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Sep 4th, 2008 at 12:21am
 
What do you get when you cross a Hockey Mom from Alaska with a long time, inside the beltway, good old boy politician in a debate?















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It's a whole new game and the libs are in deep trouble...  The Obamanoid strategists had to scrap Plan A when Sarah Palin delivered a flawless and inspiring performance that sliced into the liberal platform with a laser knife and a smile... 

"You know how to tell the difference between a Hockey Mom and a pit bull...   Lipstick" 

They're now on Plan B...  Running her record to ground with a fine tooth comb...  Watch the liberal media nit-pic every detail of her acceptance speech in an effort to diminish an awesome performance...  Some of them have already messed their depends...  Howard Fineman, Newsweek's senior Washington Correspondent and columnist, calls Sarah Palin a "Heat Seeking Missile...  "

Oh My...  What a Night...  It's going to get even better...   
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Reply #1 - Sep 4th, 2008 at 12:25am
 
You hit that right on the head!  I felt the swelling of patriotism!  Good choice!

WooHoo!
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Reply #2 - Sep 4th, 2008 at 6:59am
 
It IS a whole new ballgame. I think people are hungry for someone who's "just like them," people who have known adversity and who have shown themselves to be calm, cool decision makers despite that adversity.

I'm starting to sense a Walter-Mondale-like drubbing in the making.
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Three of my favorite lines from Mrs. Palin's speech last night:
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"I guess a small-town mayor is sort of like a "community organizer," except that you have actual responsibilities. I might add that in small towns, we don't quite know what to make of a candidate who lavishes praise on working people when they are listening, and then talks about how bitterly they cling to their religion and guns when those people aren't listening."

"Listening to [Obama] speak, it's easy to forget that this is a man who has authored two memoirs but not a single major law or reform - not even in the state senate … This is a man who can give an entire speech about the wars America is fighting, and never use the word "victory" except when he's talking about his own campaign. But when the cloud of rhetoric has passed ... when the roar of the crowd fades away ... when the stadium lights go out, and those Styrofoam Greek columns are hauled back to some studio lot - what exactly is our opponent's plan? What does he actually seek to accomplish, after he's done turning back the waters and healing the planet? The answer is to make government bigger ... take more of your money ... give you more orders from Washington ... and to reduce the strength of America in a dangerous world. America needs more energy ... our opponent is against producing it. Victory in Iraq is finally in sight ... he wants to forfeit."

"My fellow citizens, the American presidency is not supposed to be a journey of "personal discovery." This world of threats and dangers is not just a community, and it doesn't just need an organizer."
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Reply #4 - Sep 4th, 2008 at 8:04am
 
If "just like me" you mean that I have a knocked up 17 year old daughter.....

yeah it shows they practice what they preach by being pro-life. I wouldn't suspect anything else, would you? That is the easy part.

and to me it does show the inability of the extreme right to acknowledge that while abstinence is the best policy, it is not a realistic one that works today. Too bad no one taught this girl how to use a condom.

The bottom line is her kid made one of the worst mistakes a human can make. The can paint this as showing what a great family they are sticking together and whatnot but the bottom line is that this is support against their stance on abstinence as the only policy for birth control, for religious reasons. What does God want less? A kid using condoms or a kid having a child, underage (barely old enough to drive a car), and out-of-wedlock?

If this was a dem the gop would have painted her as a drug addelled sleeper by now....
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Looks like ole Joe is so scared hes hitting the sauce....LOL  Grin

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My fellow Americans:

As your future President I want to thank my supporters, for your mindless support of me, despite my complete lack of any legislative achievement, my pastor's relations with Louis Farrakhan and Libyan dictator Moamar Quadafi, or my blatantly leftist voting record while I present myself as some sort of bi-partisan agent of change.

I also like how my supporters claim my youthful drug use and criminal behavior somehow qualifies me for the Presidency after 8 years of claiming Bush's youthful drinking disqualifies him. Your hypocrisy is a beacon of hope shining over a sea of political posing.

I would also like to thank the Kennedy's for coming out in support of me. There's a lot of glamour behind the Kennedy name, even though JFK started the Vietnam War, his brother Robert illegally wiretapped Martin Luther King, Jr. and Teddy killed a female employee with whom he was having an extra marital affair and who was pregnant with his child. And I'm not going anywhere near the cousins, both literally and figuratively. And I'd like to thank Oprah Winfrey for her support. Her love of meaningless empty platitudes will be the force that propels me to the White House.

Americans should vote for me, not because of my lack of experience or achievement , but because I make people feel good.Voting for me causes some white folk to feel relieved of their imagined, racist guilt. I say things that sound meaningful, but don't really mean anything because Americans are tired of things having meaning. If things have meaning, then that means you have to think about them.

