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Re: My Aidan (updated 12/3 9AM)
Reply #50 - Dec 3^rd, 2008 at 2:11pm

I know that when I was unsuccessful, I was happy to be alive. The worst thing that some family members told me though, was how stupid and inconsiderate I was. You see, I thought at the time that what I was going to do would be the best for all, especially those I loved.

Anyway I hope that maybe now with the grace of God Aidan will see that she is meant to live.

Not everyone gets a 2nd chance.

Love & prayers for her,
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sandie99 CH.com Hall of Famer Offline Wish it, dream it, do it - inspite the pain! Posts: 11975 Finland Gender:	Re: My Aidan (updated 12/3 9AM) Reply #51 - Dec 3^rd, 2008 at 2:24pm Dennis, Still praying for you all. Sanna
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Mosaicwench CH.com Sponsor Offline www.mosaicwench.com Posts: 3507 Near Milwaukee WI, USA Gender:	Re: My Aidan (updated 12/3 9AM) Reply #52 - Dec 3^rd, 2008 at 3:21pm Where there is life, there is hope. A mantra for the ages. You're still getting all we've got.
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deltadarlin CH.com Alumnus Offline I love YaBB 1G - SP1! Posts: 3823 Downsville LA Gender:	Re: My Aidan (updated 12/3 9AM) Reply #53 - Dec 3^rd, 2008 at 7:54pm At least if she's angry, that's an real emotion. Much better than depressed and withdrawn. Hopefully, she's hit rock bottom and the only way is up. Carolyn
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Marc Ex Member Gender:	Re: My Aidan (updated 12/3 9AM) Reply #54 - Dec 3^rd, 2008 at 8:06pm deltadarlin wrote on Dec 3^rd, 2008 at 7:54pm: At least if she's angry, that's an real emotion. Much better than depressed and withdrawn. Hopefully, she's hit rock bottom and the only way is up. Carolyn Good call. Hoping for good news................ Marc
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Re: My Aidan (updated 12/3 9AM)
Reply #55 - Dec 3^rd, 2008 at 11:07pm

deltadarlin wrote on Dec 3^rd, 2008 at 7:54pm:

At least if she's angry, that's an *real* emotion. Much better than depressed and withdrawn.

Hopefully, she's hit rock bottom and the only way is up.

Carolyn

Exactly! Where there's anger, there is life! And...where there's life... Smiley

I really hope that this just proves to her the extent to which she is loved, and that she'll work with you to overcome the anger, fear, and depression!

Keeping up the vibes and prayers,

Laurie

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Re: My Aidan (updated 12/3 9AM)
Reply #56 - Dec 4^th, 2008 at 9:45am

Things are improving steadily. There is still pnumonia but her white count is beginning to improve. More adjustments to antibiotics.

She still needs Oxygen and things have progressed from a ventilator to a non-rebreather to a nasal canula in the last 24 hours. I have to say I'm jealous of the humidifier they're using Shocked

It's good to see her awake. She's eating some food. We've talked and gone through all the whats the whens and the wheres. The whys are gonna take a while.

She's not angry. Just hurting is lots of ways and very weepy. We've spent a lot of time talking. I'm sure that will continue.

A lot of things had to go right to keep my little girl here on this planet. She stole the 'right' bottle of pills. The low temperatures outside slowed her metabolism. Once we found the note in time. The police located her quickly once it was clear this was a suicide. The hospital staff did all the right things. The poison control center had the right protocol. And on and on.

But this list of things that has allowed us to get to this point also includes the prayers and calls and PMs extended by my family here. Andrea and I thank you all from the bottom of our hearts. It has been a real help for us to know you are all out there pulling for us.

Thank you.

