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Title: Took a big step. Post by Mattrf AKA BigMatt on Apr 23rd, 2010 at 2:43pm
I have been dating a great lady her name is Nancy, we have been seeing each other for 11 months now we met on EHarmony, she was the first person I talked to on the site and I was hers, almost like the darn commercials. Lol
Well a couple months back we decided it was time to cohabitate. We found a place kind of half way between her work and mine and moved in a couple weeks ago. I am very happy and the house truly feels like a home and I love waking up next to her every morning, she really is a great person and I love her dearly. I am amazed that she not on does but continues to be willing to deal with my SUNCT and me being on medication all the time and dealing with me being in pain pretty much 24 hours a day. I have been in this cycle for about 15 months now so she has never known me when I am pain free, I keep telling her “if you think I am fun now, wait until you see me when I am not in pain” lol I am amazed and so thankful I found her and that she has such a beautiful and big heart, not sure there are many people out there that would willingly start a relationship with someone in the same condition as I am in and I told her all about it before our first face to face meeting and she still went through with the date and now lives with me, am I a lucky man or what? I just wanted to share with you all and brag a little about how lucky I feel right now. She even likes going for rides on my Harley, could she be any better? 8-) |
Title: Re: Took a big step. Post by Melissa on Apr 23rd, 2010 at 3:20pm
Love has a tendency to break down all barriers.
SO happy for you Matt! :) |
Title: Re: Took a big step. Post by Karla on Apr 23rd, 2010 at 3:31pm
Congradulations! So happy for you Matt.
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Title: Re: Took a big step. Post by Jeannie on Apr 23rd, 2010 at 4:28pm
Matt, that's wonderful. Thanks or sharing your happiness with us! I'd say Nancy's pretty lucky too!
Jeannie |
Title: Re: Took a big step. Post by LeLimey on Apr 23rd, 2010 at 4:57pm
I think that is wonderful :)
I'm glad she can see that you are Matt, who just happens to have CH and not CH who just happens to have Matt. We're still people first and foremost and the day I let the crapfest that is CH consume ME is not in sight - onwards and upwards Matt! And isn't it about time we were introduced to our new sister in law?! |
Title: Re: Took a big step. Post by Grandma_Sweet_Boy on Apr 23rd, 2010 at 5:10pm
Matt - that's awesome. Good for you.
Hugs to you and your lady. Carol |
Title: Re: Took a big step. Post by Mattrf AKA BigMatt on Apr 23rd, 2010 at 6:14pm
This is Nancy and I on Valentines day.
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Title: Re: Took a big step. Post by Iddy on Apr 23rd, 2010 at 7:22pm
What a great begining to a wonderful story.
Happy for the both of you :) Iddy |
Title: Re: Took a big step. Post by -johnny- on Apr 23rd, 2010 at 7:57pm
man i remember back when i was about 20 and hanging out trying to carry a conversation with a girl i was interested in and getting hit. went somethin like this
"yeah i think your pretty cool too" "yes i love that movie" "oh yeah" "yep" "uh yeah" "uh" "mmmfff" "uh..... hey i'll be right back" ..........20 minutes later "hey where'd she go?" "she left?!?!" "DOH!!!" i laugh about it now but dating was tough back in those days. lol looks like ya gotcha a fine lookin woman there matt. congratulations ;) |
Title: Re: Took a big step. Post by Mattrf AKA BigMatt on Apr 26th, 2010 at 11:25am
Thanks guys, I feel very lucky every day I wake up and see her there lying next to me.
She keeps saying she is the lucky one and that I just cannot be real, guess she has never been with a man that know how to treat a lady and does it every day. Lol She keeps me grounded and is a very good reminder that no matter how bad things get, there is good in life and it is right there with me. ;) |
Title: Re: Took a big step. Post by Linda_Howell on Apr 26th, 2010 at 12:39pm
It's the Harley, Matt. It gets them every time. ;)
Gosh what a good-looking couple you two are. I am so very happy for both of you. |
Title: Re: Took a big step. Post by Lefty on Apr 26th, 2010 at 12:47pm
Good for you Matt...! Are we all invited to the wedding, we promise to bring our own 02..... ;)
Lefty |
Title: Re: Took a big step. Post by Charlie on Apr 26th, 2010 at 1:53pm |
Title: Re: Took a big step. Post by black on Apr 26th, 2010 at 2:31pm
happy for you :)
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Title: Re: Took a big step. Post by Mattrf AKA BigMatt on Apr 26th, 2010 at 3:48pm Lefty wrote on Apr 26th, 2010 at 12:47pm:
She has not brought that up and very smart not to, I am still getting over my first marriage it has only been a little over two years and not ready to entertain doing it again at least not yet. I know one day I will be ready to try again just not yet and since neither of us wants kids there is no rush. |
Title: Re: Took a big step. Post by Lefty on Apr 26th, 2010 at 5:03pm
And right you are sir...!
Lefty |
Title: Re: Took a big step. Post by Linda_Howell on Apr 26th, 2010 at 5:25pm Quote:
Might want to think about changing this under your picture then Matt. ;) I know where Redwood city is and I am sorry I didn't try to meet up with you and your girl friend before I left Calif. to move to Kentucky last year. I have a feeling you are one of the ones who has never actually met another ch-er. I could have changed that. :-/ (I grew up in SoCal and lived in Redding before moving here) |
Title: Re: Took a big step. Post by sandie99 on Apr 27th, 2010 at 6:18am
Matt,
That is wonderful news. Many congratulations! :) Sanna |
Title: Re: Took a big step. Post by Mattrf AKA BigMatt on Apr 27th, 2010 at 10:59am Linda_Howell wrote on Apr 26th, 2010 at 5:25pm:
Oops guess I forgot to update my profile, need to dump the part about the wife and I moved to Mountain View as well, I will get right on that. ;D |
Title: Re: Took a big step. Post by George on Apr 27th, 2010 at 11:12am
Congratulations, Matt. To both of you.
Best wishes, George |
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