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Message started by kevmd on Feb 22nd, 2009 at 10:11pm

Title: anxiety anyone?
Post by kevmd on Feb 22nd, 2009 at 10:11pm
I don't know what is happening to me lately. I am usually a very outgoing person could sit down and have a conversation with anyone.  I am starting to fear certain situations.  I now hate being the center of attention for even a short period of time.  WTF!!!!  I feel like I am hyperventilating.  I have a pretty big meeting this friday.  I hope I can fight through this shit.

I am thinking of taking the easy way and getting medicated.  Any one deal with something similar?  Advice?  

Changes in my life recently are less medication for CH, stress from health situations, and quitting smoking.  

Title: Re: anxiety anyone?
Post by George on Feb 22nd, 2009 at 10:17pm
A great many people apparently use beta-blockers to reduce performance anxiety, including musicians, actors, etc.  Unlike traditional mood-affecting drugs, beta-blockers regularize blood pressure, reducing the physical effects that stress produces.  

No opinion on it, and no personal experience, but it may be worth looking into.  Obviously, they would have to be prescribed.

Best,

George

Title: Re: anxiety anyone?
Post by monty on Feb 22nd, 2009 at 10:19pm
I used to get panic attacks and anxiety ... the panic attacks (siezures) are under control, but still have anxiety issues at times.

Non-chemical ways of dealing with it:
Exercise
Meditation
Sleep Hygeine
Cognitive-behavioral therapy
Diet (for me, too many carbs, and too much fructose specifically) make things worse. I think insulin tolerance or some other metabolic factor plays into it.

Herbs:
Scutellaria, Passionflower - relatively effective, but not too sedating. Lemon balm - good if taken daily, not quick acting. Rhodiola - preliminary results are good, but not 100% sure about this one. I haven't found chamomile to be any good for me.

Pharmaceuticals:
Klonipin or xanax - only when things get really bad. I usually get one script a year, and make it last. Can quickly bring anxiety down, but also make me seem slow and doped out to people that know me if I take too much.


Title: Re: anxiety anyone?
Post by Linda_Howell on Feb 22nd, 2009 at 10:24pm
Panic attack or anxiety disorder is what it sounds like to me judging by the many folks around here's description of what they go through.   Hopefully they will chime in.  

Kev...we are here to help in any way we can even if it's just to listen.  This is about all of us helping one another in all aspects of our lives.. remember that, O.K.?

Breathe deeply. :-*

Title: Re: anxiety anyone?
Post by Karla on Feb 22nd, 2009 at 10:27pm
sounds like anxiety issues to me.  I tried a bunch of meds from antidepressants which can fight anxiety in low doses to xanix.  Xanix and ativan are the only two that work for me.  Every one is different and you will just have to go by trial and error with you dr.  I tried the cognative behavior therapy and it helped some but not alot.  So I am left taking medicine which makes me sleepy as all get out when I take it.  Good luck and I will be praying for you to get through this.  

Title: Re: anxiety anyone?
Post by kevmd on Feb 22nd, 2009 at 10:47pm
I did read about the beta blockers.  As some of you know, I am no longer taking verap.  My body has changed chemically alot over the last couple months.  And I know I do not get enough sleep, no more than 6 hours a night.  This seems to be getting worse lately.  

Its worse when someone asks me a question about myself.  I have a real hard time responding.   I think alot of this has to do with quitting smoking.  Sometimes, it feels like nicotine withdrawl but I am not certain.  I won't let this fester long.  My job depends on me being the way I normally am.  Thanks for the support

Title: Re: anxiety anyone?
Post by ANNSIE on Feb 22nd, 2009 at 11:20pm

Anxiety is the end result of what your mind perceives to be unsurmountable danger. It is caused by fear. Anxiety is nothing but an emotion created by thoughts in your mind. Often it is only experienced in passing then the reasoning mind regains control.

The difficulty comes when it is allowed to take a life of its own such that the body starts to respond to those thoughts by producing and releasing hormones and chemicals, which in turn cause physical reactions such as increased heart rate, breathing rate, muscle tension, sweating and so on.

The physical reactions will then reinforce those fearful thoughts causing an endless vicious cycle, completely locking you into the terrible realm of a panic attack. By then the reasoning mind ( the cerebrals ) have lost total control.

Anxiety peaks when it is unknown fear. Ironically, most unknown fear is also unfound fear. Your mind imagines something terrible that is going to happen in the future. Since it is unknown, unreal , imagined ... the brain can not figure out how to deal with it. Fearful thoughts start to form and anxiety starts to build.

We are all much more fearful of the unknown than of the known. No matter how terrible the danger is, once we know what it is, the brain then can focus on how to deal with the danger in a practical way instead of focussing on the fear itself. Have you ever noticed when watching a horror movie, we feel the most fear when the monster is lurking but cant be seen ? Quite often, when the monster finally shows itself, we actually feel a sense of relief.

The best way to deal with anxiety is to shift the focus from the unknown fear to how the body is reacting. The minute you recognise your heart pounding and your breathing heavy, focus totally on relaxing the physical body. Go completely inwards instead of outwards. Deep breathing meditation, conscious muscles relaxation, mind distraction,etc work well here.

The worst way to deal with anxiety is to use medication or any type of chemicals. Doing so and you are telling your brain that you have absolutely no control over your mind and body, and that you need something else outside of you to do it for you. Repeating the process a few times and your brain learns to become dependent on the substance, the first step towards addiction. Medication can work very well to calm the mind and the body, in the short term. In the long term, it makes it worse. When you dont have access to the medication, the fear and the anxiety will double, because now it has to deal with an extra fear : the fear that you have absolutely no control at all and the one thing that can help you is not available. That is actually worse than whatever it is you fear in the first place.

People who need medication do so because they seek help too late. They do not know how to deal with fear and anxiety but they try to by themselves when things first start to go wrong. They put up with it, put up with it, try various but ineffective methods ... for as long as they could. Usually by the time they seek professional help, their anxiety has already reached the uncontrollable stage that the doctor has no other choice but give them a prescription.

Anxiety can be overcome by :

1- Awareness 1: be aware that anxiety does not kill you, it is nothing but a thought in your mind and it can be controlled.
2- Awareness 2: be aware that the symptoms of anxiety ( such as heart palpitation, hyperventilation ) do not kill you, wont make you faint and wont cause you to totally loose control, they can be stopped or reduced by refocussing and by relaxation techniques.
3- Meditation : Meditation doesnt mean you have to be calm enough to sit cross legged and be quiet. Meditation can be in the way that you consciously slow down your breathing, close your eyes and take deeper breaths, distract yourself with a cold drink or cold water on your face, taking a walk or even start singing ...
4- Self analysing : When the wave of anxiety passes, go over the whole scenery to analyse what triggered it, how did you respond, what helped and what did not help ie psychotherapy yourself.
5- Work through the worst scenario: go past the imagined scene of fear and see for yourself what is really the worst worst thing that can happen to you, work through it, devise an action plan. Once your brain learns that it can deal with even the worst scenario, it wont feel so much fear anymore.
6- Practice: practice every day starting with the little things that you find scary or stressful. Role play as often as you can. Make it as real as you can. Practice in front of a mirror and see how well you do it.

Only when all the above fail, that you should consider taking any medication or chemical for the anxiety. Even then, go back and try the steps once more.

Shoot me a PM and we can talk more specifically about your particular case if you wish. You do not have to live with anxiety.



Title: Re: anxiety anyone?
Post by Artonio on Feb 23rd, 2009 at 12:22am
what Annette said...

+ take deep soothing breaths and think good thoughts. Baby steps will do it.

+ plus picture everyone in the room naked.

if that don't work picture chuck in a thong


You can and will get over this.

with warm regards,
Tony



Title: Re: anxiety anyone?
Post by Charlie on Feb 23rd, 2009 at 12:41am
Getting out as often as possible and doing something a little physical is what worked for me.

Getting old now and it takes more to get me down.

Charlie

Title: Re: anxiety anyone?
Post by purpleydog on Feb 23rd, 2009 at 1:02am
Kev, can you take melatonin at night? It will help you sleep, and may be feel more relaxed during the day. Stay away from the caffeine, and if you absolutely don't think you can get through the meeting, call your doc, and ask for a few anti-anxiety pills. You only need a couple, and try taking half of one a day or two before the meeting, so you know what to expect.

While the suggestions for deep breathing and other things are well and good, it takes time to use the different techniques and for them to become effective. Using a xanax, or klonopin (clonazepam) to get you through your meeting may be a better option.  Or, if you can, go for a fast walk before your meeting, so you have worked off some energy. It will calm you and help you to think clearly.