Americans are tired of thinking. It's time to shut down the brain, and open up the heart. So when you go to vote, remember don't think, just do. And do it for me.

Thank You.

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Reply #6 - Sep 4th, 2008 at 9:02am
 
I stayed up to watch her speech.  I wanted to see if she could connect with me, or just spew stuff like a puppet.  I want to say, she did connect and definately did not disappoint me on the latter.

On a side note, I will say, that I can most surely see now, John McCain is NOT George Bush.  I always wondered if all Republicans were alike and I can see now they are not.

I've never been so interested in politics as I am now.

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Reply #7 - Sep 4th, 2008 at 9:11am
 
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The bottom line is her kid made one of the worst mistakes a human can make.


And this puts Sarah in  a bad light... how?

She has a real family with real issues.  Just like families from California to Nebraska and North Carolina.

Her daughter made a bad choice... and is dealing with it straight up!
To drag her daughter into the debate on whether Sarah can govern is pathetic and weak.

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Reply #8 - Sep 4th, 2008 at 9:19am
 
superhawk2300 wrote on Sep 4th, 2008 at 8:04am:
The bottom line is her kid made one of the worst mistakes a human can make.

I was 19 and unmarried when I got pregnant with my daughter Lily.  I will tell you for CERTAIN, that she is NOT one of the worst mistakes I have ever made.  She is the BEST thing that could have ever happened to me!!!

superhawk, your comment really pissed me off and I find it HIGHLY offensive! Angry Angry Angry Angry Angry
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Reply #9 - Sep 4th, 2008 at 9:41am
 
As a father who had 'The talk" with my 16 year old daughter after learning she was having sex with her boyfriend, I think I am in the majority of most fathers (if they have the guts to be real parents and talk straight up with their kids).  I didn't think it would change much but at least she knew I disapproved.
That daughter is now a 30 year old 5th grade science teacher.  She's married to a great guy and trying to have a family (had a miscarriage a couple of weeks ago).  She is, in my eyes, the perfect daughter.
I can see the Palin family feels the same of their daughter.  Does my heart good to see a family pull together in hard times.
Till last night I felt sorry for them, having a Down Syndrome baby.  Now I see how lucky that child is to have them as parents.


BTW - Rudy G had me rolling on the floor!
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superhawk2300 wrote on Sep 4th, 2008 at 8:04am:
If "just like me" you mean that I have a knocked up 17 year old daughter.....

yeah it shows they practice what they preach by being pro-life. I wouldn't suspect anything else, would you? That is the easy part.

and to me it does show the inability of the extreme right to acknowledge that while abstinence is the best policy, it is not a realistic one that works today. Too bad no one taught this girl how to use a condom.

The bottom line is her kid made one of the worst mistakes a human can make. The can paint this as showing what a great family they are sticking together and whatnot but the bottom line is that this is support against their stance on abstinence as the only policy for birth control, for religious reasons. What does God want less? A kid using condoms or a kid having a child, underage (barely old enough to drive a car), and out-of-wedlock?

If this was a dem the gop would have painted her as a drug addelled sleeper by now....

I am utterly speechless.
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Reply #11 - Sep 4th, 2008 at 12:12pm
 
Welllll, in my opinion .... since I have two wonderful nephews who were conceived out of wedlock and I love dearly, I can't fault her for standing by her daughter (that's a family matter and families SHOULD stand by their children).

As to teaching abstinence - I'm FOR that one (it should be taught at home - sex ed should be taken OUT of schools totally as far as I'm concerned - put it back in the home and churches - but I"m from the OLD school where we KNEW BETTER!)

Now as far as being PTA president - I've done that and I have several well worn passports that have been around the world and I KNOW it's hard just talking to the "man on the street" in some countries much less the HEADS of those countries - and I sure don't think I'd be qualified (and I'm pretty confident in my abilities to take on about anything).

I think she's a nice lady and is probably a good governor from all the reports and she makes a great speech, but I think I'll wait and see how she does on the campaign trail before I draw any conclusions about her. Lipstick does wear off eventually....

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Reply #12 - Sep 4th, 2008 at 12:12pm
 
superhawk2300 wrote on Sep 4th, 2008 at 8:04am:
Too bad no one taught this girl how to use a condom.

When my daughter turned 16 I taught her how to be a safe, careful driver. She still managed to stuff a Jeep 3 feet in to the back of a month old Audi. Just because a teen has knowledge doesn't mean they'll use it.


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The bottom line is her kid made one of the worst mistakes a human can make.

I can think of 1000's of mistakes that make this look pale by comparison.....unless you consider robbing a 7-11 at gun point and killing the clerk in the process to be less of a mistake than having unprotected sex with a steady boyfriend.

