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Cluster Headache Help and Support >> Medications, Treatments, Therapies >> SEX http://www.clusterheadaches.com/cgi-bin/yabb2/YaBB.pl?num=1362593001 Message started by LasVegas on Mar 6th, 2013 at 1:03pm |
Title: Re: SEX Post by Canuck Cluster on Mar 6th, 2013 at 3:05pm
Humm can't says i've ever tried that, well at least during CH.
Could see that being a bit uncomfortable for both parties, well at least duning a nasty CH anyway. I do know I've had CH after doing the duty, however more than likely CH was due to come, usually in the 1am-2am range. But whatever, I am definately sending the article to the wife!!!! as this is a treatment I can definately get to like!! |
Title: Re: SEX Post by Racer1_NC on Mar 6th, 2013 at 5:59pm
I've heard people claim it helps....and I've heard people say it's a trigger....
Me? Last cycle it was one hell of a trigger....but never had been before. Go figure.... |
Title: Re: SEX Post by Mike NZ on Mar 6th, 2013 at 9:49pm
I saw the article (or at least something similar) here in NZ too.
Must admit I've never tried this as a solution to either a CH or migraine and I'm not quite sure how I'd be able to concentrate on the task at hand in the midst of a CH. Oxygen is a bit easier to manage, especially when out and about! |
Title: Re: SEX Post by Globi on Mar 7th, 2013 at 7:44am
I am eagerly awaiting how my girlfriend will react to this.
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Title: Re: SEX Post by Guiseppi on Mar 7th, 2013 at 9:11am Globi wrote on Mar 7th, 2013 at 7:44am:
My wife was sadly unimpressed with the study! ;D It has been discussed here off and on over the years. For some an abortive, for some a trigger, for some it makes no difference! The beauty of the beast! joe |
Title: Re: SEX Post by Globi on Mar 7th, 2013 at 9:25am Guiseppi wrote on Mar 7th, 2013 at 9:11am:
Maybe i keep it in mind as a beautiful idea for the future. A dream. I think she will react as your wife did ;) Next to this i am not so sure it really works. I had oncoming attacks during......and had to abort....and not the headache. How did your wife handle your pain? |
Title: Re: SEX Post by Guiseppi on Mar 7th, 2013 at 1:06pm
I am fortunate in that my wife is the worlds greatest supporter and truth be told if she thought it would abort an attack she'd try ANYTHING!!! I'm with you though, I fear an attack would negate any ability on my part to abort with this system! ::)
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Title: Re: SEX Post by Globi on Mar 7th, 2013 at 1:49pm Guiseppi wrote on Mar 7th, 2013 at 1:06pm:
It's a very though thing to understand for a partner who does not understand what you feel. Hats off for your wife. Globi |
Title: Re: SEX Post by Kilowatt3 on Mar 7th, 2013 at 11:05pm LasVegas wrote on Mar 6th, 2013 at 1:03pm:
Regards, Jim |
Title: Re: SEX Post by slpierce1988 on Mar 7th, 2013 at 11:54pm Kilowatt3 wrote on Mar 7th, 2013 at 11:05pm:
Poorly worded for a study, but I believe what they are saying is that in the 37% of patients who said that it helped lessen the pain, 90% [of the 37%] experienced moderate to complete relief of pain. So, in the study, essentially 33.3% of patients experienced moderate to complete pain relief, and 3.7% of patients experienced slight pain relief. However, 50% of patients indicated that sex only made their headaches worse, so I'm assuming that the remaining 13% of people that participated in the study had neither an increase, nor a decrease, in pain level. What this study is lacking is a control group - though I'm unsure of how they would implement that? |
Title: Re: SEX Post by shooky on Mar 13th, 2013 at 9:28pm
For me sex DOES work.
I believe the reason it works (for some) is that it changes hypothalamic electrical activity (some researcher actually said that orgasm is sort of "restarting the hypothalamus"). |
Title: Re: SEX Post by AussieBrian on Mar 13th, 2013 at 11:15pm
I'm happy to assist any of our ladies who would like to consider this treatment.