Good luck.

Title: Re: anxiety anyone?
Post by icedragon on Feb 23rd, 2009 at 2:07am

wrote on Feb 22nd, 2009 at 11:20pm:
Anxiety is the end result of what your mind perceives to be unsurmountable danger. It is caused by fear. Anxiety is nothing but an emotion created by thoughts in your mind. Often it is only experienced in passing then the reasoning mind regains control.

The difficulty comes when it is allowed to take a life of its own such that the body starts to respond to those thoughts by producing and releasing hormones and chemicals, which in turn cause physical reactions such as increased heart rate, breathing rate, muscle tension, sweating and so on.

The physical reactions will then reinforce those fearful thoughts causing an endless vicious cycle, completely locking you into the terrible realm of a panic attack. By then the reasoning mind ( the cerebrals ) have lost total control.

Anxiety peaks when it is unknown fear. Ironically, most unknown fear is also unfound fear. Your mind imagines something terrible that is going to happen in the future. Since it is unknown, unreal , imagined ... the brain can not figure out how to deal with it. Fearful thoughts start to form and anxiety starts to build.

We are all much more fearful of the unknown than of the known. No matter how terrible the danger is, once we know what it is, the brain then can focus on how to deal with the danger in a practical way instead of focussing on the fear itself. Have you ever noticed when watching a horror movie, we feel the most fear when the monster is lurking but cant be seen ? Quite often, when the monster finally shows itself, we actually feel a sense of relief.

The best way to deal with anxiety is to shift the focus from the unknown fear to how the body is reacting. The minute you recognise your heart pounding and your breathing heavy, focus totally on relaxing the physical body. Go completely inwards instead of outwards. Deep breathing meditation, conscious muscles relaxation, mind distraction,etc work well here.

The worst way to deal with anxiety is to use medication or any type of chemicals. Doing so and you are telling your brain that you have absolutely no control over your mind and body, and that you need something else outside of you to do it for you. Repeating the process a few times and your brain learns to become dependent on the substance, the first step towards addiction. Medication can work very well to calm the mind and the body, in the short term. In the long term, it makes it worse. When you dont have access to the medication, the fear and the anxiety will double, because now it has to deal with an extra fear : the fear that you have absolutely no control at all and the one thing that can help you is not available. That is actually worse than whatever it is you fear in the first place.

People who need medication do so because they seek help too late. They do not know how to deal with fear and anxiety but they try to by themselves when things first start to go wrong. They put up with it, put up with it, try various but ineffective methods ... for as long as they could. Usually by the time they seek professional help, their anxiety has already reached the uncontrollable stage that the doctor has no other choice but give them a prescription.

Anxiety can be overcome by :

1- Awareness 1: be aware that anxiety does not kill you, it is nothing but a thought in your mind and it can be controlled.
2- Awareness 2: be aware that the symptoms of anxiety ( such as heart palpitation, hyperventilation ) do not kill you, wont make you faint and wont cause you to totally loose control, they can be stopped or reduced by refocussing and by relaxation techniques.
3- Meditation : Meditation doesnt mean you have to be calm enough to sit cross legged and be quiet. Meditation can be in the way that you consciously slow down your breathing, close your eyes and take deeper breaths, distract yourself with a cold drink or cold water on your face, taking a walk or even start singing ...
4- Self analysing : When the wave of anxiety passes, go over the whole scenery to analyse what triggered it, how did you respond, what helped and what did not help ie psychotherapy yourself.
5- Work through the worst scenario: go past the imagined scene of fear and see for yourself what is really the worst worst thing that can happen to you, work through it, devise an action plan. Once your brain learns that it can deal with even the worst scenario, it wont feel so much fear anymore.
6- Practice: practice every day starting with the little things that you find scary or stressful. Role play as often as you can. Make it as real as you can. Practice in front of a mirror and see how well you do it.

Only when all the above fail, that you should consider taking any medication or chemical for the anxiety. Even then, go back and try the steps once more.

Shoot me a PM and we can talk more specifically about your particular case if you wish. You do not have to live with anxiety.


I am sorry, but this is pure quackery.  Did you come up with this on your own or are you borrowing this from someone else?  Regardless, you would be wrong in leading people to believe that anxiety or an anxiety disorder is something that should not be treated with medication 'across the board.'  There are too many different types of anxiety causing situations/ailments to make such a bold and arrogant statement. Albeit, there might be actual scenarios that a person could benefit from some of what you suggest, but you describe like a cure all; in which, I believe to be an erroneous action on your part.  If we were to buy into your "control your mind" mumbo jumbo, should we also believe that we should not need medication to treat our CH hits...

I have to wonder if you even suffer from CH...

Thomas

Title: Re: anxiety anyone?
Post by Karla on Feb 23rd, 2009 at 6:57am
Thomas, I suffer from anxiety and panic attacks and what Annsie stated is fact and clinical.  My dr tried to take me that route.  As I stated I got some relief from it but just not enough.  So I needed the meds.  Ansie knows what she is talking about dont be so quick to judge.  What does anxiety have to do with ch?  That was pretty harsh statement judging wether she has ch or not.  

Title: Re: anxiety anyone?
Post by Kevin_M on Feb 23rd, 2009 at 7:00am
I have read differently of the subject.  Rollo May's doctoral dissertation, The Meaning of Anxiety, viably important, receiving the first PhD in clinical pyschology Columbia University ever awarded.  The book has a revised edition in 1996.  Excellent writer, Of Love and Will and especially The Courage to Create influencial.

Title: Re: anxiety anyone?
Post by seasonalboomer on Feb 23rd, 2009 at 7:03am
There's good reason why at a Catholic Mass the priest will complete the part of the Lord's Prayer, "“Deliver us from every evil ... and protect us from all anxiety.”

When I was suffering from overwhelming anxiety I found this passage to be a gateway for some peace for me. It told me that anxiety is universal and I am not somehow failing if, at times, I struggled with managing the anxieties I felt.

Therapist was a good help too. Hang in there Kev.

Title: Re: anxiety anyone?
Post by Marc on Feb 23rd, 2009 at 7:10am
Thomas,

I think that the write up by Annsie is excellent.

The point was made that medications are required once the emotions are out of control. Most of what was written is a series of approaches for keeping the negative emotions from getting to the level requiring medication.

While some feel that medications are the immediate answer to everything, there are times when it can be avoided.  That obviously doesn’t mean everyone, every time - and I didn’t see any claims about CH’s in there………

Marc

Title: Re: anxiety anyone?
Post by Melissa on Feb 23rd, 2009 at 7:15am
An old, but wonderful book that has helped me tremendously is called "Hope and Help for your Nerves" by Dr. Claire Weeks.  

I also take Taurine (1 850mg pill each night before bed), which was surprisingly helpful in almost eliminating my anxiety.  It took a little less than a week for it to have an effect.

I've tried Passionflower also and that too works for me.

I found that educating myself as much as possible on how anxiety works and have gained tools from the above book to learn how to cope.

Also, this quote from Eckert Tolle: "Life isn't as serious as my mind makes it out to be." ;)

Hang in there Kev, it's going to be alright.

Title: Re: anxiety anyone?
Post by Brew on Feb 23rd, 2009 at 7:25am
So, Thomas, you're calling a medical doctor a quack? Sounds like a violation of the code of conduct to me.

And no, she's not a sufferer - she's a supporter.

Get your ducks in a row before you pull out the big guns.

Title: Re: anxiety anyone?
Post by Kevin_M on Feb 23rd, 2009 at 7:27am

Melissa wrote on Feb 23rd, 2009 at 7:15am:
I found that educating myself as much as possible on how anxiety works and have gained tools from the above book to learn how to cope.


I believe understanding what it is to be important, too.    :)

Title: Re: anxiety anyone?
Post by deltadarlin on Feb 23rd, 2009 at 8:21am
Actually, sometimes the reverse treatment is needed (and this depends on how quickly the attacks need to be controlled).  Control the anxiety/panic attacks first and then work on the reasons behind them and work toward finding a way to work through the situation.

Inderal is an old standby for panic/anxiety attacks.  BUT, it can leave you feeling really lethargic if the dosages aren't tweaked and monitered carefully (although it will not make you sleepy).

It's extremely difficult to control the physical reactions when you don't know what's causing them.  That can take time and quite a bit of work on your part.

Title: Re: anxiety anyone?
Post by Kevin_M on Feb 23rd, 2009 at 8:21am
I cannot argue with Brew's point, Thomas.  Discounting in that fashion with Annette's supporting attempts to be of assistance isn't objectoinably suited to remarks.

