A really good friend of mine is running a competition designed to help new people in another long running competition. He is the inspiration for this idea now.

I think we need some lurve around here and to that end - I'd like to count down from now to Christmas by posting each day with the name and an anecdote about someone here who inspires me and someone who doesn't post anymore who has also made an impact on me.

The effect is twofold, it makes us feel good, it makes the recipients feel good and it might tempt some people back who lurk.

I'd like to invite you all to join me in this, sharing things that have made us laugh or think or even changed our whole way of thinking.

The one thing I would ask is if you post about someone you are in contact with, or see a post about someone you are in contact with - send them the link - let them see! Spread the christmas Spirit!

So 'cos it's my thread I get to kick off!

This was hard, so many people and who to pick. I've got lots of names stored up and stories but I'm starting today (for the 1st Dec) with Cyndi, aka Cynjeep.

Cyndi is one of the most fun people to be with I know. Either on the boards or on the tiles! She's warm, compassionate and you know what else? She is such a phenomenal supporter of everyone else that I have to poke myself to remember she is a sufferer too - when have you heard her whinge? I'll bet money it's never. Cyndi, you are an inspiration and I am happy, lucky and  proud to call you my friend

For my person who doesn't post anymore I'm going to cheat today and post two names. Simply because this time, I cannot choose.

In the past week I've had emails from Piper and Barbara Young supporting me when they saw I was upset. The love and care and compassion from these two ladies in trying to cheer me up reduced me to tears. GOOD tears though and they're the sort that leave rainbows in your eyes.

Barbara left after some ugliness a long time ago and Piper hasn't been around in forever either. They are both assets to ch.com and I'm hoping they'll both come back. This will be a better place with them here than it is without.

I'm not one to wish my life away as you all know - but I can't wait to start this again for the 2nd of December!

love to you all
Helen x

Grand idea. I'm looking forward to tomorrow's already!

Em
xx

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we need some lurve around here

While I don't know what LURVE is..I think this is a great idea.

Did you want everyone to post daily?   Being here 10 years...I got a lot of people who've made me laugh or inspired me.

Elaine was the first clusterhead I ever met, so I'll start with her.

If I had the stamina to sit at this computer for 5 days with non-stop typing I couldn't scratch the surface of how many times and ways  woman has made me laugh.   Need some endorphins?  Give Elaine a call.

Elaine has also inspired me with her life stories that she has endured that would make a lesser person just cave in and not want to go on.  She stayed on top of the slings and arrows that were thrown her way and overcame medical challenges and personal ones.    I just love that lady!

Jean.  TxBassLady.  She has a golden heart, and a funny, unique, and very wise perspective.  

Jean was the first person to PM me here, and we subsequently became good friends.  She's also the first clusterhead I ever spoke to on the phone.  We've telephoned each other since, but it never seems as if it's often enough.

I miss seeing her here.  I hope when circumstance allows, that she will return here to spend a bit of time with us.  We'll be the richer for it.  

Best wishes,

George

Helen
I love your Idea. I know I don't  post very often but I read all the time.
You are a great person and I loved meeting you and head a great time.
There are a few ppl that I can count on when needed Bill and  Cyndi and  Happy ( where are you I miss you) are allways there for me when I need them and for that I am greatfull
PF and love
b

Great idea, Helen! :)

Sanna

Yes I absolutely DO want everyone else to post! I want us all to recognise people we care about and miss.

Get typing ladies and gentlemen, my next one is getting thunkered up now!

Okay here's my December the second "window"

My inspiration today is Jon, our Jon 019. I've always loved chatting to him and reading his stories and his take on life and I missed him dreadfully when he decided to take a leave of absence. I worried about the bugger LOL When he came back it was like a breath of fresh air, he's a stable voice in an unstable world and he never fails to message me if he doesn't see me around to make sure I'm okay. He's a gentle caring fun person to know and we could use a hundred Jon's here - even if he DOES talk funny!  ;)

Someone I'm really missing is Pittsburgh Joe. He used to post all the time when I was new here and I loved reading his persective on life. I miss him alot. I learned a lot from his view of life, it made me see things I hadn't seen before and I know I still have a lot to learn about life and me from him. If anyone IS in contact him please threaten cajole or just plain BEG him to come back once in a while... and give him my love and a big ol' hug please.



Is it Dec 3rd yet?!

Oh what a lovely idea, 25 days and two a day just will not cover all the people here, I love and respect and have given me a new lease on Life. I been here 9 1/2 years that's a lot of people in that many years.

Linda I love you and I thank you. You know you have inspired me through the years. What you have done for people here on ch.com inspires me more everyday.   I am blessed  to have you as my friend. I think back on the things you and I have done together, lets see we shopped for underwear together  and I have to say it was a fun shopping day. You and I have been roommates at the conventions. We have had some great times. You have been here for me through some real hard times. I will never forget a second of it.

Margi was one that I met here, she stands out in my mind. She would come to your pity party for a short while then she would pull your butt up, before the party ended you felt so much better and you had a reason to fight the beast again. She always renewed my energy. I was blessed enough to met her and Mike in Vancouver. Margi was everything wonderful, a fine lady as I knew she would be. A great supporter and friend though the years.

Now for the ones that don't post any more.

