 2008 at 4:59pm
:'(

Title: Re: It's raining at my house
Post by Lizzie2 on Aug 28th, 2008 at 5:05pm
:'( [smiley=hug.gif]

I'm so sorry to hear this, Sanna.  You and Timo and Timo's family will all be in my thoughts and prayers....

Much love,
Carrie

Title: Re: It's raining at my house
Post by barry_sword on Aug 28th, 2008 at 5:21pm
Sanna, our deepest condolences to you, Timo's and the whole family. This is very sad to hear. :'(

  Barry&Angie

Title: Re: It's raining at my house
Post by cynjeep89 on Aug 28th, 2008 at 9:55pm
Sanna and Timo,

So sorry for your loss but please know that lots of love and hugs are headed your way.

Hugs to both of you,

Cyn

Title: Re: It's raining at my house
Post by LeLimey on Aug 28th, 2008 at 10:46pm
I'm so sorry Timo's cousin died Sanna but I'm truly grateful she lived. She left a world behind that is richer for having had her in it - what more can anyone ask as proof of a life well lived and a love that was shared and returned.

She'll never be gone as long as she is remembered fondly, with smiles, love and pleasure and I know in my heart that is her legacy.

much love to you, Timo and all her family, God bless you all

Helen

Title: Re: It's raining at my house
Post by sandie99 on Aug 29th, 2008 at 2:25am
Thank you all so very much for your kind words. I swear that I can feel the hugs, vibes, prayers and wishes.  :)

I know that every once and in a while all those feelings about losing my father return and hearing the news about Timo's cousin and godaunt brought some of them back, no doubt about it.

Helen, you're absolutely right; it's time to celebrate someone who visited our lives and left a mark on it in a beautiful manner.

I said a prayer
and the Universe answered "yes"
Love is all around me
I know I'm blessed

(S.H. 28.8.08)

Sanna


Title: Re: It's raining at my house
Post by debOUCH on Aug 30th, 2008 at 2:02pm
you are in my thoughts ........hugs  to you from long island, sanna...............
deb [smiley=hug.gif]

Title: Re: It's raining at my house
Post by Melissa on Aug 30th, 2008 at 2:20pm
So sorry Sanna.  Prayers to you all...

[smiley=hug.gif]
~mel

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