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Message started by midwestbeth on Feb 18th, 2009 at 1:21am

Title: Sad night :(
Post by midwestbeth on Feb 18th, 2009 at 1:21am
Zorro is gone  :'( :'( :'(

It was time.....I do not think he would have made it through the night and we did not want him to suffer.  

Beth  :'( :'( :'(

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Post by Racer1_NC on Feb 18th, 2009 at 1:25am
:'(

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Post by George on Feb 18th, 2009 at 1:28am
I'm sorry, Beth.  Poor guy.   :'(

Best wishes,

George

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Post by Callico on Feb 18th, 2009 at 1:37am
Sorry!

jc

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Post by Artonio on Feb 18th, 2009 at 1:44am
:'(

So very sorry for your loss Beth


with warm regards,
Tony

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Post by ClusterChuck on Feb 18th, 2009 at 1:44am
SO sorry, Beth!

You did everything that you could for him.

Chuck

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Post by Linda_Howell on Feb 18th, 2009 at 1:58am
Oh Beth...I am so sorry.

In all my life, I have only had one dog.  I had her for 11 yrs. till she was picked up by a group of laboratories in the area getting 50 bucks each for dogs...15 dogs in my neighborhood were stolen the same day...I will NEVER ever  get a pet and go through that heart-break again.

I know you have no interest in other peoples stories right now but this helped me through my grieving over my "cleo"


    Although shorter-lived than humans, dogs or cats can live from 10-20 years while others such as tortoises or parrots and macaws can live well over 50 years! These are sentient beings who require love, interaction, exercise, proper nutrition, veterinary care and grooming.  They require our time, attention and affection. In return, they provide us with an opportunity to provide loving care for one vulnerable and dependent upon us.  Many of them need to be obedience trained and socialized. They repay our efforts with undying love and devotion.

When we adopt a pet, we make a commitment to care for him for the rest of his life. Our pets provide us with unconditional love and acceptance and are true and loyal friends, teachers, guides, healers and confidants. They offer us a safe haven and the opportunity to be who we genuinely and truly are without façade or pretense or affectation.  They allow us to lower our guard and to display emotions and share feelings we might not feel comfortable sharing with another human being.

Our animal companions provide us with physical as well as emotional and spiritual benefits.  They are a link with Nature and the natural world and elevate our spirits.  They lower blood pressure and improve our heart rate.  They decrease worry, fear, stress loneliness, anxiety and depression.  Simply petting an animal companion has a calming, soothing effect. In addition, our pets afford us the opportunity to nurture and provide care for a loved one.

They teach us spontaneity and to “live in the moment” rather than in the past or future.  Their presence not only improves our physical and emotional health but it even increases our longevity.  

Through our animal companions, we learn much about ourselves  - of life and death and of mortality and immortality. We observe our pets as they grow from infancy to childhood to adolescence, adulthood, maturity and old age.  We note the many illnesses and infirmities they experience as they age – so many similar to those we face ourselves.  Ultimately, our beloved animal companions confront the inevitable – death – whether by accident, illness, euthanasia or natural causes. Euthanasia is a very difficult and complex issue – perhaps one of the most heartrending and difficult we will ever make.

  :'( :'(


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Post by purpleydog on Feb 18th, 2009 at 2:08am
Beth, I am so sorry about Zorro. He was a loved member of your family and you cared very much for him.

All dogs go to heaven. He is running with his buddy chasing rabbits, having a good time, and he's smiling. He loved you too, Beth.  [smiley=hug.gif]

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Post by notseinfeld on Feb 18th, 2009 at 4:15am
This is tragic. I don't think I'd even be able to turn on the PC when it's time for the baby Scoots to go. My heart hurts for you and I hope you have some local, strong shoulder support there.

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Post by Jackie on Feb 18th, 2009 at 4:56am
I'm so sorry Beth.  They become such a big part of our lives.  It's hard to let them go even when they need to.  Zorro was a good pooch and you were a good Mom.....you were both lucky to have had it other.

Rocky and a bunch of other cluster pets are taking good care of Zorro.....they are having a big time.

Much Love,
Jackie

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Post by Grandma_Sweet_Boy on Feb 18th, 2009 at 5:47am
The Rainbow Bridge


Just this side of heaven is a place called Rainbow Bridge.
When an animal dies that has been especially close to someone here, that pet
goes to Rainbow Bridge. There are meadows and hills for all of our special
friends so they can run and play together. There is plenty of food, water
and sunshine, and our friends are warm and comfortable.
All the animals that had been ill and old are restored to health and vigor.
Those who were hurt or maimed are made whole and strong again, just as we
remember them in our dreams of days and times gone by. The animals are happy
and content, except for one small thing; they each miss someone very special
to them, who had to be left behind.
They all run and play together, but the day comes when one suddenly stops
and looks into the distance. His bright eyes are intent. His eager body
quivers. Suddenly he begins to run from the group, flying over the green
grass, his legs carrying him faster and faster.
You have been spotted, and when you and your special friend finally meet,
you cling together in joyous reunion, never to be parted again. The happy
kisses rain upon your face; your hands again caress the beloved head, and
you look once more into the trusting eyes of your pet, so long gone from
your life but never absent from your heart.
Then you cross Rainbow Bridge together....


Hugs
Carol

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Post by PollyPocket on Feb 18th, 2009 at 6:04am
I'm so sorry Beth. I know how much that hurts   :'( :'(

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Post by Brew on Feb 18th, 2009 at 6:05am
Beth,

You trusted him to be your friend, and in the end he trusted you to do what he could not. You're both better for having had each other in your lives. I'm so sorry for both your losses.