When I first came here I met the board idiot (new people don't jump me that is what he called himself)
His name was Dave we called him Drummer. I learned so much from him. He taught me a lot about dealing with clusters and with life. I could never repay him in a million years for that gift. I miss him and his lovely family.

For a couple who now live in Heaven.

Kip and Judy God I miss them. For you new people. Kip and Judy are in Heaven now. They were two fine people. They were happy and they were supportive. Kip could kick the beast ass better than anyone I knew. He had the best supporter ever his wife Judy. Kip believed in O2 and he came up with cooling the O2 and the Kip Scale . The stories he told could make you laugh till you cried. No matter what was going on in his life, he always found time for each of us. I will miss them this Christmas. I will Drink a bloody Mary for them this Christmas.

Ok, E, Helen, maybe today is the day we send our words skyward.
Since this begain, Helen, I've been thinking about some I miss because they are no longer of this world, and no longer suffer CH. Ken, Brian, you were both bright, sensitive, incredibly creative men who left this world long before your time. Ken, you always knew it, I just didn't believe you. Thank you for the X'd Up CH logo and your dreams. Brian, you larger-than life, Southern gentleman, I raise my mint Julep to you. You are both missed! Kip and Judy, I am soo glad I got to meet you both! You were, most assuredly, life mates. To have left this world within days of each other proves this.and I like to think of you two looking down now, over your CH family. Thank you for your very worthwhile contributions to Clusterville. Now, I'm done with that, lets turn to those truly MIA..........

FRANK-Jeepgun!! Whose laughing with you? Who's returning all the kindnesses you did for others when they were getting hit? Are you busy SCUBA diving? Tell us where you've been...you are missed!
Paigelle-The daughter I am much too young to acknowledge......honey, I lost track of you when my puter fried...PLEASE let me know how to find you!!
NancyC(smiles)..just talking to you brought a grin to my face! That slooow southern accent, soo proud of your boys..and now, are you still raising Tristan?
Lastly,but soitenlee not leastly, the main source of laughter on the board 5-6 someodd years ago........
SLAMMY! Where are ya Jim? Still exiled to one of the Carolinas? You need to get back here and share your ADVENTURES..I remember you promised to get back and tell tales!
Den & Georgia....BleuCheese dressing, Jayne, dating as a clusterhead,
SOMEONE claiming Orgasm was an abortive...Chuck claiming Orgasm as a trigger......oh, yeah, he's still here....
Brain Cramps! I've seen him checking in, but he vanishes so quickly! Grant, you know I suck at puting....wontcha come back and help me???
Love, laughter replacing tears, supporters, and sufferers giving support, one big teepee as everyone leans on each other to give and receive support......come back to the fold, my friends, join us as we watch the river flow..........

Cathi ---missing each and every one of you...... :-/

Pssst.. Cathi -wanna know where Frank is? Watch the weather channel!  ;)

Wow, there are so many good people here that it makes it hard to pick just one...so I won't.

Sanna.  I wish I could be more like her.  Although I have never met her in person, she seems to have such a gentle and caring soul and when I see her posts or think of her, I smile.  She is always offering support, congratulations and love to many people.  Stay sweet Sanna, okay?  We need more people in this world like you.

Barry and Angie.  I feel like I have a second brother in Barry and the sister I always wanted in Angie.  Their caring, sharing and friendship mean more to me than they will ever know.

Eddie.  What an absolute sweetheart of a man he is and his wife seems to be as sweet as they come.

Terry.  A peaceful and kind man with such a kind way about him.  The kind of man who would do anything for anyone.

Jerry.  I was so grateful to have met him and he is another person who brings a smile to my face when I think about him.  He has such love for his family and a beautiful, kind soul.

The Brew Crew....Bill, Pat and Roy.  One heck of a family for sure and I am proud to call them my friends.

Bill (Racer)  A gentle giant of a man, a true Southern gentleman and one heck of a buddy.  He always seems to say something that makes me stop, think and see another side of things.  (He probably does this to try to confuse me even more than I already am just to mess with my head. ;D)

Liz (alienspacebabe).  The first CHer I ever met.  Where the heck are you, Liz?  We miss you!!!!

Linda.  What can I say about her that most of us don't already know?  She can be a spitfire when needed, a shoulder to lean on and is always there to help when people are hurting.  She is one heck of a woman for sure.

Carol.  Another sweetheart of a woman who I hope to meet someday.  I wish Canada were closer to Delaware so we could watch Dancing With the Stars together. ;)

Helen.  A true inspiration to me.  You have an inner strength that is amazing, a sense of humor that is unreal and a love of life that is infectious.....thanks for sharing all of this with us.

Tanner.  I miss your goodnight posts and I miss you.  Hope you can come back and see us sometime.

Sheesh, we have so many good people her that I could go on and on but will stop for now.

Okay, I lied.....have to add Becky and B.J.  My buddies and my friends.  Love ya bunches and miss you even more.  No need to get mushy here since you know how I feel about both of you. ;)

Just gonna rattle off a list for the whole month because it's been a LONG day and I'm just ready to quit. So yeah here goes.

Ray(my very good friend)-You brought me up when I was down and talked to me like a real person and not just a kid. You were there when I needed to talk about stuff that I just couldn't handle. Thank you.

Helen(aka my other Mum)-You are the best, sweetest person in the world and I love you to death. You're smart, funny, and a ton of crazy red headed trouble that I love trying to keep up with. You truely are a savior.

