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It's raining at my house
Aug 28^th, 2008 at 12:06pm

Last night I cried myself into sleep. I heard earlier news, which nearly broke my heart.

Timo, my boyfriend & best supporter, has always been very close to his mother's side of the family. His cousin and godmother, the daughter of his favourite aunt (the very same aunt who helped Timo's mother to raise him and she is still like a second mother to him), was diagnosed with cancer not that long time ago. Timo's sister told him that he might want to take time off from work and visit his godmother this week, because she might not live to see September.

Timo took his sister's advice and is now on that journey. But it was too late, because last night Timo's favourite aunt called and told us that her daughter had already passed away. Cry

I got to meet this lovely lady just once, but I recall her fondly. Her husband and two teenaged daughters have a long road ahead of them and my thoughts and prayers are with them.

And I'm thinking and praying for Timo's favourite aunt and her husband as well; those sad news mean that both of their chidren are now passed away before their parents. And I don't need to be a mother to know how heartbreaking that must be to them... Cry

I know very well that Timo is hurting too. His mother died because of cancer as well; it runs in that side of the family, but it was still a sad surprise.

I'm kind of glad that it's been raining the whole day in here - it suits my mood perfectly. Aguess this has been another reminder about how precious life is and how quickly it alters.

Wishing you all nothing but the best,
Sanna Cry

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jimmers Ex Member	Re: It's raining at my house Reply #1 - Aug 28^th, 2008 at 12:08pm I am so sorry Sanna Jim
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Ray CH.com Alumnus Offline Ray Posts: 1996 Columbus, Ohio Gender:	Re: It's raining at my house Reply #2 - Aug 28^th, 2008 at 12:14pm I too am so sorry. May God soon turn your mourning to dancing. I wish you and Timo the very best, Ray
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Em CH.com Alumnus Offline I wanna go... Posts: 830 St Peter Port, Guernsey. Gender:	Re: It's raining at my house Reply #3 - Aug 28^th, 2008 at 1:57pm Sanna, I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. It's so hard losing someone you love. Sending out some healing vibes to Timo. Em x
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George CH.com Moderator CH.com Alumnus Offline Black-Billed Magpie Posts: 8126 Boise, Idaho USA Gender:	Re: It's raining at my house Reply #4 - Aug 28^th, 2008 at 2:41pm All good wishes to Timo, and to you as well. Sorry to hear of your loss. Best wishes always, George
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mummymac CH.com Alumnus Offline Kissed Donny Osmond and proud of it Posts: 943 Jersey\|United_Kingdom\|europe Gender:	Re: It's raining at my house Reply #5 - Aug 28^th, 2008 at 4:01pm So very sorry to hear this news. love and light to you and Timo through this difficult time
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midwestbeth Ex Member	Re: It's raining at my house Reply #6 - Aug 28^th, 2008 at 4:25pm Deepest sympathies to you and Timo. I am so sorry for your loss Beth
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Charlie CH.com Alumnus Offline Happy to be here Posts: 18971 Jamestown, NY Gender:	Re: It's raining at my house Reply #7 - Aug 28^th, 2008 at 4:52pm So sorry for this Sanna. Multimedia File Viewing and Clickable Links are available for Registered Members only!! You need to or Some serious vibes on the way to both of you. Charlie
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Jeannie CH.com Sponsor Offline Live, Laugh, Love.... Posts: 2333 St Louis, Missouri Gender:	Re: It's raining at my house Reply #8 - Aug 28^th, 2008 at 4:55pm So sorry for your loss. Love and hugs for you and Timo. Jeannie
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Lizzie2 CH.com Sponsor Offline "L'Chaim"~Hebrew Toast~"To Life" Posts: 4824 Boothwyn, PA Gender:	Re: It's raining at my house Reply #10 - Aug 28^th, 2008 at 5:05pm I'm so sorry to hear this, Sanna. You and Timo and Timo's family will all be in my thoughts and prayers.... Much love, Carrie
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barry_sword CH.com Alumnus Offline Mountain Biking Keeps Me Sane Posts: 3947 Bracebridge, Canada Gender:	Re: It's raining at my house Reply #11 - Aug 28^th, 2008 at 5:21pm Sanna, our deepest condolences to you, Timo's and the whole family. This is very sad to hear. Barry&Angie
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cynjeep89 CH.com Alumnus Offline Posts: 1626 Delaware\| Gender:	Re: It's raining at my house Reply #12 - Aug 28^th, 2008 at 9:55pm Sanna and Timo, So sorry for your loss but please know that lots of love and hugs are headed your way. Hugs to both of you, Cyn
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Reply #13 - Aug 28^th, 2008 at 10:46pm

I'm so sorry Timo's cousin died Sanna but I'm truly grateful she lived. She left a world behind that is richer for having had her in it - what more can anyone ask as proof of a life well lived and a love that was shared and returned.

She'll never be gone as long as she is remembered fondly, with smiles, love and pleasure and I know in my heart that is her legacy.

much love to you, Timo and all her family, God bless you all

Helen

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Re: It's raining at my house
Reply #14 - Aug 29^th, 2008 at 2:25am

Thank you all so very much for your kind words. I swear that I can feel the hugs, vibes, prayers and wishes.

I know that every once and in a while all those feelings about losing my father return and hearing the news about Timo's cousin and godaunt brought some of them back, no doubt about it.

Helen, you're absolutely right; it's time to celebrate someone who visited our lives and left a mark on it in a beautiful manner.

I said a prayer
and the Universe answered "yes"
Love is all around me
I know I'm blessed
(S.H. 28.8.08)

Sanna

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