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Title: This is so new to me... Help! Post by piglet6 on Oct 13th, 2008 at 7:47am
Hi everyone! My name is Amy. I was recently, like three days ago, diagnosed with clusters. I have been battling "the beast" as you all refer to it off and on for the past 20 years. Only recently did I find a doctor who really is listening and finally helping me. It took moving through four states and across the country to get to where I am today. The clusters are getting worse. There are times I think death would be easier. I have tried numerous medications and treatments and nothing has worked until Friday when this doctor gave me Maxalt and put me on 15 minutes of straight O2. OMG! I could have sprouted wings and flown around that room! I feel like a druggie at home with all my preventative and abortive medications. Some work, some not so well. Some kill the beast, some only injure him to let me rest a few minutes before he comes raging back.
Up until recently I have been able to keep my clusters away from my work. Now I may lose my job. My boss says he understands but does he really? The majority of my friends do not even know that I suffer. I have been embarrassed to tell the agony I suffer. I do not want their pity. I know that sounds strange but the ones that do know I see the pity in their eyes and its not what I want. I am scheduled Thursday for an MRI and MRA. I am also being scheduled for a sleep study. This doctor said she could send me to a neurosurgeon in Memphis, TN to have a surgery done where they go in and clip a tiny nerve that is causing the clusters and I would never have a cluster again. Anyone ever heard of this? |
Title: Re: This is so new to me... Help! Post by George_J on Oct 13th, 2008 at 8:58am
Welcome, Amy. I'm sorry to hear that you've been having such a tough time, but it sounds as if the combination of Maxalt and oxygen has been very helpful.
Others will be along, I'm sure, to discuss various approaches you may not have considered that can be effective as well. piglet6 wrote on Oct 13th, 2008 at 7:47am:
Well, yeah....but it's not quite so simple, nor is it quite so magical in effect. I'll wait for others who've had the surgery to expand on that. Again--welcome to CH.com. Welcome home. Best wishes, George |
Title: Re: This is so new to me... Help! Post by dionysiusaeropagite on Oct 13th, 2008 at 9:34am
Amy,
Many things to consider here, and I know it is difficult to sift through everything. Personally, I would not take any form of brain surgery lightly. Sadly, I am relatively new to this whole thing myself, and I don't have much advice to give. Being a devout man, I can only offer prayer and faith in God as another source of weapons for fighting the beast. I will keep you in special mind throughout the day. If you would like any more advice on bringing this situation to your spiritual life, I'm kinda like one of the "spiritual directors" here, being that I'm a seminarian studying to be a Catholic priest. I humbly offer myself if you would like to talk more. My prayers are with you. God love you! -Joe |
Title: Re: This is so new to me... Help! Post by imfareware on Oct 13th, 2008 at 10:51am
Hello and HANG IN THERE!!!
Find your little happy place when you feel them coming on, and take your buddy (O2) with you. Like everyone else around here, I've had my CH since 1986, I'll always remember the first one. Not one single doctor would admit the Cluster Headaches, because they dont know about them. I've never heard of surgery fixing these permanently. I've had MRI's and CT Scans, the doctors didnt know what to look for, so they didnt show anything special. Try taking melatonin 1 hour before bed, I found that little secret on this site and since then, I've been taking one every evening. It helps regulate my sleep. You can buy them over the counter in drug stores or super markets where they sell the suppliments. Good luck and remember that your not alone! |
Title: Re: This is so new to me... Help! Post by el-ny on Oct 13th, 2008 at 10:52am
Ur not alone.Remember that.I feel for you amy. Getting a neuro that is knowledgable is the key. Ive been through mri's and cat's as well as incorrectly misdiagnosed. Until that is, That I found a doc who understood what I had and how to treat. for me its verapamil(prevent), o2 (abort), and on occasion imitrex injection (abortive). I now have somewhat of a normal life. good luck Amy..
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Title: Re: This is so new to me... Help! Post by piglet6 on Oct 13th, 2008 at 11:19am
Dr has not given me O2 for home use. I tried to sneak it out but nurse caught me. :'(
thanks for the encouragement everyone. It's nice to know that there are people here who truly understand. My dh tries, but sometimes he can be so cruel so unintentionally. |
Title: Re: This is so new to me... Help! Post by Racer1_NC on Oct 13th, 2008 at 11:25am piglet6 wrote on Oct 13th, 2008 at 11:19am:
Insist that he does. Like today. |
Title: Re: This is so new to me... Help! Post by el-ny on Oct 13th, 2008 at 2:07pm
i AGREE. iNSIST. IF NEED BE PRINT INFORMATION FROM THE WEB EXPLAINING HOW O2 IS THE BEST AND MOST NATURAL WAY TO ABORT A CLUSTER.
