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Cluster Headache Help and Support >> Getting to Know Ya >> New to the site, not new to the beast http://www.clusterheadaches.com/cgi-bin/yabb2/YaBB.pl?num=1370980160 Message started by Amber Harrid on Jun 11th, 2013 at 3:49pm |
Title: New to the site, not new to the beast Post by Amber Harrid on Jun 11th, 2013 at 3:49pm
Hi everybody, I am a 32 year old sufferer. I had my first attack at the age of 13, it took an eye doctor, six physicians, two neurologists, and a chiropractor to finally get a diagnosis.....not to mention head scans and YEARS of my life. I was finally diagnosed at age 22. I have lived with the beast for a better part of my life. I am in the middle of what I call " the cluster f@#k" , pardon my French that is just my name for it. I am three days in, everyday at 2 am I go insane, in between the attacks I sit in utter exhaustion and fear of tonight when I close my eyes. My question is how do you make your spouse understand what you are going through?
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Title: Re: New to the site, not new to the beast Post by Amber Harrid on Jun 11th, 2013 at 4:44pm
I also wondering about alternative therapy. Genarally prednisone will help abort, but I worry about what it is doing to my body.
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Title: Re: New to the site, not new to the beast Post by Hoppy on Jun 11th, 2013 at 7:38pm
Hi Amber,
Welcome, You must pleased you finally got some answers, their have been a few stories similar to your's here just lately. On your ? concerning alternative therapy. Check out the D3 Regime on this site, also Melatonin bought over the counter has a good record for getting you through the night without that REM wake up call. Hoppy. |
Title: Re: New to the site, not new to the beast Post by Bob Johnson on Jun 11th, 2013 at 9:43pm
Amber, I'm curious that you are not seeking some assistance for your Cluster, given the implication in your message that your not getting good relief.
Secondly, I'm sad that you have the need to "make" your husband understand vs. his sharing your journey with you. You are responsible for the first, not for the second problem. |
Title: Re: New to the site, not new to the beast Post by Amber Harrid on Jun 11th, 2013 at 11:42pm
Honestly Bob, I live in a very rural area with very undiverse physicians, mostly family practice and although my doc is great and has helped immensely, I feel like my resources are limited. Prednisone has worked for me, but I watched as my grandmother was repeatly treated with prednisone and went into acute renal failure and damaged her pancreas, resulting in disbetes. I also have an underlying autoimmune disorder, so I worry about using and reusing prednisone. I have also tried beta blockers.....I got hypotension. I am also allergic to imitex. So to respond to your accustion that I am not getting proactive in my treatment is a false statement....I just have limited resources. I came here for support and suggestions.
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Title: Re: New to the site, not new to the beast Post by Potter on Jun 12th, 2013 at 12:18am
I suggest you listen to Bob.
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Title: Re: New to the site, not new to the beast Post by Hoppy on Jun 12th, 2013 at 12:23am
Hi Amber,
I thought this artical might help Hubby have more understanding what you and all us 1% centers go through fighting this beast. Professor Goadsby director of the UCSF headache centre and one of the World's leading headache experts and researchers has commented. Cluster Headache is probaly the worst pain that humans experience i know that's quite a strong remark to make but if you ask a CH patient if they've had a worse experience, they'll universally say they haven't. Woman with CH will tell you that an attack is worst than giving birth. So you can imagine that these people give birth without anesthetic once, twice a day, for six, eight or ten weeks at a time and then have a break. " It's just awful" [smiley=hug.gif] |
Title: Re: New to the site, not new to the beast Post by Amber Harrid on Jun 12th, 2013 at 12:47am
I was attempting to stay away from prednisone this round and was trying to get some feedback on alternative therapies before I jump right back to traditional methods. Thank you for your support and answers.
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Title: Re: New to the site, not new to the beast Post by Batch on Jun 12th, 2013 at 1:04am
Amber,
Please read the PM I just sent you. Take care, V/R, Batch |
Title: Re: New to the site, not new to the beast Post by Amber Harrid on Jun 12th, 2013 at 1:06am
At Bob. You seem to have a lot of useful knowledge from the posts I have read. I am eager to share more about my case with you and see what suggestions you have. Being from small town Iowa I have limited resources at my disposal, what would you suggest to someone in my situation? The Neuro I used to see as a teen is two hours away, any thoughts on how to talk with my regular doc about a different therapy? Thanks in advance.
