my mom just joined this place and she is banging her head and crying like usal i dont know what to do to help her. I hate this.

Hi, you must be Sueanne's daughtger.  Good for you honey.  Wanting to help your Mom and reaching out like that.  Thank you for being there for her.

Unfortunately there isn't really much you can do right now.  Just know that it will pass and she won't die from it.

Sometimes I think the pain you feel watching is worse than the pain I feel when I'm in your Mom's shape.

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-Dennis-

Thank you so much for your kind letter to my daughter.

I know that my wife was having a horrible time with my headaches as well.  I actually started a thread on the support forums asking what supporters need from there clusterheads.

I found the best thing I could do, is sit down with my wife while I was not being attacked and explain to her things she could do to help.  Now, she brings me ice packs, helps me set up the oxygen, gets an imitrex pen ready for me, and gets me to concentrate on my breathing.

It's helped us both tremendously!  I would suggest it to anyone.

I hope things getter better for you both   :)