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Message started by Pinkfloyd on Aug 26th, 2009 at 2:17am

Title: A 5 year old needs some help
Post by Pinkfloyd on Aug 26th, 2009 at 2:17am
What is it with us and rare diseases?

I normally don't go off topic with this sort of plea and I'm sorry, but we're getting a bit desperate.

My brother's grandson, Jacob has been diagnosed with Monosomy 7 and Shwachman-Diamond disease.

I'd never heard of them either so I'm posting some basic information on them.

The reason I'm posting here is because we need help. Jacob needs a bone marrow transplant and he needs it this year. As you'll read below, one of the things this causes is Leukemia. He is already 85% of the way there and if he doesn't get the transplant before he's in full blown Leukemia (months away) his chances of survival go way down. The best information we have (statistically) is a paper that showed prognosis being much worse for patients with monosomy 7 who had progression to leukemia vs. patients that had the transplant before the monosomy 7 turned into leukemia. 

In the study there was a small number or patients but the prognosis for being alive was 70% if a transplant was performed before progressing to full leukemia vs 25-40% if they did not have a transplant before progressing to leukemia.

DEFINITIONS
Monosomy 7: A rare chromosomal disorder where there is one copy of the genetic material in chromosome 7 rather than the normal two. The deletion of this chromosome if often associated with myelodysplastic syndromes and myeloid leukemia. The condition usually has a poor prognosis. Other defects may also be present in some cases.

Shwachman-Diamond Syndrome (SDS) is a rare genetic disorder that occurs in approximately one in 50,000 births. SDS affects many organs in the body and the symptoms may vary from individual to individual. The primary features of SDS include: bone marrow problems (leading to inadequate production of some types of white blood cells), a defect in the pancreas (leading to difficulties in digesting food), skeletal abnormalities, and short stature.

He will be in a special isolation unit for 3-6 months through the chemo & transplant.. how he body accepts the transplant largely determines his chance for survival. There are chances for infection, rejection, etc...

Here is the next hurdle. We can not find a suitable donor. They talk about matching 6 or 7 out of a possible 8 characteristics as the measure.. best is 8 of 8.
The best match on the national registry is a 4. The doctors really do not want to use this distant of a match.
All the family has been or is being tested. Nothing yet.

How you might be able to help. And yes, I know its a big deal and not something that is decided upon or done easily. Maybe you know someone that might be willing to do this.
Visit the International Donor Registry to sign up to donate blood cells. The test is painless and free. If you are lucky enough to match a sick child - you could save a life.

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What I think is really wrong (besides everythng else) is that there is sometimes a cost associated with joining the registry. Its like a computer generated lottery. Some people that have joined, do so at no cost. Others, get asked to pay. I was asked for $55.00
The explanation for this:
"A: The total cost to add a new member to the Be The Match Registry is about $100. This includes the cost of the testing needed to match donors to searching patients and related costs.
Be The Match relies on financial contributions to help cover the costs of adding members to the registry. Others have contributed toward the costs for you to join today. However, there are not always enough funds to cover the numbers of donors needed, so sometimes new members are asked to pay some of the registration costs when they join.
Your contribution will make it possible for more people like you to join in the future."

Sounds like more people with a rare disease having to fund their own research/developement/treatmets. It's just not right. They ask you to be tested to become a donor, and then want to charge you for it?? WTF?? I just didn't want people going there and completing the forms and then getting slapped with this in the end. if you do this, maybe you;ll get lucky and it'll be free.

The test is simple. They send you a package with a few cotton swabs. You swab your mouth and send it in for a DNA match. (you felons out there might want to skip this ;)
They run their tests and add you to the list.

On another sad note, they need to run the tests when she's old enough, but his little sister Isabella (pictured) may also have this disease.

I understand this is something huge that I'm asking but if there happens to be one or two people out there willing to do this, you just might be a match to save a child.

If not, I understand completely and prayers are appreciated.

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thanks very much,
Bobw
One way or the other, I'll keep you all posted.

Title: Re: A 5 year old needs some help
Post by mummymac on Aug 26th, 2009 at 2:34am
Oh my, I do not know what to say, I hope with all my heart that  a match is found.

My Husband is on the register here, and has come close to being used once or twice.

Lots of love and light to you , your brothers beautiful grandchildren and the whole family.

love and light

Tanya


Title: Re: A 5 year old needs some help
Post by ClusterChuck on Aug 26th, 2009 at 2:48am
Dayum, Bob!  My heart goes out to you and your family!

I had tried to get on the registry for one other clusterhead family member, but I was refused, due to my heart history.  I wish I could get on the list.

