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finally takin out the trash
Jul 25^th, 2008 at 11:54pm

I'm finally a broke down mess.

No more riddles and no more horsing around. I'm scared and feel side-horsekicked.

Other people talk about their headaches along with their personal lives like it was easy. I could never do that. Thus, kimspeak. But I always knew abourt the pain. I just never knew how to SPEAK about it. The head pain comes and goes. I have gotten great at coping with that - it's been a long time and i'm a pro....but this post is not about that.

Three years ago i tried to get divorced. Since then, my life has been so turned upside down and inside out a person could lose sight of reality. I was made to be "the fugitive" ..

My husband was mad to say the least and went out of his way to hurt me the only way be c beould - THE KIDS.
It has been hell for me and three years later i'm still not divorced (LOL)

Recently my husband (still) has been diagnosed with gioblastoma multiforme (the brain tumor that Ted Kennedy has).

I'm struggling so much and can't tell everyone what has happened cuz it would take up too much space. But I sure could use some vibes****

Feeling sad,
stinko

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KJ CH.com Alumnus Offline Posts: 596 Indianapolis, IN Gender:	Re: finally takin out the trash Reply #1 - Jul 26^th, 2008 at 12:40am Good Lord Kim. Hang in there. From one scared, side horse-kicked, broke down mess to another.....stay strong....I'm with you Vibes and love, KJ
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Jonny Ex Member	Re: finally takin out the trash Reply #2 - Jul 26^th, 2008 at 6:51am You got it, Kim!!!
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barry_sword CH.com Alumnus Offline Mountain Biking Keeps Me Sane Posts: 3947 Bracebridge, Canada Gender:	Re: finally takin out the trash Reply #3 - Jul 26^th, 2008 at 7:31am Positive vibes on the way to you Kim!
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Kevin_M CH.com Sponsor Offline withered branches grow green again. Posts: 8754 Michigan, USA Gender:	Re: finally takin out the trash Reply #4 - Jul 26^th, 2008 at 7:36am Kim's kitchen chats or by campfire light, I'll always be there for ya 'cause your friendship and company are boundless surroundings. Tossin' in an extra shiny penny or two ripplin' for wishing well.
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Em CH.com Alumnus Offline I wanna go... Posts: 830 St Peter Port, Guernsey. Gender:	Re: finally takin out the trash Reply #5 - Jul 26^th, 2008 at 8:32am Sendin' the vibes your way Kim.
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Melissa CH.com Moderator CH.com Alumnus Offline Don't give up! Posts: 7238 Central WI, USA Gender:	Re: finally takin out the trash Reply #6 - Jul 26^th, 2008 at 9:00am Whatever you need Kim!!
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Re: finally takin out the trash
Reply #7 - Jul 26^th, 2008 at 11:46am

Of course, Kim.
Some vibes:
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and lots of hugs:
Smiley

Now, find the thread about the NYC meet and greet, then go and get you some cluster love. It helps.

