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Title: What is with all the doubt? Post by aimee25 on Apr 13th, 2012 at 10:42am
I think this site is extremely useful and I would just like to point this out first, however, what is with all the doubt?
I know from my experience with CH and my own research that I definitely have this condition so why when I ask for advice and help am I made to feel like I have to prove to people that it is true? I have some very 'text book' attacks that come like clockwork and I also have different headaches too normally as a result of banging my head on a wall during an attack. I have only recently been diagnosed but I am 100%sure that I have this condition. I ask you why I should have to go over everything that I suffer with people on here just to be taken seriously I have found the information extremely useful but the message board is full of people that want you to prove you have the condition before they will listen to my concerns or questions. If something doesn't work for me but works for you or the other way round that doesn't mean that I don't have the condition. We could all benefit from some people getting off there high horses on this as we all suffer as much as the next person with this condition. |
Title: Re: What is with all the doubt? Post by Linda_Howell on Apr 13th, 2012 at 12:11pm
I just read your 5 posts and any responses you recieved. You had exactly one person doubt the diagnosis that a dr. gave you in the ER. (I'm going to assume it was just the other day, as you said "I just got home")
The person who said that is one of the most intelligent posters we have on this site, as well as one of the most supportive to newcomers. As you can see from his abstracts and fairly heavy reading materials he always links to..he is a man of science and after suffering from CH himself he knows how difficult it is to properly diagnose CH as most drs. are incredably mis-informed about this condition. He... and all of us, for that matter are acutely aware how CH symptoms can and very often DO, mimic other diseases. We've seen it here over and over again. I understand pain of any kind can make us sensitive and cranky, but I assure you..no one had the intention of insult, slight or getting on their "high horse" Welcome Aimee :) |
Title: Re: What is with all the doubt? Post by aimee25 on Apr 13th, 2012 at 12:35pm
Not feeling very welcome.
As informed as that person maybe I do not believe the best way to help a newcomer is to act like they don't know what they are talking about I HAVE done my research. It is not just my post its many if you read them a lot of people have to prove to you guys that they have the condition. I don't need that nobody does. But hey thanks for you help I am sure I will use this site for info but im done with the message board. |
Title: Re: What is with all the doubt? Post by Jimi on Apr 13th, 2012 at 12:38pm
We hope that you DO use this site for info and we hope that it helps you find something that will work for your clusters. Thats what it is here for.
If you decide to not post anything more on the message board, thats ok too. |
Title: Re: What is with all the doubt? Post by Linda_Howell on Apr 13th, 2012 at 7:52pm Quote:
THAT is exactly what I was trying to tell her but you put it much better than me Mike. I remember that person too and we all felt so badly. Over the years there have been others too. Not necessisarily a brain tumor, but so many other conditions that mimic CH, almost to the letter. Not to mention the reverse..where folks have had perfectly good teeth pulled because they thought THAT was the problem or un-necessary sinus surgery. :-/ |
Title: Re: What is with all the doubt? Post by aimee25 on Apr 13th, 2012 at 7:59pm
Again I am not doubting want everyone is saying I should probably make clear that it was not just the one doctor who diagnosed me it was 4 doctors over a 3 day period along with my GP and neuro specialist. I have had great treatment from my doctors so far however, each of them has had to go away and do research themselves in order to make the diagnosis.
The one major problem I have with the doctors is their reluctency to prescribe high dosages of anything like the verapamil, I am on 120 mg a day. They also struggled with ideas on pain relief. My doctors willingness to go and do further research to be sure makes me feel safe in the diagnosis and also the information I have come across on this website and others. I guess I should have gone into more detail about my actual diagnosis in my first post. I wrote my first post with the hope of someone just saying its ok you are not alone, I did not expect to be told that someone, after reading a 400 word post, doubts my diagnosis. I continue to be hopeful in finding the best care I can and I DO appreciate people taking the time to comment on what I have said, I am finding this all a huge change to my life I have finally found out what is wrong and now I can find the right people to help. |
Title: Re: What is with all the doubt? Post by aimee25 on Apr 13th, 2012 at 8:03pm
I should also mention that although it was only 3 days I had many tests done and yes they had an 'idea' and rolled with it and in so many ways some part of me hopes its not CH and its something I don't have to live with permanently
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Title: Re: What is with all the doubt? Post by jon019 on Apr 13th, 2012 at 9:32pm Mike NZ wrote on Apr 13th, 2012 at 4:26pm:
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Title: Re: What is with all the doubt? Post by seaworthy on Apr 13th, 2012 at 10:16pm Quote:
Most dont, (I didn't) and admit it and are open to the experienced suggestions offered here. Those are the ones that benefit the most from CH.com Then there are those who already have all the answers because they have "done their research". Those folks probably don't benefit much from CH.com and go on with unmitigated suffering. Pick one. |
Title: Re: What is with all the doubt? Post by Mike NZ on Apr 14th, 2012 at 4:41am jon019 wrote on Apr 13th, 2012 at 9:32pm:
Yes, it was you Jon, I found the post with the help of Google, which I remember being a huge lesson that so many of us took on board. We are not medical doctors, we're just people with a lot of experience of CH. The post can be found at - START PRINTPAGEMultimedia File Viewing and Clickable Links are available for Registered Members only!! You need to ![]() ![]() It is well worth reading for anyone reading this post. |
Title: Re: What is with all the doubt? Post by AussieBrian on Apr 14th, 2012 at 7:20am
It was the most gracious lady ever graced this place who said, "We're not doctors, but by God we're expert patients."
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Title: Re: What is with all the doubt? Post by jon019 on Apr 14th, 2012 at 11:23am AussieBrian wrote on Apr 14th, 2012 at 7:20am:
...one of my favorite quotes of all time... along with a certain Aussie's ::): "30 years of ch and still no bloody good at it"...at once funny, ironic, true, false, alliterative, succinct, and GRACEFUL.... |
Title: Re: What is with all the doubt? Post by Mike NZ on Apr 14th, 2012 at 4:55pm AussieBrian wrote on Apr 14th, 2012 at 7:20am:
The kind of patients that some doctors love to have and others hate, which tends to say a lot about the kind of person the doctor is. |
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