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Title: Brother is in PERMANENT headache pain - HELP Post by IllCureYouBroz on Sep 18th, 2014 at 9:22am
Hey everyone,
I am not a migraine sufferer and don't get headaches, but I can empathize with all of you as the closest person in my life has had 24/7 headaches/pains for the past year and it's excruciating to witness. I haven't been able to even get this far because normally when researching or looking for information I end up in tears or shaking out of fear that this will just never go away. So I end up booking an appointment one at a time hoping to find relief. He describes his symptoms like this: I have put my notes in square brackets
He has taken the following drugs with no relief:
And more but the empty bottles have been thrown away. These are just listed from what I found in his cupboard. He is very debilitated and has moments of extreme despair. His headaches have taken Here is a quote he wrote to one doctor describing symptoms: Quote:
We have been to see general practitioner, neurologists (mri and cat scans done and came back clear), chiropractor, physiotherapist, watson headache specialist and nothing has significantly helped. No doctor has yet to give him a diagnosis, no name has been put to his condition. They revolve around calling it "migraine", "headache", "tension headache" and other various names but none with certainty. To be entirely honest, doctors have shown very little empathy and have been very quick to palm him off to specialists. At one stage he was referred by a GP to a neurologist, the neurologist referred him to a pain specialist, the pain specialist referred him to an ear nose and throat specialist (suspected contact point headache) and the ENT referred him back to a neurologist. All of these specialists charging $200+ for an appointment where it ultimately just led him back to a neurologist that he started at with ZERO prescription or recommendation, just over $1000 to be sent back to the original person. It almost seems like a scam circle. Anyway, he got convinced at one stage (a bit of blind hope I guess) that it was a contact point headache and had a septoplasty to remove a contact point that was found in his nose. This was 3 weeks ago and has shown no improvement at all. The chiropractor said his C1 and C2 were out badly, but after months of intensive treatment and another $5000, the chiropractor said the treatment wasn't working, and the exercises and stretches he was performing weren't working and surgery would be the only option. My brothers posture has looked like this his whole life: IMAGE REMOVED BECAUSE MY POST COUNT IS TOO LOW - IMAGINE A VERY HUNCHED OVER NECK/BACK Many people have mentioned it to him throughout his life, it is noticeably bad. At this point I'm thinking it is most likely a Cervicogenic Headache, as it relates to his bad posture and sounds like similar symptoms (especially considering this type of headache can cause tension headaches which would explain the "band" feeling he is getting around his head). My brother also prefers sleeping on the floor for some reason since he had this headache. At his worst times he sleeps on the floor and for some reason won't take any suggestion to sleep on his bed. Our next step was to send him to the South African headache clinic by Dr Elliot Shevel. My brother was getting really excited about this and after watching many youtube videos he was again convinced this would fix it. After doing research today, I alerted my family of some posts where this surgery went horribly wrong, and the suspicious posts of success stories seemingly coming from his son. We have now decided to cancel that and pursue other avenues before trying what seems to be a bit of a scam and a huge amount of money. So here I am, typing this forum message with my brother curled up on the floor behind me in a state of total despair and hopelessness. I don't know what to do, but I'm going to start here. Hopefully we can find some kind of relief and one day someone will read this post and won't suffer for as long as my brother, my family or I have. To think that my brother is in so much pain he is contemplating suicide makes me sick to my stomach and sucks the life out of me in an instant making me question my own existence to the very core. Any suggestions of treatment based on this story and symptoms would be a blessing. Thanks everyone and I wish you all the best and just hope you have the strength to continue to find relief for yourselves or your loved ones. |
Title: Re: Brother is in PERMANENT headache pain - HELP Post by Bob Johnson on Sep 18th, 2014 at 9:49am
It will help us to direct you to good sources of assistance if you will tell us where you live (city & state, if U.S. or country). At the Home page: Help button-->Edit & Profile --> Location. (This will add your location, just below your name, every time you post a message.
=================================== Suggest you seek a medical center/hospital which has a strong neurology program. That will have a number of medical specialities which will be of benefit. |
Title: Re: Brother is in PERMANENT headache pain - HELP Post by IllCureYouBroz on Sep 18th, 2014 at 10:09am
I live in Brisbane Australia.
Thanks for the response. I've been searching for a neurologist that has interests in headaches in Brisbane and struggle to find one. The last neurologist was very rude and ended up just prescribing him anti-depressants. |
Title: Re: Brother is in PERMANENT headache pain - HELP Post by IllCureYouBroz on Sep 18th, 2014 at 11:00am
Also, my brother is 27 years old and I am 25 years old.