I hope, with all my heart, that a donor is found quickly.  Children that are sick, breaks me up, especially one with as serious a condition as you describe!

Prayers being sent up in his, and his sister's  name.

Chuck

Title: Re: A 5 year old needs some help
Post by LeLimey on Aug 26th, 2009 at 6:28am
I too can't be on the register any more due to my health problems and I can't give blood anymore either. That hurts, I really would love to be able to do both.

Good luck with finding a donor Bob, keep us updated won't you?


Title: Re: A 5 year old needs some help
Post by jon019 on Aug 26th, 2009 at 12:05pm
What a wonderful pic Bob, it breaks my heart what they and your family are going through. Unable to donate but you got my prayers and thoughts...

BTW...there is a fellow here at work who is on that donor registry. His marrow has been used and it has saved a child...he just beams when he talks about it
and says it's the best thing he ever did in his life...AND IT WAS SO EASY!

Best,

Jon

Title: Re: A 5 year old needs some help
Post by Jackie on Aug 26th, 2009 at 5:07pm
I'm so sorry, Bob.  This is heartbreaking.  Such beautiful children.

Your family is in our thoughts and prayers.


Title: Re: A 5 year old needs some help
Post by Sean C on Aug 26th, 2009 at 5:41pm
I will receive my swabbs in about a week Bob, if I'm a match to Jacob or anyone in need, I'm officially available. For the record, it cost me nothing to do it.

Thanks for giving me the opportunity to help Jacob today. He's in our prayers, make sure you let him know where thinking of him my friend.

Sean.................................

Title: Re: A 5 year old needs some help
Post by Sean C on Aug 26th, 2009 at 5:47pm
One last note, please don't take this the out of context. However, could we set up a donor page for him on face book with that link?

There are 250 million people on Facebook, not to mention Twitter, you never know is what I'm saying. There are lots of selfless people in the world, all we are looking for is one :)

Its just a thought, I would really like to see this turn out good, and I wouldn't want to leave any stone unturned.

Title: Re: A 5 year old needs some help
Post by Lobster on Aug 26th, 2009 at 5:48pm
Done.

It came out to $0 for me, but I made a donation anyway.

A total of $0, plus any gift entered above will be charged to your credit card. This tax-deductible payment helps cover donor registration costs, creating the opportunity for more people to join the registry. (If the amount shown is zero and you are not making a financial contribution, you do not need to enter credit card information.)

Title: Re: A 5 year old needs some help
Post by nani on Aug 26th, 2009 at 6:49pm
Oh my goodness, Bob, everything I've got is going out for Jacob. I like Sean's facebook idea.
Unfortunately, I was soundly rejected for marrow donation.
You all are in my thoughts and prayers.
hugs, nani

Title: Re: A 5 year old needs some help
Post by Artonio on Aug 26th, 2009 at 7:00pm
Prayers and vibes coming your way.

with warm regards,
Tony

Title: Re: A 5 year old needs some help
Post by QnHeartMM on Aug 26th, 2009 at 8:21pm
I take anti-inflamnatory meds frequently and therefore did not qualify. That sucks.

Title: Re: A 5 year old needs some help
Post by Charlie on Aug 26th, 2009 at 8:30pm
Beats me why epilepsy would be a hindrance to this but they say it is if seizures aren't under control. It makes no sense to me though.

All my prayers and thoughts to you and those beautiful children.

Charlie

Title: Re: A 5 year old needs some help
Post by ClusterChris on Aug 26th, 2009 at 9:23pm
Very sorry for the news Bob.  I would join if I could but you have to be a U.S citizen. If there is anyway to find out if I am a match let me know and I'm there.

Chris

Title: Re: A 5 year old needs some help
Post by barry_sword on Aug 26th, 2009 at 9:29pm
All our thoughts and prayers for Jacob. Beat this! [smiley=thumb.gif]

Title: Re: A 5 year old needs some help
Post by ClusterChris on Aug 26th, 2009 at 9:49pm
ok just to let my fellow canucks know, There is a Canadian "OneMatch" Site. Through the Canadian Red Cross. It's free as well!

Thank you for joining OneMatch!

Thank you for submitting your request to join the OneMatch Stem Cell and Marrow Network. You will be contacted by OneMatch within 8-10 working days to discuss your eligibility to receive a buccal swab kit and proceed with your enrolment. :) :) :)


Title: Re: A 5 year old needs some help
Post by Callico on Aug 26th, 2009 at 11:07pm
I'm sorry, but I can't either.  Would if I could!