lotsa love, nani

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Jackie CH.com Moderator CH.com Alumnus Offline Go For It!!! Posts: 5903 Goshen, IN Gender:	Re: finally takin out the trash Reply #8 - Jul 26^th, 2008 at 11:53am Prayers and positive thoughts for better days ahead, Sweetie.... Much love & big hugs, Jackie
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DennisM1045 CH.com Alumnus Offline One wave at a time! Posts: 3437 Haverhill, Massachusetts, USA Gender:	Re: finally takin out the trash Reply #9 - Jul 26^th, 2008 at 11:55am Mega-sized (((VIBES))) coming your way hon. I'm sorry to hear how tough things have been and continue to be. But I'm glad you reached out. -Dennis-
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Sandy_C CH.com Sponsor Offline There is no such thing as a stupid question. Posts: 3371 Jamestown, NC Gender:	Re: finally takin out the trash Reply #10 - Jul 26^th, 2008 at 1:33pm Darn, Kim, what a mess. Prayers and vibes coming to you. Just hang on tight, we've got the rope and won't drop it. Sandy
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mummymac CH.com Alumnus Offline Kissed Donny Osmond and proud of it Posts: 943 Jersey\|United_Kingdom\|europe Gender:	Re: finally takin out the trash Reply #11 - Jul 26^th, 2008 at 2:44pm Vibes flying across the pond as we speak, hang in there Kim
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midwestbeth Ex Member	Re: finally takin out the trash Reply #12 - Jul 26^th, 2008 at 2:48pm Prayers and vibes going out to you. Beth
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Opus CH.com Hall of Famer Offline "We have met the enemy... and he is us" Posts: 2746 Sidney,NY USA Gender:	Re: finally takin out the trash Reply #13 - Jul 26^th, 2008 at 4:14pm Kim, I know NY is hell for divorces, About your husband, you reap what you sow. Hang in there, we are pulling for you. Paul
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Ray CH.com Alumnus Offline Ray Posts: 1996 Columbus, Ohio Gender:	Re: finally takin out the trash Reply #14 - Jul 26^th, 2008 at 4:23pm Kim: I'm so sorry about these events and am praying for you right now. Wishing you the best, Ray
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Grandma_Sweet_Boy CH.com Alumnus Offline What Goes Around Comes Around! Posts: 4496 Georgetown,Ontario Gender:	Re: finally takin out the trash Reply #15 - Jul 26^th, 2008 at 5:00pm Hang in there Kim. Sending you positive thoughts from Canada. Carol
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Charlie CH.com Alumnus Offline Happy to be here Posts: 18971 Jamestown, NY Gender:	Re: finally takin out the trash Reply #16 - Jul 26^th, 2008 at 5:37pm So sorry Kim and a lot of vibes are on the way. Hold tight Kim Charlie
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Callico CH.com Hall of Famer Offline Author of "Stranded at Romson's Lodge Posts: 4916 Aurora IL Gender:	Re: finally takin out the trash Reply #17 - Jul 26^th, 2008 at 10:29pm I'm praying for you Kim. Stay strong. We have your back. Jerry
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George CH.com Moderator CH.com Alumnus Offline Black-Billed Magpie Posts: 8126 Boise, Idaho USA Gender:	Re: finally takin out the trash Reply #18 - Jul 26^th, 2008 at 11:54pm Sorry to hear about all this, Kim. Sending the best we have your way. George
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sandie99 CH.com Hall of Famer Offline Wish it, dream it, do it - inspite the pain! Posts: 11975 Finland Gender:	Re: finally takin out the trash Reply #19 - Jul 28^th, 2008 at 3:39am Kim, prayers and vibes are on their way! Sanna
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Jennifer CH.com Alumnus Offline Posts: 3265 Supply, VA Gender:	Re: finally takin out the trash Reply #20 - Jul 28^th, 2008 at 10:09am You got mine too Kim! Prayers and vibes for you from VA. Hugs, Jen
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artonio7 Ex Member	Re: finally takin out the trash Reply #21 - Jul 28^th, 2008 at 11:51am Kim... so very sad to know that you're going through such a rough time. Venting is part of the best medicine and it takes allot of courage and trust to finally open up. You and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers. Kick scream and vent when necessary. with warm regards, Tony
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echo CH.com Alumnus Offline Chronic and still alive --- I Win! Posts: 4544 Overland Park, KS Gender:	Re: finally takin out the trash Reply #23 - Jul 28^th, 2008 at 2:27pm Mine are on the way Kim. Sorry you're having to go through all this. Hang in there. Vent when you need to -- we're a listening bunch of clusters.
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Re: finally takin out the trash
Reply #24 - Jul 28^th, 2008 at 5:15pm

Kim -
After everything, and this news.. I don't even know what to say.
I wish things could be easier, but life sure has a way of complicating things.

I hope the girls are ok, your shiny pennies, give them love from me and Ericka.. jeez, we'll be going away for a few days, and cheeki will be gone after the 10th, but there's always the phone..

if you changed your # again, just send me a pm or text me if you want..

Thinking of you..
Patty

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