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Cluster Headache Help and Support >> Cluster Headache Specific >> How to tell the boss http://www.clusterheadaches.com/cgi-bin/yabb2/YaBB.pl?num=1238038883 Message started by pafitzgerald on Mar 25th, 2009 at 11:41pm |
Title: How to tell the boss Post by pafitzgerald on Mar 25th, 2009 at 11:41pm
So I started my cycle on March 13 and, coincidentally, started a new job that same day. I've been reluctant to divulge my CH condition to my boss because I'm still in "training." Last Saturday, however, I had a monster of a CH from 1 am - 4 am and slept through both of my alarms. Needless to say, I was two hours late for work and looked like hell. I'm sure when I came in they thought, this kid's been out all night drinking his face off--which couldn't be farther from the truth (the drinking part).
It's not so much that I care about this particular job (hopefully I can move beyond 7.75 an hour; here's to stimulus packages!), but for future reference, how have you explained your condition to employers? Any suggestions or tactics? Should I come in with medical reports on CHs or just sit down and explain to them about CHs. I err on the side of the former because I feel like I would run the risk of them dismissing it as "just a headache, suck it up" with the latter. Also, just to vent: I cannot wait for this cycle to be over. I always feel under prepared mentally and physically for these damned headaches. I figure I have a few more weeks to roll so my hypothalamus can get adjusted to daylight savings time. |
Title: Re: How to tell the boss Post by [joHnny]w_ an_h on Mar 26th, 2009 at 12:07am
well last cycle it was getting hard to hide my condition even for an over the road truck driver. i told my dispatcher about my condition and gave her the web address to this site. next time i saw her she said "oh my god thats what you go through?" "yeah pretty much". she told me to do what ever i had to do.
other employers haven't been as understanding. the best thing you can do is tell the truth and let the chips fall where they lie. |
Title: Re: How to tell the boss Post by QnHeartMM on Mar 26th, 2009 at 12:09am |
Title: Re: How to tell the boss Post by GrandPotentate on Mar 26th, 2009 at 8:33am
I have been fortunate to have some good bosses in this respect.
they are usually not interested in the details - they get enough of that from other co-workers. I explained that I get periods for 6-8 weeks where I get disabling bad headaches, but they usually occur in evenings and at night. It generally will not affect my work, other than it becomes hard to get enough sleep in mid-cycle. But I also explain that I will likely get one or two while at work, and will simply need to leave the building for about an hour. And, for a cyclic guy, it will all be over soon. If he wants to know more, I can go on, but he really isn't interested in all the gory details. In my case, it has little impact on him getting his team's work done. Some of us have it worse, and it affects work more. And some of us have jerks for bosses. One of the reasons that bosses get paid more is that they are supposed to be able to deal with employee issues. I found that, compared to other chronic whiners, this is relatively easy for him to deal with. I wish you luck as well. |
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