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Cluster Headache Help and Support >> Getting to Know Ya >> newbie with an arragant doctor http://www.clusterheadaches.com/cgi-bin/yabb2/YaBB.pl?num=1235484767 Message started by natalie79ca on Feb 24th, 2009 at 9:12am |
Title: newbie with an arragant doctor Post by natalie79ca on Feb 24th, 2009 at 9:12am
I am new to this site but not to the pain. I have been suffering about 6 years now I'm 29. The first time I went and seen my doctor six years ago he ddid run a battery of tests and come up with sinus headaches, what do I know I don't have a degree, the went away so I didn't think nothing of it now after six years and alot more information I know what they are, how am I supposed to get a know it all doctor to take my theory into consideration. I go in a couple days, and I can just hear the dr. in my head pretty much telling me I don't know what I'm taking about, makes me not even want to go. Any ideas.
This site is great, I have learned alot and thank you to all. ;) |
Title: Re: newbie with an arragant doctor Post by Bob_Johnson on Feb 24th, 2009 at 9:56am
Years ago I had a doctor who would come into the room, sit down, leg crossed, with note pad and pencil. He sat SILENTLY until I had told him why I was there.
Those good days are long gone from contemporary medicine... Whether this doc is your primary care or a specialist--find a new one! This undercurrent will always contaminate your feeings/trust in this person, regardless of the issue, and so its worth the problems of finding someone new. The technique which has always worked for me: ask everyone you meet, "who is your doc? What do you think about how he treats you?" (This is how I found the doc I so miss. His name always came to the top immediately.) |
Title: Re: newbie with an arragant doctor Post by ski2k on Feb 25th, 2009 at 7:23am
Welcome, but sorry you're suffering.
Kinda sounds like you may be reluctant to find a new doctor. If that's the case, then print off some of the info you find here and on the OUCH website (link on the left), bring it to him, and discuss it with him. If he STILL doesn't want to look into Cluster Headaches as a possibility, then you really need to do some doctor searching. Just curious.... Has he ordered any type of MRI or CAT scan to rule out anything like a tumor? If not, then I wouldn't delay in replacing him. That should be one of the first things they do if you're complaining about recurring headaches. Best of luck to you, and keep us posted, will ya!!?? Adam |
Title: Re: newbie with an arragant doctor Post by miki on Mar 5th, 2009 at 10:11pm
There is no one in this world who knows your body like you do. If your doctor makes you feel small for sharing information you need a new doctor.
I am a physician (pediatric intensive care), so I can definitely say that. Miki md |
Title: Re: newbie with an arragant doctor Post by ClusterChuck on Mar 5th, 2009 at 11:04pm
Finding a doctor who will work WITH you, and not from his/her elevated pedestal is critical in getting the help you need.
The more YOU learn about clusters, the more you can help get the information and care that you need. Unfortunately most of us have had to train our doctors to the right information. Remember, these doctors (unless they specialize in headaches) receive a total of FIVE hours training on ALL types of headaches! If this one does not work with you, fire him/her. Remember, YOU are paying them, so that means THEY are working for YOU! Become an informed and decisive boss! Good luck! Chuck |
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