Is this the purpose of your "Reputation" feature?

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It looks like some people can't take a hint.   ::)

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This may sound weird but...

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Re: This may sound weird but...
« Reply #30 on: Jan 23rd, 2008, 2:17pm»
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Then why go on like your a card-carrying member of the perpetually offended party?

Get over it. Grow thicker skin. Suck it up, buttercup.

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yes, I believe that is the purpose of the reputation thingy.

:'( Steve, I am not going to give you a minus because I have really enjoyed knowing you, but you are the only person on the board who made me frightened for my own safety, when you accused me falsely of knowing that someone offended you and that we were letting him get away with something, in chat.

I am not pm-ing you because I believe I would see it quoted in a post.

Charlotte

You continue to prove my point for me.

Charlotte wrote on May 29^th, 2008 at 3:18pm:

yes, I believe that is the purpose of the reputation thingy. :'( Steve, I am not going to give you a minus because I have really enjoyed knowing you, but you are the only person on the board who made me frightened for my own safety, when you accused me falsely of knowing that someone offended you and that we were letting him get away with something, in chat. I am not pm-ing you because I believe I would see it quoted in a post. Charlotte

I have no idea what you are talking about & I resent the accusation.

What a load of B.S.   ::)

No wonder so many have left CH.com.    :(

Jesus Steve.
You stir more shit than anyone who has ever been here, and then you whine and bellyache when people tell you that you are useless.
No offense, Steve, but please smarten the fuck up.  It's been years since you contributed anything to this support group, aside from trying to start fights and whining like a little girl in a cinderella dress.  

Steve, aka King Queen of Whiners, with all due respect, (which isnt much), u need to do a lot of smartening up.

 
DJ and Steph, will you please delete this waste of bandwidth thread started for no other reason than to be an idiot?  Thank you and my apologies for my outburst.

BMoneeTheMoneeMan wrote on May 29^th, 2008 at 3:39pm:

Jesus Steve. You stir more shit than anyone who has ever been here, and then you whine and bellyache when people tell you that you are useless. No offense, Steve, but please smarten the fuck up.  It's been years since you contributed anything to this support group, aside from trying to start fights and whining like a little girl in a cinderella dress.   Steve, aka King Queen of Whiners, with all due respect, (which isnt much), u need to do a lot of smartening up.   DJ and Steph, will you please delete this waste of bandwidth thread started for no other reason than to be an idiot?  Thank you and my apologies for my outburst.

We swallow greedily any lie that flatters us, but we sip only little by little at a truth we find bitter.
words to live by

KingOfPain wrote on May 29^th, 2008 at 3:44pm:

BMoneeTheMoneeMan wrote on May 29th, 2008 at 3:39pm: Jesus Steve. You stir more shit than anyone who has ever been here, and then you whine and bellyache when people tell you that you are useless. No offense, Steve, but please smarten the fuck up.  It's been years since you contributed anything to this support group, aside from trying to start fights and whining like a little girl in a cinderella dress.   Steve, aka King Queen of Whiners, with all due respect, (which isnt much), u need to do a lot of smartening up.   DJ and Steph, will you please delete this waste of bandwidth thread started for no other reason than to be an idiot?  Thank you and my apologies for my outburst.

I agree Queen, you need to read this over and over again until it sinks in that no-one needs your bullshit.
Print it, and put it on your bathroom mirror.

BMoneeTheMoneeMan wrote on May 29^th, 2008 at 3:39pm:

Jesus Steve. You stir more shit than anyone who has ever been here, and then you whine and bellyache when people tell you that you are useless. No offense, Steve, but please smarten the fuck up.  It's been years since you contributed anything to this support group, aside from trying to start fights and whining like a little girl in a cinderella dress.   Steve, aka King Queen of Whiners, with all due respect, (which isnt much), u need to do a lot of smartening up.   DJ and Steph, will you please delete this waste of bandwidth thread started for no other reason than to be an idiot?  Thank you and my apologies for my outburst.

