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Title: Me Post by Virginia on Nov 20th, 2011 at 1:20pm
Hi there,
My name is Virginia, and I would like to share my story because I have found that women who suffer from cluster headaches are rare. So here goes: I have had migraines most of my adult life, but they were few and far between, most often associated with my periods. After the birth of my youngest son, who is now almost 6, I woke up one day with the most horrendous headache I had ever had and I knew right away it was no migraine, I wasnt nauseous, I wasnt hiding from the light and it hurt on my left temple only, this stabbing pain like someone was taking a ice pick and ramming it into my temple. Well naturally I was scared and so I saw my dr, who sent me to a neurologist, long story short on this part, 5 neurologists, three years, two hospital stays and numerous moments of serious aggravation, I finally went to see a pain management doctor, who listened to me for five minutes and said I had cluster headaches. What a relief, someone who knew what it was and wanted to treat it. The dr was a godsend, he put lidocaine injections into my temple and the pain went from being nonstop,24 hours to nothing. Well at this point I hadnt done my research and so I didnt know that it would come back, lucky me. See I had chronic cluster headaches but the lidocaine made them episodic. I have never felt a pain like this when they come and when they arent here I am so happy. I am actually in the middle of a episode right now, and while I would love to rant and rave and scream and yell, I cant, I have to be a mom because my husband is active duty, so most of the time I am the only one here. I cope, barely, but I do. I guess what I am saying with this is that there is no telling what we can endure when we have no choice. I would never wish this headache on anyone and I would give anything to never have it again. I think though, that ER drs should have to feel this once so that they can understand what we are going through, because normally we have been dealing with the pain and are only at the ER because we are at our limit. There is a reason these headaches are called suicide headaches. |
Title: Re: Me Post by Virginia on Nov 20th, 2011 at 7:00pm
I live in Florida, and as for whats going on now.....I have a good dr now, and I hadnt been having the headaches except very rarely and usually my meds, when taken early ease it enough that I can live....at the moment though I have had my current headache for four days now....I went to the ER on Friday and even though the ER dr said oxygen is best, he didnt give me any, gave me toradol, phenergan and benadryl, none of which did a thing and I still have the headache. My dr is on vacation for thanksgiving so when she comes back I hope to get a new referral for my pain management dr and hopefully get this handled.
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Title: Re: Me Post by wimsey1 on Nov 21st, 2011 at 8:37am Quote:
Virginia, please take all Bob has said to heart. It is all true. A good doc is invaluable, but one who actually knows how to treat CHs, or is willing to learn, is essential. You need a new and different CH specific plan of attack. Blessings. lance |
Title: Re: Me Post by Virginia on Nov 21st, 2011 at 9:58am
I know I need a good headache doctor but I am terrified of going to another neurologist after the hell I went through for three years. I literally had one neurologist tell me that the headaches would go away if I could just distract myself enough. The first one looked in my eyes, said I wasnt having a stroke and then gave me some med that changed my tastebuds, when it didnt work he just upped the dose...and thats just the hell with two of them....
My pain management dr at least managed to take the headaches from every single moment to episodic. I am going to find out about oxygen from my dr when she comes back from her vacation. I just dont know if I can overcome my fear of neurologists....I would have to have a seriously good recommendation from someone who has cluster headaches. I dont mean to be stubborn but I know everyone here has probably been treated like a idiot by some dr somewhere, I just got 5 in a row is all. |
Title: Re: Me Post by Brew on Nov 21st, 2011 at 10:01am |
Title: Re: Me Post by Virginia on Nov 22nd, 2011 at 8:29pm
Thanks for the link.....-groans- the only one in my area does not take Tricare......-would roll my eyes but since am in the middle of a episode that would hurt like hell-
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Title: Re: Me Post by Linda_Howell on Nov 23rd, 2011 at 1:20pm
Hi Virginia,
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While it's true that more men get these than women..calling it "rare" is a misnomer. Trust me. If you stick around and read posts for very long you'll see LOTS of women with CH. Oh..and don't let any Dr. tell you CH is rare for women. It's their uneducated way of dismissing you and by saying it's just Migraines. 24 years chronic CH |
Title: Re: Me Post by Bob Johnson on Nov 23rd, 2011 at 2:34pm
Virginia, you've blown by my message about how to find a HEADACHE SPECIALIST. We're not talking general neurologist. Research on generalists show how very little education/experience they have in treating complex headache disorders--the very reason the message zeros in on finding those skills you need.
Staying where you are doesn't sound attractive.... |
Title: Re: Me Post by Virginia on Nov 23rd, 2011 at 2:56pm
Hey Bob,
I am so sorry, I wasnt meaning to blow by your post about finding drs, believe me I dont want to go through that hell again. I looked at the link that Guiseppi put up for me and that is where I saw the one Dr in Jacksonville, he isnt on Tricares list......I will definately look at the headache link u put up and thank you so very much. |
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