Jerry

Edit to add:  They'll take my organs when I'm dead, but won't even take my blood while alive.

Title: Re: A 5 year old needs some help
Post by Pinkfloyd on Aug 26th, 2009 at 11:15pm
Thank you all VERY much. It means a lot to me, as you can imagine. It's tough for all of us to even talk about it. It wasn't easy to even post about it.

Thanks very much to everyone signing up or trying to sign up. They wouldn't take ME because of my heart attack. Had I known, I would have lied.
BTW, they tell us that they are finding a lot of matches for people in the US, from Europe. Maybe its an ancestral thing.

Bob

Title: Re: A 5 year old needs some help
Post by Jimi on Aug 26th, 2009 at 11:15pm
Yep.....two strikes against me.  Old age and cancer.

But I see that it has spread throughout facebook.

Good luck Bob.

Modified to add. Interesting on the ancestral thing.

Title: Re: A 5 year old needs some help
Post by Langa on Aug 27th, 2009 at 12:44am
Such beautiful children...they shouldn't have to suffer this way.  I'm sending this to everyone I know.

Praying a match is found soon.

Langa

Title: Re: A 5 year old needs some help
Post by Lefty on Aug 27th, 2009 at 6:26am

Quote:
What is it with us and rare diseases?


Bob, I can totally agree with the above statement. My sister recently lost her new born girl to a condition called Edwards syndrome or Trisomy 18.

Unfortunately I am unable to help personally, I have sent your plea on to many family and friends and directed them to pass it on to their contacts. I really hope and pray that the kids are successful in securing the donor they need.

God Bless..!


Lefty..!


Title: Re: A 5 year old needs some help
Post by deltadarlin on Aug 27th, 2009 at 8:19am
Bob,
If you or a family member could, set the little one up an account/page on Caringbridge.

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I don't have a face book account, but I will forward the info to my sis-in-law who belongs to a huge church.

Carolyn

Title: Re: A 5 year old needs some help
Post by Val_ on Aug 27th, 2009 at 9:22am
I signed up and am awaiting my marrow donor match testing kit in the mail.  I haven't been giving blood for the last year - since I've been poked and prodded on many tests for CH.   :P  My guinea pig days have been over for a little while, and I am glad I will have the opportunity to try to help here.
I am also passing on the word to those I know - both in person and on the web.    ;)  Don't forget word of mouth people just because the web is easier!!!
I am sorry little Jacob (and you and your family) are going through this, and am keeping you all in my thoughts Bob. [smiley=heart.gif]  I hope they find someone Very soon!!!   

Val

Title: Re: A 5 year old needs some help
Post by QnHeartMM on Aug 27th, 2009 at 10:24am
Very sorry to hear about this Bob. I did try to register but I was declined. My prayers are with you and your family.

Title: Re: A 5 year old needs some help
Post by Cathi_Pierce on Aug 27th, 2009 at 11:14am
5 years old! I can't fathom! And such beautiful children, too!
Bob, I'll call today. I admit to being a chicken, but if I can donate blood...well...........it's sure worth a try, isn't it?
Love those children, and feel the love they have for you, Bob.
Cathi

Title: Re: A 5 year old needs some help
Post by Peppermint on Aug 27th, 2009 at 12:27pm
Bob.. really sorry to hear about this situation.  I will spread the word wherever I can!

Pepp  8-)

Title: Re: A 5 year old needs some help
Post by Carl D on Aug 27th, 2009 at 1:44pm
Things like this really bug me to no end. Children shouldn't have to endure this kind of suffering. Will definitely keep him in my thoughts & prayers.

I wouldn't qualify as a donor, but put a post on my FB page for marrow donors. I copied it from Artonio's link.  ;) (Thanks Tony)

Peace,
Carl D

Title: Re: A 5 year old needs some help
Post by midwestbeth on Aug 27th, 2009 at 1:58pm
Just finished the registration. (Took awhile, I kept getting those annoying pop-up screen trojan viruses.  Thank God for anti-virus.)  The total charge was 0.

Your family will be in my thoughts and prayers.

I will do what I can to spread the word!

Beth

Title: Re: A 5 year old needs some help
Post by Ginger S. on Aug 27th, 2009 at 5:09pm
I am sorry I can not donate due to my own medical issues but my prayers are with you!!!

Title: Re: A 5 year old needs some help
Post by eddie on Aug 27th, 2009 at 11:21pm
My heart goes out to the young kids who need this and are
unable to get the treatment they need.