Do not send cash. It's a free service purely in the interests of science. |
Title: Re: SEX Post by Chuh on Mar 14th, 2013 at 4:32am
This has also been mentioned as a treatment for gout.
ezinearticles.com/?Sex-As-a-Natural-Treatment-For-Gout&id=4885932 The last paragraph is perhaps most important as it address' how CH sufferers are often looked upon by the attending pysician. Peace Of Mind |
Title: Re: SEX Post by Guiseppi on Mar 14th, 2013 at 10:02am AussieBrian wrote on Mar 13th, 2013 at 11:15pm:
Brian, you are a man among men, a true, big hearted philanthropist, with a giving heart second to none! ;D Joe |
Title: Re: SEX Post by Balanchine on Mar 15th, 2013 at 12:49pm
I second Joe's comment regarding Brian's selflessness. Some people are just born better than the rest of us.
As a non-scientist I can of course only go by personal experience. My recent cycle, the first in 5 years, was preceded by a few scary foreshocks. The most powerful of these occurred at the worst possible moment with my girlfriend. Once the cycle began this has happened again a couple more times. So I'm glad that sex is a Kip-killer for so many people, and clearly it's working on a level I don't understand. As a layman (heh-heh) I would sort of assume that the increased heart rate and blood flow would cause all kinds of increased vessel dilations throughout the body, including of course the head, which could serve to exacerbate symptoms of CH. In fact I could practically feel the pain beginning as things, er, heated up for us. Guess I drew the short straw on this particular phenomenon. Oh well. David |
Title: Re: SEX Post by Jeffire on Mar 15th, 2013 at 2:06pm
Do I get to have my non-rebreather on while I try this?
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Title: Re: SEX Post by jess-MTL on Mar 16th, 2013 at 12:01pm
It does not work for me. ;)
When in cycle, sex would often bring on an attack, and we would have to stop to get the non re-breather on. Not sexy... |
Title: Re: SEX Post by Balanchine on Mar 16th, 2013 at 12:28pm Jeffire wrote on Mar 15th, 2013 at 2:06pm:
Jeff, do you guys have your own magazines and internet groups? |
Title: Re: SEX Post by Callico on Mar 19th, 2013 at 12:46am
I saw the title and opened the thread to see if there was a definition available. I'm not familiar with the word!
jc |
Title: Re: SEX Post by thierry on Mar 19th, 2013 at 3:46am
we all know that CH is due to a blood vessel dilating around the temples (one side usually). Maybe the fact that for a man, getting an erection involves an increased blood flow to the penis, it reduces the blood pressure to other blood vessels. Same for a woman, there is an increased flow of blood to the female genitals during sexual arousal.
I'm not sure about this at all, just something i thought about. One thing that definitely triggered attacks for me is the very seldom use (in the past) of a Viagra like substance to increase length of fun time, let's just say that it did the complete opposite as the pain of the attack rendered me incapable of having sex. >:( I won't be touching that stuff again. |
Title: Re: SEX Post by JHK07 on Mar 19th, 2013 at 4:43pm
Worst Clusters I ever had were immediately post sex. This was years ago and not on any meds. I don't have sex any more and am on meds, clusters are a rare occurrence.
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Title: Re: SEX Post by coach_bill on Mar 19th, 2013 at 8:12pm
Weird.. I do remember getting an erection a few different times during a cluster. It wasnt like i was doing anything to egg it on, it just happened.. It just seemed to be a sympton of the cluster i thought. I never investagated it for whatever reasons. But i can say this 100% without doubt that even with a rageing boner the last thing that came to my mind during a cluster was trying to have sex. No way!! No how!! I can barely even muster a thought other than OMG!!!! make it stop!!! let alone have sex.
