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Re: Anyone got a foam helmet ?
Reply #26 - Mar 29^th, 2009 at 5:50pm

deBauch wrote on Mar 29^th, 2009 at 3:05pm:

What if I had mentioned that I was gay ? I'm guessing that I would most likely have been subject to similar attacks.

I am a cluster headache sufferer, AND I am gay ... OPENLY gay. I believe anyone who has been on this site for any length of time, knows that I am gay. Other than good natured teasing, I have never been attacked, because I am gay.

HOWEVER, I HAVE been attacked for some of the things that I have said, and usually, RIGHTFULLY attacked. If I say something mean or stupid, I get attacked. NEVER for being gay!

From my experience (over six years of it) on this site, lifestyles are not attacked. Most are pretty much ambivalent about a certain lifestyle one chooses, or does NOT choose to be part of. (FWIW, being gay is NOT a choice!)

Meanness, cruelty, abusiveness, deception, and fraud ARE attacked. There are PLENTY of people on this site that partake in whacky tobbacky ... Just the use of it for clusters is found to be very destructive, for 99% of the users.

YOU be considerate, and polite, and we will be too. Be nasty, cruel and abusive, towards anyone and you WILL be slapped down. Plain and simple.

Chuck

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Guiseppi CH.com Moderator CH.com Alumnus Offline San Diego to Florida 05-16-2011 Posts: 12063 SAN DIEGO, CALIFORNIA USA Gender:	Re: Anyone got a foam helmet ? Reply #27 - Mar 29^th, 2009 at 5:59pm As always Chuck, I stand in awe of your ability to put my thoughts into words! Joe
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Re: Anyone got a foam helmet ?
Reply #28 - Mar 29^th, 2009 at 6:11pm

ClusterChuck wrote on Mar 29^th, 2009 at 5:50pm:

Meanness, cruelty, abusiveness, deception, and fraud ARE attacked. There are PLENTY of people on this site that partake in whacky tobbacky ... Just the use of it for clusters is found to be very destructive, for 99% of the users.

YOU be considerate, and polite, and we will be too. Be nasty, cruel and abusive, towards anyone and you WILL be slapped down. Plain and simple.

Couldn't have said it any better!

edit to add: Hit the ignore button!!! Roll Eyes

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Linda_Howell CH.com Moderator CH.com Alumnus Offline Do not feed the Moderators Posts: 11927 Santa Maria, Ca. Gender:	Re: Anyone got a foam helmet ? Reply #29 - Mar 29^th, 2009 at 7:26pm Oh Chuck....I am not just saying this because I HAVE to be nice to you for another 5 months....THAT was beautiful. I think I really MUST echo this: Quote: YOU be considerate, and polite, and we will be too. Be nasty, cruel and abusive, towards anyone and you WILL be slapped down. Plain and simple.
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on my knees Ex Member	Re: Anyone got a foam helmet ? Reply #30 - Mar 29^th, 2009 at 9:15pm I am with Linda posting a PM isnt cool!!!!!
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Guiseppi CH.com Moderator CH.com Alumnus Offline San Diego to Florida 05-16-2011 Posts: 12063 SAN DIEGO, CALIFORNIA USA Gender:	Re: Anyone got a foam helmet ? Reply #31 - Mar 29^th, 2009 at 11:13pm Chuck's gay???????????? Joe
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AussieBrian CH.com Hall of Famer Offline CH - It's all in your head! Posts: 3851 Cairns, Qld, Australia Gender:	Re: Anyone got a foam helmet ? Reply #32 - Mar 29^th, 2009 at 11:42pm Guiseppi wrote on Mar 29^th, 2009 at 11:13pm: Chuck's gay???????????? Oi, no name-calling or I'll tell a moderator!
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Pixie-elf CH.com Hall of Famer Offline I've tried the rest, and busting is the best! Posts: 517 Beaumont,Tx Gender:	Re: Anyone got a foam helmet ? Reply #33 - Mar 30^th, 2009 at 12:33am Guiseppi wrote on Mar 29^th, 2009 at 11:13pm: Chuck's gay???????????? Joe Do you mean he likes kissing other BOYS?! gasp
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Jimi CH.com Moderator CH.com Alumnus Offline Don't feed the moderators Posts: 4925 Madisonville, KY Gender:	Re: Anyone got a foam helmet ? Reply #34 - Mar 30^th, 2009 at 12:39am No..............he's just happy.
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deltadarlin CH.com Alumnus Offline I love YaBB 1G - SP1! Posts: 3823 Downsville LA Gender:	Re: Anyone got a foam helmet ? Reply #35 - Mar 30^th, 2009 at 9:34am Jimi wrote on Mar 30^th, 2009 at 12:39am: No..............he's just happy. as a lark! Damn, I had no idea that Chuck was that happy ! Maybe Dj ought to add one more rule~no posting of private messages.
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Re: Anyone got a foam helmet ?
Reply #36 - Mar 30^th, 2009 at 8:54pm

Linda_Howell wrote on Mar 29^th, 2009 at 4:42pm:

Posting private PM's from someone for everyone to see , is a VERY un-classy thing to do around here and it really says a LOT about people who do that.

Agreed, its the lowest of the low, well except for being cowardly enough not to say your piece on open forum but hey, its backs against the wall here so I fight dirty Roll Eyes

Anyway, the weathers picking up very nicely isn't it, I sense a quite beautiful spring don't you love ?

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George CH.com Moderator CH.com Alumnus Offline Black-Billed Magpie Posts: 8126 Boise, Idaho USA Gender:	Re: Anyone got a foam helmet ? Reply #37 - Mar 30^th, 2009 at 10:20pm deBauch wrote on Mar 30^th, 2009 at 8:54pm: but hey, its backs against the wall here so I fight dirty Ummm...in case you haven't noticed, nobody's chasing you anymore. Can we move on? George
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deBauch CH.com Newbie Offline Textual Interahamwe Posts: 19 Headbutting a wall somewhere Gender:	Re: Anyone got a foam helmet ? Reply #38 - Mar 30^th, 2009 at 10:53pm Is that post ironic humour
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