My thoughts and prayers are with this family.

eddie

Title: Re: A 5 year old needs some help
Post by Pinkfloyd on Aug 29th, 2009 at 12:56am
Thanks to everyone for all you're doing, including your thoughts, prayers, ideas and support. It's all vital to getting through this for everyone involved.

Jennifer, my niece (Jacob's mom) did set up a webpage to keep everyone informed with any news. You'd need to register but then you're updated anytime there is news.

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But I'll keep you all updated here also.

We all really appreciate all the facebook activity and all the able bodies that have stepped up to be tested.

I think the worst news I ever heard about my own heart attack was that it made me unable to be tested. Just doesn't seem right.  >:(

Bob

Title: Re: A 5 year old needs some help
Post by mynm156 on Sep 5th, 2009 at 4:29am
I csn only prsy snd send good vibes to you , your family and most of all Jacob!

MYNM156

Title: Re: A 5 year old needs some help
Post by Pinkfloyd on Sep 6th, 2009 at 5:49pm
This in from Jacob's Mom and Dad ;-)

Great news we heard from the hospital that they have found a donor that is 90% match. This the best possible scenario next to having a sibling match. This will greatly reduce the odds of the graft vs. host disease. All we know is it is a 29 year old male that has recently had his blood work tested and has agreed to follow through with the transplant.

We will be meeeting with the Transplant team next Wed. to find out the next step in preparation for the transplant.

We appreciate all the love and support through this process. The number of people who have shown interest in being a donor has been simply amazing. We ask that even though we have been blessed with this great news, that anyone interested in ordering their kits please do so if they haven't already. There are many people that are in Jacob's situation that can be blessed with a donor as well.

We have a family friend that is still waiting for her prayer to be answered with a donor. She is in the hospital facing the same challenges as Jacob.

We will update next Wednesday after the appointment.

Thank you for all the continued love, support and prayers.
Mike and Jen

Personally, I just want to thank everyone for their support in this. it's still going to be a long hard road and the support is what will help everyone get through the tough times.

Bobw

Title: Re: A 5 year old needs some help
Post by Jackie on Sep 6th, 2009 at 6:13pm
Fantastic, Bob....

Continued love, support and prayers.....

Jackie

Title: Re: A 5 year old needs some help
Post by Sean C on Sep 6th, 2009 at 8:44pm
Hugs to all [smiley=hug.gif]

Title: Re: A 5 year old needs some help
Post by Kevin_M on Sep 7th, 2009 at 7:09am
Great news, Bob.   Beautiful to hear.

Title: Re: A 5 year old needs some help
Post by Lizzie2 on Sep 7th, 2009 at 9:19am
Bob,

Was so sorry to hear of Jacob's diagnosis from Sean on Facebook.  Now I'm thrilled to read here that a potential donor match has been found!!  I sincerely hope and pray that this works for Jacob!!

I don't qualify as a donor, but I offer up my thoughts, prayers, good vibes, and all else that Jacob and all the other children suffering will receive the help and care that they need.

Hugs,
Carrie

Title: Re: A 5 year old needs some help
Post by Carl D on Sep 7th, 2009 at 3:12pm
I actually got the news on Facebook that a donor has been found. That is why the internet ROCKS!
Thanks to Sean for posting the page on Facebook, as I was forwarding it to all of my friends with a 'pass it on' so Sean, YOU ROCK!!!

This is the best news I'll hear all week.

Peace,
Carl D

Title: Re: A 5 year old needs some help
Post by midwestbeth on Sep 8th, 2009 at 3:08pm
That is great news about Jacob!  I will definately keep him in my thoughts and prayers.

Title: Re: A 5 year old needs some help
Post by Val_ on Sep 8th, 2009 at 8:31pm
Hoping for the best with this potential donor... now it's just waiting to hear more upcoming good news.   ;) 

Val

Title: Re: A 5 year old needs some help
Post by Pinkfloyd on Oct 17th, 2009 at 5:39pm
For those of you following this story, here's the latest. This is from Mike, Jacob's dad.

before that though, I just want to thank everyone for your help and support on this. You've all been wonderful and some have gone above and beyond and I'll never be able to properly think you for your help.

I went over and visited Jacob the other day and brought him a lot of souvineers autographed by the White Sox for him. Some of the players really stepped up for the little guy.

Anyway, here's whats happenin....

Today is Saturday, October 17th, AKA: Day -4.

