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Sophia

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I am offended
Jul 19^th, 2008 at 2:26am

I have been getting many emails from various people on this site and I am truly offended at being accused of being someones wife. I do not use my real name, I live in Scandinavia and I am not even married. I came here to get support about my condition and now feel as if I am being forced to leave. Who honestly cares if I am so and so's wife anyway? Me that is who because I dont even know the guy.
Please stop emailing me with this stuff. Sophia

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Re: I am offended
Reply #1 - Jul 19^th, 2008 at 7:13am

I am sure they are just being friendly and trying to make contact with someone who hadn't been around for a while, I am sure it is an honest mistake. You do not have your country showing so that may lead to the confusion.

I am not sure why you think it is a major issue in the whole scheme of things. Unless they were being very rude and nasty to you then I do not see how you are being forced of the board.

re look at the motives of these people and see it for what it was a case of mixed identity

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Re: I am offended
Reply #2 - Jul 19^th, 2008 at 7:31am

Sophia, nobody can "force" you to leave.

If you're getting e-mails from some idiot (who I suspect may be a pathetic loser who hates women and hates CH.com--and has been banned here repeatedly), then simply block his e-mails, and his PM's.

I don't know whether or not he's "back", but he's pretended to be two different genders from three or four different countries. E-mailing women on the board with insinuating or threatening e-mails or PM's is pretty characteristic behavior for him. He's a coward and a sleaze.

Ignore him and block him, if possible.

All the best,

George

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-johnny- CH.com Sponsor Offline theres no smoking on the dock Posts: 1642 fayette county ohio Gender:	Re: I am offended Reply #3 - Jul 19^th, 2008 at 5:04pm sophia i'm really sorry that somebody is harassing you. let me know who it is and i'll drive my truck over to his house and kick his ass. seriously though i do hope you can hang out with us. best wishes whatever you decide johnny
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Charlie CH.com Alumnus Offline Happy to be here Posts: 18971 Jamestown, NY Gender:	Re: I am offended Reply #4 - Jul 19^th, 2008 at 8:03pm So far as I know, you're welcome here. Not to worrry. I'm one of those old crabby Swedes that have been in this country for a century or more. We can be a testy bunch! Mean Old Charlie
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jimmers Ex Member	Re: I am offended Reply #5 - Jul 19^th, 2008 at 8:15pm I noticed she said "various people" in the thread. What gives, and do I need to give someone a beatdown? jimmers
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Mrs Deej YaBB Administrator Offline My life is what I make it, and it's beautiful! Posts: 1348 Tornado Alley Gender:	Re: I am offended Reply #6 - Jul 20^th, 2008 at 12:18pm Sophia, PLEASE let me know if I or DJ can help you with this. It is not our intention for those that are members of this forum to be harrasing. All you got to do is say the word.
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Jonny Ex Member	Re: I am offended Reply #7 - Jul 20^th, 2008 at 3:47pm I would love to have a name or two....the back stabbing is one thing, but attacking newbies is so far over the line these people should be banned! Fucking cowards!.......If you got something to say, say it so we all can judge what you have to say....dont hide, cowards!
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nani CH.com Alumnus Offline Clusterbusters Posts: 8356 Los Lunas NM USA Gender:	Re: I am offended Reply #8 - Jul 20^th, 2008 at 4:10pm Quote: attacking newbies is so far over the line these people should be banned! Now, that is effen funny.
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LeLimey Ex Member	Re: I am offended Reply #9 - Jul 20^th, 2008 at 5:32pm Well I can honestly say anyone accusing me of being someone's wife, well a CERTAIN someone that is! - would make me feel quite ill too. Steph beat me to it and you should listen to her. I would urge you to both pass the info on to her or DJ and name and shame too.
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maalstroom CH.com Old Timer Offline ''Dance to my tune''.... the hell I will! Posts: 491 the Netherlands Gender:	Re: I am offended Reply #10 - Jul 21^st, 2008 at 2:15am Don't you go anywhere, Sophia! What's a board without a Dane? Greetings, Pascal.
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Re: I am offended
Reply #11 - Jul 21^st, 2008 at 8:22am

Sophia, don't let some lame-assed people bully you. You are very welcome here and you can and will get the support you deserve.

Definitely contact Steph or DJ- that kind of behaviour is completely unacceptable, and I am sorry that some person or persons are giving you a hard time. Please don't let them be representative of the rest of us.

Hugs,
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thebbz Ex Member	Re: I am offended Reply #12 - Jul 21^st, 2008 at 12:03pm Consider the source, hit the delete button and get back to rowin. Somebody could use your help. thebb
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Re: I am offended
Reply #13 - Jul 21^st, 2008 at 1:43pm

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Consider the source, hit the delete button and get back to rowin.
Somebody could use your help. Wink

thebb

You all are right. I am here to both give and get help. God aint done with me yet and no bully is making me back down. I have 7 brothers. I aint scared of nuthin'
Love you DECENT people and the BULLYS can go find another person to pick on. Perhaps in a mirror.
Sophia
I gotta laugh, it hurts too much to cry Cool

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BarbaraD CH.com Alumnus Offline Hugs to ya Posts: 8333 Douglasville, TX Gender:	Re: I am offended Reply #14 - Jul 21^st, 2008 at 2:58pm Good attitude kid -- now get that oar and start rowing.... Hugs BD
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maalstroom CH.com Old Timer Offline ''Dance to my tune''.... the hell I will! Posts: 491 the Netherlands Gender:	Re: I am offended Reply #15 - Jul 21^st, 2008 at 3:02pm Sophia: you go girl, that's the Viking attitude I'm talking about! Now put on your shtkickers and kick some sht!
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Re: I am offended
Reply #16 - Jul 22^nd, 2008 at 5:08pm

Sophia,

The great thing about Clusterville si that you take what helps and leave the rest. We are all stronger then hell because of CH being in our lives, whether as a sufferer or a supporter.

So tell people who are giving you a hard time to shove it. Let Steff or DJ know who they are and let them help make sure that they stop... Unfortunately it might not be just you that they are bugging...

Once that is done, blow then the f off and be a part of the family. Just think of them as that lecherous Uncle that shows up at the Christmas Party. You can either fight with him and leave, which means that you miss out on all the good stuff. Or you lock him in a closet and get on with the party.

Welcome to the CH Family.
Tia

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