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A Friend of my Husbands WAS KILLED! UPDATED ! (Read 3485 times)
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A Friend of my Husbands WAS KILLED! UPDATED !
Sep 2nd, 2008 at 11:44am
 
Buddy is tore up. He just called me, seems the man went to a family reunion this week end, went to the bathroom and shot himself. You would have never thought this guy was depressed.  Because the details are foggy right now I won't post the mans name.

The good Lord knows his family and friends. Its a hard time for them all, its hard for them to understand. I think they are all upset that they didn't see a problem. Please pray and send vibes to them all.

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Reply #1 - Sep 2nd, 2008 at 1:05pm
 
I am so sorry to hear this Elaine! Vibes and prayers out to his friends and family. Cry

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I am so sorry!  All that I have is on the way.
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Reply #3 - Sep 2nd, 2008 at 1:08pm
 
Cry This is so sad.

Vibes and prayers on the way.

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Reply #5 - Sep 2nd, 2008 at 1:20pm
 
Deepest sympathies and prayers being sent.  So sorry to hear of this.

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Reply #6 - Sep 2nd, 2008 at 4:40pm
 
Thanks everyone, Buddy is on his way home. It has been a long day for him. The guy was in his late 20's early 30's I am guessing, he has a wife and 3 month old daughter.  The GBI has his body and won't have any information till they release it and the family makes arrangements.
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Sorry to read that this occured.
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Reply #8 - Sep 2nd, 2008 at 5:47pm
 
Very sorry Elaine. You're always caught off guard and it's a rotten selfish act in most cases.

I know a little about it. It's happened twice in our little family, one about 12 years ago.

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How very sad for his young family.   Cry

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Reply #10 - Sep 2nd, 2008 at 6:11pm
 
That's very sad news, I hope his children were grown already.

I went through this when my only brother killed himself and you just keep asking why?

I'll say a prayer for his family.

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Reply #12 - Sep 2nd, 2008 at 8:02pm
 
Aw, Lady E!!  How terrible!  I am SO sorry for Buddy having to go through this!  Just imagine what his family is going through.

Prayers and vibes heading to all concerned.

Such a waste ...

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How very sad. I hope things come around for all those involved.
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Reply #14 - Sep 2nd, 2008 at 8:39pm
 
Oh Elaine - I'm so sorry. Give Buddy a hug from me please and ask him to give you one from me too

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Reply #15 - Sep 2nd, 2008 at 9:17pm
 
Very sorry to hear this, Elaine.

I'm sorriest for the family--things like this haunt those who remain for the rest of their lives. 

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Reply #16 - Sep 2nd, 2008 at 9:32pm
 
Cry   I am sorry to hear such sad and devastating news.  I do hope the family get all the love and support that they need at this time and into the future.  Prays going your way....
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Reply #17 - Sep 3rd, 2008 at 12:45am
 
so sorry to hear of his  and the families loss.  I am praying!

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Reply #18 - Sep 3rd, 2008 at 8:36am
 
George wrote on Sep 2nd, 2008 at 9:17pm:
Very sorry to hear this, Elaine.

I'm sorriest for the family--things like this haunt those who remain for the rest of their lives. 

All the best,

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Amen to what George said.  I feel for the family of this and for Buddy.

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Reply #19 - Sep 3rd, 2008 at 10:04am
 
Elaine:

So sorry to hear this news.  My best to you and Buddy and my prayers are going up now.

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Reply #20 - Sep 3rd, 2008 at 10:31am
 
So sorry Elaine.  A good friend of mine did this several years ago and its difficult to comprehend.  My prayers are  with you, your husband and his family.  God bless that baby
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Reply #21 - Sep 4th, 2008 at 1:11pm
 
Well he didn't kill himself. It looks like someone else did.

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Reply #22 - Sep 4th, 2008 at 1:15pm
 
Oh my Elaine, I am so very sorry!!!  That is just horrible!

My prayers to Buddy!!

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sonovabitch!!  I'm so sorry Elaine.  We will be praying for his family and your loss.
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