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Cluster Headache Help and Support >> Getting to Know Ya >> new on here http://www.clusterheadaches.com/cgi-bin/yabb2/YaBB.pl?num=1322011688 Message started by julescristian on Nov 22nd, 2011 at 8:28pm |
Title: new on here Post by julescristian on Nov 22nd, 2011 at 8:28pm
hey hows everyone doing? i'm jules, im 31 and live in toronto....ive been getting cluster headaches most recently I was diagnosed with chronic cluster headaches...I have a son who is 10 and a girlfriend that some how I have managed to keep through all of this though it is very hard on her.....Today I went to see a new dr and in every way possible was told I'm lying and then she refused to see me(I've been waiting for this app for over 3 months)I also recently without choice have tried to go back to work despite the increasing number of headaches I have been getting(9 or more a day)
I guess I finally came on here to talk to someone as it gets harder to deal with with everyday and maybe to have someone that understands this....I feel completely useless and alone and is hoping someone that might have experienced or just want to talk understanding the same thing... thanks jules |
Title: Re: new on here Post by Virginia on Nov 22nd, 2011 at 8:34pm
Hun, I know that most of us can completely relate...I actually had one neurologist, which was actually my third one, tell me if I could just distract myself, the headaches would go away, like a toothache...yeah like dentists are imaginary....I know that I havent been a member of this site long but its already a godsend...there is a ton of info here and just knowing there are others that are feeling like you can make you feel a little less like driving a ice pick into your temple....-hugs- hang in there and i got two shoulders...
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Title: Re: new on here Post by Guiseppi on Nov 22nd, 2011 at 10:54pm
Welcome to the board Jules, good on you Virginia for jumping in there! As Virginia and Jeeber have pointed out, knowledge is your best weapon against the beast. Start educating yourself and get ready to educate a doc or two! We'll help you all we can.
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Title: Re: new on here Post by wimsey1 on Nov 23rd, 2011 at 8:09am
About what, precisely, did the dr think you were lying? lance
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Title: Re: new on here Post by Guiseppi on Nov 23rd, 2011 at 10:19am wimsey1 wrote on Nov 23rd, 2011 at 8:09am:
Lemme guess...thought you were seeking pain meds?? Let the doc know the last thing in the world you want are pain meds, they do nothing for CH. ;) Joe |
Title: Re: new on here Post by Virginia on Nov 23rd, 2011 at 3:00pm
Bobs post is wonderful....the headache website is so informative and I have learned that educating ourselves, since its our body and we know it best, is the best thing in the world for you....keep your head up
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Title: Re: new on here Post by julescristian on Nov 24th, 2011 at 11:09am
Thank you everyone for responding it means the world.....Thank you for all the wonderful info I do try to educate myself as well I have been reading what everyone has to say on here for the past while but now I have just signed up as with so many bad experiences was shy too(which is really silly since were all here for the same reason...
Thank you for welcoming me to the group Virgina your very sweet and it means a lot as I tried to hide this from everyone in the world for as long as I could but now have chosen to talk about it with others.. Guiseppi.. that was the main thing yes, pain medicine, As well my family dr didn't send my file from my old dr and she accused me of trying to hide things from the start...I was accused of lying for the methods I use to try to battle this as well....the dr laughed at me when I told her I had not been drinking. She (the dr) didn't answer or ask me one question regarding my headaches the only thing she commented on was when I told her that I don't sleep pretty much at all from this, she signed me up for a stay at a sleep group...Her final answer was that the blood test and whats in my liver and the the sleep group will tell her all my dirty secrets and the truth will come out....when she asked how I live financially and if i'm on disability I told her no but that many times the government feels like I should apply for this she started yelling that's shes not my dr and isn't signing anything with a few other words in there I won't write on here....even though I explained to her that I'm the person I'm and have no care for pain killers or disability she continue to tell me I was lying....There were a few other things like demanding to know why I don't drive and any answer I gave her she repeatedly told me it wasn't good enough and I better come up with another one.......(regarding the pain medicine I had 2 surgeries and refused it as I don't take pain medicine for anything but that wasn't enough for her) For someone you just met being treated like that and how embarrassing it was. After waiting for so long for this app I guess I was really hoping for a better result... I'll just add that I stopped seeing my last dr cause he put me on epileptic medicine and I had a bad experience forgetting who I was and where I was at times and he refused to do a follow up.. Lance I think that answers it the best I can thank you Bob that is a lot of info and I really appreciate it I will be looking into it all as I'm not giving up and will find away to try to settle these the best I can. I'm goning to get my yellow pages right now to start as there is never any time to waste... thank you so much... Bejeeber..With all the info i have read and many trips to the hospital I see that my previous dr telling me there is only one medicine and giving me oxygen at a level 7 was not the only information or not very good information...(who is a headache specialist)before him I saw 3 other drs that told me I had migraine's and the meds they were giving me were making me very sic... I'm currently working niTe crew for my company and don't get home till about 10am after working for 13 or so hrs...I am getting constant headaches trying to sleep though the day and think I will skip sleeping today and just getting ready to go back to work, I have slept less then 6 hrs over the last three days but I refuse to give in as my son relies on me and being strong for him is my ultimate goal in life..... again it means the world that you guys have cared to respond and gives me a direction to move in with the information I didn't have.....I hope everyone here is doing well and I would like to get to know you all also thank you for your time Virgina, Bejeeber...Lance..Joe and Bob thank you for you wonderful replies It makes me feel not completely alone out here. I'm also here for all of you if there is anything I can do or you would just like to talk as well, I'm also good at listening...... Jules taking it one day at a time ;) |
Title: Re: new on here Post by Virginia on Nov 24th, 2011 at 9:18pm
I think one of the main things I have noticed from all my reading of everyones posts is that we all seem to be echoing the same sentence...."its great not to be alone", if only we could all go en masse to the dr then maybe collectively they could retrieve their heads from their butts....but thats just my humble opinion....I wish....I wish....that I never had to take another pain med ever again....but unfortunately sometimes you just break down and have no choice even though oftentimes it doesnt do a bit of good.....
I am also quite sure that every single one of us, as my hubby puts it, has sucked up the pain, or tried to, and done their best to hide the fact that it feels as if someone is using a drill on their temple or eye and trying to do brain surgery..... |
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