Title: Re: anxiety anyone?
Post by PollyPocket on Feb 23rd, 2009 at 8:32am
while its all well and good to practice breathing exercises and tell myself that its "all in my head",  when I wake at 3 am with a full-on panic attack,  no amount of looking inward is going to help at that point.

I've always (and still do) respect your opinions and advise Annsie, but this time I disagree.

Months and months of anxiety built up and as much as I tried to calm down, things just got worse.  I am GRATEFUL for the lorazepam the doc put me on for the attacks.  Do I look to them as my sole solution?  No.  Do I take them at each attack?  No.   But I sure as hell am glad that I have something to help when everything in me is completely out of control and I can't stop shaking, my heart feels like its flying around inside my chest, I can't breath, sweating, and I'm stuck somewhere between vomitting and screaming.

That pill is NOT the worst way for me to handle it. The worst way would be to jump off a building- and yeah, I really did think of doing that.

Title: Re: anxiety anyone?
Post by ANNSIE on Feb 23rd, 2009 at 8:53am

I feel I need to clarify a bit here. What I wrote above was in respond to the OP made by Kev.

According to what Kev said, he is not normally an anxious person, he had not experienced anxiety and/or panic attack before. What he is feeling is something new to him. The symptoms tell us that its anxiety, building up to ( but not yet as ) a panic attack.

The major trigger for Kev is being the centre of attention ( a form of social phobia ) therefore the anticipation of the upcoming meeting is causing him to experience the feelings of anxiety.

Since he has not developed full blown anxiety disorder, and the major trigger is several days away, there may be enough time for him to learn and practice various techniques to help reducing the symptoms and hopefully able to deal with it without having to take medication. Its definitely worth a try.

I did say that should the techniques fail, he can then take medication, bearing in mind that it should only be short term, and that it helps to  still keep practising the techniques anyway.

For people who have suffered anxiety and panic attack for a long time, and been actually diagnosed as having a medical condition, the treatment has to be both medication ( when appropriate ) and cognitive therapy. Often they would have had the condition for many years, sometimes from a young age. Its too hard to use relaxation techniques alone.

The two scenarios are different and the approach should be different.

If a patient who only recently develops some symptoms of anxiety sees a doctor for help and that doctor immediately whips out his/her prescription pad and prescribes xanax or klonopin, as the first or only treatment, without at least trying to explain what anxiety is and how to deal with it the natural ways, that doc is indeed a quack.

Title: Re: anxiety anyone?
Post by Melissa on Feb 23rd, 2009 at 8:56am
I too carry a script for lorazepam for the really super bad ones.  Good thing is that it's a script from 2007 that I didn't need to get refilled.  I had broke them all in half and still have about 15 halves left, lol.

Sometimes it's necessary to get medicated first in order to slow the brain down so thinking can become more clear. ;)

Title: Re: anxiety anyone?
Post by monty on Feb 23rd, 2009 at 10:51am

Melissa wrote on Feb 23rd, 2009 at 7:15am:
I also take Taurine (1 850mg pill each night before bed), which was surprisingly helpful in almost eliminating my anxiety.  It took a little less than a week for it to have an effect.


I shoulda mentioned taurine - helps me too. It turns down excess activity of the sympathetic nervous system. And it doesn't dull me at all. I take 2-3 grams in my morning coffee, 2-3 grams at night when I get home.

I don't agree with many of the points that Annsie made.  Anxiety is both physical and psychological.

In Kevmd's case, I would agree that it makes sense to emphasize the cognitive aspects because there is a psychological trigger (being in front of groups, public speaking, etc).  But taking something physical (medicine, supplements, herbs) to deal with this does not necessarily signal defeat or helplessness - it can be a rational response. There is a psychological trigger to social anxiety, but I think that an underlying mechanism in the brain is out of whack - sometimes a change in thinking is enough to get things back to ideal, sometimes it is not enough.

Few people would suggest that OCD, depression, or other conditions should only be dealt with using cognitive approaches ... we know that there are chemical issues at play. The same is true of anxiety and panic disorders.


Title: Re: anxiety anyone?
Post by Brew on Feb 23rd, 2009 at 11:07am
Ever heard of varying degrees of a disorder?

Title: Re: anxiety anyone?
Post by icedragon on Feb 23rd, 2009 at 11:09am

Brew wrote on Feb 23rd, 2009 at 7:25am:
So, Thomas, you're calling a medical doctor a quack? Sounds like a violation of the code of conduct to me.

And no, she's not a sufferer - she's a supporter.

Get your ducks in a row before you pull out the big guns.


No, Brew,  Never called her a quack, I called her opinion/statement/idea quackery.  It is different, like if I were to say "what you just said was idiotic," does not mean I called you an idiot.  No?  

Now, you say she is a doctor and a supporter?  Is she practicing medicine here?  If she is, she should be showing some credentials...I would really like to know where she is practicing medicine.  Or, by "doctor," do you mean she has a PHD in a field other than medicine?

Either way, I have to question her statement.  She gives the impression that people should deal with their anxieties on their own with these techniques, using no outside help.  Then, in the next breath states that "People who need medication do so because they seek help too late."  This does not sound right to me.
Secondly, she states "2- Awareness 2: be aware that the symptoms of anxiety ( such as heart palpitation, hyperventilation ) do not kill you, wont make you faint and wont cause you to totally loose control, they can be stopped or reduced by refocusing and by relaxation techniques."  Hyperventilation can cause a person to faint, and if she is a doctor, could be giving false information here...  And anxiety can cause you to lose control, be it if you are aware or not.  Who here in the midst of a cycle does not suffer from some kind of anxiety, can't sleep and needs some kind of help with getting the sleep they need before they loose control.  I see other holes in what she describes, but I am sure you can see them for yourself if you look.

If she is a doctor, I have to question where?  Even now, she is back pedaling on her original blanket statement.  I still see flaws in what she is "prescribing/clarifying" for Kev to do.  I thought we were supposed to be looking out for each other here?  I am just pointing out that I disagree with her suggestions for Kev's sake.      

So, sorry to ruffle your feathers Brew, but I don't think it is me that needs to get their ducks in a row...  

Thomas

   

Title: Re: anxiety anyone?
Post by Mrs Deej on Feb 23rd, 2009 at 11:14am

wrote on Feb 23rd, 2009 at 11:09am:

Brew wrote on Feb 23rd, 2009 at 7:25am:
So, Thomas, you're calling a medical doctor a quack? Sounds like a violation of the code of conduct to me.

And no, she's not a sufferer - she's a supporter.

Get your ducks in a row before you pull out the big guns.


No, Brew,  Never called her a quack, I called her opinion/statement/idea quackery.  It is different, like if I were to say "what you just said was idiotic," does not mean I called you an idiot.  No?  

Now, you say she is a doctor and a supporter?  Is she practicing medicine here?  If she is, she should be showing some credentials...I would really like to know where she is practicing medicine.  Or, by "doctor," do you mean she has a PHD in a field other than medicine?

Either way, I have to question her statement.  She gives the impression that people should deal with their anxieties on their own with these techniques, using no outside help.  Then, in the next breath states that "People who need medication do so because they seek help too late."  This does not sound right to me.
Secondly, she states "2- Awareness 2: be aware that the symptoms of anxiety ( such as heart palpitation, hyperventilation ) do not kill you, wont make you faint and wont cause you to totally loose control, they can be stopped or reduced by refocusing and by relaxation techniques."  Hyperventilation can cause a person to faint, and if she is a doctor, could be giving false information here...  And anxiety can cause you to lose control, be it if you are aware or not.  Who here in the midst of a cycle does not suffer from some kind of anxiety, can't sleep and needs some kind of help with getting the sleep they need before they loose control.  I see other holes in what she describes, but I am sure you can see them for yourself if you look.

If she is a doctor, I have to question where?  Even now, she is back pedaling on her original blanket statement.  I still see flaws in what she is "prescribing/clarifying" for Kev to do.  I thought we were supposed to be looking out for each other here?  I am just pointing out that I disagree with her suggestions for Kev's sake.      

So, sorry to ruffle your feathers Brew, but I don't think it is me that needs to get their ducks in a row...  

Thomas


We've already traveled down this road before.   ::)

Title: Re: anxiety anyone?
Post by Brew on Feb 23rd, 2009 at 11:24am

wrote on Feb 23rd, 2009 at 11:09am:

Brew wrote on Feb 23rd, 2009 at 7:25am:
So, Thomas, you're calling a medical doctor a quack? Sounds like a violation of the code of conduct to me.

And no, she's not a sufferer - she's a supporter.

Get your ducks in a row before you pull out the big guns.


No, Brew,  Never called her a quack, I called her opinion/statement/idea quackery.  It is different, like if I were to say "what you just said was idiotic," does not mean I called you an idiot.  No?  