Paul(my favorite window licker)-I may rag on you a lot but I still love to hear what you have to say and can't wait to see you again. You put a smile on my face and remind me at times just why I'm here.

Barak(my brother, who is missing yet again)-Dude, I'd die without you. You've been there for me when the nights were late and I was scared and no one else was around. You knew about the crap with my mom before anyone and helped me through it. I love you and miss you.

Becky(my step-mom and strength)-You let me believe I can do just about anything and let me tell you anything without judging. I swear there are days when you've lost your head but when ever I need you you're always there. Thank you hunny. You have no idea how much you mean to me. I'm glad I (and Dad) found you.

And last but most deffinatly not least, Daddy(BillyJ.)-The true reason I live through all the crap I've been through is to make you proud. To do everything you wanted me to and to be the person possibly even better than you wanted me to be. You will always be my strength and my wisdom because let's face it at times I'm not so smart. Thank you for everything you've done for me and I hope I can make you as proud as I hope you can be.

Broken

I am going to do more than two today.

Bob P well Bob is one to make people think, he reminds me of a school teacher I use to have. He said you think better when someone disagrees with you. Bob is what I call a true friend. We worked together on O.U.C.H. and we bumped heads some times. We both knew that we had to keep O.U.C.H. and friendship separate. Bob helped me through some really hard times, he made some dark times bright. I was blessed enough to meet him and his lovely wife. I learned so much from this man, he helped me live again.

Then there is Hub, I miss Hub. I don't know if Hub knows it or not. I lost faith in my God at one point. Hub brought my God back to me, he gave me back my faith that I had lost. I prayed with Hub through email and regained my faith. Hub not only brighten my life here on earth but gave me life after death.
For this I will always be so grateful. He gave me the best gift of all.

Then there is Terry S he is still around and he emails with many of us. Terry stayed with me, write or wrong, he doesn't judge. He has been here for me in good times and bad. He seems to know when I need a lift and a smile. His emails brighten my days and nights. I know I can count on him. He has kept my faith in God alive and if I start slipping, then in pops a email.

Judy W, Oh what a lady. She is around as always for everyone she knows. She drove the O.U.C.H. Van remember? She has had some health problems and watching her has also renewed my faith and gave me the courage to go the next step. People like this lady is hard to find. In pain she always has time for her friends. I love this lady. I wish her well.

Bob G a good man. I read every post he writes, I long to hug his neck. He is full of great advice. He is another one that has been in my life and gave me courage from the begining. Bob G has given us all a lot and he has been here for us never letting any of us down. He is just part of my life, a wonderful part. He has a level head and I like that about him.

Cathy P now this lady she speaks her mind and I love that. She is kind and passionate, she is full of life, she can make you forget all your troubles. I look for her post when I come here. She just has gives you a warm feeling when you read her post. Sometimes that warm feeling is when you pee in your pants from laughing so hard when you read her post. I love to laugh and she knows how to make me.

Gayle H, this lady is just out of this world. She one of my best email buddys. She keeps me crying and laughing. She has a great outlook and is so positive all the time, there is no way you can be negative when she around, she just lifts you right up. If there is a email from her the first thing in the morning I know my day will be a wonderful one, she just starts it off right!

Warren and Bonnie Woods, that's a wonderful loving couple. Warren has clusters and Bonnie supports him. Warren gave me the will to go on in life at a time I had given up. He was fighting for his life as I was. Those two gave me the tools to fight and keep fighting. When we both won our battle. I don't think I could have done it with out their support and their spirit. Meeting Bonnie and Warren was a wonderful week end for me. They were everything I dreamed they would be. It is a honor to call these two my friends. I am going to get to hug their necks again one day. They are a class act!

That's it for today ! Can't wait for tomorrow!

Jimi Hendrix has always been an inspiration to me since the first day I met him in Atlanta 9 years ago.  

 His level of patience is what  I think about everytime I am tempted to go off on someone.  He has shown by example how to be nice,  stay above the fray and still be himself.  I have so much respect for this man.
  His stories are second only to Elaine and for anyone who hasn't had a chance to listen to them at a get-gether or a convention I whole-heartedly suggest you do.  

By the way everyone - it doesn't matter if you post the same people as someone else - this is about YOUR preceptions and experiences, no one elses!

Today I've got someone I love dearly as, anyone who knows her, does. Michelle Adamson also known as mast is just about one of the most fun people to be with I know. She is really funny and I love listening to her opinions on everything. She is compassionate and practical which is an awesome and formidable mix. With that combination you can (and Michelle DOES) change the world.
She also introduced me to White Russians in Chicago. The hotel was like Camp Deadly but Michelle and Mast made it one of those places I'll always want to be in my memories. I cannot wait to see her again.

My today's blast from the past is someone I miss dearly and really enjoyed getting to know. I miss Firebrix something rotten and her lovely stories both on the board and in pm's. She's someone I could never have enough time with and truly miss. If anyone is in touch with her, please beg, plead and cajole her to come back - I need her in my life!

Ahhhhhh, yes....Firebrix.  I enjoyed her sooooooo much.  She told a great story.  We exchanged e-mails for a very long time after she quit posting.  Then one day she was gone.  I think of her often and wonder how they are.

I'd like to add another MIA.  Ave (am thinking that's how she spelled it).  She was always a great source of information.  She could spin a fine tale too.  I really miss her....she was/is a fine lady.

