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Reply #50 - Sep 8th, 2008 at 10:39am
 
Anyone heard any news about this?  I'm praying that the "no news is good news" here.

Still in our thoughts and prayers!!!

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Reply #51 - Sep 8th, 2008 at 11:33am
 
I just read this and i weep and pray for those babies and your family.

Jesus my king and saviour please be with those babies and the parents. if it is your will please heal as those babies are loved by all of us  just as you love us.
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Reply #52 - Sep 8th, 2008 at 3:43pm
 
Update....  Jen is home now on strict bed rest.  Her cervix has shortened to about 2cm (not great) and is funneling about 1/4 of that.  She has been violently throwing up for the entire weekend, and the resulting bearing down on the babies isn't helping at all.  They have put her on Indocin for the contractions and Zofram (sp?) for the throwing up.  They also have her on antibiotics because they think she may have a sinus infection which would explain the nasea and the contractions.

I have been a wreck, and my lovely friend we call the Beast has not missed a beat this weekend at all.  I feel really stupid trying to be the calming force for my wife when the beast is beating me down.

All of the prayers are appreciated, and I know our two little boys are still alive right now.  They only need a few more weeks before we have about a 50/50 chance of survival outside the womb.  I can't imagine what our lives would look like if we fail at this again after having gotten this far.  But, life has never been predictable or fair.  Sometimes I wonder why it has to be like this.  Then I remember, without this kind of perspective, nothing good in my life has any meaning.  I thank God for the trials and tribulations, and I know I am a lucky man, because WHEN they are born I will celebrate with the full realization of how truly special they are.

Thank you, all of you.
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Reply #53 - Sep 8th, 2008 at 3:48pm
 
Still in our thoughts..........
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Reply #54 - Sep 8th, 2008 at 3:50pm
 
Continuing to send prayers for the babies and for you and your wife.

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Reply #55 - Sep 8th, 2008 at 3:55pm
 
Shawn,
I tried to post right before you, but the system had a glitch, so it didn't go through. That said, I am relieved, for now, that Jen is home, just wish she were resting comfortably rather than sick with the flu or something!
Your little family is constantly on my mind. I watch this thread, hoping for some good news.and I'll take, and be grateful, that for now, babies are holding on and growing. I'll continue this all the time it takes till they can be safely delivered.
Hang tight, Daddy. noone deserves that name more than you right now !
You have tons of people here praying for you.....

Gentle hugs and tons of good juju on it's way to all 4 of you.........
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Reply #56 - Sep 8th, 2008 at 4:11pm
 
Shawn we love you and Jen so much, I can't tell you how much we are all on the edge of our seats right with you. I'm thinking of you all day long and sending every ounce of strength and love and fight I have in me. If ever I have wanted something its this, if ever I'm determined to do anything I can it's now.

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Reply #57 - Sep 8th, 2008 at 4:19pm
 
Still praying for you and your wife and those little guys. 


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Reply #58 - Sep 8th, 2008 at 6:06pm
 
Still sending positive healing vibes and prayers out to you and your family Shawn.

For you - to keep the beast away during this tough time.

For your wife's sickness to go away so she can concentrate on resting.

And for your boys; that they hold their horses and not be so impatient to meet their parents. Stay in the warm and keep growing little ones!

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Reply #59 - Sep 8th, 2008 at 7:19pm
 
That sounds better..... Smiley

Will continue the vibes, prayers and positive thoughts, Fu....

Much love to you all,
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Reply #60 - Sep 8th, 2008 at 8:31pm
 
We are praying for you all and understanding your fears and anxiety, for each day that passes gives them a little better chance for survival.

My daughter Judy had preemie twins at 26 weeks, so we know what you are going through.

God bless your family and give your little boys the time that they need to develope enough to survive.

Heavenly Father, please answer our prayers with your blessing and the delivery of two healthy little guys.
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Reply #61 - Sep 8th, 2008 at 9:08pm
 
Okay, we have to come up with some kind of co-op CH sharing program where we can take the hits for others during times like this.  Ya know, if I could take your pain now, Shawn I would.  You surely have enough on your plate right now without having to deal with the Beast.

We all feel so helpless knowing that all we can do is to send our good thoughts, well wishes and prayers but please know that we have you, your wife and the babies in our thoughts day and night.

