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DennisM1045

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My Aidan (updated 1/16)
Dec 2^nd, 2008 at 8:32am

tried to take her life again yesterday. It took forever to find her after I found the note. When they did she was barely alive.

3.6 grams of Verapamil SR will do that to you. That's right, she stole my meds this time and chased them with a bottle of NyQuil and a bottle of Benadryl.

She'd been in that car for hours. Her core temp was 87. BP 60/nothing. HR in the teens.

Now she in an ICU on a ventilator with tubes coming out everywhere.

I got home at 4am. I slept a bit and am heading back again...

Some prayers would be much appreciated.

-Dennis-

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« Last Edit: Jan 16^th, 2009 at 10:01am by DennisM1045 »

Where there is life, there is hope.
Where there is Oxygen, you must use proper caution.
So be safe, don't smoke while using O2. Kill the pain and not yourself.

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maalstroom CH.com Old Timer Offline ''Dance to my tune''.... the hell I will! Posts: 491 the Netherlands Gender:	Re: My Aidan Reply #1 - Dec 2^nd, 2008 at 8:36am Oh my God Dennis, this is horrible. Of course we will be sending our vibes your family's direction. . Hope all will be allright soon again, your friend Pascal.
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Jackie CH.com Moderator CH.com Alumnus Offline Go For It!!! Posts: 5903 Goshen, IN Gender:	Re: My Aidan Reply #2 - Dec 2^nd, 2008 at 8:46am Oh Dennis...my heart aches for you and your family. Please know that you, all of you, are a constant in our thoughts and prayers. Much Love, Jackie
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flipperlips CH.com Alumnus Offline Live, Laugh, Love Posts: 935 Mcallen, TX Gender:	Re: My Aidan Reply #3 - Dec 2^nd, 2008 at 8:51am Oh Dennis, I am so sorry to hear this Everything that I have in me is coming your way by way of positive thoughts, vibes and prayers.
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deltadarlin CH.com Alumnus Offline I love YaBB 1G - SP1! Posts: 3823 Downsville LA Gender:	Re: My Aidan Reply #4 - Dec 2^nd, 2008 at 8:53am Dennis, I am so sorry. Prayers have aleady gone up for you and your family, especially for Aiden. Carolyn
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LeLimey Ex Member	Re: My Aidan Reply #9 - Dec 2^nd, 2008 at 10:08am Dennis - you're all in my prayers. I'm so sorry and I wish I could do something "real" to help lots of love to you and yours Helen xxx
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Redd CH.com Sponsor Offline Posts: 8457 Stevens Point USA Wisconsin Gender:	Re: My Aidan Reply #14 - Dec 2^nd, 2008 at 11:22am My heart aches for your family Dennis. Everything I have is going up for you and Aidan and th rest of your family.
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Jimi CH.com Moderator CH.com Alumnus Offline Don't feed the moderators Posts: 4925 Madisonville, KY Gender:	Re: My Aidan Reply #20 - Dec 2^nd, 2008 at 11:44am All we can do is hope and pray that this scares her enough that she will never try it again and that she can get hooked up to someone who can really make a difference in her life and make her want to live.
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mezza CH.com Alumnus Offline I love YaBB 1G - SP1! Posts: 415 north carolina Gender:	Re: My Aidan Reply #22 - Dec 2^nd, 2008 at 12:38pm Dennis- Know that I am thinking of you and your family during this time! I am so sorry that Aidan and your family is having the roughest time! Kelly
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