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Title: Re: New to the site, not new to the beast Post by AussieBrian on Jun 12th, 2013 at 1:14am
G'day Amber, and welcome. Hoppy's contribution is very, very apt and if hubby would like to come here we'll certainly make him feel at home. I reckon our supporters are more important than our doctors, and often better informed.
Do you know much about oxygen for cluster headaches? A lot of work has gone into it in recent years and it's by far the abortive of choice for so many CHeads. If your doctor won't prescribe it, or won't prescribe it as it needs to be used, there are excellent means to the same ends that may even work out cheaper. Another beaut trick, and don't laugh, is Red Bull. One of these guzzled down at the first hint of a hit can really help. Frozen peas are our friends too, putting the bag variously over the temple or the back of your neck, while others prefer a boiling hot shower. I do both, simultaneously, aiming to confuse the monster enough that it'll leave. As mentioned by others, Batch's famous vitamin regimen is going great guns and everything is available over the counter. No doctors, nothing. You may also care to visit clusterbusters.com where an alternative therapy is getting rave reviews. You're not alone, Amber, and we truly care about anyone fighting this beast. Full steam ahead and damn the torpedoes, Brian down under. |
Title: Re: New to the site, not new to the beast Post by Amber Harrid on Jun 12th, 2013 at 1:24am
Thanks Brian! I am going to call the doc in the AM and see about oxygen. My grandfather was a CH Suffer and swore by it, but up until now I have no thought to it as abortives were working for me, but getting older and the other health issues I deal with now is the time to make some changes with my regimen. Not only to better my overall health, but because this episode is different from previous ones. Truly little beast. Well of to bed now, HopeFully a headache free night.
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Title: Re: New to the site, not new to the beast Post by Sean McE on Jun 12th, 2013 at 2:07am
Hi Amber, Another recent poster seems to be having a slight spousal support issue also so here's an idea, when the beast comes calling a 2:00 am have him/her get up with you just to share in the fun, have him ride it out with you all the way through, go back to bed till he comes again and repeat the fun -- all the way till dawn. He'll be as wasted as you and maybe get the message. He probably has to get up and go to work, might even use that as an excuse not to get up with you but I'm sure most clusterheads like me have to work too so that excuse don't fly.
Please get on that oxygen, it really takes the fear away and it's effective for virtually everyone. I started the D3 regimen almost 2 weeks ago and it really seems to be helping for the worst cycle I've had in years. The last two days have been totally PF. Yeah, cycles do change, this one for me has been all over the board but every cycle seems to be a little different so ya gotta expect it. Good luck, Sean PS, If you're like me, you want to left alone but maybe you could make a exception just once |
Title: Re: New to the site, not new to the beast Post by Tony Only on Jun 12th, 2013 at 2:16am
Hi Amber, I just joined the site too recently. 25 years clusterhead here. First episodic, then chronic, now pain free. In my case all the alternative methods and treatments did the trick. I am never going back to traditional/conventional treatments again since I feel they made me worse in the first place and chronic in the end. Luckily, with the help of internet, there is a wide variety of options.