Play Ball, Coach Bill |
Title: Re: SEX Post by jon019 on Mar 19th, 2013 at 9:13pm Callico wrote on Mar 19th, 2013 at 12:46am:
Yeah Jerry...I been wondering too! Let me know when you find out!? Best I can figure is it's Spanish for 6...which totally explains why Tiger Woods got in so much trouble.... a professional golfer shooting 6's...unacceptable! ..last time I got my hair cut...I was waiting on the couch...reading Redbook...ummm, the other choices being Glamour and El. Finished the VERY interesting articles on makeup and diets...was finally getting to the article titled "Sex-What You Need To Know"..when I got called. Expressed my disappointment..."shoot, now I'll never know"... when the nail lady said..."oh don't worry honey, it's WAY overrated!" So I guess it's ok...... Best j :-? |
Title: Re: SEX Post by Callico on Mar 21st, 2013 at 5:28am
Jon,
Thanks. I needed that! jc PS. It has something to do with the dangly bits, I've heard. I'd keep them away from cats if I were you. |
Title: Re: SEX Post by Mike NZ on Mar 22nd, 2013 at 12:01am jon019 wrote on Mar 19th, 2013 at 9:13pm:
Not sure if it's Spanish as when anyone from Australia says the number 6 it sure sounds the same. Mind you, any Kiwi saying the same word and it comes out as "sucks". |
Title: Re: SEX Post by AussieBrian on Mar 22nd, 2013 at 2:34am Mike NZ wrote on Mar 22nd, 2013 at 12:01am:
This may explain the hilarity when a Kiwi says '69' in an Aussie pub. To this day I don't understand the joke. |
Title: Re: SEX Post by horsegirl on Mar 23rd, 2013 at 9:46pm
I hope I'm not posting this twice , I must of got flustered and hit wrong button , my post dissapeared. Anyways it did not help me ,pain stayed same before and after the orgasm, but I have to say for that precious moment I foregot all about the pain. :) :) :-[
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Title: Re: SEX Post by Guiseppi on Mar 24th, 2013 at 9:02am
Then for that one "precious moment" it was worth it! ;)
Joe |
Title: Re: SEX Post by Balanchine on Mar 26th, 2013 at 11:30am
[quote author=787F6263757779627C100 link=1362593001/28#28 date=1364089617]I hope I'm not posting this twice , I must of got flustered and hit wrong button , my post dissapeared. Anyways it did not help me ,pain stayed same before and after the orgasm, but I have to say for that precious moment I foregot all about the pain. :) :) :-[/quote]
aw now look what you've done. now I gotta go take a cold shower. |
Title: Re: SEX Post by Clusterman59 on Mar 26th, 2013 at 6:44pm
Hey all....
Since were having an "Adult" conversation here i have to say that sex was the best abortive that i ever had but theirs a catch. It would not work for me with normal sex it had to be oral sex so there was no strenuous work on my part as that would make them worse right away but with oral sex it only took a minute or two and i could feel the CH melt away and this would work even in the middle of a K-10 cluster. I have been reading a bit about this using sex as an abortive and it seems that around 50% get relief but i bet they aren't using the oral sex method. So i know this will make alot of guys and gals happy to try this so HAVE FUN Clusterville!!..... ;) |
Title: Re: SEX Post by horsegirl on Mar 27th, 2013 at 8:36am
good try cluster"man" for trying to give men a "heads up" for a sympathy freebie . I can assure you I was the only one in the room and there was little work on my part, the pain remained the same. lmao :-[ ;)
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Title: Re: SEX Post by Clusterman59 on Mar 27th, 2013 at 10:17am
Nothing works for everyone and this is no sympathy freebie. It truly worked for me and has worked for many and this isn't a one sided story as it works for women too and i have talked to several women C heads that were helped by this so I am very sorry that it didn't work for your guy but that doesn't mean it won't work for others.... :)
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Title: Re: SEX Post by horsegirl on Mar 27th, 2013 at 10:34pm
oh my god I was just playing with you, jeeese!. anything is worth a try exspecialy in the sex department. I was trying to have fun with ya I'm in a good mood ,I've been pain free for well cluster free for 4 days and nights, think my cycles ending. :) :P
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Title: Re: SEX Post by Balanchine on Mar 28th, 2013 at 10:32pm
Good going, horsegirl. Hope it gallops away and don't come back no more!
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Title: Re: SEX Post by Clusterman59 on Mar 30th, 2013 at 12:50pm
No Worries!!
Just trying to push my point... Hope your pain free time continues! ;) Wishing you the best! :) |
Title: Re: SEX Post by deltadarlin on Mar 31st, 2013 at 4:18pm
Hmm....I'm a migrainer married to a clusterhead and I can promise you, sex in any form or fashion was not even in the ball park. Not even afterward, when the pain was gone.
