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Message started by HappyElaine on Sep 2nd, 2008 at 11:44am

Title: A Friend of my Husbands WAS KILLED! UPDATED !
Post by HappyElaine on Sep 2nd, 2008 at 11:44am
Buddy is tore up. He just called me, seems the man went to a family reunion this week end, went to the bathroom and shot himself. You would have never thought this guy was depressed.  Because the details are foggy right now I won't post the mans name.

The good Lord knows his family and friends. Its a hard time for them all, its hard for them to understand. I think they are all upset that they didn't see a problem. Please pray and send vibes to them all.

:'(

Title: Re: A Friend of my Husbands took his own life !
Post by aubmari on Sep 2nd, 2008 at 1:05pm
I am so sorry to hear this Elaine! Vibes and prayers out to his friends and family. :'(

Aubmari

Title: Re: A Friend of my Husbands took his own life !
Post by PollyPocket on Sep 2nd, 2008 at 1:06pm
I am so sorry!  All that I have is on the way.

Title: Re: A Friend of my Husbands took his own life !
Post by midwestbeth on Sep 2nd, 2008 at 1:08pm
:'( This is so sad.

Vibes and prayers on the way.

Beth

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Post by The Mad Viking on Sep 2nd, 2008 at 1:18pm
:'( :'( :'(

Title: Re: A Friend of my Husbands took his own life !
Post by Jean on Sep 2nd, 2008 at 1:20pm
Deepest sympathies and prayers being sent.  So sorry to hear of this.

Jeannie

Title: Re: A Friend of my Husbands took his own life !
Post by HappyElaine on Sep 2nd, 2008 at 4:40pm
Thanks everyone, Buddy is on his way home. It has been a long day for him. The guy was in his late 20's early 30's I am guessing, he has a wife and 3 month old daughter.  The GBI has his body and won't have any information till they release it and the family makes arrangements.

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Post by echo on Sep 2nd, 2008 at 4:53pm
Sorry to read that this occured.

Title: Re: A Friend of my Husbands took his own life !
Post by Charlie on Sep 2nd, 2008 at 5:47pm
Very sorry Elaine. You're always caught off guard and it's a rotten selfish act in most cases.

I know a little about it. It's happened twice in our little family, one about 12 years ago.

Charlie

Title: Re: A Friend of my Husbands took his own life !
Post by Grandma_Sweet_Boy on Sep 2nd, 2008 at 5:54pm
How very sad for his young family.   :'(

Carol

Title: Re: A Friend of my Husbands took his own life !
Post by Rolomatic on Sep 2nd, 2008 at 6:11pm
That's very sad news, I hope his children were grown already.

I went through this when my only brother killed himself and you just keep asking why?

I'll say a prayer for his family.

Roland. :'(

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Post by barry_sword on Sep 2nd, 2008 at 7:35pm
So sorry. :'(

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Post by ClusterChuck on Sep 2nd, 2008 at 8:02pm
Aw, Lady E!!  How terrible!  I am SO sorry for Buddy having to go through this!  Just imagine what his family is going through.

Prayers and vibes heading to all concerned.

Such a waste ...

Chuck

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Post by superhawk2300 on Sep 2nd, 2008 at 8:36pm
How very sad. I hope things come around for all those involved.

Title: Re: A Friend of my Husbands took his own life !
Post by LeLimey on Sep 2nd, 2008 at 8:39pm
Oh Elaine - I'm so sorry. Give Buddy a hug from me please and ask him to give you one from me too

lots of love to you both
Helen xxx

Title: Re: A Friend of my Husbands took his own life !
Post by George_J on Sep 2nd, 2008 at 9:17pm
Very sorry to hear this, Elaine.

I'm sorriest for the family--things like this haunt those who remain for the rest of their lives.  

All the best,

George

Title: Re: A Friend of my Husbands took his own life !
Post by Kate in Oz on Sep 2nd, 2008 at 9:32pm
:'(   I am sorry to hear such sad and devastating news.  I do hope the family get all the love and support that they need at this time and into the future.  Prays going your way....  

Title: Re: A Friend of my Husbands took his own life !
Post by kayarr on Sep 3rd, 2008 at 12:45am
so sorry to hear of his  and the families loss.  I am praying!