Read it again, Queen

BMoneeTheMoneeMan wrote on May 29^th, 2008 at 3:39pm:

Jesus Steve. You stir more shit than anyone who has ever been here, and then you whine and bellyache when people tell you that you are useless. No offense, Steve, but please smarten the fuck up.  It's been years since you contributed anything to this support group, aside from trying to start fights and whining like a little girl in a cinderella dress.   Steve, aka King Queen of Whiners, with all due respect, (which isnt much), u need to do a lot of smartening up.   DJ and Steph, will you please delete this waste of bandwidth thread started for no other reason than to be an idiot?  Thank you and my apologies for my outburst.

One more time, Queen, and then its time to change your diaper and lay you down for a nap.

BMoneeTheMoneeMan wrote on May 29^th, 2008 at 3:48pm:

KingOfPain wrote on May 29th, 2008 at 3:44pm: BMoneeTheMoneeMan wrote on May 29th, 2008 at 3:39pm: Jesus Steve. You stir more shit than anyone who has ever been here, and then you whine and bellyache when people tell you that you are useless. No offense, Steve, but please smarten the fuck up.  It's been years since you contributed anything to this support group, aside from trying to start fights and whining like a little girl in a cinderella dress.   Steve, aka King Queen of Whiners, with all due respect, (which isnt much), u need to do a lot of smartening up.   DJ and Steph, will you please delete this waste of bandwidth thread started for no other reason than to be an idiot?  Thank you and my apologies for my outburst. I agree Queen, you need to read this over and over again until it sinks in that no-one needs your bullshit. Print it, and put it on your bathroom mirror.

BMoneeTheMoneeMan wrote on May 29^th, 2008 at 3:50pm:

BMoneeTheMoneeMan wrote on May 29th, 2008 at 3:39pm: Jesus Steve. You stir more shit than anyone who has ever been here, and then you whine and bellyache when people tell you that you are useless. No offense, Steve, but please smarten the fuck up.  It's been years since you contributed anything to this support group, aside from trying to start fights and whining like a little girl in a cinderella dress.   Steve, aka King Queen of Whiners, with all due respect, (which isnt much), u need to do a lot of smartening up.   DJ and Steph, will you please delete this waste of bandwidth thread started for no other reason than to be an idiot?  Thank you and my apologies for my outburst. One more time, Queen, and then its time to change your diaper and lay you down for a nap.

I guess there is a point to this thread but I fail to comprehend it.  :-/

Waaa Waaa.  Brian is a big meanie.



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Steve - I have tried to ascertain, both via public forum and private message, exactly what your problem is with me. You have, time and time again, refused to answer me. I can, therefore, only conclude that your reasoning is so unsound that you cannot risk sharing it either with me personally or out in public because of the embarassment it might cause you.

I have never clicked the ignore button on you (as you have on me), so if you ever change your mind and decide to share the bug that's up your ass, please feel free. Beyond that, I suggest you keep your whacked ideas to yourself.

wrote on May 29^th, 2008 at 4:31pm:

Steve - I have tried to ascertain, both via public forum and private message, exactly what your problem is with me. You have, time and time again, refused to answer me. I can, therefore, only conclude that your reasoning is so unsound that you cannot risk sharing it either with me personally or out in public because of the embarassment it might cause you. I have never clicked the ignore button on you (as you have on me), so if you ever change your mind and decide to share the bug that's up your ass, please feel free. Beyond that, I suggest you keep your whacked ideas to yourself.

I think it's this kind of thing that got the whole place shut down a while back...........

Jimi....I'm with you.  But...I can tell you that it serves NO purpose.

Now...We have BlueMeanie who's son is fighting a life threatening illness, Rosy who just buried her beloved Grandpa, Pep who is having medical issues. Sandy who just buried her bossman,  another family member who lost a co-worker this weekend, our dear Tony who is hospitalized with heart issues.....and on it goes with more that I won't list.

These are all problems that this FAMILY is having right now.
So.....why don't you all go post to them, say some prayers and then shut the fuck up HUSH UP!!!!!!!!!