Navygunner....he's been gone for 9 or so years.  He was a huge help to me when I first came to ch.com.  He'd stay in chat with me for hours back when Blake was sooooooo very bad.  I'll never forget his kindness

There are so many that I respect and admire.  It's going to take some hard thinking to sort them all out.....more later :)

Jackie

Racer1NC (Bill) is one friend I love because he is truely the genuine article.  He is a gentleman, very caring and will give you his time whenever you need it, no matter what it's for.  I am a better person for knowing him. :)

I miss MaryD.  She was like a mom to me and could always take me poking fun at her with a light heart.  I hope that she finds us again someday, but until then, I will always keep her in my heart.

I miss JD.  The kindest artist I ever got to hug and I have a print of his Santa Claus that will be put up yet again for Christmas. :)

I also miss Big Dan.  Dang is he funny!  I always looked for his posts because I knew I wouldn't be disappointed.

I too have more, and will maybe post more in the upcoming days as my memory allows.

Wow, you guys are bring up people I have forgotten about - and that's sad.

I'm drinking to the drunken sailor. Here's cheers, Chewy.

There are too many people who disappear without a trace, and I miss them.

Ray    :(

Today I will talk about a few more people that bring sunshine to my life.

Ree and Dave I met them in NY and they are a very lovely couple. Ree has a love for Family and a special relationship with children. I use to love to see the pictures she posted of the children she cared for. I remember one on Halloween she posted. I always look for a post from her. I love reading about her family. She is a great supporter to us all. I love her and pray for her family everyday as I know she does for all of us.

Randy (Mr. Happy) He is like his screen name Happy! I always loved his post and at the NY convention I met him. He was so much fun, and he knew how to make everything right. When he walked in a room, you just waited for him to do something that would make you smile. He is not only funny, he is there when you need him. You might not see him post and you might think he is not around. Believe me he is here, if he sees you in trouble and he can help you will hear from him.
We had some really good times. He is with me always in my heart.

Mel, well Mel is just our board sweetheart, she makes everyone welcome here. She has something nice to say to everyone. She also  tells things like it is. To met her in person she is such a bright star.
She carries the world on her shoulder, and she makes make the world a better place just by being in it. I wish I had her energy and spunk. She is a dear friend to me and many here. I love this lady very much.

Cat, she has cat eyes that's a fact. She loves her family and friends. What makes her so special to me is that she has been through so much in her life, she still finds time to give her love and time to us.She has a great way of expressing herself. She wears a smile no matter what is going on in her life. She is one that shows up when you feel the worst and think you have no where to turn. It is like she knows.

Mast, she is a wonderful friend. She and I have had some great times, she is smart as a whip, when she does something she does it right and won't give up till it is done. I respect her opinions and I respect her as a person. She is so level headed, she knows when to joke around and she knows when to be serious. We spent many nights in the chat room. I miss the chats with her. My computer is old and won't let me chat any more.

Roxey, she is a foxy lady, she is full of energy always a smile on her face. She can laugh at life and what it dishes out. She has a glow about her that makes you feel good inside when you are around her. Roxey reminds me of  Marlo Thomas who played in "That Girl" ! She is just loveable !

Bama  is her screen name, her name is Jane, now talk about real southern lady that is who Jane is.  She has real southern class. I spent a week end with her in Vancouver. I wouldn't have gone had she not promised to fly on the same plane with me (I don't like to fly alone). We had so much fun. I find her in the chat room from time to time here and go in to speak to her, I sure miss her post. I may have her screen name spelled wrong.

Jayne now Jayne is a pleasure to know, one of the funniest lady's I know. She got to my heart right away. I met her in Atlanta OMG she was fun to be with. The stories she told was out of this world. I will never forget the ben gay story she told. She had a heart the size of TX. She is just one lovely lady. One of these days I hope to see her on TV. She has a special talent that makes people smile and laugh and be happy. She puts a spell on all she meets. I just love her.


Edna well this lady I really admire, she has a love for family and friends that just make you want to be in her life. She has lifted my days and nights through email. I love to talk to her over the phone.
She has a way of making you feel like you have known her all your life. She is easy to talk to. She is one that picks me up when I am down. I am proud to call her my friend.

December 3rd already - good grief!

Christmas is coming and it's not taking prisoner!

Today I want to tell you how much fun I've had over the past few years thanks to our loveable larrikin, Aussie Brian and his delightful and longsuffering sidekick, Denny AKA Shoodabinanun  ;D I can't even think of her "name" without grinning, that really tickles me!

I look forward to Brians posts so much, I will open a thread first if I see his name as last poster as I know it will either be hilarious or straight to the point, succinct concise and like James Bond's martini's - very, very dry. No matter what the content they are absolutely ALWAYS worth reading and I would never miss one. Brian has a way of cutting right through the smoke and getting to the fire. He sits back and waits and then does exactly what needs to be done. He's fascinating to chat to, has hundreds' of interesting anecdotes and, along with Denny, is/are people I long to meet. One day - it just has to be. That's all there is too it.
Denny herself is hilarious, she has a talent for writing that she should use and get published. I'd be the first in line to buy her books I can tell you. She's a warm compassionate funny lady and she's just not here enough - as a matter of fact if she was here 24/7 it wouldn't be enough and I'm NOT greedy!