Now, you say she is a doctor and a supporter?  Is she practicing medicine here?  If she is, she should be showing some credentials...I would really like to know where she is practicing medicine.  Or, by "doctor," do you mean she has a PHD in a field other than medicine?

Either way, I have to question her statement.  She gives the impression that people should deal with their anxieties on their own with these techniques, using no outside help.  Then, in the next breath states that "People who need medication do so because they seek help too late."  This does not sound right to me.
Secondly, she states "2- Awareness 2: be aware that the symptoms of anxiety ( such as heart palpitation, hyperventilation ) do not kill you, wont make you faint and wont cause you to totally loose control, they can be stopped or reduced by refocusing and by relaxation techniques."  Hyperventilation can cause a person to faint, and if she is a doctor, could be giving false information here...  And anxiety can cause you to lose control, be it if you are aware or not.  Who here in the midst of a cycle does not suffer from some kind of anxiety, can't sleep and needs some kind of help with getting the sleep they need before they loose control.  I see other holes in what she describes, but I am sure you can see them for yourself if you look.

If she is a doctor, I have to question where?  Even now, she is back pedaling on her original blanket statement.  I still see flaws in what she is "prescribing/clarifying" for Kev to do.  I thought we were supposed to be looking out for each other here?  I am just pointing out that I disagree with her suggestions for Kev's sake.      

So, sorry to ruffle your feathers Brew, but I don't think it is me that needs to get their ducks in a row...  

Thomas

   

Not going down this road with you. You already know all there is to know about it, so why bother?

I will ask you the same question I posed on the previous page: Ever heard of varying degrees of a disorder?

Isn't it why we have a Kip scale in the first place? You talk about anxiety as though it were an all or nothing proposition.

Title: Re: anxiety anyone?
Post by icedragon on Feb 23rd, 2009 at 11:52am

Brew wrote on Feb 23rd, 2009 at 11:24am:

wrote on Feb 23rd, 2009 at 11:09am:

Brew wrote on Feb 23rd, 2009 at 7:25am:
So, Thomas, you're calling a medical doctor a quack? Sounds like a violation of the code of conduct to me.

And no, she's not a sufferer - she's a supporter.

Get your ducks in a row before you pull out the big guns.


No, Brew,  Never called her a quack, I called her opinion/statement/idea quackery.  It is different, like if I were to say "what you just said was idiotic," does not mean I called you an idiot.  No?  

Now, you say she is a doctor and a supporter?  Is she practicing medicine here?  If she is, she should be showing some credentials...I would really like to know where she is practicing medicine.  Or, by "doctor," do you mean she has a PHD in a field other than medicine?

Either way, I have to question her statement.  She gives the impression that people should deal with their anxieties on their own with these techniques, using no outside help.  Then, in the next breath states that "People who need medication do so because they seek help too late."  This does not sound right to me.
Secondly, she states "2- Awareness 2: be aware that the symptoms of anxiety ( such as heart palpitation, hyperventilation ) do not kill you, wont make you faint and wont cause you to totally loose control, they can be stopped or reduced by refocusing and by relaxation techniques."  Hyperventilation can cause a person to faint, and if she is a doctor, could be giving false information here...  And anxiety can cause you to lose control, be it if you are aware or not.  Who here in the midst of a cycle does not suffer from some kind of anxiety, can't sleep and needs some kind of help with getting the sleep they need before they loose control.  I see other holes in what she describes, but I am sure you can see them for yourself if you look.

If she is a doctor, I have to question where?  Even now, she is back pedaling on her original blanket statement.  I still see flaws in what she is "prescribing/clarifying" for Kev to do.  I thought we were supposed to be looking out for each other here?  I am just pointing out that I disagree with her suggestions for Kev's sake.      

So, sorry to ruffle your feathers Brew, but I don't think it is me that needs to get their ducks in a row...  

Thomas

   

Not going down this road with you. You already know all there is to know about it, so why bother?

I will ask you the same question I posed on the previous page: Ever heard of varying degrees of a disorder?

Isn't it why we have a Kip scale in the first place? You talk about anxiety as though it were an all or nothing proposition.


No, actually you are going down this road or you would not respond with questions.

Yes, I have heard of varying degrees.  But, then that is a redundant question being you know I know all there is to know about it, as you stated, Right?  Wow, say that ten times fast!  No, I am not describing it as an all or nothing...  If you read what I am saying you will see that.  But you are done right?  Take it easy now.

Title: Re: anxiety anyone?
Post by Brew on Feb 23rd, 2009 at 11:55am

wrote on Feb 23rd, 2009 at 11:52am:

Brew wrote on Feb 23rd, 2009 at 11:24am:

wrote on Feb 23rd, 2009 at 11:09am:

Brew wrote on Feb 23rd, 2009 at 7:25am:
So, Thomas, you're calling a medical doctor a quack? Sounds like a violation of the code of conduct to me.

And no, she's not a sufferer - she's a supporter.

Get your ducks in a row before you pull out the big guns.


No, Brew,  Never called her a quack, I called her opinion/statement/idea quackery.  It is different, like if I were to say "what you just said was idiotic," does not mean I called you an idiot.  No?  

Now, you say she is a doctor and a supporter?  Is she practicing medicine here?  If she is, she should be showing some credentials...I would really like to know where she is practicing medicine.  Or, by "doctor," do you mean she has a PHD in a field other than medicine?

Either way, I have to question her statement.  She gives the impression that people should deal with their anxieties on their own with these techniques, using no outside help.  Then, in the next breath states that "People who need medication do so because they seek help too late."  This does not sound right to me.
Secondly, she states "2- Awareness 2: be aware that the symptoms of anxiety ( such as heart palpitation, hyperventilation ) do not kill you, wont make you faint and wont cause you to totally loose control, they can be stopped or reduced by refocusing and by relaxation techniques."  Hyperventilation can cause a person to faint, and if she is a doctor, could be giving false information here...  And anxiety can cause you to lose control, be it if you are aware or not.  Who here in the midst of a cycle does not suffer from some kind of anxiety, can't sleep and needs some kind of help with getting the sleep they need before they loose control.  I see other holes in what she describes, but I am sure you can see them for yourself if you look.

If she is a doctor, I have to question where?  Even now, she is back pedaling on her original blanket statement.  I still see flaws in what she is "prescribing/clarifying" for Kev to do.  I thought we were supposed to be looking out for each other here?  I am just pointing out that I disagree with her suggestions for Kev's sake.      

So, sorry to ruffle your feathers Brew, but I don't think it is me that needs to get their ducks in a row...  

Thomas

   

Not going down this road with you. You already know all there is to know about it, so why bother?

I will ask you the same question I posed on the previous page: Ever heard of varying degrees of a disorder?

Isn't it why we have a Kip scale in the first place? You talk about anxiety as though it were an all or nothing proposition.


No, actually you are going down this road or you would not respond with questions.

Yes, I have heard of varying degrees.  But, then that is a redundant question being you know I know all there is to know about it, as you stated, Right?  Wow, say that ten times fast!  No, I am not describing it as an all or nothing...  If you read what I am saying you will see that.  But you are done right?  Take it easy now.

Yep. Totally done. I know when I'm in the presence of greatness.

Title: Re: anxiety anyone?
Post by ANNSIE on Feb 23rd, 2009 at 12:03pm

wrote on Feb 23rd, 2009 at 11:09am:
Now, you say she is a doctor and a supporter?  Is she practicing medicine here?  If she is, she should be showing some credentials...I would really like to know where she is practicing medicine.  Or, by "doctor," do you mean she has a PHD in a field other than medicine?


   



I have done that already, provided details of my credentials both here and to OUCH 3 years ago. I dont think I need to do it again. If you are in doubt, ask DJ, he knows who I am. You can also ask any OUCH officers, they all know too.



wrote on Feb 23rd, 2009 at 11:09am:
Either way, I have to question her statement.  She gives the impression that people should deal with their anxieties on their own with these techniques, using no outside help.  Then, in the next breath states that "People who need medication do so because they seek help too late."  This does not sound right to me.

   


Apart from you, no one else here got the impression that I told Kev not to look for help outside. I guess that when you said " outside help" you meant professional help ? I can assure you that any anxiety therapists be them doctors or psychologists, will tell Kev exactly what I did.

I am sorry that what I said doesnt sound right to you. If you are interested, I can PM you titles of medical books and articles that say just that. I would be interested if you have evidences proving otherwise.



wrote on Feb 23rd, 2009 at 11:09am:
Hyperventilation can cause a person to faint, and if she is a doctor, could be giving false information here...  And anxiety can cause you to lose control, be it if you are aware or not.  Who here in the midst of a cycle does not suffer from some kind of anxiety, can't sleep and needs some kind of help with getting the sleep they need before they loose control.  I see other holes in what she describes, but I am sure you can see them for yourself if you look.


