Sandy, I know where you're coming from and feel for you. We're in a depression whether we admit it or not.
For years I've watched people I KNOW could work live off the government dole while I was paying for it. I've stood behind people at the check out counter at the grocery store, watched them buy choice cuts of meats with food stamps while I was buying beans, rice and corn meal with money I worked for. And I KNOW they could be working.
I've done without medical care (couldn't afford insurance premiums) while we gave medical care to illegal "guest workers" and their kids and I paid for it with MY tax money.
I worked my butt off to send MY child to college AND paid taxes to educate kids legal and illegal who's parents sat on their butts and watched soap operas all day and lived off mine and others tax dollars and complained that they weren't getting enough.
So last month, I got this wild hair up my rear and decided to go down to the nice government office and apply for food stamps (hell, I've been paying for everyone else all these years and ....). Most everything I've got is tied up in an estate, so what I actually show as income is right at the poverty level (don't ask - it's legal), so I fill out the paperwork and take it in. Oh, I got approved alright... for $34 a month in food stamps. $34 damn dollars a month. Geezzz! I should be able to lose some weight on that!!! Now I've been paying into the system for about 50 years and now that I'm old and need "food" they give me $34 a month to eat on! I did write a Senator on that one.
But helping each other is something that's coming back (at least for some of us "oldtimers"). I have some neighbors who sometimes don't eat well and sometimes I do tend to cook too much and ya know food doesn't keep too well... I've heard of a lot of people "overcooking" lately and needing favors to get rid of the over-stuff.
But something else I'm seeing is some of these "older" people who actually NEED help are ASHAMED to ask for it. They (we) were raised to take care of ourselves and make do and not ask the government for anything, so even if we go hungry that's just how it is. A few I've chewed out and filled out the forms for them and TAKEN them to the food stamp office. There's no reason for them to go hungry while we're giving it away to people who've never paid in a damn cent.
I wish I had an answer, but I don't. 8 years ago I had a booming business and was supporting five families. Today I'm living on the farm, drawing $34 a month in food stamps trying to figure out how I'm going to explain to my kids that they're going to have to live below their "wannabe status" when they lose their jobs and have to move in with me.

My little idiot son might just have to learn what sweat really is and that caluses are not a bad thing on the farm.

But look at the bright side. We survive CH - we can survive anything.
Hugs BD