I miss you both dreadfully when I dont' get to speak to you - but I miss you, just know that.


My long lost friend for today is Rich E. He came along to Milwaukee and was just someone I loved finally meeting. I'd loved his posts on the boards for the longest time and meeting him was just like reading here, he was no different. Well - except for realling laughing out loud instead of LOL-ing!
He hasn't been here in forever and it's our loss. He was always supportive, always fun and a reminder of how TO be. I miss you Rich. God bless where ever you are ((HUG))

Those that bring a smile and a memory.

DJ and Steph - Thanks for the site.  One of these days when I visit the relatives in Wichita our schedules will match.

Jonny - the 1st person I chatted with - way back when the site was like a topic drive chat line.  That must have been in 99, or 00.  He's one of the few I talk to on the phone.  I still owe him beers and a steak.  To think I was only blocks from him at one point and didn't know it.

Nancyc - See helped my knock my Staydol NS addiction.  She saw it coming long before I did.  Thank you, thank you, thank you.

Cathi -- Knows more about my trials and tribulations of my personal life than anyone else.  Always there to add support and friendship. Thank you Puddin.

Linda H. - Another telephone pal.  Love seeing her posts. So very carring, compassionate and has a fantastic bull shit detector.

Mel - just a sweetie.  Did I freak you out a little last week?

Ms E - I just don't know how you do it all and keep it together.

Charlie, Bob, Chuck, Jimi, Jim, Fubar, Lelimey, Pep,Cat, Aussiebrain, guiseppi  - There are so many times your posts have enlightened me, brought laughter or a tear.  Whatever was needed at the time.

Must admit I miss Big Dan - the only CH'er I've personally met.  

Slammy, Sailpappy, who ocassionally fall off the grid. Hope they are doing ok.

Please take no offense if I've left you off the list. I'll remember more in later posts.

ECHO! I  miss our chats, man!
Switch to Verizon.......we'll call it business! ;)

My Stud Muffin........

cathi :-*

Cathi_Pierce wrote on Dec 3^rd, 2008 at 4:00pm:

ECHO! I  miss our chats, man! Switch to Verizon.......we'll call it business! ;) My Stud Muffin........ cathi :-*

eewwwe:  She used the "V" word.  I'll call you - my cell is free.  Now to find that scrap of paper that has your number on it.  Phone has been replaced and lost all my non-company contact numbers.

My turn.
I am going to group these two ladies together.
Cyndi (cynjeep89) and Carol (Grandma-Sweet-Boy)

You were both there right from the beginning for me, and that was when our friendship was born.  [smiley=hug.gif] [smiley=hug.gif]

Jonny who was also there to greet and welcome me to the site. We became friends quickly, and gave me lot's of laughs and great advice, thanks bro! 8-)

Drew37, Damn I must call you soon. You live like a mile from me and I see you more on line than in person, and that is wrong. Biking season is over so we will get together very soon buddy. ;)

Until tomorrow. :)

[quote author=7F7972751A0 link=1228080011/23#23 date=1228337415]Those that bring a smile and a memory.


Cathi -- Knows more about my trials and tribulations of my personal life than anyone else.  Always there to add support and friendship. Thank you Puddin.

Ahh, yess........there was that time you called me about the sebbaceous cyst, remember? You said it was just HUGE, you didn't know what to do about it..remember now?, It was right on your  b..  ummmmmmmm...........errrr, I PROMISED to keep all your secrets...........now, where is that delete button when I need it???
[smiley=eek.gif] [smiley=crackup.gif] [smiley=girlflash.gif] [smiley=lick.gif]

I'll pm you my number again, Mark....we'll tawk....K? :-*

Cathi :D

Ok it is now the 4th,
I miss Leesa, Broomie, Jimi, Pittsburgh Joe and  Eye's and of course Big Dan there are the ones that could always make me start me
laughing, untill tears came rolling out and I was rolling on the floor wetting my pants. ;D

Batch for all the heard work he did for me of getting O2 setup and teaching me how to use it right.

Last but not last ever last BJ, has saved my life sp many times over.
I won't go into deatils (not preety ) He showed me and gave me a life where it is ok to cry, show my pain  and he excepts  me as I am (alittle cracked), he also let me into his kids lives. He has 3 teeagers, YOu know one for from the board, Broken she has showed great streight this year and is coming out of it in flying colors we are all so proud of her,maybe in a small way I helped
I  am sure I will think of others but figured this was enough for one post
Love and PF wishs to all
b

One current person that comes to mind is Aussie B.  His posts are both humorous and thoughtful.  Delightful to read.  Nice sense of humor when needed and a true supporter of those in need.  Besides, he likes Vegamite!

A person that I miss is Dave Greenly A.K.A. Drummer.  He was the very first cluster heat I ever spoke with and his self deprecating sense of humor had many people holding their laugh glands because they hurt.  Talking to him for the first time on the phone was like talking to a life long friend who I had never met.

-P.

On  the MIA  list.........

Alien Space Babe.....Oh, how I miss you!
Jayne Salter-we need a story each day, puhleeezz??
Leesa! OMG! The World's answer to the enrgy crisis!

Come back, girls!

'Nuff said.........

Cathi :D

I miss Riccardo.

