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Reply #25 - Sep 26th, 2008 at 4:52am
 
Kimmie,

it's not your fault and never will be. Think of it this way: because you know a lot about ch, you can help your son to deal with this much better. I'm so sorry that you both have ch. Smiley But think of it as a battle you two can fight together.

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Reply #26 - Sep 26th, 2008 at 8:08am
 
I now how you feel, except mine is a bit worse (at least in my eyes).  My daughter did inherit a disease from my side of the family.  Worse, it skipped me entirely.

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Reply #27 - Sep 26th, 2008 at 8:20am
 
So sorry to hear about your son!!!!  At least you understand what he is going through and you can help him cope.  Keep you both in my thoughts and prayers.

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Reply #28 - Sep 26th, 2008 at 10:18am
 
Kimmie wrote on Sep 25th, 2008 at 5:38pm:
OK....Here's the deal...confirmed CH. He's on Elavil, and Imitrex ( when needed). The doc would'nt prescribe him o2. Oh well....shit happens I guess. Smiley



I'm sorry everyone but WTF?

You post here on the 23rd, get an appt for on the 24th for the 25th and then you get a confirmed diagnosis with no mention of an MRI???

You got Elavil and Imitrex for a ten year old when Imitrex isn't prescribable for under 16's??

I think I need more fingers because this is so not adding up

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Reply #29 - Sep 26th, 2008 at 10:23am
 
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...no mention of an MRI???

I didn't even think about this one. Shame on me.

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...Imitrex isn't prescribable for under 16's??

This I didn't know.

You're right - something's rotten in the state of Denmark.
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Reply #30 - Sep 26th, 2008 at 11:38am
 
I have to agree with Helen.   There should maybe be a little more investigation into this.  Don't feel like you shouldn't question your child's doctor.  It is your job to be his advocate and if a doctor doesn't like that you are requesting more investigation or questioning his diagnosis, then it's time for a new Dr.

I actually speak from experience.  My daughter, Morgan, was a very sick baby.  She had unexplained fevers, as high as 105.8%.  When I called the doctor, he would just treat the fever.....never investigating the cause.  Finally, I would have brought her into the office  enough that they would say she had an ear infection and give her an anti-biotic which would help her get better.   I always felt in my heart that something was really wrong...but, who was I to doubt the Dr?

On Mother's Day, when Morgan was three, I put her to bed.  She seemed fine.  She woke up vomiting and hallucinating.  The Dr. said that it was a virus and to bring her in the next day......he saw her at 6:00pm.  He then decided that she has a bladder infection.  I was to give her an anti-biotic and she would be fine.   After calling and calling the office because she was getting worse instead of better, and being told to "give the med some time" I took her to St. Louis Children's Hosp.   She was diagnosed with E-Coli Euro sepsis.  E- Coli was all through out her body and she was in great danger of not pulling through.  

After that crisis, they ran some tests that concluded that she had a condition called Kidney reflux.  It causes the urine to back up into the kidneys.  She had been having infections for three years!  Now her kidneys are damaged.   She may lose her right one.  It  is not growing well and the other is too large.  If I had just questioned the doctor more when she was a baby, she would be healthy today.  All it would have taken was a low dose prophylactic anti-biotic every day.  Talk about blaming yourself!  

You did NOT cause your little boy to have CH.  BTW, I had kidney reflux as a child too.... I out grew it.  I shared this with you so that you would not make the same mistake that I did.

Take care and give hugs to your sweetie for me!

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Reply #31 - Sep 26th, 2008 at 12:19pm
 
Hate to disappoint you...but yep my doc saw Drake on the 24th AND the 25. Here in good ol' Texas you have what's called a medical express lane. Doc got on the computer and scheduled him down the street to the Ft. Worth Diagnostic center the same DAY (actually in 2 hours time) Doesn't hurt also when your husband is a member of the City Council either. Don't blame any political mumbo jumbo on me, I only married into it- sat in at a couple meetings ...
b-o-r-i-n-g.I don't give a rats ass if my son got "special treatment", he got treated..period.
Imitrex can be prescribed from age 9 and up..feel free to do some research...I did, and the doc felt comfortable enough with giving him the 25mg tablets vs what I use (6mg injections) Now...you can put yer fingers back down.
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Reply #32 - Sep 26th, 2008 at 12:24pm
 
????  What on earth are you talking about Kimmie with "put your fingers back down"??  We're just concerened about the fact that instead of harmless O2 even being tried, the doc just threw drugs at the kid. Undecided
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Reply #33 - Sep 26th, 2008 at 12:56pm
 
Kimmie,

When you post, we assume that it is because you are interested in our in put.  I don't think that anyone meant anything derogatory by what was said.  We all care about each other here and are just offering support, advice, and opinions.  That's what I hope for when I post.  It's great that Drake was seen so quickly!  You have been around here long enough to know that most EVERYONE here advocates 02 as a first line abortive.  It shouldn't surprise you that it was brought up.  If Drake were my child I would want an MRI to rule out anything more serious that CH. 

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Reply #34 - Sep 26th, 2008 at 12:57pm
 
Melissa wrote on Sep 26th, 2008 at 12:24pm:
????  What on earth are you talking about Kimmie with "put your fingers back down"??  We're just concerened about the fact that instead of harmless O2 even being tried, the doc just threw drugs at the kid. Undecided


the lady was counting her fingers...I did the math for her... Wink
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Reply #35 - Sep 26th, 2008 at 1:19pm
 
Kimmie wrote on Sep 26th, 2008 at 12:57pm:
Melissa wrote on Sep 26th, 2008 at 12:24pm:
????  What on earth are you talking about Kimmie with "put your fingers back down"??  We're just concerened about the fact that instead of harmless O2 even being tried, the doc just threw drugs at the kid. Undecided


the lady was counting her fingers...I did the math for her... Wink

Ohhhhhhhhhhhhh, ok, I get it now.  LOL  Sorry!
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Reply #36 - Sep 26th, 2008 at 1:19pm
 
Kimmie sounds like your your taking some abuse but your talking to a bunch of clusterheads, who know this pain and the trials most of us have gone through to get a diagnosis.  We are all concerned with the quick CH call,  with no mention of a CT or MRI.  So please tell us this was done.        Phil
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Reply #37 - Sep 26th, 2008 at 1:31pm
 
Dammit Kimmie. Sorry for the young one. Kick demon butt.
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Reply #38 - Sep 26th, 2008 at 2:12pm
 
CT negative. I did view them back at the Dr's office...it's funny how I can make out little figures...ya know....like they  do to ya when you have to be tested for anxiety or whatever...they show you the pictures and ask what you see, all kidding aside, it was a little disturbing having to view my son's CT. I got scared just looking at mine. Smiley
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Reply #39 - Sep 26th, 2008 at 2:28pm
 
Thank goodness that it was neg.   Sounds like you are on top of things!  Sorry for your little guy's pain and yours too.  Remember, everyone here is on your side! Wink

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