Like Mel, I find your post offensive. Even Obama has stated that family is off limits. That child has enough to deal with now without being turned into a political football.

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Reply #13 - Sep 4th, 2008 at 12:42pm
 
Lets get a few things straight.

1. My mother was 18 when I was born out of wedlock. I never met my biological father or him me.

2. Both of my kids, while born while I was married, were not planned.

3. It is not I that label having sex as a child and out-of-wedlock a mistake. I was speaking the line of the religious-right, (whichI I am opposed to) to which Sarah belongs to. I myself have had plenty of underage sex out of wedlock.

Mel, I never said the children were mistakes themselves. I can assure you I am the same as you with how I feel toward both of my unplanned children. And you were not legally a child yourself, you were an adult when you made the choice to have sex. And your mother (as far as I know) wasn't part of the relgious-right preaching that abstinence is the best policy to combat teenage unplanned pregnancy.

That being said there isn't a single person alive that can convince me that the religious-right doesn't consider a high school student getting pregnant out-of-wedlock a "mistake". Isn't their message people should not have sex at all until they are married? Much less should kids in school be having sex? If one does these things they "shouldn't" isn't that then deemed a "mistake" or "sin" in their eyes?

So the message is, that when inner-city people get pregnant as children, out of wedlock, it is one of societies big problems. Then come the "Where the hell are the parents?" and "When we do not teach about God in school look at what happens" cries. BUT when someone of means who is pretty and a candidate has a daughter who is underage and pregnant it can only be a sign of goodness and strength.

Reminds me of the Rush hypocracy. For years talk tough on throwing young men who smoke pot in jail and "throw away the key". Then he get busted for one of the most insideious drug crimes (illegal pharms are Russian Mob interest - for sure Rush funded the murder and torture of other humans), and then come the cries for prayers and healing for his "sickness".

As most studies show, the time her daughter got pregnant probably wasn't the first time she made the "mistake" (occording to the RR) of having sex out of wedlock, and there probably was some sort of drugs involved studies would show as well.

If Sarah cannot get her immediate family to follow the party line example, how can I think she can get people 'just like me" (you know, the ones with only one house, a mortgage, and fear of losing their lob in the private sector) in the rest of America to do so?

Hypocrit I say.

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Reply #14 - Sep 4th, 2008 at 12:45pm
 
Do I care if someone else's daughter is pregnant? No.

Do I care if someone who is running for office thinks that abstinence only sex education is effective and is the only thing that should be taught? Yes.

Do I care if someone running for office thinks that if my wife or daughter gets raped and becomes pregnant, she should have no choice and be forced to carry the rapist's seed to fruition?  Hell Yes! The only word for that policy is tyranny.  We don't need a person in the White House who is so extreme on this issue that they are willing to establish rewards for rape and double-penalties for the victim.  


(Funny that someone who is for Palin would describe her as a hurricane, on the 3 year anniversary of  Katrina, while New Orleans is cleaning up from the destruction of another storm. But maybe the hurricane metaphor is apt.)
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From what I gather, this religious right you're talking about, is saying that only abstinence should be taught IN SCHOOL.  Isn't that what this is about?  What should, or should not, be deemed normal school curriculum??

I vote for parental education instead!!!
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Are they up to the S's already. Smiley
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Melissa wrote on Sep 4th, 2008 at 12:49pm:
From what I gather, this religious right you're talking about, is saying that only abstinence should be taught IN SCHOOL.  Isn't that what this is about?  What should, or should not, be deemed normal school curriculum??

I vote for parental education instead!!!


No, the issue of abstinence-only education is not what it is all about. That is less pressing of an issue compared to trying to criminalize abortion in case of rape. 

I think it does make sense to have a medical discussion of conception, contraception, STDs, and other issues in health education classes when kids hit puberty.  Having an effective sex education program is the best way to reduce venereal disease, unwanted pregnancies and abortions. 
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monty wrote on Sep 4th, 2008 at 1:00pm:
I think it does make sense to have a medical discussion of conception, contraception, STDs, and other issues in health education classes when kids hit puberty.  Having an effective sex education program is the best way to reduce venereal disease, unwanted pregnancies and abortions.  

I'm a product of that education and I ended up pregnant anyway, and you know WHY?  Because my mom never got up the courage to talk to me about sex and it's consequences.  Her parents were the same way.  All you hear in school is the technical aspects of it all, and it ends up being a big joke anyway. Undecided

I am not making that same mistake with my daughters and leaving it up to the schools to educate them.  I'll take on that responsibility myself because it's MY RESPONSIBILITY.

I know not everyone is like me, but why should our taxes go to educating others children on such matters??
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Reply #19 - Sep 4th, 2008 at 1:24pm
 
You are right that family attitudes, community attitudes, and other things play a role. No classroom curriculum can get close to 100% effective.  But I think the evidence is that a good sex ed curriculum can make a difference over no sex-ed or a curriculum that seeks to advance particular ideologies.   