Jacob was officially admitted on Thursday. It was a very long day... On Wednesday afternoon, we were scheduled for an appointment at Northwestern in Radiology to prep for the radiation treatment. There was a mix-up in schedule, so we were told we had to be back on Thursday morning at 6:15a.m. After the radiology appointment, Jacob, Jennifer and I went out for breakfast before checking in to Childrens. We arrived at Childrens and were admitted around 9:30a.m. Unfortunately, the room for Jacob wasn't quite available yet, so we spent the first half of the day in the Stem Cell Transplant Clinic.
-Thursday was the first day of chemotherapy which started around 10am. By 1pm the dosage was complete and Jacob was "free" from his machine. We were moved to an isolation room because the standard oncology rooms were all full. Jacob will remain in this room until Tuesday. We played games all day on Thursday...all Jacobs favorites and some new ones as well.
I went home Thursday evening and Jennifer stayed with Jacob.
-Friday was day 2 of chemotherapy. Jacob started to experience a "roller coaster" of emotions...tired, sad, silly and had started to express being homesick. Grandma "Shelby" Kowalik and Auntie Lauren made a visit mid-day for a few hours which made Jacob happy. Uncle Rob Wold also stopped by to say hello in the afternoon.
-Today I arrived at the hospital around 11:30a.m. with Grandma Shelby, Zachary and Isabella. We ordered a pizza for lunch and played some games in Jacobs room. Jacob and Isabella colored some beautiful pictures and Zack was happy to find an X-Box available to wheel into the room! Jacob has been very tired and emotional today. He has shed many tears and is insistent that Jennifer not leave for the evening. It is now 3:00p.m. and Jacob has finally fallen asleep and will hopefully get some much needed rest.

A week ago Monday, Jacob had a series of tests in preparation for his treatment and to ensure he was otherwise healthy enough for medications etc...One of the tests was a bone marrow test. When we checked in on Thursday, nurse Becky had informed us that they had received some of the initial results from that test. In past bone marrow tests, there was no leukemia yet detected. On this last test, they did identify a very small amount of the leukemia now in his blood. Becky explained that the amount was not substantial and described it as "less than half" of what might be visible in a leukemia patient who was in remission. This news does not change at all the process or schedule that is in place. It does however confirm for us that we made the right decision for treatment and that the timing of his transplant couldn't be better.

Jacob will continue to receive his chemo treatments tomorrow and Monday. On Tuesday, he will be moved into an official isolation room and will travel twice by ambulance to Northwestern to receive his radiation treatments. Wednesday will be his transplant day..."Day 0".

The staff at Childrens including the volunteers have been absolutely wonderful! It is not always a happy place to be and many of the patients have very difficult days. Our first day here, I thought to myself that these nurses must have developed such a high tolerance to their emotions to be able to endure each day on the job. But after several more days of being here around the staff, it is apparent that they love their jobs and they are rewarded each day with the smiles on the kids faces who they are helping to get better.

Jacobs "worms" have been a hit with the nurses!! In case I didn't mention in the last update, each of the worms(PICC line feeds) has a name: Max, BJ and Superman.

Our entire family is grateful for all of the love, support and prayers. It helps to carry us through each day.

-Mike


Title: Re: A 5 year old needs some help
Post by deltadarlin on Oct 17th, 2009 at 5:45pm
Thinking about you all.  Wishing all the best for Jacob and hopefully the next few days/weeks will pass quickly for all.

Carolyn

Title: Re: A 5 year old needs some help
Post by Mosaicwench on Oct 17th, 2009 at 6:34pm
Thanks for the update.  We'll keep praying and hoping for the best outcome.

For everyone.

Title: Re: A 5 year old needs some help
Post by Charlie on Oct 17th, 2009 at 7:17pm
Thinking of you and Jacob too.

Damn this kid needs a break!

Charlie

Title: Re: A 5 year old needs some help
Post by Groov on Oct 17th, 2009 at 7:50pm
Well, I'll sign up even though you have a match already.
I just read up, it is not difficult to do. Maybe I'll match some other kid.
Cheers, Dave

Title: Re: A 5 year old needs some help
Post by Pinkfloyd on Nov 8th, 2009 at 7:42pm
Just thought I'd give everyone an update on Jacob's condition and treatments. Thanks to everyone for your continued support.