We all called him our "Italian Stallion"  Even with the language barrier almost everything he said was funny or thought-provoking.  Like the time he asked a prominent neurologist at the convention "why is it that clusterheads are more sexual than the general population"   I thought the good Dr. was gonna choke.

At that same convention in Vancouver we had a cluster golf tournament and were divided up in groups of 4.  Riccardo and his Italian friends were the last to come in while the rest of us sat watching them on the last hole.  Riccardo had never before played golf..but he sure had some power in his swing and lobbed one clear into a group of men at the driving range almost hitting them.

BobP was forced to run over to them and apologize profusely and explain the situation.  Riccardo didn't know to yell FORE.

I know he got remarried and I think he moved to Russia of all places, but I sure wish he'd check in with us once and a while.   :-/

I miss Riccardo also... I remember one day I was in bad shape and stayed home from work. apparently I posted that I was home. I got this call from ITALY from Ricky wanting to know "how are you" - at least that's what I think he was asking. :)  all I really understood was, "I love you." and "Garlic kisses to you!"

But most of all I miss Kip and Judy. Seems when I was the most down in the dumps, I'd get a call from them and before we got off the phone, I'd be "up" again. The last time we talked (a few weeks before their deaths) we were making plans to spend part of our kids inheritances (an old joke with us).

And of course Jayne... who can keep up with that wit of hers? Anyone who would sleep in the bathtub and stick her toe in the faucet to keep the water from dripping and THEN tell it the next morning..... ya just gotta love her... :-*

too many to name.....

Hugs BD

Today I want to talk about a few more people I adore:

Marc, I love this guy and his beautiful pictures. I was able to buy one of his pictures at the NY convention. I love it. I have always enjoyed his post. I never thought I would ever get to meet this man.
He had some work to do in a town below where we live. He drove to see my family and I. We enjoyed his visit very much. I love his humor, his heart and his wisdom. I hope to hug his neck again someday.

Jimi and Ruth. A couple that is so truly in love...you can read that love on their face the way they look at each other. Their body language. You just feel it when you are around them. They are all about family and friends. Both are very level headed, very caring. Not enough can be said about these two.
Jimi has been one of my best supporters, he stood by me when the world was against me. He always had a kind word. I love his emails. He can send some of the funniest things. When something is wrong, he will send a email with inspiration. It is just what I need. I couldn't do with out Jimi and Ruth. I admire them, I envy them. My family and I are very honored they are in our life.

Hellen and Paul. Hellen is someone you fell in love with right off. She is like a magnet your are just drawn to her. I look for her post and Paul's. I know they will make me smile. Hellen and I didn't get to meet till we went to the convention in Richmond VA but she was so busy and people were all around her, I never got to sit down and speck to her the way I wanted to. In TX we were able to spend some time together. I loved every second of talking to her. I was able to get to know Paul better. The look in their eyes is true love. She has been through a lot in her life and she is always able to rise above her troubles and make us smile. She has made me want to be a better person. She inspires me every day. This couple will go far in Life, I am so glad they are my friends. I hope to some day attend their wedding !

Nancy C now I miss her, she always had some very wonderful input here. She loved getting together with us cluster heads. She has been though a lot of pain in her life and she rose above it.
She is a sweet friend, I miss her post. My husband misses her and her dog (Her dog and my husband had a relationship it was funny ). I miss her. I did speak with her this last week and she is doing fine. Still working and still doing for that grand child of hers. She is so missed. Maybe she will be back soon I hope so.

Posting tonight for tomorrow, I have plans and might not make it on line till Saturday.

Svenn, he has always been here for each and everyone of us. When times are bad you bet your phone will ring or you will get a email from him with all the support he can give. He has been a fighter for us all in his fight for clusters and like right now, he has been going through hell, we should all take a lesson in what can happen to us if we are not careful in the meds we take. Svenn is to be admired.

Cluster Chuck, cluster chuck is a crazy guy, that loves to make people laugh. No matter where you go if he is there he is going to make you laugh. His serious side is just as good. I remember a lot of support and nice things this man has said and done for me. I am glad he is my friend.

Donna D a sweet lady that busted her butt for us all. She has been a warm and big hearted friend to me and my family. I love her and miss her.

Peppermint is just like her name sweet, a great supporter for us all, a true friend always ready to help. This lady worked her buns off for us also in the work she did for OUCH. ! I don't know what I would do without her friendship.

M.R. Oh now I love to talk to this man. I haven't seen him post in awhile, maybe I have missed it if he has. I miss him and reading his post. Where are you my friend?

Flipperlips, this is a new lady I don't really know her, but I love her post and feel I do know her. I am looking forward to meeting her someday. I believe there is a new friend to be made there.

Jean French Now this lady is a load of fun. She drifts in and out, but at least when I cath up with her we have a lot to talk about. The lady is so cool. I love our get togethers. This lady can stay up all night long she really knows how to party. She has been a wonderful friend. I miss her post and laughter.

Carol now she is my email Buddy, I have always enjoyed her post and advice. She is so sweet . I look for her post and a email from her. She is one I don't think I could live without, she brightens my days.

Joe, now here is a guy I don't email a lot with him but I search for his post. He has taught me a lot about life in general. I just think he is great, you better believe he is in my book of friends.

Charlie...Now Charlie is a sweet heart, I love his post even though most are short. He has a big heart, and a sweet smile. He even has captured my grandsons heart with pictures of his neighbor hood with snow every where. He sent him some old post cards that he treasures. Charlie wins the heart of many here. He likes to be called mean old Charlie, but I just don't believe the man has a mean bone in his body.