Queen, you should see if the military could use your services.  Maybe you could bore people to death.


oh, and here's a quote just cause that seems to be the lesson of the day:

KingOfPain wrote on May 29^th, 2008 at 4:32pm:

wrote on May 29th, 2008 at 4:31pm: Steve - I have tried to ascertain, both via public forum and private message, exactly what your problem is with me. You have, time and time again, refused to answer me. I can, therefore, only conclude that your reasoning is so unsound that you cannot risk sharing it either with me personally or out in public because of the embarassment it might cause you. I have never clicked the ignore button on you (as you have on me), so if you ever change your mind and decide to share the bug that's up your ass, please feel free. Beyond that, I suggest you keep your whacked ideas to yourself.

Please everyone, take a step back.

If you don't like someone's posts, use your ignore button.

As for the reputation thing. I love it. It enables me to tell people I love that I value them and in a way they will always know. I hope it makes people feel loved, cherished, valued and welcome.

Using the negative feature should be a last resort, not a first choice. I personally wouldn't neg anyone without having spoken to others first and ascerting that it wasn't my personal dislike but a valid reason that was causing me to do so.

This is not a comment on any one else's choices or a rebuke, merely how I intend using the system.

If it is abused, it will be taken away and that would be a sad day when something we can give and get so much pleasure from using to say nice things is lost to us.

Please, just think twice

wrote on May 29^th, 2008 at 4:59pm:

Please, just think twice

Or once, even.  ;)

Jackie wrote on May 29^th, 2008 at 4:42pm:

Now...We have BlueMeanie who's son is fighting a life threatening illness, Rosy who just buried her beloved Grandpa, Pep who is having medical issues. Sandy who just buried her bossman,  another family member who lost a co-worker this weekend, our dear Tony who is hospitalized with heart issues.....and on it goes with more that I won't list. These are all problems that this FAMILY is having right now. So.....why don't you all go post to them, say some prayers and then shut the fuck up HUSH UP!!!!!!!!!

Well said. ;)

Jackie, will you have my baby? Awwwww, who are we kidding. ;D

Jackie wrote on May 29^th, 2008 at 4:42pm:

Jimi....I'm with you.  But...I can tell you that it serves NO purpose. Now...We have BlueMeanie who's son is fighting a life threatening illness, Rosy who just buried her beloved Grandpa, Pep who is having medical issues. Sandy who just buried her bossman,  another family member who lost a co-worker this weekend, our dear Tony who is hospitalized with heart issues.....and on it goes with more that I won't list. These are all problems that this FAMILY is having right now. So.....why don't you all go post to them, say some prayers and then shut the fuck up HUSH UP!!!!!!!!!

[smiley=bow.gif]

Somebody (not sure zactly who) needs to adjust their meds.

Does somebody want to step up to the plate and tell me straight to my face that I've abused the negative Reputation button here?

I've talked to many here about Steve's unwillingness to tell me what the problem is. In my mind, it is a last resort - I pushed the negative button and said exactly why I did it. This kind of behavior is going to get the Reputation feature permanently revoked? If all it's for is to tell people that we love, cherish, value and welcome them - a virtual stroke fest, if you will - then get rid of the negative button.

Otherwise, I call 'em as I sees 'em.

Are you kidding me?!  GROW UP!!!!!  This is exactly why the reputation system is in place.  Being a positive member of a forum and contributing in time of need reflects with your peers.

For those that don't want to read or listen to the bullshit of certain people, simply hit the ignore button....it's that easy.  They don't know they are being ignored.  It may even give relief to a few "minor" headaches you may have been experiencing.



Jackie wrote on May 29^th, 2008 at 4:42pm:

Now...We have BlueMeanie who's son is fighting a life threatening illness, Rosy who just buried her beloved Grandpa, Pep who is having medical issues. Sandy who just buried her bossman,  another family member who lost a co-worker this weekend, our dear Tony who is hospitalized with heart issues.....and on it goes with more that I won't list. These are all problems that this FAMILY is having right now. So.....why don't you all go post to them, say some prayers and then shut the fuck up HUSH UP!!!!!!!!!