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Day +15
Posted Nov 5, 2009 11:17am
When we last provided an update on Sunday, we had seen 3 consecutive days of cell count improvement.
The trend continued on Monday as we saw the WBC, Platelet and ANC all increase and Hemoglobin stayed flat. The mouth sores started to heal and pain from them was much less. The sores on his bottom are still tender but healing slowly. Hair is falling out on pillow, shirt and in the bath. Jacob is irritated with finding small pieces on his mouth as he lays in bed. We suggested shaving it to make the strands smaller but he was against it. During his visit on Monday, Dr. Duerst said that his medication bags on his pump will start to be reduced and some of the med's will now be given orally. For the last week or so, Jacob has been on Neupogen which helps to stimulate the WBC and ANC after transplant. This medication will be taken away on Tuesday. Over the next couple of days, we will then see a drop in the WBC and ANC levels. The White Blood Cells will level off and then slowly grow again in number as the body takes over without the help of the Neupogen. Dr. Duerst suggested today that we try to leave the room (with a mask on) and take a walk down in the hallways of 4W(4 West is the area where Jacob is that is reserved for Oncology, Radiation and Stem Cell Transplant patients). Jacob wasn't in the mood on Monday to take a walk. He was having a difficult day with his emotions and being very difficult for Jen. He was sad, mad crying and yelling at times. This is partially due to the fact that his constant pain medication was also taken away today which is causing some withdrawal symptoms for his body.

Tuesday is the day that his PICC line dressing is changed and cleaned each week. It is quite painful and not a fun time for Jacob. The blood counts this morning were again very strong and doubled yet again for the WBC and ANC. This is the last day that the Neupogen will have an effect on the numbers which we expect to drop tomorrow. The physical therapist made a visit and Jacob did an excellent job during his session that lasted nearly 30 minutes. His mood was quite good all day. Jen bathed Jacob and for the first time he was actually comfortable in the bath and actually wanted to play for a while in the tub. Jen had been preparing Jacob all day for his first walk out of the room. He still was not very excited about it when I arrived on Tuesday evening. I thought for sure that he would be thrilled to get out of his room! We convinced him to put on his mask and off we went into the beautiful halls of 4 West. Jacob was very nervous and asked Jen to carry him for the first portion of the walk. We journeyed down about 6 rooms to the end of the hall and passed room 403 where Jacob first stayed before moving to the isolation room. That was a pretty symbolic event as we have come such a long way in these last 3 weeks. We took a full lap around the 4W area passing twice by another little patient, about 3 years old who was walking with her parents.

On Tuesday afternoon, Jacob started to frequent the bathroom and was experiencing a serious case of diahrhea. This would continue through Wednesday and is thought to be another symptom of withdrawal that his body is showing from being taken off the morphine. Wednesday counts dropped as expected. WBC went down from 14.5 to 6.5; Hgb went up to 12.0, Platelets went up from 170 to 237 and ANC went down to 5,078. The doctor said that he looks great. They will watch the diahrhea and for other symptoms of Graft Vs. Host Disease and test anything that looks suspicious. His stool will be checked to make sure no other infection or virus is present. Jacob and I had a good day...spent some time doing his homework and we even played a game of battleship. We took another walk around the hallways and he said that his knees were sore. I explained that from all the time laying in bed, his muscles aren't getting the exercise they normally would and he needs to continue to take these walks to build his strength back up. At bedtime, I was doing some work on my laptop and we were watching the World Series. Jacob asked if I would close my computer and lay in bed with him and watch a movie. We fell asleep together watching Kung Fu Panda and he slept solid all night.

Jacob is still not eating much. He will try things and take a few bites here and there, but not much of an appetite. The protein and fats that he is receiving via IV has been on a 24 hour drip. Yesterday, they reduced this down to 20 hours a day with the same volume of protein and fat and today this will be reduced to 16 hours a day. The doctor said that the blood sugar levels feel "satisfied" because of the IV which is partially the reason for Jacob not having an appetite. With the hours of the IV being reduced and gradually reducing the volume/doseage of protein and fat, his natural appetite should slowly start to build again.
His hair is very thin now with very little left on the sides and back of his head which has been falling out rapidly while laying in bed. Jacob has received much support from friends and family about everything including his hair loss. If you haven't seen the YouTube video that was made by some friends who showed their support for Jacob, you should check it out. It was a very nice gesture that really made Jacob smile. Grandpa "Shelby" Kowalik joined in on the fun shaving his head on Sunday. The picture that Jacob saw made him smile but others were quite frankly frightened by the sight!(jk Dad).

We often say thank you and people say it's not necessary, but I really am blown away by all the support that we are receiving. The gifts of love, prayers, food, fundraisers and all other simple acts of kindness are so gracious. We ask for continued prayers and positive thoughts as we navigate forward watching for the GVHD.

Love and thanks,
Mike, Jen and family

Day +16
Posted Nov 6, 2009 4:51pm
GREAT NEWS! We just found out that Jacob's body is 100% donor cells. The doctors were hoping for 80-85% donor engraftment but we are 100%. Jacob's diseased cells are now gone and he has healthy cells. Once again Jacob is amazing!