   



Hyperventilation caused by social phobia makes a person feel faint but they do not actually loose consciousness from it. Everything that I said had to do with the condition Kev was talking about, not anxiety associated with CH. The loss of control one feels during an anxiety attack due to social phobia is entirely different from the loss of control associated with CH. No one is talking about CH here.

With social phobia, the most fearful thing is to loose control in front of strangers, such as sweating too much, unable to focus, unable to keep a conversation, making a fool out of themselves in public, etc. In severe cases, the person may feel like they are going to have a heart attack or going to drop dead. These things dont actually happen.



wrote on Feb 23rd, 2009 at 11:09am:
If she is a doctor, I have to question where?  Even now, she is back pedaling on her original blanket statement.  I still see flaws in what she is "prescribing/clarifying" for Kev to do.  I thought we were supposed to be looking out for each other here?  I am just pointing out that I disagree with her suggestions for Kev's sake.      


   



Where I practice has nothing to do with my posts here and I am not back pedalling on what I said. I did not make a blanket statement. I answered very specifically to Kev's post. It was you who took the wrong impression and for some obscure reason linked it to CH.

I am glad you are watching out for Kev's sake. So please tell me, if you so disagree with my suggestions to Kev, what is your suggestion? Do you suggest that he not bothers with learning any relaxation technique and goes straight for medication ? If you do, can you back it up with reliable evidences to show that it is the best way ?



wrote on Feb 23rd, 2009 at 11:09am:
No, Brew,  Never called her a quack, I called her opinion/statement/idea quackery.  It is different, like if I were to say "what you just said was idiotic," does not mean I called you an idiot.  No?  

I am just pointing out that I disagree with her suggestions for Kev's sake.      

   



With all due respect, calling what someone else posted quackery is borderline on slander. If you disagree with what I said, you could simply state that " I disagree with what you said because ..... " .

You then followed up with this post where you repeatedly questioning my credentials and my place of work, which has nothing to do with the thread but rather is a personal attack.

As far as I am concerned, you have violated the rules DJ set out. He very clearly stated that deliberate intention to personally attack someone, even if in disguise will not be tolerated.





Title: Re: anxiety anyone?
Post by pattik on Feb 23rd, 2009 at 12:12pm
From the first page of this website:

Quote:
DISCLAIMER: All information contained on this web site is for informational purposes only.  It is in no way intended to be used as a replacement for professional medical treatment.   clusterheadaches.com makes no claims as to the scientific/clinical validity of the information on this site OR to that of the information linked to from this site. All information taken from the internet should be discussed with a medical professional!


And I would add that it should be face-to-face, not over the phone, and definitely not a PM or email with someone you can't look in the eye. Internet advice is worth exactly what you've paid for it.

Title: Re: anxiety anyone?
Post by Jeannie on Feb 23rd, 2009 at 12:20pm
Annette,

I for one am so glad that you are here to offer help and insight on both levels.... as a supporter and a doctor.    Your kindness and compassion and willingness to help EVERYONE here is truly amazing. Thank you!



I know a child that was DXed last summer as having PANDA.  It is when  Strep attacks the part of the brain that triggers OCD.  She was having severe panic attacks and exhibiting compulsive behaviors.   Her parents chose NOT to medicate her.  She learned relaxation techniques and used a desensitizing technique to get her used to situations that made her uncomfortable.  It has worked for her.  She is almost back to normal.  Just thought I'd share.

Jeannie

Title: Re: anxiety anyone?
Post by icedragon on Feb 23rd, 2009 at 12:36pm
Annsie,

You come across like you are practicing medicine, and it would appear now that you might be.  Now, if you go into a doctors office, they have their credentials posted where everyone can see them.    What you call attacking, I call challenging.  I am sorry you see it differently.  So, I disagree with what you say because what you are saying is vague and can be misleading.  You appear to be, and come accross as a professional on an informational board.  Have a nice day.

Thomas  

Title: Re: anxiety anyone?
Post by arcticspirals on Feb 23rd, 2009 at 12:57pm
Anxiety has to be one of those sticky subjects friends even have a hard time discussing. I have seen it bounce from a personal attack of ones strength or life knowledge to a unique character point. In between is the actual I think, it happens, its scary, it can inhibit life as I know it. Therefore, treatment of any kind is worth reading.

My experience of anxiety is my only route I can take, for awhile yes what Annise posted was helpful and in the end was the route to a lifetime tool for me. But anxiety halted my life, my doc is always my best friend. And I guess I want to extend the idea that medication doesn't ever have to be life long for things such as anxiety.
Mine was short lived, a year. Over that year, while helpers from medication, I had to work on establishing the root cause. My doctor made it make sense to me. There was no organism in my blood that did this to me, it was my minds response and as such only my mind can cure it. He can help, rather the pills can help by shading things for me. But in the end I did have to decide if pills were the long run, or another route.

It changed my idea of medication forever. And I took them, they helped. For someone I am, main bill payer, mom, and not the time to hold up daily 'to dos' I needed something to help me get back in the ring tomorrow~ not after restablishing how I look at life. Slowly, I got off them. Using close to what Annise has posted.
And hopefully this is recieved as a 'light at the end of the tunnel' sort of post for you.

Thanks for sharing though, its powerful, anxiety. Just don't let it win over lifes possibilities. Do whatever it is you have to get the time to find your cure~ even if it means medication for a short duration of time.

Title: Re: anxiety anyone?
Post by ANNSIE on Feb 23rd, 2009 at 1:16pm

Thanks for clarifying Thomas.

Firstly I am sorry if what I posted was vague and misleading to you. No one else seemed to have the same problem understanding what I said. Some people disagreed on some points in relation to their own experience, but I do not believe what I posted to be vague or misleading. What I posted is the standard approach used by all professionals. If you go to the top anxiety clinic, that would be exactly what you get.

Secondly, I am not sure though why what I said appeared to you as practising medicine, yet what other people said did not. Monty basically said the same thing with his recommendation of herbal medicine and other medications. Is he practising too ?

You said I appear to be, and come across as a professional ..... maybe it is because I am a professional, thats how I talk, period. Do you prefer that I appear and come across as UNprofessional ? Would it be better if I post things like " Yeah sure, mate, take some xanax, that will fix your problem " ?

If you have a suggestion as to how I can post and not sound like I am practising medicine, please share, I am all ears.



The real issue here, I think, with my post , is my strong stance towards avoiding medication. Personally, I am pro natural therapy. I always strongly advocate against using strong medication unless really necessary, especially addictive medication like narcotics or benzodiazepines. Most anti-anxiety medication is benzo. They have a lot of side effects and are highly addictive. It is wise to try to avoid them if possible.

People who share the same opinion will see nothing wrong with my posts, but those who prefer to use these medication may feel like they are being attacked or undermined. When someone feels they are being attacked or put down or thought less of, emotions will start to run high and they may take offence at my posts, while I have no intention to undermine anyone's choice of treatment at any time. I simply point out the possible danger.

For eg, Monty said " taking medication doesnt mean being weak or helpless " yet nowhere in any of my post did I say people who take medication for anxiety are weak or helpless. It was the impression he formed himself. The same with the impression you had about me telling Kev not to seek outside help and not allowed to take medication, nowhere in my post did I say that.

Anxiety covers such a huge spectrum of symptoms and causes and treatments, it is impossible to cover everything about it in one post to make it relevant to everyone's cases. I tried to be specific only to Kev's original question, and it should be taken in that context.

And yes, take everything posted here simply as information, no matter how professional or unprofessional it may sound, and check it out with your own therapist. If anyone chooses to follow the advices given here at face value, its at their own choice and risk.




Title: Re: anxiety anyone?
Post by monty on Feb 23rd, 2009 at 1:57pm

wrote on Feb 23rd, 2009 at 1:16pm:
For eg, Monty said " taking medication doesnt mean being weak or helpless " yet nowhere in any of my post did I say people who take medication for anxiety are weak or helpless. It was the impression he formed himself. The same with the impression you had about me telling Kev not to seek outside help and not allowed to take medication, nowhere in my post did I say that.


That was in response to your comment:

"Doing so and you are telling your brain that you have absolutely no control over your mind and body, and that you need something else outside of you to do it for you. Repeating the process a few times and your brain learns to become dependent on the substance, the first step towards addiction."