Kimberly

Title: Re: A Friend of my Husbands took his own life !
Post by deltadarlin on Sep 3rd, 2008 at 8:36am

George wrote on Sep 2nd, 2008 at 9:17pm:
Very sorry to hear this, Elaine.

I'm sorriest for the family--things like this haunt those who remain for the rest of their lives.  

All the best,

George



Amen to what George said.  I feel for the family of this and for Buddy.

Carolyn

Title: Re: A Friend of my Husbands took his own life !
Post by Ray on Sep 3rd, 2008 at 10:04am
Elaine:

So sorry to hear this news.  My best to you and Buddy and my prayers are going up now.

Ray

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Post by kevmd on Sep 3rd, 2008 at 10:31am
So sorry Elaine.  A good friend of mine did this several years ago and its difficult to comprehend.  My prayers are  with you, your husband and his family.  God bless that baby

Title: Re: A Friend of my Husbands took his own life !
Post by HappyElaine on Sep 4th, 2008 at 1:11pm
Well he didn't kill himself. It looks like someone else did.

>:( >:( >:( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'(

Title: Re: A Friend of my Husbands WAS KILLED! UPDATED !
Post by Melissa on Sep 4th, 2008 at 1:15pm
Oh my Elaine, I am so very sorry!!!  That is just horrible!

My prayers to Buddy!!

:(mel

Title: Re: A Friend of my Husbands WAS KILLED! UPDATED !
Post by Mrs Deej on Sep 4th, 2008 at 1:52pm
sonovabitch!!  I'm so sorry Elaine.  We will be praying for his family and your loss.

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Post by DennisM1045 on Sep 4th, 2008 at 3:23pm
How terrible!!!  My heart goes out to all who knew him.

-Dennis-

Title: Re: A Friend of my Husbands WAS KILLED! UPDATED !
Post by Jean on Sep 4th, 2008 at 4:07pm
OH, How terrible!  I'm so sorry!  Prayers still being said.  


Jeannie

Title: Re: A Friend of my Husbands WAS KILLED! UPDATED !
Post by Jonny on Sep 4th, 2008 at 4:18pm
:'(

Title: Re: A Friend of my Husbands WAS KILLED! UPDATED !
Post by Lizzie2 on Sep 4th, 2008 at 4:36pm
Wow Elaine - I am so very sorry to hear this :(  :'(  Praying for you, Buddy, and the family.  I suppose there is some slight comfort to knowing he didn't take his own life, but really it cannot even begin to compare to the feelings of loss and grief for losing a loved one.  And for such a young family - it really is horrible.

Will be saying lots of prayers...  I hope the killer is brought to justice!

Hugz,
Carrie

Title: Re: A Friend of my Husbands WAS KILLED! UPDATED !
Post by PollyPocket on Sep 4th, 2008 at 4:40pm
>:( :'(  I am so sorry Elaine. I know how difficult this can be. Your family and your friend's family are in my prayers.

Jen

Title: Re: A Friend of my Husbands WAS KILLED! UPDATED !
Post by midwestbeth on Sep 4th, 2008 at 5:29pm
:'(  Sorry to hear this Elaine.

Title: Re: A Friend of my Husbands WAS KILLED! UPDATED !
Post by barry_sword on Sep 4th, 2008 at 7:35pm
OMG! In our prayers.

Barry&Angie :'( :'(

Title: Re: A Friend of my Husbands WAS KILLED! UPDATED !
Post by LeLimey on Sep 4th, 2008 at 8:05pm
Elaine - I just don't know what to say - that's just beyond awful and I'm so truly sorry

With much love and sympathy
Helen

Title: Re: A Friend of my Husbands WAS KILLED! UPDATED !
Post by Cathi_Pierce on Sep 4th, 2008 at 9:33pm
Elaine! What a nightmare! Imagine, first the blow of thinking he took his life, now, yet another blow, finding out he was murdered!
What is WRONG with people??? How DARE people take ANYTHING from another. let alone a life??????????
Beyond me..........but, all I have going out to Buddy, his friend's family and all who surrounded them.....

Give Buddy a big hug from, please, E.he's got to be hurting bigtime....
sorry........
Cathi  

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