The goal now is to get Jacob off the liquid IV bags hanging on his pump. Jacob began taking his medication orally today. First time since he had the mouth/throat sores. He will be taking 5-6 medications daily for the next 6 months.

Today he finished his nutrition bag that he has been on for the past 3 weeks. Hopefully he will begin to have an appetite now and eat solid foods.

Also, today Jacob has officially joined his bald family and friends. He looks so cute!

This morning during the transplant teams rounds they once again said Jacob is doing great. I asked them about the purple dark racoon eyes. He said that is from the radation. The arm pits, eyes and groin area will darken more than other parts of the body. The skin color will lighten over time.

This morning the doctor said that Jacob will be ready to go to the Kohl's house probably next Tuesday. By Tuesday he will be finished with his 10 day antibiotic. I told him that is great that Jacob will be ready by Tuesday but next Friday would be fine too! Mommy isn't ready to be left alone. The doctor just laughed! I told the doctor to please feel free to send a nurse over with us.

Alot of milestones today. Even though we received great news about his body having 100% donor cells we still are at risk for the next 84 days.

Thank you again for the overwhelming love, support and prayers.

Love
Mike and Jen

Yes, its a lot of info but Mike (Daddy) really appreciates all the support they've received, as does everyone, abd wants to keep you up to date with as much info as possible. I think that writing about it all helps also. I think we can relate with that.

Thanks to all here,
Bobw
P.s check out the youtube video if you haven't yet.

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Post by Grandma_Sweet_Boy on Nov 8th, 2009 at 7:53pm
I've wondered how Jacob was doing so it's great to see this update.

What a little cutie he is and how very brave!

Continued prayers and good thoughts going out to Jacob and his family.

Hugs
Carol

Title: Re: A 5 year old needs some help
Post by Karla on Nov 9th, 2009 at 11:24am
Thanks for the update.  Will continue to pray for him and your family.

Title: Re: A 5 year old needs some help
Post by ClusterChris on Nov 9th, 2009 at 11:31am
Thanks for that, You just made my day(not just an expression)  The video rocked, your familly support rocks, and best of all, Jacob you rock buddy!

Keep up the fight and thank you for the inspiration!

Chris

Title: Re: A 5 year old needs some help
Post by LadyLuv on Nov 9th, 2009 at 12:17pm
Bob I am Praying for that sweet lil' child and your entire family... but I am unable to get on the registry due to breast cancer, and sickle-cell-anemia.

I love the face book idea...

many, many Prayers heading your way..


Peace & Blessings
LadyLuv

Title: Re: A 5 year old needs some help
Post by MichelleP12 on Nov 16th, 2009 at 10:29am
It's on facebook? anybody can post the link? I only got onto facebook this past week so I don't know how to get around very much there.

I also made the phone call to the donor match when I read the story about those cute little kids, but was declined until I get my high blood pressure under control. when I do, will contact them again, as I put the number (and website) into my cellphone.
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Michelle in K.C., MO

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Post by Melissa on Nov 16th, 2009 at 1:07pm
I don't know how I missed this!  I have tears in my eyes after reading the latest update.  Thank you God and Jacob is still in my thoughts and prayers as well!!

Here's to nothing but happy milestones ahead!

:)mel

Title: Re: A 5 year old needs some help
Post by cash5542 on Nov 16th, 2009 at 1:20pm
I didn't miss this thread, just speechless. So unfair that a child should have to go through so much. Is there anything we can do, send cards, stuff to do in the hospital, books ANYTHING!!!! ????Poor litle guy, but he looks like a real trooper! My prayers and thoughts are with the family.

Charlotte

Title: Re: A 5 year old needs some help
Post by barry_sword on Nov 16th, 2009 at 7:05pm
Jacob, all we have still heading your way, keep the fight! ;)

   love B&A [smiley=heart.gif] [smiley=hug.gif]

Title: Re: A 5 year old needs some help
Post by Val_ on Nov 16th, 2009 at 7:43pm
Ooooohhhh yeah.  Glad to keep hearing things are moving in the right direction.   8-)  I keep gettin little reminders and think of you all often Jacob and fam - just got my little donor card in the mail the other day, and have gotten other things from them as I have kept reading your updates.  Keeping you in my thoughts.

:-*  Val

Title: Re: A 5 year old needs some help
Post by Jrcox on Nov 16th, 2009 at 10:50pm
I wish there was more I could do.

((hug))

Jrcox

Title: Re: A 5 year old needs some help
Post by Pinkfloyd on Nov 18th, 2009 at 12:14am
Thanks you all for your continued support.