I interpreted the "absolutely no control" and "need something outside of of you" as 'weak and helpless.' I did not think that you were calling people weak and helpless, and I was refuting the idea that using these meds was equivalent to loss of control ... they can be used to help regain control.

I agree with you that one possible outcome of medication is dependency. But it is not the only one. Short-term or intermittent use of benzos can break a cycle of anxiety. Many people with anxiety have an anxiety over becoming dependent, and self-regulate when using these drugs.


Quote:
Monty basically said the same thing with his recommendation of herbal medicine and other medications. Is he practising too ?


Perhaps I should have been clearer. That was a list of how I deal with anxiety and panic disorder in my life.  I don't think anyone is practicing medicine here - no one is developing a doctor-patient relationship, no one is diagnosing and prescribing, no one is charging. We are sharing personal experience and discussing information and theories, which is quite different (and a good thing).

Title: Re: anxiety anyone?
Post by icedragon on Feb 23rd, 2009 at 2:35pm
Annsie,

I did say it could be misleading.  I disagreed with the way you came across.  Your statement was initially vague, then you clarified.  I do not agree that your approach is a standard approach.  And it would appear as you are practicing medicine because you do.   Others are making suggestions from personal experience, you are using professional experience.  I do not think it is possible for you to come across like you are not practicing because you do...  Do you want to come across like you are not practicing medicine?

I don't think the problem is a natural approach. I think it is how it was presented.  After giving what you presented as a definition of anxiety, I think it might be wise to mention your views on medication before saying things such as "The worst way to deal with anxiety is to use medication or any type of chemicals."  You also presented it as a do it yourself approach, you never mentioned seeking professional help in the way of counseling or using natural supplements.  Maybe because you feel you are doing the counseling and that is your professional nature???  

Title: Re: anxiety anyone?
Post by Brew on Feb 23rd, 2009 at 2:41pm
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Title: Re: anxiety anyone?
Post by Artonio on Feb 23rd, 2009 at 2:46pm
This thread is provoking an anxiety attack!

Breathe! Breathe!

with warm regards,
Tony

Title: Re: anxiety anyone?
Post by Mrs Deej on Feb 23rd, 2009 at 2:46pm
Instead of worrying about how you think someone is coming off, why don't you get back to the original post,  ::)  I believe he was asking for help.  I know I forgot what it was (sorry kev), I imagine everyone else did too...


kevmd wrote on Feb 22nd, 2009 at 10:11pm:
I don't know what is happening to me lately. I am usually a very outgoing person could sit down and have a conversation with anyone.  I am starting to fear certain situations.  I now hate being the center of attention for even a short period of time.  WTF!!!!  I feel like I am hyperventilating.  I have a pretty big meeting this friday.  I hope I can fight through this shit.

I am thinking of taking the easy way and getting medicated.  Any one deal with something similar?  Advice?  

Changes in my life recently are less medication for CH, stress from health situations, and quitting smoking.  




Title: Re: anxiety anyone?
Post by ANNSIE on Feb 23rd, 2009 at 3:13pm

monty wrote on Feb 23rd, 2009 at 1:57pm:
That was in response to your comment:

"Doing so and you are telling your brain that you have absolutely no control over your mind and body, and that you need something else outside of you to do it for you. Repeating the process a few times and your brain learns to become dependent on the substance, the first step towards addiction."

I interpreted the "absolutely no control" and "need something outside of of you" as 'weak and helpless.' I did not think that you were calling people weak and helpless, and I was refuting the idea that using these meds was equivalent to loss of control ... they can be used to help regain control.



Thanks Monty for clarifying and thanks for the discussion.

In a way though, you are contradicting yourself. You refuted the idea that using med was equivalent to loss of control and that they can be used to help regain control. But you would not need to REGAIN control if it was not lost in the first place , would you ?

At risk of sounding like someone who cant stop talking, there is one important aspect of anxiety that is worth making clear though.

Anxiety is a complex condition with several phases. It has a mental phase, a biological phase and a physical phase. The mental phase involves both the conscious and the subconscious mind. Sometimes a cause for the anxiety can be identified, such as in Kev's case. Other times, no cause can be found. The person can suddenly experience symptoms of anxiety out of nowhere. When a person takes a medication such as Benzo, the messages they send to the subconscious mind can be very different to what they are thinking conciously.

I know many people who get into a panic attack just because they run out of their anti-anxiety med. The reason they panic is because subconsciously their brain tells them that they can not cope unless they have the med. That was what I was referring to. Some others carry their meds with them like a "security blanket " even when they have not had any symptom for months or even years. Others pop a tablet the first minute they feel a twinge of anxiousness, while they could have gone for a walk, take some deep breaths for example. This is their subconcious mind trusting the med more than their ability to remain in control. These are called anxiety behaviours. People with anxiety disorder display an array of these behavioural symptoms.

Anxiety starts as a thought. At first there is no chemical involved. However, each and every thought we have causes a corresponding chemical reaction in the body. Think of something sad and we cry, think of something funny and we laugh. Think of some danger and we start to get anxious.

The next phase is chemical, that is when the body responds to the anxious thoughts by releasing adrenaline, histamine, cortisol and so on ...

The last phase is biological, ie the reaction of various organs to the above chemicals. Thats when you get palpitation, sweating, dizzy etc. By the time you get to this stage, its too late, mental control is lost or at least very difficult. The chemical level is too high to switch off. You cant stop them. You can only either endure their effects or use other chemicals to counteract them.

My point is, try to gain control BEFORE you get to this stage. Anxiety can buid up slowly or quickly, it can be mild or it can be severe. If and when it builds up too quickly or too strongly, one needs medication to temporarily counteract the physical effects. However, medication does not address the route cause of anxiety, cognitive therapy does.

Sometimes it is necessary to use medication first up to calm a person down enough to be able to think clearly. However, unless this is followed diligently with cognitive therapy, the person may not bother to learn or practice the techniques. The med works, the anxiety is gone and with it the urge to spend time/effort learning new techniques. Kev knows that using med at this stage in his condition is "taking the easy way out", yet he is tempted. We are all humans, after all.

Since anxiety start as a thought, it is possible to use thoughts to control anxiety. It is difficult and it takes time, but it should be the ultimate aim of anxiety therapy. Medication is there to facilitate this process, but should not to replace it.



Title: Re: anxiety anyone?
Post by Kevin_M on Feb 23rd, 2009 at 5:35pm

Brew wrote on Feb 23rd, 2009 at 7:25am:
So, Thomas, you're calling a medical doctor a quack?



wrote on Feb 23rd, 2009 at 11:09am:
No, Brew,  Never called her a quack, I called her opinion/statement/idea quackery.


Nonetheless, Thomas,

quackery: the practice or methods of a quack.



wrote on Feb 23rd, 2009 at 2:07am:
I am sorry, but this is pure quackery.


your first sentence chosen for disagreement.  There can be flaws to disagree in that, too.  


wrote on Feb 23rd, 2009 at 11:09am:
I am just pointing out that I disagree with her suggestions for Kev's sake.




Kevin_M wrote on Feb 23rd, 2009 at 8:21am:
I cannot argue with Brew's point, Thomas.  Discounting in that fashion ...


Title: Re: anxiety anyone?
Post by monty on Feb 23rd, 2009 at 5:39pm
Endless wrangling with the issue:

Annsie: No, I don't think it is a contradiction. If there is a situation that is not optimal, then taking action to correct it is not a sign of not having control. It is the act of taking control. This is true regardless of whether the action plan involves psychological or pharmaceutical methods. So helpless is not an accurate description - unless one thinks that chemicals are 'cheating.'

You stated "Sometimes a cause for the anxiety can be identified, such as in Kev's case."  Wait a minute, do we really know the cause?  Are social situations the cause, or the trigger?  If alcohol and perfume trigger a cluster headache, we don't say we have found the causes. I suggest that there is an underlying change in brain activity that causes negative thoughts to amplify and multiply in anxiety disorders. Sometimes this can be treated effectively with cognitive therapy, sometimes not.

My model does not assume that things begin in some pure mental dimension, and then progress to the physical if not treated. We agree that there can be a feedback where each affects the other, but I suggest that anxiety disorders usually have a biological basis from day 1. OCD, depression, anxiety, and other related conditions have a fairly strong genetic predisposition, and are associated with

You said "I know many people who get into a panic attack just because they run out of their anti-anxiety med. The reason they panic is because subconsciously their brain tells them that they can not cope unless they have the med." ... would you be surprised if I told you that I know people with high blood pressure that experience greater hypertension if they think that they will be somewhere and unable to take their medicine?  That doesn't make hypertension a purely cognitive disorder. It doesn't mean that blood pressure pills are not sometimes a good idea. Is it possible that people taking anti-arrhythmia drugs might also also skip extra beats if they were stranded somewhere and thought they might not be able to take their med tomorrow morning?

