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Message started by Karla on Nov 30th, 2010 at 9:16pm

Title: RIP Charlie
Post by Karla on Nov 30th, 2010 at 9:16pm
My beloved friend and confidont of 10 years went on to go to heaven today.  His day started out happy and bright.  He went for a walk and a car ride and a trip to the vets office all of which he loves.  He had a scheduled surgery to remove a rapidly growing tomor on his front leg/stomach area.  The tumor was cancerous and went deep into the muscle.  He lost lots of blood during the surgery and the surgeon even went back in to make sure everything was ok.  She said it is without a doubt would have attacked his liver and kidney organs and had internal bleeding soon from the tumor if did nothing. We were called to his side around 5pm.  He recognized us and wagged his tail.  At 6:00 despite blood transfusion and oxygen given to him he took his last breaths and died.  Ted and I cant quit crying.  I keep looking at all his things around the house and wonder when he will come walking up to bathe me or get a belly rub.  I know he is no longer blind, and can run and jump and swim and do all the fun things he wants to do but I miss him so my heart breaks.  Thanks for all your prayers for his surgery and if you could please pray for my broken heart I would appreciate it.  I have a feeling it is going to be awhile. 

Title: Re: RIP Charlie
Post by his wife on Nov 30th, 2010 at 9:44pm
:'(    I am so sorry you lost your beloved Charlie.  My heart breaks for you.  There are no words...only time will bring less pain and heal the hurt.  Try to remember what a wonderful companion he was and the joy he brought to you and what a wonderful life you obviously gave him.  One day when you think of him you'll smile instead of cry.  Know he is running and playing and painfree.  Prayers your way.

Title: Re: RIP Charlie
Post by Guiseppi on Nov 30th, 2010 at 9:51pm
I've said it before, it's painfully amazing to me how attached you can get to a stupid dog.  :'( Keeping you in our thoughts karla. [smiley=hug.gif]

Joe

Title: Re: RIP Charlie
Post by Mike NZ on Nov 30th, 2010 at 10:20pm
It's incredible how our pets make such an impact on our lives. Many of us here know the pain you are going through with the loss of Charlie. You at least know you did all you could but it still doesn't bring him back. In time you'll think more about all the wonderful times you had, so try to think of them now and try to smile as well as cry.

Title: Re: RIP Charlie
Post by jon019 on Nov 30th, 2010 at 11:00pm
Feathers or fur...two legs or four...family is FAMILY...so sorry for your loss.

Best,

Jon

Title: Re: RIP Charlie
Post by Callico on Nov 30th, 2010 at 11:00pm
I'm sorry.   [smiley=hug.gif]

Title: Re: RIP Charlie
Post by thebbz on Nov 30th, 2010 at 11:24pm
All dogs go to heaven.
sorry dear
the bb

Title: Re: RIP Charlie
Post by George on Dec 1st, 2010 at 12:35am
I'm sorry, Karla.

All the best,

George

Title: Re: RIP Charlie
Post by barry_sword on Dec 1st, 2010 at 7:27am
Losing a pet is one of the hardest things, so sorry for your loss  :'(

Title: Re: RIP Charlie
Post by Mosaicwench on Dec 1st, 2010 at 8:33am
So very sorry Karla.

Title: Re: RIP Charlie
Post by bejeeber on Dec 1st, 2010 at 2:03pm
You've lost a very close, wonderful family member and companion whose spirit lit up your life.

That's one of the toughest things to have to go through. Very sorry.  :'(

Here's to Charlie and the 10 great years you had with him.

Title: Re: RIP Charlie
Post by Melissa on Dec 1st, 2010 at 3:20pm
Karla, my thoughts and prayers are with you... :(

Title: Re: RIP Charlie
Post by Charlie on Dec 1st, 2010 at 4:21pm
So sorry Karla. I've been there too. These creatures....It just ain't fair.

Charlie

Title: Re: RIP Charlie
Post by Jackie on Dec 1st, 2010 at 5:22pm
I'm sorry, Karla....the loss of a beloved pet is a true heartache.

Title: Re: RIP Charlie
Post by seaworthy on Dec 1st, 2010 at 9:07pm

jon019 wrote on Nov 30th, 2010 at 11:00pm:
Feathers or fur...two legs or four...family is FAMILY...so sorry for your loss.

Best,

Jon


Well said.

Losing a buddy hurts and it hurts bad.

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Title: Re: RIP Charlie
Post by LadyLuv on Dec 2nd, 2010 at 12:55pm
My Dearest Karla...

We love our pets so much, and it's so hard to let them go. Losing a pet has a drastic impact on our lives. Some might say I shouldn't say it, but when I lost Princess, my beloved Miniature Poodle, it felt equal to or worse than that of losing some of my human family members. Losing some one you love causes extreme anguish and sorrow. This is a natural reaction  whether human or animal; and the stages of mourning are the same. Grievers feel the identical shock and denial, anger and guilt, sorrow and depression.

Karla, it is okay to cry! It's okay to grieve over your loss. You have the right to grieve because you've lost a loyal companion and a best friend. You've lost a family member who gave you unconditional love and acceptance. You've lost the one who loved you no matter what you did or didn't do.

It may sound crazy, but to help me overcome the sorrow and grief I was feeling when Princess died, my son and nephews had a burial ceremony to say goodbye to our dear angel.

Princess was my only pet, but If you have other pets, they are most likely grieving also. Let them be a part of it all. Write a eulogy to say how much you loved your little one and tell about all the good times and happiness you shared. Talk about your pain and loss to someone else who will understand what you are going through.

I will keep you in my Prayers....

Peace & Blessings
Lady Luv

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