Jacob has been having a real tough time of things. I suppose its all to be expected but that doesn't make it any easier to witness.

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He's going through the host vs donor disease stage, which is expected and being handled but it's showing up as bad rashes.

When he is allowed to be discharged to the isolation home, where he'll be for about 3 months, I'll post an address so those of you that would like to send a card, can send it.

Thanks again,
Bob

Title: Re: A 5 year old needs some help
Post by Pinkfloyd on May 5th, 2010 at 5:31pm
I know a lot of you were following this story and I wanted to give you all the latest update from Jen. Thank you all from me for your continued support. It is incredible how much support like that can mean to people in an ordeal like this.
Helping to keep the family strong and able to focus helped keep Jacob strong, no doubt.
--

Thank you everyone for your prayers. Through Gods good will and your prayers Jacob is on his way to a great long recovery. He is going back to school today for the first time since October 9th. Transplant was October 21st and he is doing well. The Monosomy 7 blood disease and Leukemia is gone! We are just battle Graft vs. Host disease which could take anywhere from 1 - 5 years.

Thank you again for your continued prayers to get him to 100%.

God Bless you
Mike and Jen

Title: Re: A 5 year old needs some help
Post by QnHeartMM on May 5th, 2010 at 5:38pm
Wow that is such great news. I lost my own dad to Leukemia 39 years ago this Sunday and am so thankful that you have a successful story!

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Post by Melissa on May 5th, 2010 at 5:59pm
Got the update on FB today.  SO SO happy for Jacob!!!! :) :) :) :)

Title: Re: A 5 year old needs some help
Post by Mosaicwench on May 5th, 2010 at 6:22pm
The power of prayer and giving. . . Wonderful update!

Title: Re: A 5 year old needs some help
Post by Mattrf AKA BigMatt on May 5th, 2010 at 6:37pm
So glad to hear he is doing better and back to school.
Please post a newer photo of the little guy, the one above made my heart sink when I saw it.
The look on his face is just heartbreaking, it is so unfair for someone so young to have to deal with such pain, we are older and even though pain is still not easy to deal with we can at least understand it but someone so young just does not, that picture is going to haunt me for a while but at least I know he is doing better now, thanks for updating us on him and again so glad he is doing better.

Title: Re: A 5 year old needs some help
Post by Charlie on May 5th, 2010 at 6:47pm
Whew. As I said before: This kid needed a break. I guess things are looking up a bit.

That picture is something.

Praying for more good stuff.

Charlie

Title: Re: A 5 year old needs some help
Post by Guiseppi on May 5th, 2010 at 7:05pm
That's great news, the prayers will continue. What  a little fighter.

Joe

Title: Re: A 5 year old needs some help
Post by Jackie on May 5th, 2010 at 7:59pm
How good is that!!! :)
Such a wonderful update....makes our day for sure!!!

Title: Re: A 5 year old needs some help
Post by jon019 on May 5th, 2010 at 8:13pm
Thank you for that wonderful news...Jacob has never been far from my thoughts...Happy dance time!

Best,

Jon

Title: Re: A 5 year old needs some help
Post by Pinkfloyd on Jun 16th, 2010 at 7:36pm
Here's a brief update on Jacob.

He's doing as well as can be expected but is still battling Host vs. Donor disease as you can see. Trying to enjoy the summer.

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He has had lot's of support from many places and different people. Just like the support here, it sometimes is as helpful for the family as it is for Jacob.

Coach Quenneville of the WORLD CHAMPION BLACKHAWKS (Whoooo Hoooo) stopped in at Children's Memorial and Jacob and his brother Zack got to see and touch THE Cup. As you can see, the team isn't just bringing it to bars and talk shows.

Thanks for all your continued support,
Bob
Did I mention the Blackhawks are Stanley Cup Champions???  :)

Title: Re: A 5 year old needs some help
Post by Jackie on Jun 16th, 2010 at 7:58pm
How cool is that!
Little Jacob is a fighter for sure.
Continued prayers and positive thoughts.

Jackie

Oh.....what was that trophy for?  ;)

Title: Re: A 5 year old needs some help
Post by Lefty on Jun 17th, 2010 at 6:31am
That a boy Jacob... ;) Thanks for the Pics Bob..



Lefty

Title: Re: A 5 year old needs some help
Post by Mattrf AKA BigMatt on Jun 17th, 2010 at 10:44am
Still praying for the little guy, glad he is able to have some fun and not many people can say they have seen let alone touched that cup, how cool is that?

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