Part of the difference between us is that you seem to think that mind and brain are separable. I do not. To me, some statements you made are wrong at face, like: "Anxiety starts as a thought. At first there is no chemical involved." How exactly does one think without chemicals like neurotransmitters? How does one think optimally when neurotransmitters are disturbed for some biological reason?

</ end of Endless wrangling with the issue>




Here's a link that might be useful to people with anxiety or panic:

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Title: Re: anxiety anyone?
Post by deltadarlin on Feb 23rd, 2009 at 5:40pm

wrote on Feb 23rd, 2009 at 8:53am:
If a patient who only recently develops some symptoms of anxiety sees a doctor for help and that doctor immediately whips out his/her prescription pad and prescribes xanax or klonopin, as the first or only treatment, without at least trying to explain what anxiety is and how to deal with it the natural ways, that doc is indeed a quack.


I'll make sure to tell my doctor that he is a quack, given that I went to see him a few weeks ago because I was developing severe anxiety issues (crop up with PTSD and flashbacks-none of which he knows about) and he wrote me a script for 15 5 mg. valium to help me get things back under control and Wellbutrin for the longer term.  Long term I can deal with my issues, it's the short term that I needed to get back under control.

Title: Re: anxiety anyone?
Post by Artonio on Feb 23rd, 2009 at 5:56pm

deltadarlin wrote on Feb 23rd, 2009 at 5:40pm:

wrote on Feb 23rd, 2009 at 8:53am:
If a patient who only recently develops some symptoms of anxiety sees a doctor for help and that doctor immediately whips out his/her prescription pad and prescribes xanax or klonopin, as the first or only treatment, without at least trying to explain what anxiety is and how to deal with it the natural ways, that doc is indeed a quack.


I'll make sure to tell my doctor that he is a quack, given that I went to see him a few weeks ago because I was developing severe anxiety issues (crop up with PTSD and flashbacks-none of which he knows about) and he wrote me a script for 15 5 mg. valium to help me get things back under control and Wellbutrin for the longer term.  Long term I can deal with my issues, it's the short term that I needed to get back under control.


As a person who deals with anxiety attacks, depression, bi-polar disorder... I still have to agree with Annette.  To not at least have a dialogue with the doctor before he prescribes willy-nilly is in my humble opinion less then optimal and I would think twice about seeing that doctor again.

In my experience... it benefited me personal to have a team-like situation between my doctor, therapist and myself. It is also extremely important to have the loving support of friends and family while going through this. I was a prisoner in my own home for years because of agoraphobia... I chose to stay away from meds because I disliked or could not tolerate many of the negative effects.

My friends and family here helped me through the agoraphobia....

It can be taken care of without medication... I am living proof.


with warm regards,
Tony

Title: Re: anxiety anyone?
Post by Pinkfloyd on Feb 23rd, 2009 at 6:51pm
Posting for informational purposes only.

There is still much to be learned about this subject and its causes/treatments.

This just came out.

* Child abuse 'alters stress gene' *
Abuse in early childhood permanently alters how the brain responds to stress, a Canadian study suggests.
Full story:
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A research team led by McGill University, in Montreal, examined the gene for the glucocorticoid receptor - which helps control the response to stress

They found chemical changes which reduced the activity of the gene in those who suffered child abuse.

And they showed this reduced activity leads to fewer glucocorticoid receptors.

Those affected would have had an abnormally heightened response to stress, the researchers said.


Long-term

It suggests that experience in childhood when the brain is developing, can have a long-term impact on how someone responds to stressful situations.

But study leader Professor Michael Meaney said they believe these biochemical effects could also occur later in life.

"If you're a public health individual or a child psychologist you could say this shows you nothing you didn't already know.

"But until you show the biological process, many people in government and policy-makers are reluctant to believe it's real.

"Beyond that, you could ask whether a drug could reverse these effects and that's a possibility."

Dr Jonathan Mill, from the Institute of Psychiatry at Kings College London said the research added to growing evidence that environmental factors can alter the expression of genes - a process known as epigenetics.
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Just wanted to add some information that might be helpful.

It's in no way meant to suggest anyone in this thread has such problems nor is it directed toward any theories, suggestions etc.

It was interesting to me because it speaks of the possibility that someone's anxiety could have genetic factors.

Bobw
*slowly backing away from the keyboard and this thread*





Title: Re: anxiety anyone?
Post by monty on Feb 23rd, 2009 at 7:09pm
Got Magnesium?

Magnesium is anxiolytic (reduces anxiety). Magnesium deficiency is associated with increased anxiety. Clusterheads as a group are magnesium deficient. Hmmm...



Quote:
J Am Coll Nutr. 1994 Oct;13(5):429-46.
Consequences of magnesium deficiency on the enhancement of stress reactions; preventive and therapeutic implications (a review).
   Seelig MS.

   Department of Nutrition, School of Public Health, University of North Carolina, Chapel Hill.

   Stress intensifies release of catecholamines and corticosteroids that increase survival of normal animals when their lives are threatened.... In affluent societies, severe dietary Mg deficiency is uncommon, but dietary imbalances such as high intakes of fat and/or calcium (Ca) can intensify Mg inadequacy, especially under conditions of stress. Adrenergic stimulation of lipolysis can intensify its deficiency by complexing Mg with liberated fatty acids (FA), A low Mg/Ca ratio increases release of catecholamines, which lowers tissue (i.e. myocardial) Mg levels. It also favors excess release or formation of factors (derived both from FA metabolism and the endothelium), that are vasoconstrictive and platelet aggregating; a high Ca/Mg ratio also directly favors blood coagulation, which is also favored by excess fat and its mobilization during adrenergic lipolysis. Auto-oxidation of catecholamines yields free radicals, which explains the enhancement of the protective effect of Mg by anti-oxidant nutrients against cardiac damage caused by beta-catecholamines. Thus, stress, whether physical (i.e. exertion, heat, cold, trauma--accidental or surgical, burns), or emotional (i.e. pain, anxiety, excitement or depression) and dyspnea as in asthma increases need for Mg. Genetic differences in Mg utilization may account for differences in vulnerability to Mg deficiency and differences in body responses to stress.



Quote:
Cesk Psychiatr. 1992 Aug;88(3-4):141-4.
[Potentiation of the effects of anxiolytics with magnesium salts]



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An Med Interna. 1991 Nov;8(11):576.
[Anxiolytic effect of magnesium]



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J Womens Health Gend Based Med. 2000 Mar;9(2):131-9.
A synergistic effect of a daily supplement for 1 month of 200 mg magnesium plus 50 mg vitamin B6 for the relief of anxiety-related premenstrual symptoms: a randomized, double-blind, crossover study.



Quote:
Pharmacol Rep. 2008 Sep-Oct;60(5):655-63.
NMDA/glutamate mechanism of magnesium-induced anxiolytic-like behavior in mice.



Quote:
Magnes Res. 2006 Jun;19(2):102-6.
Anxiety and stress among science students. Study of calcium and magnesium alterations.



Quote:
Pharmacol Rep. 2008 Jul-Aug;60(4):483-9.
Benzodiazepine/GABA(A) receptors are involved in magnesium-induced anxiolytic-like behavior in mice.



Quote:
J Am Coll Nutr. 2004 Oct;23(5):529S-533S.
Magnesium attenuates post-traumatic depression/anxiety following diffuse traumatic brain injury in rats.



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Pharmacol Biochem Behav. 2004 May;78(1):7-12.
Antidepressant- and anxiolytic-like activity of magnesium in mice.


Title: Re: anxiety anyone?
Post by Kevin_M on Feb 23rd, 2009 at 7:45pm

Pinkfloyd wrote on Feb 23rd, 2009 at 6:51pm:
Posting for informational purposes only.

There is still much to be learned about this subject and its causes/treatments.

This just came out.


from article:


Quote:
They found chemical changes which reduced the activity of the gene in those who suffered child abuse.

And they showed this reduced activity leads to fewer glucocorticoid receptors.



Will seem helpful.  Some good learnin', Bob.       :)




Title: Re: anxiety anyone?
Post by ANNSIE on Feb 23rd, 2009 at 9:28pm

deltadarlin wrote on Feb 23rd, 2009 at 5:40pm:

wrote on Feb 23rd, 2009 at 8:53am:
If a patient who only recently develops some symptoms of anxiety sees a doctor for help and that doctor immediately whips out his/her prescription pad and prescribes xanax or klonopin, as the first or only treatment, without at least trying to explain what anxiety is and how to deal with it the natural ways, that doc is indeed a quack.