I do not think doctor is a must. I had lousy doctors myself and choosing the self treatment was the best thing I have done in my life. Here in Scandinavia very few doctors think that vitamin D regimen is OK for an example (to be honest I have not heard about single one). We have gathered a lot of information about all the alternative treatments in our Facebook group, if you use Facebook you can find the link in my profile or below this message. Wishing you all the best. |
Title: Re: New to the site, not new to the beast Post by Hoppy on Jun 12th, 2013 at 3:19am
G'day Tony,
I was just wondering, are you just saying doc's in Finland don't believe the D3 Regime works, or is not safe, or both. [smiley=confused.gif] Hoppy. |
Title: Re: New to the site, not new to the beast Post by Tony Only on Jun 12th, 2013 at 4:26am
blacklab:
Sorry mate, you got me all wrong. I am all for vitamin D. It is safer, easier, cheaper than pretty much all the nasty pills we are prescribed. I totally would recommend it as 1st option for busting cluster headaches. About doctors and medical field in general; they usually only medicate with conventional methods and do not tell the patients about alternatives or are not aware of them. When you have followed the CH front globally, you notice there is a lot of marvellously effective self-treatment going on in CH communities globally. It would not be this way if all these different approaches would be in medical field's arsenal. Very great example is Clusterbusters. I am not saying to stay away from doctors, I am saying to have or to find a doctor who treats a patient with cluster headaches so that he/she gets safely better. Vitamin D regimen is very good "tester". Has your doctor heard of it? If not, is he/she ready to learn more? Any doctor who is ready to either receive information brought by a patient that he/she is unaware of or even better, search this information by themselves - then weight all the options with the patient not ruling anything out just because is not conventional is A OK in my books. Hoppy: I have talked to 1 GP and 2 neurologists about it, none thought it could work and all considered it dangerous. We have 150+ members in our FB group and seems to me vitamin regimen is not approved by doctors, based on what people share in our group. Mostly it is considered dangerous. (What it in my opinion definitively is not, when done right and blood levels are monitored compared to prescriptives) |
Title: Re: New to the site, not new to the beast Post by Hoppy on Jun 12th, 2013 at 5:36am
Yeh Tony, that's what i thought you meant. It's pretty well the
same here, they (Doc's) need to get their head out of the sand. [smiley=deadhorse1.gif] But it's a bit like floggin a. |
Title: Re: New to the site, not new to the beast Post by AussieBrian on Jun 12th, 2013 at 7:51am
I trust we all still agree it's imperative that a genuine diagnosis be made by medical professionals.
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Title: Re: New to the site, not new to the beast Post by stick67 on Jun 12th, 2013 at 1:10pm
Fix the problem an she will understand,
go to your doctortell him to give you Staydol nasal spray an be done with the pain, or you can tryeverthing u have tried an then some, an still they will come and kill a little bit of you ever time !!! Sure u can cry about how u cant take this or that, but if u want instant relief, go today to ur doctor and dont ask , TELL him to give you STAYDOL nasal spray, one shot in which ever side the pain is on, 2 mins later all pain gone !!! U can thank mr. Live saver later, go get ur stuff today !!! |
Title: Re: New to the site, not new to the beast Post by LasVegas on Jun 12th, 2013 at 1:41pm wrote on Jun 12th, 2013 at 1:10pm:
Horrible advice! >:( Very dangerous and highly addictive! >:( Alert moderator to this Spam! ;) -Gregg in Las Vegas |
Title: Re: New to the site, not new to the beast Post by Potter on Jun 12th, 2013 at 2:18pm wrote on Jun 12th, 2013 at 1:10pm:
And more piss poor advice. Potter |
Title: Re: New to the site, not new to the beast Post by stick67 on Jun 12th, 2013 at 2:20pm
Haha Alert MOD to this Spam, gees really people , why would anyone whos on here trying to get help with there pain and social problems cause by these headache, listen to this person called Gregg ?? Thought we were on here to help other people with the ways we have found to live with the headaches, I just telling you , its been 5 years with no pain, and it takes 2 mins to work and if your scared of becoming addicted, then it seems like you might not really have suicide headaches, Gregg sure urs arnt Menstrual Pains !!
look people Staydol works 100% , just try it then write Gregg an tell him to get a life an stop giving his home remedies for something, that you need to stop ASAP !!! |
Title: Re: New to the site, not new to the beast Post by Potter on Jun 12th, 2013 at 2:27pm wrote on Jun 12th, 2013 at 2:20pm:
it's stadol and Greg is respected here and you ain't. Begone. Potter |
Title: Re: New to the site, not new to the beast Post by LasVegas on Jun 12th, 2013 at 2:30pm
Over the past 10 years, I have educated neurologists and have suffered from CH's for over 33 years, and I have been on this board since 1999; so I conclude I have more credibility than most people, especially Newbies on CH's. So there is your qualified source along with google.
It is well documented that the treatment you are pushing in many sections on this website today is potentially deadly. I personally find it criminal as if you are purposely aiding and abetting to fellow CH'ers demise. Hopefully this poor advice will not be followed by anybody as we value our family members. I'm done ;) -Gregg in Las Vegas |
Title: Re: New to the site, not new to the beast Post by Guiseppi on Jun 12th, 2013 at 2:30pm
And with that he's locked....
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Title: Re: New to the site, not new to the beast Post by Potter on Jun 12th, 2013 at 2:33pm
Way to go Gregg and Joe. It was quite a show.
Potter |
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