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Title: Re: This is so new to me... Help! Post by Bob_Johnson on Oct 13th, 2008 at 2:42pm
If you need infor re. meds, etc. then let us know.
Re. the boss: You're safe until he tells you that you are not. Put that issue on the shelf for he is the controlling agent. Re. your friends. Love involves giving but also receiving! You are in control in that you can tell them both what is happening to you--that giving them some relief. And you can tell them HOW you want them to love you: what should they do or not do. Only then can they truly give to you on terms which benefit you when you are sick. |
Title: Re: This is so new to me... Help! Post by piglet6 on Oct 13th, 2008 at 2:56pm
I want to know more from people who have had this surgery. Anyone?
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Title: Re: This is so new to me... Help! Post by Guiseppi on Oct 13th, 2008 at 3:33pm
The way the doctor describes it, I wanna have it! Clip a tiny nerve, never have CH again! Be really really careful here, it is brain surgery, there's no such thing as minor brain surgery. If there was a simple operation that would end CH forever, we'd all be in line, believe me. 30 years with these things, I'd consider COMPLICATED surgery to never have them again!
About the oxygen. I know EXACTLY what you mean! I have oxygen at home. After I abort a headache with 02 the feeling of euphoria I get is better then se..........well........let's just say it feels really really good! ;) Push for the home oxygen, it has been a lifesaver for me and for many on the board. Do lots and lots of research on this surgery. Surgical fixes have a dismal success rate, it's certainly not the quick "snip a nerve and they're gone" surgery you've described. You're not alone, hang in there. Guiseppi |
Title: Re: This is so new to me... Help! Post by BarbaraD on Oct 13th, 2008 at 3:48pm
As a person who has HAD surgery - don't believe it's SIMPLE or a snip of a nerve!!! Or that's it's a CURE!
Had surgery done back in 99 - Have optic nerve damage (was blind for about a year after the surgery) am numb on the left side (have learned to live with that). Have a paralysis in my chewing muscle on the left side (that was "supposed" to go away within about a month - I'm still waiting). Don't get me wrong - at the time (before the surgery) everything was explained to me (even the part about death could occur - at the time I didn't see a downside to that). But about 9 months after the surgery my neuro and I discoved topamax (not for everyone) and lo and behold it put me in remission and I became HUMAN again. Have been on it ever since and for the most part - it works pretty good. I still have CH and I'm still chronic, but NOTHING like I was when I had the surgery. O2 has been a livesaver and hopefully I'll be off all meds before the next decade, but for now I can prevent a lot of headaches and can abort the ones I can't prevent. Am I sorry I had the surgery - that's like crying over spilled milk. Would I recommend it - No way! Before you jump into anything READ this board and see what your options are. O2 has worked really well for about 70% of us (if used properly). There are preventatives out there that have been lifesavers for a lot of us and who knows what might pop up next month. Brain surgery is just too darn PERMANENT. Hugs BD |
Title: Re: This is so new to me... Help! Post by vietvet2tours on Oct 13th, 2008 at 4:30pm piglet6 wrote on Oct 13th, 2008 at 11:19am:
That's absurd. Where exactly did ya hide it? Potter |
Title: Re: This is so new to me... Help! Post by thebbz on Oct 13th, 2008 at 4:48pm
I wouldn't let a neurosurgeon clip nothing but his tie.
all the best and get to the 02 applied properly you dont need the clippers. thebb |
Title: Re: This is so new to me... Help! Post by wildhaus on Oct 13th, 2008 at 5:07pm
Hi,
I will have a surgical procedure next week , an Occipital nerve stimulation surgery, and that is a radical move……for me! The surgery you are looking at, or what your Dr. suggested to look into is, as far as I am informed, and I believe I am informed, is the last “stroke” when all other methods have been exhausted, be it school medicine and / or alternative medicine. “Clip” a tiny nerve that is supposedly causing the clusters is an irreversible situation, This move had been discussed with me as possibility as well a DBS (deep brain surgery) and was taken off the list of possible treatments, by the neuro, the neurosurgeon, and the anaesthesiologist, not only it is irreversible, there is no proper proof to its usefulness Vs. adverseness’, that is, a properly documented case study, not to mention a study that I or my neuro are ewer of, there are few anecdotal documentation, but not much more that I know of. I would try and talk to the Neuro / Dr’s to try the “conventional” methods first, be it O2 and “common” preventive and abortive medicines. And not start with the most radical (possible) solution, a solution that might not even work…………. It (needs to) takes a lot, be it med’s resistant / over sensitivity, before going the surgical alley, with little guaranty it will work, and most definitely, an irreversible situation, it took me a lot of convincing to do what I am going to do, and that is a “walk in the park” comparing to “Clipping” a tiny nerve. Michael |
Title: Re: This is so new to me... Help! Post by Linda_Howell on Oct 13th, 2008 at 6:10pm
Amy...