Sexual behavior is something that 99.9% of people engage in. It has health consequences. As you pointed out, many parents do a poor job with it, as there is the comfort factor.  It should be covered in school, just as we cover the issues related to nutrition, drug use, and other health issues. I think that every parent should teach their kids about the dangers of dealing with strangers on the internet, but I think schools need to do that too. Don't you?
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Reply #20 - Sep 4th, 2008 at 1:26pm
 
I like everything about her and her family.

You talk to your kids till your blue in the face about sex, they are going to do what they want to when they fall in love. My daughter was on birth control when she  found out she was going to have JD. Ask JD or Deveny if either one of them regret it? Their answer is no.
I am a Christian and it is a sin, but the Lord understands us being human and he forgives. Just as wifes and husbands forgive each other, and we forgive our children for mistakes. IT'S A HEALTHY FAMILY THAT FORGIVE AND DEALS. That is what I saw last night a healthy family.
OH by the way God wasn't married to Mary but they had a child. Wink
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Reply #21 - Sep 4th, 2008 at 1:27pm
 
I do think this is one of societies biggest problems.

Just because school doesn't teach them about these issues doesn't mean parents will. There are lots of stuff school teaches that people can agree and disagree about. How come it is only the issues the religious right gets on that become hot-button issues?

You still are correct Mel, (and I am sorry my post offeneded you, I hope you see that was not my intent but highlighting hypocracy was) it is ultimatly the people involved responsibility.

But also a big line of the RR is "personal accountability". Why should our tax money be used to teach these things you asked. Because it is our tax money that will help pay for Sarah's grand-daughter when her daughter files for government assitance.

No republican will complain when that happens but I bet if it was a dem they would re-raise the "kill all welfare" shouts.

I just cannot stand hypocracy. If you have a point fine. At least have thge integrity to live with it if event turn out that you wrong or it goes against you in some unforseen future.

Again if this women is so awesome as people are saying, and she could not make her Party's line work in her own house, what chance does someone who isn't so awesome (i.e. the average american). These people of privialge have all the chances and advantages that most of us do not and she still failed to live the line her people preach. And for that we are supposed to be in awe of her?

And the family thing? Please - ask Chelsey Clinton if they laid off of her. This women's failure in her own house lends directly to her ability to lead our country and is fair game. If she is going ot stand up there and bring up the kid to help show the side she wants to see than it is fair to bring up contrary points - is it not? She opened the dorr..... So far all I see is "do as I say not as I do".
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Reply #22 - Sep 4th, 2008 at 1:30pm
 
Melissa wrote on Sep 4th, 2008 at 12:49pm:
From what I gather, this religious right you're talking about, is saying that only abstinence should be taught IN SCHOOL.  Isn't that what this is about?  What should, or should not, be deemed normal school curriculum??

I vote for parental education instead!!!


Sorry Mel, I missed your point.

The SHOULD teach abstinence in school! 100% agree.

But the part that I am highlighting is that the do not want to teach about ANY OTHER means of BC.
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Mel, I'm a generation ahead of you. Back in MY day, we didn't have sex education in schools. My parents (mom) explained what I needed to know (we had dogs) and I explained it to my friends who's parents didn't have "the talk" with them.

But we had something known as "peer pressure". Getting pregnant (and I'm not saying that sex didn't happen between teens back in those days) was just something that was an all out "no no". It was a "stigma" that went thru your whole family. I've been out of high school almost 50 years and I can still name about every girl who got pregnant while I was there. There just weren't that many.

I'm saying that we tell kids way to much in schools. On one hand we're telling them "don't do this" and on the other hand we're giving them condoms and telling them to be careful if they do. We're sending mixed messages. And parents don't object to this.

And yes, I brought my son up in a "different" world than I grew up in and I did have the "talk" with him and I never said anything when condoms were on my grocery bill (he usually did the grocery run after he got his drivers license), but I never "approved" and he knew it.

So while people can scoff at the "old days" and old fashioned ideas - they did have some merit in my opinion. But as I said before I have two very "special" nephews who were born out of wedlock and I'd take on anyone who said a damn word about their births or about their mothers.

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BarbaraD wrote on Sep 4th, 2008 at 1:35pm:
So while people can scoff at the "old days" and old fashioned ideas - they did have some merit in my opinion. But as I said before I have two very "special" nephews who were born out of wedlock and I'd take on anyone who said a damn word about their births or about their mothers.

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I understand you sticking up for them, but isn't that in disagreement with the other things you said?   Doesn't the 'stigma' of the 'good ole days' require that we single people out, criticize, and ostracize them? Aren't you really a modernist in disguise?

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