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Title: Hello all Post by shoot on Jan 29th, 2014 at 1:11am
Hello all, Im new to the boards. Ive figured out in the last few weeks that Im not getting some god-awful sinus infection on one side of my head each fall for the last 3 or 4 years,nor have I been having a stroke about every single night of the week at 3:30 am for the last 5 or 6 weeks,and as hard as it may be for some of us to believe,Im not the only person beating their head against the wall,floor or headboard for 15 mins to 1 hour on most nights for the past couple of months. Actually all indications are that I am suffering from these CH's like so many other of you poor miserable people. I could not imagine there was actually some condition that had the same symtoms that I have. I cant really say that I am thrilled to be here but they say misery loves company I suppose. I could really use some help finding a qualified neurologist in the Indianapolis or Elizabethtown/Louisville area if anyone has any good leads I would really appreciate it...Jeff
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Title: Re: Hello all Post by dfcornwell on Jan 31st, 2014 at 12:58am
First thing I want you to learn to do is to learn to avoid getting into a panicked state when these nasty attacks hit. While relaxation certainly isn't an option, the important thing to keep in mind is that the only way a CH can kill you is if you allow it to. Otherwise you are going to experience a lot of pain for a while and I want you to realize during those attacks that you are going to come out of it exhausted, but physically ok. The pain from CH is bad enough without having to mix it with anxiety and terror. You can help yourself a great deal by not giving in to the emotional side of it during an attack.
Second, I want you to realize that most of us had a great deal of difficulty in working with our physicians because CH just isn't that common and most Docs aren't very familiar with it. You might be able to find a member on this board that lives near you who can recommend a good physician to start out with. Even if you have to start working with a Dr. that is 100 miles away, I suggest doing that initially in order to cut through the delays and get a treatment regimen going. Then you can work on finding a Dr. that is closer who is willing to keep you on the treatment plan that you started if it is working. I wasted 3 years trying different Docs until I found one that understands CH. That was the worst period of time for me and it probably was for just about everyone else as well. Third, understand that there are a lot of similarities between patients but also that there are a lot of differences as well. There are dozens of coping strategies mentioned on this site and some will work for you and some won't. Sometimes a coping strategy that has worked great for you will suddenly stop working. I think we have all been through that as well and it is normal for us. The bottom line is that you have to keep your mind open and stay flexible with those coping strategies. If you find one that works, then you ride that horse as long as it will carry you but when it stops, don't be afraid to try another. Fourth, educate your family and close friends about CH as much as you can. They are going to view your behavioral characteristics during attacks as something very odd and scary at first. Help them understand how to help you. Sometimes that is as simple as giving you "space to pace", or access to very quiet, cool dark room. Fifth, do not allow CH to control you. Live your life. The longer you deal with CH the better you become at handling it. It is very easy to shut yourself off and withdraw from the world but that is not an effective coping strategy. I am a new member on this board but have silently followed it for over 10 years. There are many great people on here that offer some terrific advice. This is where I start browsing when I need a new coping strategy or just need to remind myself that I am not the only person fighting with CH. Good luck and welcome. |
Title: Re: Hello all Post by jon019 on Jan 31st, 2014 at 12:19pm
WOW df....first post!.....you should contribute more often...that was most EXCELLENT.
Best Jon |
Title: Re: Hello all Post by Mike NZ on Jan 31st, 2014 at 2:19pm jon019 wrote on Jan 31st, 2014 at 12:19pm:
Total agreement here. Please contribute more! |
Title: Re: Hello all Post by TeeJ2379 on Feb 1st, 2014 at 11:00pm
Agree with Mike and Jon - dfcornwell is dead on.
I will add that preparation is also a key part to fighting the beast. Have your weapons ready. For me that is my Sumatriptan, and energy drinks on standby ready to go - ice pack in the freezer and my water bottle near by. Also I take my Vitamin D3 regiment religiously with dinner and take melatonin before bed EVERY NIGHT! I read my body for signs that my D3 levels are low and adjust as needed. Its not a matter of if the beast returns, its when and how will i deal with it when it happens. Now that I know what to do I am not scared. I will fight back and I will survive. The family thing is also so important. My wife knows where my meds are, knows to make sure my energy drinks are on hand and how to whip up a quick cup of coffee if we need it. Also knows to leave my alone and only help if I ask for it. We keep our daughter away as well so I don't scare her. She's only 9 months old and I don't want her to ever see me dealing with a CH. Hopefully with D3 she never will. |
Title: Re: Hello all Post by shoot on Feb 14th, 2014 at 2:45pm
Hello folks,Im still here,with my ears on. I really want to thank you all for the help you have given me and all of the help I have found on this site. My wife is a long-time sufferer of migrains so I am taking topamax that she is giving me,Im up to 100mg a day now,Im not enjoying the sides and Im not sure if they are helping but Im quite certain that the D3 is making a HUGE difference,I started on the regimine immediately and there was a change in frequency and intensity within a few days,I cant remember all of the details but I got them down to none from waking up most every night 1-2 or 3 times and seriously almost putting a hollow-point into my head on more than one occasion so I honestly believe you folks have saved a life over here on my end. I read through all of the listing for specialists and was able to locate one that is a litle over an hour from me. I have no insurance and Im not wealthy but I made an appt. though it was a little over a month out at the time I am presently counting the days(15 now). Well today I woke up with my first big time CH in almost 10 days so now Im terrified that the walls Ive thrown up are crumbling and the shabby little cage I have this beast in is breaking down in some manner or another. I could sure use some help hooking up with some ghetto oxygen. Ive looked on craigslist and I can find welding tanks or medical oxygen tanks that are E? Do I need a script to fill a medical tank or a special regulator if I buy a welding O2 tank? At present my abort strategy is an icepack,redbull doesnt seem to work for me at all,a hard surface to bang my head on and then the last resort is the ever present hollow-pint,thanks for all the help...shoot
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Title: Re: Hello all Post by Mike R on Feb 17th, 2014 at 2:16am
I usually get a bad headache at 3:30am too.
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Title: Re: Hello all Post by wimsey1 on Feb 17th, 2014 at 8:43am Mike NZ wrote on Feb 14th, 2014 at 3:59pm:
All good advice above and I agree with what Mike has said. Normally people chug a single dose can of their energy drink but this doesn't work for me. I have to chug a double Monster and even then may need to hit the O2. We are all different and while I'd love to work with a minimum of abortives sometimes I just have to send my full arsenal at the beast. Great first post by the way! blessings. lance |
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