I hope that with the feed-back you have recieved here as well as reading the links I provided you, has helped you make a more informed decision. I knew about Barb and Michael but did not want to refer to their experiences so I waited til they saw this, so they could speak for themselves.. There are far too many alternatives to what you are contemplating in my opinion. I've been chronic for 21 years. There is no way in hell I would even consider this. Linda |
Title: Re: This is so new to me... Help! Post by piglet6 on Oct 13th, 2008 at 6:41pm
I guess I just feel so darn desperate. I hurt. I really hurt. I know you know this pain. I don't want to feel this pain anymore. I am done. I want to have hope. I live my live with the beast. If its not "in" the beast, its recovering "from" the beast, or "preparing" for when the next beast will attack. This all consuming thought is just too much. I am exhausted physically and mentally. My family is suffering. My dd is so young I do my best to shield her from all this. I can't give her my best and that's just not fair.
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Title: Re: This is so new to me... Help! Post by Linda_Howell on Oct 13th, 2008 at 8:20pm Quote:
Amy, Pretend I am your Mom. I am sitting you down looking you straight on with my "Mommy" face. Of course you are desperate. We all know what the heck THAT feels like. But....desperate does NOT mean you should take an other-wise healthy brain and start poking around in it. PLEASE read around here. I believe you will be so surprised at your alternatives. end of my Motherly advice to you. |
Title: Re: This is so new to me... Help! Post by wildhaus on Oct 14th, 2008 at 9:24am Linda_Howell wrote on Oct 13th, 2008 at 6:10pm:
Linda do fell free to refer to my experience, I (unfortunately) do not get a chance to read the boards on a daily basis, and I do miss a lot of posts that I could add some of the little knowledge I have acuminated through my endless search for a better way to deal with CCH, or just alert me to it….. it is my duty (an honour) to give back, the way CH.com and all of the “residence” of Clusterville have given me the past 3 years. Michael |
Title: Re: This is so new to me... Help! Post by piglet6 on Oct 16th, 2008 at 1:36pm
Getting ready to go for my MRI/MRA. My sleep study is schedule for a week from next Monday. The past two days have been awful. Especially last night. Just hoping for answers soon.
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Title: Re: This is so new to me... Help! Post by thebbz on Oct 16th, 2008 at 1:41pm
Hoping you get a diagnosis and some treatment. good luck with the testing, and try to remain calm. You will get through it.
all the best thebb |
Title: Re: This is so new to me... Help! Post by Callico on Oct 16th, 2008 at 4:39pm
Hi Amy,
You might want to talk to Patricia (see "I'm glad you're here - sort of"). She underwent the gamma knife treatment twice and the CH is back. She might be able to give you a bit more detail. Jerry |
Title: Re: This is so new to me... Help! Post by wayne mc on Oct 17th, 2008 at 4:35am
G day piglet 6
Yeh I had nerves cut March last year during my last cycle. This cycle finished in November last year so no It didnt work. I actually woke up from sugery with a kip 10, nurse didnt know what to do. My cycle proceeded as normal, except I had a 2" cut on the back of my head and my right scalp was numb. Neuro said HA were phantoms but he was wrong. I am back in cycle at the moment so nothing has change. I agree with barb There is no way I would do it again, but this is all in hindsight. You do get used to the numbness fairly quickly though. I am not saying this dosnt work for everybody but it didnt for me. Hope you find the answer for you . Regards Wayne |
Title: Re: This is so new to me... Help! Post by piglet6 on Oct 17th, 2008 at 6:57am
Thank you everyone for your good advice. I really appreciate it. I know that I really need to research this before I make any decisions that involve invasively entering my brain.