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Title: Re: Brother is in PERMANENT headache pain - HELP Post by Bob Johnson on Sep 18th, 2014 at 12:05pm
Perhaps I was not clear. I'm suggesting that you seek a large hospital/mental center which does much teaching. Often they are associated with a medial school.
There you will find a number of doctors, from diffeent medical specialities. Being treated there will allow your brother to be seen by several docs, increasing the experience and skill of th folks who see him. We have several members fromyour area.Hope they will be able to make some sugguestions for you. |
Title: Re: Brother is in PERMANENT headache pain - HELP Post by AussieBrian on Sep 18th, 2014 at 6:37pm
G'day, welcome, and our thanks for helping a fellow sufferer. It means a lot to us as headaches of any severity can be a lonely place.
As you've already worked out, a definite diagnosis is the first priority as treatments vary so much for different types. Regrettably, getting that diagnosis ain't always easy. If you haven't already tried it there's the Multidisciplinary Pain Centre at Royal Brisbane. Please let us know how you're getting on. We care. |
Title: Re: Brother is in PERMANENT headache pain - HELP Post by IllCureYouBroz on Sep 25th, 2014 at 1:48am
Thanks for the support guys.
I have an appointment booked for him tomorrow with: Dr Richard Kahler – Neurosurgeon & Spinal Surgeon After all my reading I think there's a good chance it's a cervicogenic headache. Hopefully this doctor will perform the anesthetic procedure that can confidently diagnose whether it is his neck. He has seen a headache specialist physio before but the exercises given did not help. The physio said he had major issues with his C1 and C2 joints. I know my brother didn't give the exercises a good go. He has this really frustrating attitude where anything that he doesn't believe, he won't even try. So when I would push for him to do the exercises he would get really angry and say he's tried them and they don't do anything and it's not going to work because the pain is in his head. He got really angry at me today telling me I haven't helped enough and don't care about him or it would already be fixed. I know it's just his headache but it hurts to hear him say that :( Hoping for the best tomorrow. |
Title: Re: Brother is in PERMANENT headache pain - HELP Post by maz on Sep 25th, 2014 at 3:20am
Please don't take your brothers harsh words to heart. He doesn't mean it. When you are in constant debilitating pain it becomes very easy to turn on the people you love most, and look for someone to blame.
Hang in there, you will get a diagnosis one day and the correct meds/treatment, and all your hard work will be worth while. Lets hope tomorrows appointment will be fruitful. Your brother knows how hard you are trying to help him, and one day when he's feeling better he'll tell you how much he appreciates your love and support. In the mean time - thank you from all of us for supporting him the way you do. It's what we all need the most, even if we don't always say so. Please come back and let us know how you get on tomorrow. Maz. |
Title: Re: Brother is in PERMANENT headache pain - HELP Post by Hoppy on Sep 25th, 2014 at 3:34am
It would seem to me you are still confused on a true diagnosis, so maybe get your brother to take the cluster headache quiz, you can find the link to your left on this page, then you will have a better idea when visiting your specialist.