Bill

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Post by Langa on Feb 18th, 2009 at 6:19am
i'm sorry Beth....sending many hugs.

Langa

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Post by barry_sword on Feb 18th, 2009 at 6:22am
So very sorry Beth, RIP Zorro. :'(

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Post by Melissa on Feb 18th, 2009 at 6:51am
Oh no Beth, I am so sorry!!!

Prayers with you today hon. :'(

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Post by ANNSIE on Feb 18th, 2009 at 7:15am

I am so sorry for your loss Beth !

Sending lots of love and stronge healing vibes.

Zorro had a great life with you. He was well loved and you did everything you could and then some for him. He was a lucky dog.

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Post by deltadarlin on Feb 18th, 2009 at 8:11am
I am so sorry, the wisest decisions are the hardest ones.

Carolyn

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Post by Mosaicwench on Feb 18th, 2009 at 8:15am
Aw, Beth . . . .

Our condolences to you and your family.  Tears shed for all.

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Post by Ray on Feb 18th, 2009 at 9:06am
Beth:

I'm sorry about this news.  There's just no words to express it!

Rau

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Post by The Mad Viking on Feb 18th, 2009 at 9:11am
So very sorry for your loss Beth

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Post by catlind on Feb 18th, 2009 at 9:21am
Awww Beth, there are no words.  Your devastation must be terrible.  He will be waiting for you with his other friends when the time comes to reunite with you again.

I'm so very sorry and so very saddened by your loss.  :'( :'( :'( :'(

Cat

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Post by Blue_eyes on Feb 18th, 2009 at 9:25am
Beth, i am so sorry for your loss.

Marty

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Post by Jeannie on Feb 18th, 2009 at 9:39am
I'm so sorry, Beth.   You did the right thing for Zorro during his healthy days and in the end.  He knows he was loved.

Love,

Jeannie

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Post by Iddy on Feb 18th, 2009 at 9:44am
Sorry Beth :'(  :'( So sad

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Post by midwestbeth on Feb 18th, 2009 at 10:39am
My screen seems to be blury right now...... :'(

Thank you so much for the posts and pm's.  I know Zorro is no longer suffering.  The girls went with me.......it was not an easy thing to experience.  I was so proud of how they handled themselves through their tears.  When it came to our dogs, I never had to ask any of my kids twice to do something for them.  The dogs were part of our family.  I brought Zorro back home and John buried him next to Skipper out by the barn this morning.  

This is the first time in my life I have not had a dog.  The County Humane Society is nearby, I know I will be getting another dog or two when the time is right.  I cannot imagine life without a furry companion.  

Beth

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Post by Tim_w on Feb 18th, 2009 at 11:25am
Beth So Sorry to here :'(

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Post by QnHeartMM on Feb 18th, 2009 at 11:39am
Beth - sorry to hear.

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Post by debOUCH on Feb 18th, 2009 at 11:43am
So sorry Beth.......................


debs

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Post by DennisM1045 on Feb 18th, 2009 at 12:16pm

Brew wrote on Feb 18th, 2009 at 6:05am:
Beth,

You trusted him to be your friend, and in the end he trusted you to do what he could not. You're both better for having had each other in your lives. I'm so sorry for both your losses.

Bill

What Bill said.  I'm so sorry...  :'(

-Dennis-

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Post by sandie99 on Feb 18th, 2009 at 1:17pm
Beth,

I'm so very sorry for your loss... :'(
Losing a dear pet is always terrible. My condolences.

Sanna

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Post by mummymac on Feb 18th, 2009 at 3:40pm
Beth I am so sorry  :'(

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Post by Jonny on Feb 18th, 2009 at 4:54pm
So sorry, Beth!!!  :'(

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Post by Mrs Deej on Feb 18th, 2009 at 5:02pm
Beth,

I'm so sorry for your loss...we had to do just the same about a month ago to our cat...it sucks.  

Keeping you all in our prayers...

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Post by Charlie on Feb 18th, 2009 at 8:46pm
I just caught up with this......now I hate that I did.

So sorry. They do more than get under our skin.

Charlie

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Post by sheep2blue on Feb 18th, 2009 at 10:06pm
Beth, I'm so sorry.  I can't imagine life without dogs either.  You'll know when the time is right.  What a lucky dog that will be!
T

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Post by kevmd on Feb 18th, 2009 at 10:39pm
I'm very sorry for your loss

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Post by HappyElaine on Feb 19th, 2009 at 11:49am
Glad to hear you are going to rescue another dog. I am so sorry for you and your family's pain. They are a member of our family and such a big part too. :'(

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Post by Garys_Girl on Feb 19th, 2009 at 3:19pm
Beth, the oldest kitty Gary and I have is seven years this year.  We've never yet had to face making that decision, and I cannot imagine how difficult it must be.  My heart is breaking for you and your family right now.

I'm sure it helps to know it was the right decision - but it doesn't stop the pain or the hole it leaves in your heart.   [smiley=hug.gif]

Play happily over the bridge Zorro!  

I know Zorro's doing what he can to send you comfort and love.   [smiley=heart.gif]

Laurie

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Post by cash5542 on Feb 20th, 2009 at 9:16pm
I have been having computer issues and couldn't post all week! I am so sorry to hear that Zorro wasn't able to heal but he is comfortable now. You made the right decision, as hard as it may have been. We did this two years ago and I had the same empyt feelings. Within 4 weeks we had a new puppy. Everyone grieves differently but for me it helped with the healing process. I am so sorry for your pain and loss and hope in the coming days the wonderful memories can help you feel better.

Charlotte

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Post by flipperlips on Feb 20th, 2009 at 10:51pm
Beth I am so sorry to hear of your loss.  My condolences to you and yours.

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