.....and like I maybe don't fit in around here  :-[

Check you PM's, please.

:(  I know I am totally new here but I have to tell you, Jeannie, that I was really happy to see another mom on here.  I'm looking forward to getting to know you better!

Jackie wrote on Nov 13^th, 2008 at 1:40pm:

Check you PM's, please.

What Jackie said.

Thank you for all the kind words.  I feel silly that I even posted this.  I have just had that " going to cry" feeling all day.

Life is just hard sometimes.  Stuff is always coming at you.  Work, kids, husband, house, ...life.  Maybe I should just let go of the tears and I'd feel better.    

It's fine, Jeannie.  Just go ahead and throw yourself a squalling, cussing fit.  It helps sometimes.  Then go buy yourself a new pair of shoes....sure helps me get my 'dobber' back up... ;)

Seriously living the life, being a wife, Mother, etc., gets us all down sometimes.....we get to feeling terribly 'put upon'.  It'll be OK, Sweetie.

Love to ya,
Jackie

Just make sure that you hang around until January. Once you meet us, you will never have the feeling of not belonging here again. :)

[quote author=515C5C5B5C5C330 link=1226601311/0#0 date=1226601311].....and like I maybe don't fit in around here  :-[/quote]
Just why would you be feeling that way?

Jimi wrote on Nov 13^th, 2008 at 2:08pm:

Just make sure that you hang around until January. Once you meet us, you will never have the feeling of not belonging here again. :)

I don't know about that one.  I think you're all feckin' nuts and I am the only sane one in this crowd.  ;)

now you have yet another PM..please go read!
Cathi

Quote:

Re: Feeling very down....... Reply #2 - Today at 10:51am       I know I am totally new here but I have to tell you, Jeannie, that I was really happy to see another mom on here.

huh?   I can only think of one woman here, who ISN"T a Mom....
and that would be Sanna.

Linda_Howell wrote on Nov 13^th, 2008 at 2:26pm:

Quote:  Re: Feeling very down....... Reply #2 - Today at 10:51am       I know I am totally new here but I have to tell you, Jeannie, that I was really happy to see another mom on here.   huh?   I can only think of one woman here, who ISN"T a Mom.... and that would be Sanna.

I guess she is new and may not have known that.

i am a momma 2!!! and i find that either a good cry, or a REALLY LOUD SCREAMING SESSION helps! of course, make sure no one is around & the windows are shut!!! it does help to get it all out! oh a hot bath with a glass or 2 of wine, candles, door locked,  could work too!! sending you some positive "feel better" vibes!
deb

debOUCH wrote on Nov 13^th, 2008 at 3:03pm:

i am a momma 2!!! and i find that either a good cry, or a REALLY LOUD SCREAMING SESSION helps! of course, make sure no one is around & the windows are shut!!! it does help to get it all out! oh a hot bath with a glass or 2 of wine, candles, door locked,  could work too!! sending you some positive "feel better" vibes! deb

Deb,

This is what I do....or if a bath isn't possible, just take everything else and lock myself in my bedroom ....

Jeannie, I think you fit in quite nicely around here.  :)

I hope things look up for you soon!! It really is hard to juggle everything at once and I can identify. I am sure that it will all end up okay. Things usually do. But darn it if you need a good cry than do it. Another thing that help me is a bubble bath, candles and just nothing else for 30 minutes.

I for one am very glad you are here. :-*

Gina

Agostino Leyre wrote on Nov 13^th, 2008 at 2:12pm:

[quote author=515C5C5B5C5C330 link=1226601311/0#0 date=1226601311].....and like I maybe don't fit in around here  :-[/quote] Just why would you be feeling that way?

Yeah, what he said!

If someone told you that you dont "Fit' here, I will open a major can of whoopass on them!!!!  >:( >:( >:( >:(

You fit just fine!!!  :-*

Hey Jeannie-

Sorry to hear that you're feeling lousy! You have been a supportive member of this site and I also am glad you here.  Hang in there and take care of yourself


kelly

From what I read, you fit in very nicely and all these goofs are correct. Once you meet some of us, you'll be stuck on this place.

So act stuck.  8-)

Charlie

Well sweets, if you don't fit in here, then neither do I.  Now I hope you let the tears flow, because Lord knows I've had more than my share of days you're having right now!

hugs,
:)mel

I used to work with a lady named Doris.  She is the mother of 8 kids and she would always share the greatest kid stories with me every morning when she came into work.

One morning, she told me the story of how her 5 year old daughter was nagging her for a certain toy that she just had to have.  She told her Mom that if she didn't get the toy that she "would cry forever".

Doris' response to her daughter was, "Go ahead and cry.  You will pee less".

Why fight the tears, Jeannie?  If that is what you are feeling, then go for it.  Believe me, we all have our bad times.  Crying thru them does help.

We are not ashamed to show happiness so why not show the pain, frustration and grief, too?

No need to worry about feeling like you don't fit in.  None of us do.  We are all strange in our own weird way and everyone here is accepted because of that.  It would be a boring place if we were all alike.

I really hope tomorrow is a better day for you and if it isn't, drop us a line so we can help you, k?

There are a bunch of great people here so please hang around.

Now go ahead and cry....you'll pee less.  ;)

Hugs to you!!!!

And I'm looking so forward to seeing you in St. Louis in january!!!

Guiseppi (moose knuckle) from San Diego...where it NEVER snows!

I'm with the rest of the gang.  Jeannie you fit perfectly here.

Hugs  [smiley=hug.gif]

Jen

debOUCH wrote on Nov 13^th, 2008 at 3:03pm:

i am a momma 2!!! and i find that either a good cry, or a REALLY LOUD SCREAMING SESSION helps! of course, make sure no one is around & the windows are shut!!! it does help to get it all out! oh a hot bath with a glass or 2 of wine, candles, door locked,  could work too!! sending you some positive "feel better" vibes! deb

What I used to do was fill the kitchen sink with hot soapy water and clean the kitchen.  Everyone leaves the country when you clean.  Hot soapy water, clean fingernails and alone time:)  LOL

Jeannie, I can't imagine what would have caused you to feel that way, but you are one amazing and wonderful woman!!!!!!!!!!!!!  

Sending HUGE positive vibes AND prayers that whatever is going on will pass.  Have a good cry, take some "me" time, and treat yourself to something you love.  You definitely deserve it.  !!!!!!!

((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((hugs)))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))

Laurie

Hey sweetie do what I do when I get the downers....

KICK CHUCKLES IN THE REAR!!!!! ;) ;)

Hugs BD

Feeling a little better today.

Thank you everyone!

Jeannie

Glad you are feeling better today, and tomorrow and tomorrow after that. This is your family  [smiley=hug.gif]

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