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Jeannie CH.com Sponsor Offline Live, Laugh, Love.... Posts: 2333 St Louis, Missouri Gender:	Missing My Mom Aug 25^th, 2008 at 12:19pm She died 5 years ago today. I can't believe that it has been that long and at the same time it feels like forever. I'm feeling a little sad and wish that I could have just one more day to spend with her . Jeannie
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DennisM1045 CH.com Alumnus Offline One wave at a time! Posts: 3437 Haverhill, Massachusetts, USA Gender:	Re: Missing My Mom Reply #1 - Aug 25^th, 2008 at 12:25pm I feel for ya hon. It just doesn't seem to stop hurting does it. -Dennis-
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BrianJ CH.com Veteran Offline Take It Easy Posts: 190 \|Liverpool\|England\| Gender:	Re: Missing My Mom Reply #2 - Aug 25^th, 2008 at 12:31pm im sorry your feeling so sad it is a hard thing to loose someone so close to you. Best Wishes Brian
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tuck CH.com Veteran Offline Damn this cross is heavy ! Posts: 232 Gillespie , Illinois Gender:	Re: Missing My Mom Reply #3 - Aug 25^th, 2008 at 12:41pm my heart is with you jeannie, the second aniversary of my moms passing is just a few weeks away. Just be thankful of the wonderful memories you have!! Tuck
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midwestbeth Ex Member	Re: Missing My Mom Reply #4 - Aug 25^th, 2008 at 12:49pm Sorry you are hurting Jeannie. Beth
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Melissa CH.com Moderator CH.com Alumnus Offline Don't give up! Posts: 7238 Central WI, USA Gender:	Re: Missing My Mom Reply #5 - Aug 25^th, 2008 at 12:53pm Mine passed in 2001 and I am right there with you hon. It's the hardest while trying to raise children I think. At least it is for me. So sorry! ~mel
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artonio7 Ex Member	Re: Missing My Mom Reply #6 - Aug 25^th, 2008 at 1:31pm I know your pain. with warm regards, Tony
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Guiseppi CH.com Moderator CH.com Alumnus Offline San Diego to Florida 05-16-2011 Posts: 12063 SAN DIEGO, CALIFORNIA USA Gender:	Re: Missing My Mom Reply #7 - Aug 25^th, 2008 at 2:22pm Still got my mommy, not looking forward to going down that dark road . Hugs at you. Guiseppi
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Mosaicwench CH.com Sponsor Offline www.mosaicwench.com Posts: 3507 Near Milwaukee WI, USA Gender:	Re: Missing My Mom Reply #8 - Aug 25^th, 2008 at 5:58pm Aw Jeannie, I hear you and have walked your road. It never gets better, we just adapt to the loss. My mom will be gone 23 years this Saturday. It's STILL a hard week for me. Hugs dear - we're here for you.
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Mosaicwench CH.com Sponsor Offline www.mosaicwench.com Posts: 3507 Near Milwaukee WI, USA Gender:	Re: Missing My Mom Reply #9 - Aug 25^th, 2008 at 6:00pm Guiseppi wrote on Aug 25^th, 2008 at 2:22pm: Still got my mommy, not looking forward to going down that dark road . Hugs at you. Guiseppi Please give her a call and tell her that you love her. Just call for that reason, no other. You'll not regret it.
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barry_sword CH.com Alumnus Offline Mountain Biking Keeps Me Sane Posts: 3947 Bracebridge, Canada Gender:	Re: Missing My Mom Reply #10 - Aug 25^th, 2008 at 6:08pm Sorry Jeannie
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Jeannie CH.com Sponsor Offline Live, Laugh, Love.... Posts: 2333 St Louis, Missouri Gender:	Re: Missing My Mom Reply #11 - Aug 25^th, 2008 at 6:13pm You all are the greatest. I have really come to depend on this family when I need support. Thank you! Jeannie
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Jackie CH.com Moderator CH.com Alumnus Offline Go For It!!! Posts: 5903 Goshen, IN Gender:	Re: Missing My Mom Reply #12 - Aug 25^th, 2008 at 6:27pm My heart goes out to you, Jean......it's sure doesn't feel good.... Cherish the sweet memories. I'm miss my Daddy til the day I die and love him forever. Much Love & A Big Hug..... Jackie
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Re: Missing My Mom
Reply #13 - Aug 25^th, 2008 at 7:36pm

Mosaicwench wrote on Aug 25^th, 2008 at 6:00pm:

Guiseppi wrote on Aug 25^th, 2008 at 2:22pm:

Still got my mommy, not looking forward to going down that dark road Cry

. Hugs at you. Smiley

Guiseppi

Please give her a call and tell her that you love her. Just call for that reason, no other. You'll not regret it.