Just wondering...have the docs mentioned about doing a cervical cerclage?

Sending all the love, hope, determination and healing wishes that I can muster.

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Reply #62 - Sep 8th, 2008 at 9:31pm
 
Jen had the cervical cerclage put in 4 weeks ago.  We are hoping this will make the difference.  Last time, the specialist said we should, but the OB said he didn't see any good reason to do it.  Obviously, there are bad feelings about the way that turned out.

Jen is sounding much happier today, and the vomiting seems to be over.  She is still on indocin, which is hard on the stomach (as are the antibiotics), but all in all I think things are improving.  I'm back on the road in San Jose going out of my mind like normal.

Thanks, everybody.
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Reply #63 - Sep 8th, 2008 at 9:47pm
 
Keep the positive thoughts going on your end and we will keep 'em flowing on the other end, k?

Give your Lady one big but gentle hug from all of us and when you have a chance, please keep us updated.  We are a nosy bunch but we mean well and want to be sure you and your family are okay, k?  If you don't update us we worry and will bug the heck outta ya so pick your poison...either you post as often as you can or we will harass you.  Wink

All kidding aside, we all have you in out thoughts, prayers and hearts so please keep in touch.

Mega tons of well wishes to you all!!!

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Reply #64 - Sep 8th, 2008 at 10:24pm
 
WHEN those beautiful baby boys are born we will all celebrate the miracle of life with you both!  God Bless You!

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Reply #65 - Sep 8th, 2008 at 10:34pm
 
Prayers still being sent Shawn.
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Reply #66 - Sep 8th, 2008 at 11:05pm
 
Thank you for keeping us up to date, Shawn.  Sounds as if this immediate problem is on its way to being controlled.  Good.

Still hoping that all will be well, and continuing to send you and yours our best wishes.

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Reply #67 - Sep 9th, 2008 at 9:47am
 
Shawn,

Please tell Jen to try to keep her spirits up.  It is hard to be on bed rest and to feel so ill and worried.  Please pass on to her that, though we have never met, we are all praying and thinking of you all!  I'm so happy to hear that she is feeling some better.  As Donna said, each day that brings hope!   

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Reply #68 - Sep 9th, 2008 at 10:40am
 
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I can't imagine what our lives would look like if we fail at this again...

You two haven't failed at ANYTHING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!  ALWAYS KNOW THAT!!!

At times like these there really isn't anything I can say to make the pain or heartache go away, but to surround you all with love and support.

You will continue to be in our hearts and prayers until those little boys take their first breath in the new world.  Keep the faith...


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Reply #69 - Sep 10th, 2008 at 3:12pm
 

How's the bedrest going? Hoping it's doing the job and that you're holding up ok. Still sending love and vibes.

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Reply #70 - Sep 10th, 2008 at 4:03pm
 
Those babies and your wife and you are on all kinds of prayer list.

Wish I could snap my fingers and make everything OK.

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Reply #71 - Sep 10th, 2008 at 6:15pm
 
Just saw this, you are all in my thoughts.
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Reply #72 - Sep 10th, 2008 at 6:48pm
 
Hi, Fu & Jen,
Just a hello to you both, ltting you know you're still in my thoughts and prayers. Keep going, we'll all keep our fingers crossed, and let us know what you can when you can.
Positive thoughts, always,
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Reply #73 - Sep 10th, 2008 at 11:57pm
 

Shawn, Jimmers just posted a happy 9th Birthday to his son Christopher today who was 1 pound 9 ounces at birth.   Your babies can do this too...I just know it!!!

  A couple of more weeks babies...hang on.  Put a T.V. in her bedroom, give her plenty of good books to read, calming music to listen to, and plenty of comfort foods.

Saying another prayer for the beast to lose your address at least until after those babies are out of danger.

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Reply #74 - Sep 12th, 2008 at 12:59pm
 
Any news Shawn?

I haven't been able to get online but I've been thinking of you constantly and praying - still sending you so much strength and love

Come on little lads - you have a world full of auntie's and uncles longing to meet you so hang on and fight like the troopers your mum and dad are. We all love you, we all want you so much - You two are all the Christmas presents I want

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