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ClusterChuck CH.com Alumnus Offline The BEAST rises again, and again, and again, and . Posts: 5394 Greenville, North Carolina Gender:	Re: MY SAFE PLACE Reply #25 - Sep 24^th, 2008 at 10:29pm Linda_Howell wrote on Sep 24^th, 2008 at 7:19pm: If someone says it's because I'm blonde, I'll cry. HMMMMM ....... SO tempting ... ~~After all, she IS a mere female, and blonde at that ...~~ NOPE! I ain't agonna do it ... Chuck
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Linda_Howell CH.com Moderator CH.com Alumnus Offline Do not feed the Moderators Posts: 11927 Santa Maria, Ca. Gender:	Re: MY SAFE PLACE Reply #26 - Sep 24^th, 2008 at 10:36pm Since when do YOU have to be nice to ME? aw, go for it Chuck. I want so much to see you happy.
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cash5542 CH.com Hall of Famer Offline I love YaBB 1G - SP1! Posts: 1243 x1\|Ocean Pines\|USA\|usa\|498\|141\|MD,Maryland Gender:	Re: MY SAFE PLACE Reply #27 - Sep 25^th, 2008 at 7:00am I want some kisses too!!! Any one notice how many new flavors this year? I thik I saw a carmel apple kiss last week. What's your favorite? I love the chocolate cherry ones although I kind of overdosed when they came out. Charlotte
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Reply #28 - Sep 25^th, 2008 at 4:33pm

Yep, I'm new, and I really affended some of you. The more I think of this the more my head hurts, I just need to understand and I will let this go.

After 2 years of being free my kids talked me into talking to some one online. They showed me how to get on line a time back but this was my very first time trying to talk to someone. yea, I spell bad and I am 63 years young. You slandered me, I understand all those words you called me but what is a troll? and why are you so defensive? I was just looking to talk to someone O.K. and VENT.. chil out, how can i hurt you...

you know what, I feal better, right now my boys are loading up the motor home with 02 bottles and i am going to get out of here for the week end....I WISH YOU NO ILL WILL AND I HOPE YOU ALL HAVE A CLUSTER FREE WEEK END....

SHARK BOY

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Jimi CH.com Moderator CH.com Alumnus Offline Don't feed the moderators Posts: 4925 Madisonville, KY Gender:	Re: MY SAFE PLACE Reply #29 - Sep 25^th, 2008 at 4:46pm I have seen nothing of your posts to offend anyone. Have a good weekend.
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Brew Ex Member	Re: MY SAFE PLACE Reply #30 - Sep 25^th, 2008 at 4:47pm shark boy wrote on Sep 25^th, 2008 at 4:33pm: After 2 years of being free... What does that mean? For two years nobody had to pay for you? It's been 2 years since they let you out of prison? What?
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Jimi CH.com Moderator CH.com Alumnus Offline Don't feed the moderators Posts: 4925 Madisonville, KY Gender:	Re: MY SAFE PLACE Reply #31 - Sep 25^th, 2008 at 4:48pm THAT would offend me.
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Melissa CH.com Moderator CH.com Alumnus Offline Don't give up! Posts: 7238 Central WI, USA Gender:	Re: MY SAFE PLACE Reply #32 - Sep 25^th, 2008 at 4:50pm shark boy, enjoy your weekend and hopefully your head will give you a break. mel
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Jeannie CH.com Sponsor Offline Live, Laugh, Love.... Posts: 2333 St Louis, Missouri Gender:	Re: MY SAFE PLACE Reply #33 - Sep 25^th, 2008 at 4:55pm I too hope you enjoy your weekend, Sharkie. May I call you Sharkie? Let us know how it went! Pain free wishes, Jeannie
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Re: MY SAFE PLACE
Reply #34 - Sep 25^th, 2008 at 5:01pm

FREE-as in pain free...........anyone out there who can relate???

As for his own chosen method of coping?? Well, some are Light sensitive, some bang their heads enough to do damage...some like to be alone....some even rub their tummies with raspberry-vinaigrette dressing...or have an orgasm( or not CHUUCK Tongue

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Point being, just because someone deals with the beast differently from you doesn't make em a troll, and shouldn't subject them to foul language and accusations.........
NOW..when someone DOES prove themselves to be a troll...get out the sticks.... but again, why be an anal orefice to someone who probably suffers the same unimaginable pain as you do?
Jonny, thank you for handling this soo nicely! Got a gold stasr for you, Mister!

Shark-boy, enjoy your weekend.........and when you get back, let's get to know you better.......