-Dennis-

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Melissa CH.com Moderator CH.com Alumnus Offline Don't give up! Posts: 7238 Central WI, USA Gender:	Re: My Aidan (updated 12/4 10AM) Reply #57 - Dec 4^th, 2008 at 10:13am What she's going through is bringing back a flood of memories that are giving me tears in my eyes, but I don't care. I so wish I could just go and give her a BIG hug!!
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mummymac CH.com Alumnus Offline Kissed Donny Osmond and proud of it Posts: 943 Jersey\|United_Kingdom\|europe Gender:	Re: My Aidan (updated 12/4 10AM) Reply #58 - Dec 4^th, 2008 at 10:27am There are no words to make it better but I can send you all Love and light Love and light in abundance to you all Tanya xxx
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barry_sword CH.com Alumnus Offline Mountain Biking Keeps Me Sane Posts: 3947 Bracebridge, Canada Gender:	Re: My Aidan (updated 12/4 10AM) Reply #59 - Dec 4^th, 2008 at 12:34pm This must be so hard on you and Andrea and all of the family and friends. Keep up the fight Aidan, you have a whole community of supporters here praying you.
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sandie99 CH.com Hall of Famer Offline Wish it, dream it, do it - inspite the pain! Posts: 11975 Finland Gender:	Re: My Aidan (updated 12/4 10AM) Reply #60 - Dec 4^th, 2008 at 1:54pm I'm glad that things are slowly getting better. Prayers are on their way for you all... Sanna
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BarbaraD CH.com Alumnus Offline Hugs to ya Posts: 8333 Douglasville, TX Gender:	Re: My Aidan (updated 12/4 10AM) Reply #61 - Dec 4^th, 2008 at 2:00pm You've got a lot of love and prayers coming from Texas... Hugs BD
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Em CH.com Alumnus Offline I wanna go... Posts: 830 St Peter Port, Guernsey. Gender:	Re: My Aidan (updated 12/4 10AM) Reply #62 - Dec 4^th, 2008 at 3:12pm Dennis, I'm so sorry to hear about what has happened with Aidan. I really hope she can get the help that she needs to pull through this and come out stronger for it. Where there's life, there's hope. I love that. Em x
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Garys_Girl CH.com Hall of Famer Offline Making biscuits Posts: 821 Planet Cat, NJ Gender:	Re: My Aidan (updated 12/4 10AM) Reply #63 - Dec 4^th, 2008 at 4:09pm I hope the tears mean the healing of her hurt is beginning. I'm so glad everything went just right to bring her back to you. My prayers are that she can find her way through to want to stay. Laurie
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Felicia CH.com Old Timer Offline You can never change me. Posts: 318 Daytona Beach, FL, USA Gender:	Re: My Aidan (updated 12/4 10AM) Reply #64 - Dec 4^th, 2008 at 4:50pm Still sending strength you're way Dennis. Let us know if you need anything. More than willing to do what we can. Glad she's gonna be ok. Broken
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Jackie CH.com Moderator CH.com Alumnus Offline Go For It!!! Posts: 5903 Goshen, IN Gender:	Re: My Aidan (updated 12/4 10AM) Reply #65 - Dec 4^th, 2008 at 4:53pm Bless you all, Dennis.... It's gonna take time and hard work but you all are gaining on it day by day.....step by step. Where there's life there's hope...Amen! Prayers and positive thoughts continuing for you all. Much Love, Jackie
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George CH.com Moderator CH.com Alumnus Offline Black-Billed Magpie Posts: 8126 Boise, Idaho USA Gender:	Re: My Aidan (updated 12/4 10AM) Reply #66 - Dec 5^th, 2008 at 12:06am I'm happy to hear that some things have improved, Dennis. You all continue to be in my thoughts, and the thoughts, prayers, and hopes of every one of us. Best wishes for a brighter future, George
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Re: My Aidan (updated 12/4 10AM)
Reply #67 - Dec 5^th, 2008 at 12:15am

Dennis, I am sure you know how bad I feel for you and your whole family, especially Aiden. Having been in your shoes, with one of my children, I know how hard it is. It has to be even rougher on you, with Aiden having tried this another time, too.

As you know, there is still a long road to go. But, with the support of G_d, you, your wife, and family there to help her, she is in the right hands. Keep fighting, as I know you will.

My prayers and vibes, are there as they have been. Let me know if I can do anything for you.

Chuck

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Re: My Aidan (updated 12/4 10AM)
Reply #68 - Dec 5^th, 2008 at 10:18pm

Some good news ... Aidan is up and walking around. No more catheter, no more oxygen, no more constant monitoring. She finally stable.

Her blood tests are getting better as her liver continues to slowly recover. But she is recovering.

I haven't been this excited to see one of my kids walk since Emma began toddling. Grin

Her mood is sad as she realized she isn't likely to be home for Christmas. I told her I already had what I wanted for Christmas.

-Dennis-

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Where there is Oxygen, you must use proper caution.
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Melissa CH.com Moderator CH.com Alumnus Offline Don't give up! Posts: 7238 Central WI, USA Gender:	Re: My Aidan (updated 12/4 10AM) Reply #69 - Dec 5^th, 2008 at 10:24pm Oh Dennis, that's wonderful!!! I am SO happy for Aidan! I will keep the faith that she can overcome.
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Redd CH.com Sponsor Offline Posts: 8457 Stevens Point USA Wisconsin Gender:	Re: My Aidan (updated 12/4 10AM) Reply #70 - Dec 5^th, 2008 at 10:26pm Oh Dennis, that is good news indeed.
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cash5542 CH.com Hall of Famer Offline I love YaBB 1G - SP1! Posts: 1243 x1\|Ocean Pines\|USA\|usa\|498\|141\|MD,Maryland Gender:	Re: My Aidan (updated 12/4 10AM) Reply #71 - Dec 5^th, 2008 at 10:30pm It is great to hear that Aidan is improving. My prayers and thoughts are with you as she continues her recovery. Holler if you need anything. Charlotte
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kayarr CH.com Hall of Famer Offline Posts: 1049 x1\|Portland\|USA\|usa\|36\|63\|OR,Oregon Gender:	Re: My Aidan (updated 12/4 10AM) Reply #72 - Dec 5^th, 2008 at 10:39pm I just now read this and am praying for all of you. "Hard" doesn't begin to express what you have been through and what you have ahead. parenting isn't for whimps. Love to you and yours! Lean on us please:) Kimberly and Jeff
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Jackie CH.com Moderator CH.com Alumnus Offline Go For It!!! Posts: 5903 Goshen, IN Gender:	Re: My Aidan (updated 12/4 10AM) Reply #73 - Dec 6^th, 2008 at 12:14am Thanks for the update, Dennis. Continuing prayers and positive thoughts for Aiden and you.....for all of your family. Much Love, Jackie
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Re: My Aidan (updated 12/5 10PM)
Reply #74 - Dec 6^th, 2008 at 11:00am

Dennis,
I'm so glad Aidan is is improving medically. What a relief it must be to you and ther rest of the family!
Christmas can be any day you wish it to be... maybe the day Aidan comes home.

Anything we can do?

Where there is life there is hope...and a little love always helps, too.......

Vibes still heading your way............

Cathi

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