This is what should be worried about on this board....not stupid, petty numbers.



wrote on May 29^th, 2008 at 6:19pm:

Does somebody want to step up to the plate and tell me straight to my face that I've abused the negative Reputation button here?

I will, and you didn't!  I think callin it like it is, is the best policy.  Most people with clear consciences wouldn't be insulted.



Now....back to your scheduled programs....  ::)

Mrs Deej wrote on May 29^th, 2008 at 7:01pm:

I will, and you didn't!  I think callin it like it is, is the best policy.  Most people with clear consciences wouldn't be insulted.

Steph - you're one of my heroes!

wrote on May 29^th, 2008 at 6:19pm:

Does somebody want to step up to the plate and tell me straight to my face that I've abused the negative Reputation button here? I've talked to many here about Steve's unwillingness to tell me what the problem is. In my mind, it is a last resort - I pushed the negative button and said exactly why I did it. This kind of behavior is going to get the Reputation feature permanently revoked? If all it's for is to tell people that we love, cherish, value and welcome them - a virtual stroke fest, if you will - then get rid of the negative button. Otherwise, I call 'em as I sees 'em.

Mrs Deej wrote on May 29^th, 2008 at 7:01pm:

Are you kidding me?!  GROW UP!!!!!  This is exactly why the reputation system is in place.  Being a positive member of a forum and contributing in time of need reflects with your peers. For those that don't want to read or listen to the bullshit of certain people, simply hit the ignore button....it's that easy.  They don't know they are being ignored.  It may even give relief to a few "minor" headaches you may have been experiencing. Jackie wrote on May 29th, 2008 at 4:42pm: Now...We have BlueMeanie who's son is fighting a life threatening illness, Rosy who just buried her beloved Grandpa, Pep who is having medical issues. Sandy who just buried her bossman,  another family member who lost a co-worker this weekend, our dear Tony who is hospitalized with heart issues.....and on it goes with more that I won't list. These are all problems that this FAMILY is having right now. So.....why don't you all go post to them, say some prayers and then shut the fuck up HUSH UP!!!!!!!!! This is what should be worried about on this board....not stupid, petty numbers. wrote on May 29th, 2008 at 6:19pm: Does somebody want to step up to the plate and tell me straight to my face that I've abused the negative Reputation button here? I will, and you didn't!  I think callin it like it is, is the best policy.  Most people with clear consciences wouldn't be insulted. Now....back to your scheduled programs....  ::)

wrote on May 29^th, 2008 at 6:19pm:

Does somebody want to step up to the plate and tell me straight to my face that I've abused the negative Reputation button here?

Bill, for months you have been antagonistic toward KOP.  You are mad because he won't answer your PM's.  You say you don't know why?  He posted a copy of the post that tells you why.  You took the first opportunity you could to slam him in the "reputation" feature...over past petty bull sh*t, not anything recent.  Sorry, but I call that abuse.  Just because someone chooses to ignore you shouldn't be cause for negative comments.

If everyone who responded to this post took the time to look at the timeline, the negative "reputation" comment was made BEFORE this thread was started.  It is so easy to jump to conclusions without knowing all the facts.

I am sure this will ruffle more than a few feathers but at this point in time I am sick of all the bull sh*t that happens here.  This IS supposed to be a sanctuary for those people who suffer from or support someone who suffer from cluster headaches.


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I call 'em as I sees 'em.

As do I.


DD

who's Steve ¿?¿ and I thought they were kidding with each other so I guess I dont know the whole story and I guess i will never know ?¿?
Terry (I am so confused )

Yeesh.  When a person gets a negative, it's not like they've been gutshot or anything.  We've all got better things to get worked up about.  Or at least I do.

Personally, I'm saving my negatives up for Ali--and CHTom (if he ever has the 'nads to show up around here again.) [smiley=bash.gif]

Best,

George

I've been a part of this forum since Feb '98 but it's this bullshit that drives me away time and time again.
TomM

TomM wrote on May 30^th, 2008 at 9:43am:

I've been a part of this forum since Feb '98

Wow!!!  Thats amazing!