I am having a good morning so I guess I am looking at the sunnier side. No clusters last night. I slept 1/2way decent despite a tough past few days. The MRI/MRA went well. I will get the results next week as I am leaving town for a few days and won't be able to see my doctor. MRI was tough. The noise level was excruitating. They did their best to muffle the sounds. I grabbed my wristed with my other hand and laid as still as I could and just silently prayed. I must have grabbed my wrist so hard b/c my best friend inquired what happened to my wrist when I came out. LOL! Looked like I had been tied down. LOL! Don't like those small tight spaces with loud loud noises around my head. Here is a question.... I am on Toprol 25mg (take at bedtime) , Topamax 100mg (take in 50 mg doses 2x a day) , Butalbital (abortive- use approx 3-4 x day), Maxalt (abortive- currently using 1-2 times per day), also taking Trazadone for CF. I have recently become extremely dizzy and nauseous. I have virtually NO appetiete. I am having stomach and intestinal issues and have pretty much reduced myself to a diet of crackers and other bland foods. The smell of chocolate causes instant CH. Most food makes me extremely sick to my stomach. Are these common side effects? Do I need to be concerned? Should I call my doctor or just tell her next Wednesday? |
Title: Re: This is so new to me... Help! Post by Callico on Oct 20th, 2008 at 2:33am
Bump for meds questions. I don't have the answers. If you don't get a response here you might try asking again on the Meds and Treatments page. Sorry I don't have answers, but someone will.
Jerry |
Title: Re: This is so new to me... Help! Post by DennisM1045 on Oct 21st, 2008 at 12:29pm
Hi,
I don't have any experience with the meds you are taking but I have a general piece of advice. If you ever find youself asking if you should call your Dr. Just do it. Any sudden change or worsening in symptoms should be discussed with your Dr. Good luck... -Dennis- |
Title: Re: This is so new to me... Help! Post by Davo-nz on Oct 30th, 2008 at 6:30pm
Hi Amy,
I've just rejoined this website after a few years away .. I was actually booked in to have the surgery about 4 years ago during my last CH cycle but at that stage but my older brother Gary was also a chronic CH and he was into his 18th year with virtually no remission during that time .. so he decided to have the nerve surgery .. his clusters returned 8 days afterwards and he lost most of the feeling in the left side of his face and his left eye was also badly affected .. my surgery was still about 4 months off so I cancelled it .. think very carefully before going ahead with this .. please ! In case you're wondering how my brother is now .. well unfortunately he passed away during a CH attack about 3 months after that surgery .. he suffered a heart attack. All I can really say is hang in there Amy .. all of us know what you are feeling and what you have to go through on a daily basis. Hey about the oxygen, I don't know if you can just go and rent Oxy bottles there where you live but here in New Zealand I just went to an industrial gas bottling place and they've rented me a C 02 bottle with mask etc .. it's not that expensive either .. so if your doc won't come to the party it might well be worth checking out ? good luck, Dave |
Title: Re: This is so new to me... Help! Post by Linda_Howell on Oct 30th, 2008 at 6:48pm
Amy, I'd never heard of Butalbital so I looked it up.
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Besides the other meds they have you on this just MAY be a part of the symptoms you are experiencing. Call that Dr. ASAP if you cannot eat....that is not a good thing. |
Title: Re: This is so new to me... Help! Post by Callico on Oct 30th, 2008 at 11:30pm
Amy,
Butalbital is the first thing my Dr put me on back when I was first diagnosed almost 30 yrs ago. Nobody knew anything much about CH around there, and he was just trying to kill pain. It didn't work! All I got was high. I still hurt, just didn't care (about anything), then I got dependent, and had to take myself off. That was ROUGH. Did it on my own, and went med free for a number of years till I found this place and found some alternatives. My suggestion for what it is worth is to get as far away from any narcotics (or synthetics) as you can. They really don't address CH pain, and are way to slow acting to do any good anyway. Jerry |
Title: Re: This is so new to me... Help! Post by Skyhawk5 on Nov 1st, 2008 at 2:09pm
Piglet, Please try and get the Oxygen for home use. Sugery is a LAST RESORT. Oxygen (O2) for 70% of us will abort up to 90% of ch attacks in minutes when used properly. Minumum 10-15lpm through a NON-REBREATHER mask, the nose canula is worthless,
I know you are desparate but please get the O2 and you just may find some needed hope. Best, Don |
Title: Re: This is so new to me... Help! Post by BarbaraD on Nov 2nd, 2008 at 6:26am
Topamax will sometimes cause a loss of appetite. (In my case that was NOT a downside). I've been on it since 99 and the appetite comes back (unfortunately in my case). Take the whole dose at night if you have any side effects. This worked for me.
Maxalt makes me deathly sick to my stomach. I cannot tolerate it at all. That could explain that one. Might try something else. Hugs BD |
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