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CH-HELL Ex Member	Re: MY SAFE PLACE Reply #35 - Sep 25^th, 2008 at 5:14pm I think Brew was making an attempt at being nice, he just has a funny way with words but his spelling and grammar are always perfect. Have a good weekend. Phil
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Brew Ex Member	Re: MY SAFE PLACE Reply #36 - Sep 25^th, 2008 at 6:15pm Look, I was simply seeking clarification of something I did not understand. When shark boy answers me, hopefully I'll have gained that knowledge. He's apparently gone for the weekend, so I'll be patient. Nothing more, nothing less.
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fubar Ex Member	Re: MY SAFE PLACE Reply #37 - Sep 25^th, 2008 at 7:48pm I kind of bit his head off in a different thread, but I was being cranky... sorry
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Charlie CH.com Alumnus Offline Happy to be here Posts: 18971 Jamestown, NY Gender:	Re: MY SAFE PLACE Reply #39 - Sep 25^th, 2008 at 9:08pm Hold on sharkie. Believe it or not these guys are pretty decent sorts. Charlie Multimedia File Viewing and Clickable Links are available for Registered Members only!! You need to or
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sandie99 CH.com Hall of Famer Offline Wish it, dream it, do it - inspite the pain! Posts: 11975 Finland Gender:	Re: MY SAFE PLACE Reply #41 - Sep 26^th, 2008 at 3:59am Mel, we need details! I know that there are plenty of different Hershey's Kisses to choose from... Sanna who loves bit too much the caramel ones
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Reply #42 - Sep 26^th, 2008 at 4:29pm

Yeah I was a bit direct, but I apologised if I was wrong in advance. And I wasn't personally offended, though it did seem that there may have been some mocking at the time.

I just can't seem to wonder why someone would replace the drywall in a closet they keep breaking their head through.

During PF times I would think I would replace the drywall I broke with my head after the first time, and then I would find something more suitable to hit my head on instead of continually destroying my home.

It guess it reminded me too much of the "Here's Johnny" scene in The Shining............

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Reply #43 - Sep 27^th, 2008 at 2:23am

No big, shark boy. I've done weirder things than smashing drywall with my head--and I know I'm not the only one.

'Fact, one person I know here macerated his wee-wee in a cracked toilet seat one time. It ended a hit for him. He says he didn't do it on purpose, but I dunno.

He ain't right, but he's one of us.

Welcome.

All the best,

George

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Reply #44 - Sep 27^th, 2008 at 3:22am

I guess I am confused by what you wrote.

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that has a replaceable piece of drywall

I just can't seem to wonder why someone would replace the drywall in a closet wall they keep breaking their head through.

How does one make a "replaceable piece of drywall"? I've done lots of drywall repair and it is a pain each time as one must add somthing behind the hole so the the piece of drywall you are replacing has a place to be attached to. Seems like a lot of work.

So then you're saying that you make the choice during PF times, that you are going to bash your head through the drywall during your next hit, since you have the fore-thought to make your home's drywall replaceable - BUT you don't think coming up with something else to hit your head on is a good idea (like why not just take the drywall you already own that is for replacing the hole you're just going to make in your closet) and juat hold it or lean it up against the wall on an angle and then break it with your head?

Is it the banging of your head that helps (which I think is the reason for most people who bang their head during a hit) or is it the sensation of breaking through the drywall with your head, or more accurately, breaking through the wall itself into your homes sub-structure?

If the banging helps you, you could just bang your head on anything else. Or take some of the drywall you have and the wall several layers thick so it doesn't break.

I am not upset with you, I just don't understand the logic.

I hope any of my ideas will help you......

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Reply #45 - Sep 27^th, 2008 at 7:16am

Before I had o2 to abort a hit, I could not be confined, had to have lots of room to pace. When we had friends over and I got hit, just having to be in the bedroom with the door closed drove me crazy, but now with o2, I can get on it right away and keep myself calm until the hit backs off, usually within a few minutes.

Be careful hitting your head on drywall, there is a wooded stud behind it that won't give, and that will "ring your bell" pretty good. Wink

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Tara Ann CH.com Alumnus Offline It's always darkest before the dawn. Posts: 2719 North Carolina, USA Gender:	Re: MY SAFE PLACE Reply #46 - Sep 27^th, 2008 at 9:42am All this wall hitting talk just forced me to add some advice..... Dont hit the 'fridge with your head, it leaves an irrepairable dent.
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Reply #47 - Sep 27^th, 2008 at 10:36am

My safe place........alone, with no chance of being seen by anyone......preferably home.

I'm not proud to admit that I also have been a head banger and the plaster walls with the studs behind them were my choice place because the sound didn't echo as much through out the house. After banging my head so hard during one kip 10, I saw a flash of white and probably came close to knocking myself out. I do not recommend this, once the ch has passed you are left with a throbbing headache. I wish I could say that I will never do that again, but during a kip 10, all common sense goes out the window.

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alienspacebabe CH.com Alumnus Offline Why didn't Noah swat those two mosquitoes? Posts: 1969 Cudahy, WI Gender:	Re: MY SAFE PLACE Reply #48 - Sep 27^th, 2008 at 6:57pm superhawk2300 wrote on Sep 24^th, 2008 at 5:05pm: 1. You have migranes or at least do not have ClusterHeadaches, since you throw up and are sensitive to light. Occasionally sensitive to light. Occasionally puke. Does this mean I don't have clusterheadaches? WHOOHOO!!!!! Pass some of 'dem kisses, Mel!
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