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Cluster Headache Help and Support >> Getting to Know Ya >> Finally found a place people understand!! http://www.clusterheadaches.com/cgi-bin/yabb2/YaBB.pl?num=1297337615 Message started by PatrickI on Feb 10th, 2011 at 6:33am |
Title: Finally found a place people understand!! Post by PatrickI on Feb 10th, 2011 at 6:33am
After another restless night I stumbled across a link to this site. I was amazed. 31 years old and been suffering from CH for a couple years now. It's been a stuggle recently as my headaches have gotten a little longer and stonger in length and intensity. It was especially nice to see that the "shadows" I had been having were real and not just in my head. lol pardon the pun. The biggest struggle I have recently is with my sponsor. As a recovering alcoholic, it is hard to get my sponsor to understand what I am going through. He thinks I am just slacking off when really I just need to get some rest. For it is very hard to come by these days. I printed off the Wikipedia sheet for him as a start which I will give to him today. Anyways, look forward to talking to and hearing from you all. I don't feel so alone anymore here in Ga.
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Title: Re: Finally found a place people understand!! Post by wimsey1 on Feb 10th, 2011 at 7:34am
Hey Patrick, and double welcome! Glad you found us. It's really important for your sponsor to know (at least intellectually) what you're going through. Perhaps the best way is to get him on to this site. Maybe do it together and troll for an hour or two. You know the importance of support vs pity, or worse, self pity and the bad places that can take you. So...help him support. Also, there are a lot of docs who want to prescribe narcotics for this. As a rule, they won't help the hit, the CH or the cycle. And maybe you need to be especially careful with that. Anyway, glad you're here. Look forward to hearing more details about what you've tried and what hasn't worked. God bless! lance
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Title: Re: Finally found a place people understand!! Post by Bob Johnson on Feb 10th, 2011 at 10:45am
The most difficult task of our life is to develop autonomy without becoming isolated.
Some of us are in a position where this struggle is harder than for others: Guess I would put you in that group. The bind between your capacity for self-care and the powerful belief system of 12-step-groups can be a tough knot -- but in the end it is OUR life to shape/control/for which we find purpose. You have needs for self-care which your sponsor, perhaps the group, cannot understand, therefore, support. Then, the choice is: whose life is primary? ===== It is only possible to succeed at second-rate pursuits—like becoming a millionaire or a prime minister, winning a war, seducing beautiful women, flying through the stratosphere or landing on the moon. First-rate pursuits—involving, as they must, trying to understand what life is about and trying to convey that understanding—inevitably result in a sense of failure. A Napoleon, a Churchill, a Roosevelt can feel themselves to be successful, but never a Socrates, a Pascal, a Blake. Understanding is forever unattainable. There lies the inevitability of failure in embarking upon its quest, which is none the less the only one worthy of serious attention. Malcolm Muggeridge, quoted in, IF IGNORANCE IS BLISS, WHY AREN’T THERE MORE HAPPY PEOPLE ===== We all row this boat together--yet apart. But we can all find support for our personal trip. |
Title: Re: Finally found a place people understand!! Post by PatrickI on Feb 11th, 2011 at 2:55am
Thanks for the links, they were great and really helpful for myself and others so far. Yet to see my sponsor far that part of it. I haven't yet taken any meds to combat the CH. Initially, when I was diagnosed about 2 years ago, my doctor said that I was sufferin from abnormal CH do to the fact that they were only lasting 20 sec to about a minute and a half. Therefore he said there was no medication I could take to alleviate the pain, since all the madeications were taken after the start of the headaches. Within the past few weeks though, they have started to progress in length, closer to 30 min or more, with still some short ones here and there throughout the day. This is why I began to start researching again about looking for a solution. Alas though, since then I have moved to a new town and started a new life, and with that came the loss of my insurance carrier. I'm starting to find myself in a scramble to find some again, without over using it right away to get caught up in preexisting condition penalties. Has anyone else noticed a lengthening of duration since the initial Ch started?
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Title: Re: Finally found a place people understand!! Post by Brew on Feb 11th, 2011 at 7:43am |
Title: Re: Finally found a place people understand!! Post by wimsey1 on Feb 11th, 2011 at 8:10am
Way, way back in the dark ages when I first started these, they came and went in such a rush I thought they were sinus attacks. After awhile though they settled down into a predictable episodic cycle of intense pain and moderate duration. Then after about 20 years of episodic crap, they went chronic on me. Not everyone has this same experience. And the beast morphs. It's possible you will have a different experience, but like Brew says, be aware there are other conditions that mimic CHs. Blessings. lance
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Title: Re: Finally found a place people understand!! Post by Guiseppi on Feb 11th, 2011 at 10:37am
Looking back at age 50, I realize my initial attacks were in my mid to late teens. They built very slowly, never went past about K-5's, and if I felt an attack coming on, and could get to sleep, it would stop the headaches progression and it would go away.
My point being, it's not at all uncommon for the early stages of CH to be very confusing. It may take several years for a CH pattern to develop. Some like Lance end up going chronic, some stay episodic. The only real consistent factor is they get worse as you get older. (the good news is when you start getting REAL old, like me, ;) they seem to ease up a bit!) Resist the urge to ignore them and forget them when the cycle ends. When you do that, you find yourself flat footed and completely unprepared when the beast returns. For a person in your position, oxygen is the ideal abortive. It will in no way affect your recovery, it's fast, effective and cheap. If you go the welders 02 route, you don't need a prescription. Keep learning and asking questions. :) Joe |
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