I'll make sure to tell my doctor that he is a quack, given that I went to see him a few weeks ago because I was developing severe anxiety issues (crop up with PTSD and flashbacks-none of which he knows about) and he wrote me a script for 15 5 mg. valium to help me get things back under control and Wellbutrin for the longer term.  Long term I can deal with my issues, it's the short term that I needed to get back under control.



Please correct me if I am wrong. So you went to see your doctor, you told him that for the first time in your life you experienced severe anxiety issues and your doctor did not bother to ask you anything of the history, the possible causes, the triggers .... he didnt bother to explain to you why and how these symptoms of severe anxiety have come about ... he didnt at least mention other methods of controlling the symptoms ... he just wrote you a script for Valium without knowing that you suffer from PTSD and are having flashbacks, and out the door you went ?

If that was what happened, then yes, your doctor is a quack in my opinion. I believe that many people here will agree with me.


Title: Re: anxiety anyone?
Post by deltadarlin on Feb 24th, 2009 at 9:22am
Annsie.
You are painting with a very broad brush here without knowing all the facts.  We did have a lengthy discourse on what had caused me to become so anxious at that point in my life.  There were mitigating factors and the situation had to be controlled at that moment, because *I* was starting to lose control, time was a factor.  The anxiety was not caused by the PTSD (source of flashbacks),, but rather the reverse.

I've had PTSD for over 30 years now and I deal with it quite well unless something triggers it and even then, 99% of the time I am well able to control it and the flashbacks.  Never received meds for it, nor do I want them.

Explain to me why this was happening?  Uhm, I know how these symptoms come about and why they occur.  Years of being a counselor taught me that.  I might add, that this doctor has known/treated me for over 10 years, so he knew enough of my background to realize that I was describing an *acute* occurance that I couldn't handle at that point in time, therapy takes time, I didn't have *time* to get my control back, I had to get it right then, not tomorrow, not next week, not next month, but right then.

Let me give an example here.  Normally, outside stressors really dont' bother me very much, I can handle them without much effort.  However, when life starts throwing too many curve balls at once, the balance is gone.  

A visual representation of this would be a person standing in a group of people.  These people have bean bags that they are throwing at the person in the center, starting out with one person throwing the bag.  Okay, easily deflected when the first one is thrown.  Second person joins in, still not too difficult to deflect the bags.  A third person joins in and deflecting the bean bags get more difficult.  All of a sudden the whole group starts throwing bean bags.  No way to deflect them all.  Most people will either try to get out of the circle (flight) or become aggressive by throwing the bean bags back (fight).

When I went to the doc, that was me in the circle and flight would have been my reaction.  I was under extreme stress, most of which I had no control over and could not just *get rid of it*.  I was in an acute phase of anxiety.  Given that, meds were the answser at that point.

You are making judgements without knowing the whole story.

Title: Re: anxiety anyone?
Post by ANNSIE on Feb 24th, 2009 at 3:19pm

Then why did you say " I'll make sure I tell my doctor he is a quack ? " and quoted me ?

I only call a doctor a quack if he prescribes benzo to a first time patient with anxiety without an adequate consultation. I was not talking about a patient with a chronic or long term anxiety problem who has already known what it is and learnt how to deal with it. Please read what you quoted and what you posted below. It was you who did not give the whole story and who twisted what I said into meaning something I did not.


wrote on Feb 23rd, 2009 at 9:28pm:

deltadarlin wrote on Feb 23rd, 2009 at 5:40pm:

wrote on Feb 23rd, 2009 at 8:53am:
If a patient who only recently develops some symptoms of anxiety sees a doctor for help and that doctor immediately whips out his/her prescription pad and prescribes xanax or klonopin, as the first or only treatment, without at least trying to explain what anxiety is and how to deal with it the natural ways, that doc is indeed a quack.


I'll make sure to tell my doctor that he is a quack, given that I went to see him a few weeks ago because I was developing severe anxiety issues (crop up with PTSD and flashbacks-none of which he knows about) and he wrote me a script for 15 5 mg. valium to help me get things back under control and Wellbutrin for the longer term.  Long term I can deal with my issues, it's the short term that I needed to get back under control.



I have said again and again what I have been posting here is in relation to Kev's OP, I am not talking about everyone else condition or situation. It is impossible to make a statement about something as complex as anxiety and make it relevant to everyone.

In Kev's case, he is a first timer who had not experienced anxiety before.

Please refrain from taking what I posted out of context by applying it to your own situation, which can be totally different , then say " hey, you are wrong ".

Its not a one size fits all.


Title: Re: anxiety anyone?
Post by deltadarlin on Feb 24th, 2009 at 8:13pm

wrote on Feb 23rd, 2009 at 9:28pm:

deltadarlin wrote on Feb 23rd, 2009 at 5:40pm:

wrote on Feb 23rd, 2009 at 8:53am:
If a patient who only recently develops some symptoms of anxiety sees a doctor for help and that doctor immediately whips out his/her prescription pad and prescribes xanax or klonopin, as the first or only treatment, without at least trying to explain what anxiety is and how to deal with it the natural ways, that doc is indeed a quack.


I'll make sure to tell my doctor that he is a quack, given that I went to see him a few weeks ago because I was developing severe anxiety issues (crop up with PTSD and flashbacks-none of which he knows about) and he wrote me a script for 15 5 mg. valium to help me get things back under control and Wellbutrin for the longer term.  Long term I can deal with my issues, it's the short term that I needed to get back under control.



Please correct me if I am wrong. So you went to see your doctor, you told him that for the first time in your life you experienced severe anxiety issues and your doctor did not bother to ask you anything of the history, the possible causes, the triggers .... he didnt bother to explain to you why and how these symptoms of severe anxiety have come about ... he didnt at least mention other methods of controlling the symptoms ... he just wrote you a script for Valium without knowing that you suffer from PTSD and are having flashbacks, and out the door you went ?

If that was what happened, then yes, your doctor is a quack in my opinion. I believe that many people here will agree with me.


How about this?  And I did NOT say that this was the first time in my life that I had experienced anxiety issues.

Title: Re: anxiety anyone?
Post by kevmd on Feb 24th, 2009 at 10:06pm
wow....what a discussion.  IN the past couple days, I am trying to figure what is causing anxiety the minute I start to feel it.  So far, I have come up with money, messed up house, work,  economy,  being overwhelmed.  Now, that shit I can figure out how to deal with.  Its still the social anxiety that gets me worried.  I feel it slightly no matter who I am speaking to, except my 3yr old son...lol.  And here is something that I did not mention that has happened maybe 2-3 times.  I feel I get so nervouse about something, that i develop some kind of facial tick, causing me to look down as to not be noticed.  Friggin strange.  
I think now that I am talking about this freely now, it is helping a bit.
Thats whats great about this place. Can talk about anything, and someone always has some nfo/opinions that will help

Title: Re: anxiety anyone?
Post by Brew on Feb 24th, 2009 at 10:12pm
Well, then you just have to pretend all those asshats in your meeting are 3-year-olds. If you do, they'll understand what you say more clearly, and you'll be as calm as can be.

One thing I tell people, when they're explaining something to me and they're either talking over my head or going a hundred miles an hour, is to explain it to me like I were a 3rd-grader. Works every time.

I know this isn't a cure to real anxiety, but sometimes playing games with yourself helps.

Title: Re: anxiety anyone?
Post by kevmd on Feb 24th, 2009 at 10:21pm
I hear ya Brew.  I'm the same way!!

Title: Re: anxiety anyone?
Post by Jeannie on Feb 24th, 2009 at 10:32pm
Hey Kev,

As I said before in my previous post, relaxation techniques helped the child I know who was Dxed with a panic disorder.  I hope whatever route you chose to take in dealing with your anxiety, you are feeling better soon.

Hugs,
Jeannie

Title: Re: anxiety anyone?
Post by cash5542 on Feb 28th, 2009 at 3:01pm
What ever you do be sure you are treating the condition, not just masking the symptoms. Lisa was prescribed paxil for her asthma. It was decided that her asthma must be more panic attacks then real asthma because she wasn't responding to high doses of prednisone. She refused the prescription. Well it turned out that she has a severe allergy to any form of dairy. Once we got her off the dairy she improved greatly. In the meantime she started seeing a pyschologist that worked with biofeedback, breathing and relaxing techniques. This helped incrediby when an attack occured. These expereinces have helped her with CH as well, especially when using o2. It's so easy to give a drug. Consumer guide did a report last year that stated that for long term help, talk therapy is far more effective than drug therapy.  There's a place for both I think, just be sure what you are treating. Good luck!

Charlotte

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