Tim Rambow Now here  is another that has captured my grandsons heart, he sends lots of post card.
JD thinks Tim is really special. I do also. I enjoy hearing for Tim and look forward to the cards also.
Tim is a real sweet guy.

Barbara D, when I came here she had the title Mom, cause she kept everyone in line. Barbara was one of the first people I met in N.Y. I won't never forget her touching me during a cluster attack. She realized what she was doing and was scared I was going to hit her. Barbara has been a good friend through the years. Oh we have knocked heads a few times in O.U.C.H. But that did not effect our friendship. That what makes Barbara a good friend. She is that to many here she will always be Mom of ch.com

Eric, I have only had the pleasure of meeting him one time. I was a a OUCH convention and sitting at the bar, just chilling. Eric joined me and we got to talking. Boy that man loves his family he talked a lot about them, that impressed me. I didn't realize I drink so much till I got off the bar stool. We joined the others by the pool. Eric had me laughing so hard. We have a private joke between us about Captain Kangaroo. That joke was so funny I knew I was drunk and had to leave and go to my room. Shame on you Eric. I look for his post and love the level headed post he does. His post are what I enjoyed so much and what made me want to talk to him. I am glad to say he is my friend.

Todd V  This guy is no longer on ch.com and I no longer hear from him. I can honestly say he saved my life. He was there when life was really dark. He made me look hard at myself and see what I wanted in life. He pushed me till I did what was right. For that I will always be grateful. I am glad he was my friend.

OK....my turn  :)

I miss MOB,  my English friend. We were buddies way back when.  MOB was always a great source of information and a fun fellow too.  We spent hours visiting, back in the day, when so many people hung out in Elaine's HSG chat.  MOB was a good sport.  When I named him "MOBster" he didn't mind at all.  Yes,  I really miss him... :'(

Now, for Mr. Bob Johnson.  He's a great source of information and support.  If you need a link, data or articles on CH or any other medical condition, Bob is the man.  Thank you Bob for the wealth of information you are always so ready and able to provide.  You're invaluable to us.

Much Love,
Jackie

My Dear Friend Jackie, Jackie taught me a lot about who I want to be. She has supported me and my family over the last nine years. She knows what friendship really is. What I like most is with Jackie, she is a friend that doesn't Judge. She likes you for who you are. Now if anyone could black mail me Jackie could.   I needed to cry she was there for me. I remember breaking down at her mothers kitchen table over the lost of my grandchild. Jackie just held me. Jackie was with me through the birth of JD through my fears when Deveny had him, Deveny had a hard time giving birth to him.. She was with me when my 2nd grandchild died. She sure was with me when my dad died. When my son in law was killed in Iraq, and when we needed to get his ashes to his Mom, she drove a hour to meet my daughter, pick up his ashes take them home with her and keep them all week end. Then she had her day at work interrupted  by  his army Buddies who picked him up and delivered him to his Mom and Dad. Jackie helped me get meds for JD when I didn't have the money. Jackie not only is here for me and my family during the hard times, she is here for us through the good times. She sometimes get more excited than me when good things happen to me and my family. When something happens to me good or bad, Jackie is the first person I call.
Jackie will tell me in a heart beat if she thinks I am wrong about something. I have been wrong. I love her for it.  This is just a small part of Jackie, words can never tell her or any of you what she means to me. I could never tell you in words how wonderful she is
I couldn't think of my world with out her and Blake in it. They are more like my family then friends.
I hope I have been as good a friend to her as she has to me. I could never in a million years repay her for all she has done for me and my family. I could right a book on Jackies kindness. Its not just to me she is that way to all her friends. Being around Jackie is fun, you can be you around her. Jackie and I will be friends for life here on earth and I believe we will find our way to each other on the other side some day. I think she is more than a life time friend, she is a friend forever.
Jackie I love you Lady.

Blake, Jackie husbands is just as wonderful. Blake is like my husband he doesn't post here much. But he is at the conventions and gatherings. Blake is just as wonderful and just as sweet as Jackie. My husband and I love both of them so much. They are apart of our family. Just wish they lived closer by. Buddy is ready for another game of pool Blake!

Love you two.

Gosh - there are loads including those already mentioned and lots of MIA's.

DJ for this place and his constant good sense and perspective

Ueli, Un_solved, pinkfloyd Bob, and both other Bobs, Don and Floridian for great info and explaining technical stuff in simple language so I could get my head around it.
Opus for sorting out computershit and being a nice man!

oneyeblind, kim, nancyc, cathy and cootie- nutty as squirrel shit and couldn't understand cootiespeak half the time but ALWAYS made me smile. Some of us met in London and they were even madder in person!

People who always offered support over the many years when I was in trouble: LOTS of them but include - Margi, Elaine, Edna, Fu, LindaH, Jackie, Thomas, Clusterchuck, Aussiebrian, debOUCH, Vig, E-Double, Tiannia, nani,Lizzie2, Roxy, Catlind, Peppermint, Zaira and Riccardo,

Shall stop now and save some more for another day!

W the B

This is a BUMP!
I have seen people lurking of late.....people we have missed here.....and, for what it's worth, I'd like to see their posts once again........maybe they will see this!



meanwhile, in the MIA file would be Tiannia! She moved to Oregon, I think is in Eugene.soo close! We need a meet n greet!