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Title: Re: Brother is in PERMANENT headache pain - HELP Post by IllCureYouBroz on Dec 20th, 2014 at 9:08am
So last time I posted was in September. We went and saw Dr Richard Kahler the neurosurgeon & spinal surgeon. He basically said there was nothing he could do and they he performs operations, he doesn't really diagnose. Another expensive 20 minute consultation with no results :(
My brother has still been in permanent pain. It's really debilitating, I can see every day he gets a little more down and hopeless. The despair I see on his face kills me I can barely think about it. I feel numb to it a lot of the time but tonight after a small conversation with him I was able to cry for the first time and actually feel some emotion.... He was telling me how he's just constantly confused, every day his perspectives and thoughts on everything change constantly and he's constantly searching for a reason as to why this has happened to him when he knows very well there is no reason.... After the spinal surgeon we booked in for botox with Dr Paul Sandstrom who claimed my brother was a good candidate and would probably see improvements about 80% of the time in patients like my brother. He had the botox about a month ago and it has had no effect :(... It really feels like no one has any answer. After almost 2 years now, we've seen every specialist anyone has recommended, seemed to have tried every treatment and literally nothing has shown any improvement whatsoever. He's becoming more and more depressed, less and less social, it's absolutely gutwrenching to witness :( I know he has suicidal thoughts because I read one of his doctors recommendations to another specialist that my brother got when I wasn't there and the doctor said he reported suicidal thoughts... He has never said anything like that to me :( it's so sad to think he has those thoughts and doesn't share them because he's worried about hurting me. On some level I just think I'm being selfish, if he's in constant pain and no one can help him and he's only staying alive in constant agony for his family I almost feel like I should just let him do it :'( :'( :'( I don't want to see him living a life of misery just for me and my family Especially when he just seems so hopeless and it seems to be getting worse and worse each day... Just have no idea where to go to next... No specialist has been able to give even a hint of the cause or any kind of relief whatsoever... We're going to meet up with Dr Paul Sandstrom, a neurologist again who said he can try some more medication if the botox failed. It really feels like he's tried every headache/migraine treatment under the sun and right now we're just feeling incredibly hopeless... If anyone has any suggestions I'd really appreciate it. Sorry for the negative message, I just love him so much and I guess this is just a cry for help from someone that may have been in a similar situation and found some kind of answer. For now, I'll post back when we get results or some kind of hope from a new treatment. |
Title: Re: Brother is in PERMANENT headache pain - HELP Post by johngleroux on Dec 20th, 2014 at 9:26am
It's horrible to hear such bad things happening to people, I am also 27 and get about 4 to 5 cluster attacks a day, without any pf days. It is going on like this for the past 5 years, been to the gp last week and thursday, he took blood for a thyroid function test. Gave him a call today and he said the results are positive for me having an over active thyroid. My brother is 25 years old and does not get a headache of a day old.
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Title: Re: Brother is in PERMANENT headache pain - HELP Post by maz on Dec 20th, 2014 at 3:48pm
IllCureYouBroz, It's a neurologist you need to see - not a neuro surgeon.
There are different headache types that all respond to different meds.That's why it's vital you see a neurologist who specializes in head pain, to get a correct diagnosis, and correct meds. To me, some of his symptoms appear to be CH, but others don't. While you wait for a neuro/diagnosis, ask your doctor for some oxygen. But, this is vital, it must be a flow rate of at least 15 litres per minute(more is better), with a non rebreather mask. It won't work if you get either of those wrong. No matter what headache type it is, the oxygen will do no harm - far better than taking a concoction of drugs that probably won't work. If it is CH, ask for sumatriptan injections. You can only use 2 per day, so I use the oxygen when I'm at home and save the injections for when I'm out. I know your brothers situation seems hopeless and he's in a very dark place right now, we've all been there. But it's not hopeless. It's just a matter of finding the right diagnosis.Most CHers were several years before they got a diagnosis (5 years in my case) because it's so rare. Most doctors will only ever see one case in thier whole lives, and many will see none. Thats why some one trained in headaches, and with some experience is so important. In the mean time, see if you can get the oxygen. It's a life saver for most of us and will do no harm regardless of which condition your brother has. Hope this helps Maz. |
Title: Re: Brother is in PERMANENT headache pain - HELP Post by Hoppy on Dec 20th, 2014 at 8:58pm
G'day ILLCureYouBroz,
Sorry to read your brother is in so much pain, but assure him, we've all been there, and there is light at the end of the tunnel. About the oxygen as Batch mentioned, give the Multidisciplinary pain centre at Royal Brisbane a call to see if they can help your brother get oxygen for his CH's. Cheers, Hoppy. |
Title: Re: Brother is in PERMANENT headache pain - HELP Post by Mike NZ on Dec 20th, 2014 at 11:47pm
I've got oxygen from BOC when over in Perth. To set up an account I had to fax them a letter from a doctor saying that I needed oxygen for CH. I'd already got my mask which I'd got from the CH store and a regulator which goes to 25lpm from BOC NZ.
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Title: Re: Brother is in PERMANENT headache pain - HELP Post by AussieBrian on Dec 23rd, 2014 at 11:52pm
G'day and hope things are looking up for you.
You can get oxygen at home with a script from your GP. You'll be dealing with Oxycare, ph 1800 050 999, and you'll be looking at around $42 a month rental on a regulator up to 15lpm and an E bottle which will last 4 hours or more altogether, then about $40 a refill while you take it in yourself. They can get you started within a day or so while the script is worded correctly and getting the right mask shouldn't be a big problem. I just spoke with them on the phone, a girl named Nicole, and it all sounded totally professional and organised. Bit of a surprise nowadays. Please let us know how you're getting on because we worry. Best ever for Christmas, Brian up norf. |
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