My mom died a little more than 2 years ago. I still tend to jump to the phone to call out of habit. I talk to my Dad alot now but it just isn't quite the same. Mom's tend to listen unconditionally. I'm right there with you!

Charlotte

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Charlie CH.com Alumnus Offline Happy to be here Posts: 18971 Jamestown, NY Gender:	Re: Missing My Mom Reply #14 - Aug 25^th, 2008 at 7:49pm Sorry for you Jeannie Multimedia File Viewing and Clickable Links are available for Registered Members only!! You need to or Mine's been gone 20 years. It gets easier......after all that time.....but not much Charlie
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jimmers Ex Member	Re: Missing My Mom Reply #15 - Aug 25^th, 2008 at 8:06pm Jean, I feel your pain. She's in good hands, I promise Jimmers
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BarbaraD CH.com Alumnus Offline Hugs to ya Posts: 8333 Douglasville, TX Gender:	Re: Missing My Mom Reply #16 - Aug 25^th, 2008 at 8:44pm My heart is with you sweetie -- Mine has been gone since 1994 and there's not a day that goes by that I don't think about her and wish I could just talk to her one more time. Hugs BD
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Re: Missing My Mom
Reply #17 - Aug 25^th, 2008 at 9:25pm

Jean,

Look up Sissy's Song by Alan Jackson.

Sorry if it makes you cry like me when I hear it, but I think it says it all about the Women/Moms/Sisters/Aunts/Grandmothers/Daughters we have all lost in our lives. Your feelings are just a reflection of the person that your are! And your are the Greatest!!!!!!!!! Kiss

I tried to post a link to the song, but my old computer wouldn't let me, either that or I am to stupid to figure it out, Anyways

Love Ya,

Jimmers and Barb!

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HappyElaine CH.com Alumnus Offline I love YaBB 1G - SP1! Posts: 603 Flovilla,GA Gender:	Re: Missing My Mom Reply #18 - Aug 25^th, 2008 at 11:48pm Listen to that song its a good one, but it will make you cry. I still have my Mom but lost my day March 2005 I miss him so much, we will always miss them and always shed tears for them. It hurts a lot no matter how much time goes by. I wish I could hug your neck.
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George CH.com Moderator CH.com Alumnus Offline Black-Billed Magpie Posts: 8126 Boise, Idaho USA Gender:	Re: Missing My Mom Reply #19 - Aug 26^th, 2008 at 1:56am I'm sorry, Jean. I lost my father in January, 2003. Not a day goes by when I don't think of him. All the best, George
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Re: Missing My Mom
Reply #20 - Aug 26^th, 2008 at 4:24am

Jeannie,
   All I have left of my Mother is the memories of her and a few photo's, somehow I ended up with her last Drivers License and my Uncle recently sent me the photo of her with her mom and my Aunt's mom on the day that my Aunt and Uncle married.
   For me its funny that I feel more of her influence now then I did when she was alive. It's been almost 20 years and I still think of her daily, I guess that's what unconditional Love is all about!
   Its the substance that fills the void when you think there is nothing left! My Heart feels you Love!    John

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Re: Missing My Mom
Reply #21 - Aug 26^th, 2008 at 11:18am

Thanks again for all of the kind words. I know that everyone can relate to the loss. I guess that eventually almost everyone will have to experience this feeling. For me it was the saddest time of my life. Just as I was beginning to recover from my mother's passing, five months later my father died. Some times I don't know how I ever got through. But time does ease pain and we learn to get used to life with out them. I really wish that they could have been here to know my children.

Big hugs to all of you who have been there,

Jeannie

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Re: Missing My Mom
Reply #22 - Aug 26^th, 2008 at 2:02pm

Jeannie,
Everyday since I left my 36 year marraige to runite with my high school sweetheart, I wish both her parents and my parents could be here to see the joy that we both experience by being back together. I know my Mom would be happy for us and I know her Mom would be happy for us, but our Dad's were both old school to the enth degree and never had a nice thing to say about anyone, so I Don't know if they would appreciate the love we feel for each other now!
In the end the only thing that matters is that we are Happy, regardless of what anyone thinks! Extremely happy, but both wish Our Mom's could be here to share in our love again! John
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