Anywhooo.......the Advent continues......

Cathi

Brew and Midwestbeth.... I miss them both.  I got to have dinner with Beth... I felt like we had been friends forever.  We have been keeping in touch but I still miss her on the boards.  And Brew... he tells is like it is.   No coddling ... I need that from time to time.  His Wench is pretty nice too! LOL!

There really isn't anyone here that doesn't inspire me in some way.   Though I am still pretty new... I love you all.

Thank you for putting up with my "moods".

Jeannie

Cathi_Pierce wrote on Dec 11^th, 2008 at 1:53pm:

Anywhooo.......the Advent continues...... Cathi

I was wondering if it was or if it's been jettisoned due to indigestion.  It was posta be the December countdown til Christmas with posts every day.  
Looks like it petered out by the 3rd.

Bill Mitchell is one here who I truly like.  He's not gone but he IS missed.

Besides the fact that he is funny as hell...has so much insight to add to the condition of ours..I respect this man, so much.  I admire his intelligent responses around here, his take no BS, that fact that he donated his time and that of his group to pay at the convention in Milwaukee, He is talented as well as one of the most  thought=provoking people around here.  

He is an inspiration as to what a "MARRIAGE" really is,  with some of his stories and Pats....I am envious.  I am also hopeful that he will grace us with his presence again soon.  


Pat, his wife  is just as important to me, but I needed to say this about Brew because he hasn't been here in a while.  

Well, like, where is "da witch" who started this?????????????????? probably BUSY.............hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

I have only been a member since March 2008, a mere 9 months..............but if i had not found this site, i do not know where i would be.............

There r so many people that come to mind............but then again it's been 9 mths and my memory isn't working well..(plus i WAS KINDA DELIRIOUS!)....................PLS DO NOT FEEL BAD IF I LEFT U OUT....................................NEXT POST I MAY GET "MY MIND RIGHT"
WOMEN:

Helen aka LeLimey aka "witch" my first pm...........................made me feel like a "true fam"member

"pubgirl", "redd", polly pocket,mel ...........sista girls........................

MEN[u][/u]

"potter' & brew  who "put me in my place"........in a good way................
giusseppi.............................the first 'bro" (that i neva had! who steered me in the right direction.............
"charlie"................so sweet.............................

MISS.

Superdave............................where r u?
E-Double????????? another one of my first PM's

I am thankful for all on here........................this place is a "good thing"..

debs
xo

Linda_Howell wrote on Dec 11^th, 2008 at 9:24pm:

Bill Mitchell is one here who I truly like.  He's not gone but he IS missed. Besides the fact that he is funny as hell...has so much insight to add to the condition of ours..I respect this man, so much.  I admire his intelligent responses around here, his take no BS, that fact that he donated his time and that of his group to pay at the convention in Milwaukee, He is talented as well as one of the most  thought=provoking people around here.   He is an inspiration as to what a "MARRIAGE" really is,  with some of his stories and Pats....I am envious.  I am also hopeful that he will grace us with his presence again soon.   Pat, his wife  is just as important to me, but I needed to say this about Brew because he hasn't been here in a while.

Wow Linda - thanks! [smiley=blush.gif]

I hadn't opened this thread before tonight.  Wow.

I miss E-Double and I need a Hannah-fix something fierce!  He kept walking around a Richmond  pharmacy telling JrBrew that we (his parents) are "like normal people - they're not ax murderers or anything."  I think Eric was a little freaked out driving out for supplies with a family he just met that day . . . . but everything turned out ok.

I also miss Rorie (lionsound).  I know she has a lot on her plate and a long row to hoe, but I've never met a more genuinely happy person in my life. Any day was sunny when she smiled.

Lovely concept for a thread.  I like it a lot!

Ok - one more.

Ruthie - Jimi's Ruthie.

She is the most gracious supporter and friend anyone could ever hope for.

She invites you into her home and treats you like royalty - even if you're a YANKEE!

Jimi's got a great wife - and he knows it!!

Though this feels heavy it also feels right: I miss greatly Jeff Hall, a fellow sufferer and friend who voluntarily departed under the strain. Jeff and his wife stayed across the street from me and when he feeling well we shared plenty of laughs, commiserated on our rotten CH experience, and always made me feel better about my chess game.

He had a quick wit and hearty laugh.

I understand why you left Jeff but it doesn't mean I can't be pissed to be robbed of your company henceforth, old friend.  

notseinfeld wrote on Dec 14^th, 2008 at 2:52am:

Though this feels heavy it also feels right: I miss greatly Jeff Hall, a fellow sufferer and friend who voluntarily departed under the strain. Jeff and his wife stayed across the street from me and when he feeling well we shared plenty of laughs, commiserated on our rotten CH experience, and always made me feel better about my chess game. He had a quick wit and hearty laugh. I understand why you left Jeff but it doesn't mean I can't be pissed to be robbed of your company henceforth, old friend.

This thread really warms my heart, and David that was one of the best posts I will probably ever read… My brother left us of his own free will almost 9 years ago and I will struggle to accept it till the day I leave too. My emotions are starting to get to my eyes so I will finish by saying that the love and compassion I have found on this site has meant more to my wellbeing than I may ever realize.

LYA, Roland. :'(