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Title: Re: SEX Post by Clusterman59 on Mar 31st, 2013 at 5:35pm
Everyone is different...Sorry it didn't work for you... :(
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Title: Re: SEX Post by Lucifer on May 13th, 2013 at 5:04pm
Unless my attack is extremely severe (e.g my brain only thinks "bash your head on the wall") This helps immensely.
If I get the kinda pain where I have to pace around but it's not bad enough to be a full blown "my day is ruined" attack, firing off some knuckle children makes the headache disappear. I've always thought it had to do with the sudden release of endorphins, dopamine, and serotonin |
Title: Re: SEX Post by Lucifer on May 13th, 2013 at 5:08pm Clusterman59 wrote on Mar 26th, 2013 at 6:44pm:
This is pretty epic. I cannot wait to tell my spouse that people find relief like this. LOL |
Title: Re: SEX Post by chrisw on May 16th, 2013 at 8:10am
Reading this topic got me thinking, hmmmm, I think I will give this a try. Hubby was at work, so I took care of things myself, it got rid of heavy shadows for a few hours.!!!!! Then I tried again, and it worked again!!! However, there would be NO WAY, I could ever handle sex during an attack, I dont understand how anyone ever could. I can barely see my tank, and the only thing I can think is, ohhh ouch, please stop, not "oh yeah, dont stop" .
My advice, try it for shadows, it def helped. :-* |
Title: Re: SEX Post by Coho on May 16th, 2013 at 9:58am
Kinda what my wife said. Thats nice, glad your hand works and and don't shake the bed too much. ;D
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Title: Re: SEX Post by akage on May 28th, 2013 at 8:05pm
To answer the original question - YES, it definitely helps. In fact, I've been using that method exclusively for the last few years. See here:
START PRINTPAGEMultimedia File Viewing and Clickable Links are available for Registered Members only!! You need to ![]() ![]() I have since modified the technique and don't use oxygen at all. It stands there as a backup. I've also started using this as a preventive, not just abortive, with great results. I'll probably post something later about it. And of course some people here will make jokes about this, especially the ones uncomfortable with their sexuality, that's normal. I don't care, as long as it helps. |
Title: Re: SEX Post by Callico on May 30th, 2013 at 1:12am
Bob Johnson's find puts the vascular concept out the window. See his post here: START PRINTPAGEMultimedia File Viewing and Clickable Links are available for Registered Members only!! You need to
![]() ![]() For those of you who find relief, more power to you. I'm convinced it is the principle of focused attention that is working for you. the mind can only focus on one thing at a time, which is the principle behind the La Maze method of childbirth. My wife and I have use it 5 times, and I can assure you it works. It doesn't totally work for CH though, because the hit comes on to fast to get ahead of it. i do use some of those principles on hits that stay below a K7, but sex is out of the question The big head hurts to badly for the little head to care. Jerry |
Title: Re: SEX Post by Katherinecm on Jun 6th, 2013 at 10:00am
Hmm... it seems to help me if started right at the beginning of a minor shadow. But if it's a full-blown CH, don't look at me, don't talk to me, and sure as hell don't touch me.
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Title: Re: SEX Post by shooky on Jun 8th, 2013 at 7:15pm
Callico - the reason why it's so hard to get sexually aroused during an attack may be the exact reason why it changes the course of an attack.
Sexual arousal involves mechanisms that compete with the CH over the autonomic nervous system and probably over Nitric oxide. An orgasm, seems to do even more - some researchers speculated that it sort of "restart" the hypothalamus. So, it is very natural that sex during an attack seems like an out of the question idea. But I can say it's possible, and sometimes pretty effective. |
Title: Re: SEX Post by Hoppy on Dec 1st, 2013 at 4:11pm
Hi jish,
I thought you might enjoy reading this thread lol. Hoppy. |
Title: Re: SEX Post by neuropath on Dec 4th, 2013 at 4:45am
Certainly not as straightforward as "cum and go" for CH in my experience. I have witnessed it "backfire" many times.
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