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HappyElaine

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You can leave your condolences here!
Apr 20^th, 2009 at 7:48pm

In the last month I have waken up to my husband or daughter giving me problems to solve. Honey the breaker keeps tripping, Honey the wall socket caught on fire. Would you please handle that today? Duh Call the electrician, they make three trips cost us $1000. Finally I fix the problem I move the TV and computer to another wall. No more breakers over load. Why didn’t I figure that out on my own? Duh
Mom the washer won’t work, can you handle that today? Duh I guess. Call the service man, turns out to be just the screen needed cleaning. Mom the oven blew up, can you handle that? Damn do I look like Mrs Fix it. So I call repair and they tell me I need a new one. I am not ready to spend that kind of money right now for a new oven, so when the guy came to work on the washer he fixed it for $50. Then Yesterday my husband woke me up, and before I could even get one eye open he said. Honey the water doesn’t work.
Buddy do I look like a man, I am not the man, I am the wife the mama. Just one time could you fix something PLEASE! Buddy said I am sorry honey I can’t help it case my dad made me milk the cows and the other boys did the work around the house. All I know how to do is squeeze tits. I am right ready to squeeze something. Then he takes me down memory lane. I am sorry it’s hard to remember that far back.
Today I handled it. I called the well people, had to replace a control box. $209
Buddy comes home and I TELL HIM WELL I HANDLED IT. We now have $3 left in the bank. He looks at me and says, you’re losing your touch in your old age, use to get us good deals, now they are charging extra.

You can all list your condolences here FOR Mr. Buddy Wink

Deveny is safe at the moment!

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Brew CH.com Sponsor CH.com Alumnus Offline Posts: 14163	Re: You can leave your condolences here! Reply #1 - Apr 20^th, 2009 at 8:10pm Sorry I never got to meet ya, Buddy. Maybe in the next life. I hope it wasn't too painful.
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Grandma_Sweet_Boy CH.com Alumnus Offline What Goes Around Comes Around! Posts: 4496 Georgetown,Ontario Gender:	Re: You can leave your condolences here! Reply #2 - Apr 20^th, 2009 at 8:23pm Oh Buddy - what on earth were ya thinkin'??? You're a$$ is grass and Elaine is now the lawn mower, my friend. Nice knowin' ya. Carol
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Linda_Howell CH.com Moderator CH.com Alumnus Offline Do not feed the Moderators Posts: 11927 Santa Maria, Ca. Gender:	Re: You can leave your condolences here! Reply #3 - Apr 20^th, 2009 at 9:25pm Well I DID get to meey ya Buddy and you seem like such a nice guy to leave this life so soon. I will say an extra long prayer that Elaine makes it quick and painless for you.
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Melissa CH.com Moderator CH.com Alumnus Offline Don't give up! Posts: 7238 Central WI, USA Gender:	Re: You can leave your condolences here! Reply #4 - Apr 20^th, 2009 at 10:13pm Buddy, it was nice knowin ya.
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QnHeartMM CH.com Sponsor Offline I AM a Phoenix! Posts: 1783 San Diego, CA Gender:	Re: You can leave your condolences here! Reply #5 - Apr 20^th, 2009 at 10:56pm Buddy, hide the cast iron skillet before she CLOCKS you in your sleep!
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BarbaraD CH.com Alumnus Offline Hugs to ya Posts: 8333 Douglasville, TX Gender:	Re: You can leave your condolences here! Reply #6 - Apr 21^st, 2009 at 7:58am Well, at least ya got your tits squeezed before he departed this old world.... RIP Buddy.... Hugs BD
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deltadarlin CH.com Alumnus Offline I love YaBB 1G - SP1! Posts: 3823 Downsville LA Gender:	Re: You can leave your condolences here! Reply #7 - Apr 21^st, 2009 at 8:32am I met you Buddy and I thought you exhibited signs of intelligence . I must have been wrong. Nice knowing you. Elaine, Where should we send flowers?
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Charlie CH.com Alumnus Offline Happy to be here Posts: 18971 Jamestown, NY Gender:	Re: You can leave your condolences here! Reply #8 - Apr 21^st, 2009 at 11:27am Buddy......make sure there aren't bags of cement or more trash bags than usual around the house. Elaine sounds on the serious side.... Charlie
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HappyElaine CH.com Alumnus Offline I love YaBB 1G - SP1! Posts: 603 Flovilla,GA Gender:	Re: You can leave your condolences here! Reply #9 - Apr 21^st, 2009 at 12:00pm I don't know about painless, I gave him a xlax candy bar;-) last night , this morning I took was was left of him and buried him in a match box !
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DennisM1045 CH.com Alumnus Offline One wave at a time! Posts: 3437 Haverhill, Massachusetts, USA Gender:	Re: You can leave your condolences here! Reply #10 - Apr 21^st, 2009 at 12:58pm Hey Elaine ... my cellar needs cleaning and I have an old oil furnace that needs to be removed Well someone had to step in and help ole Buddy out Barb, you made me spit my lunch all over the puter -Dennis-
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Peppermint CH.com Alumnus Offline Work it out baby! Posts: 2908 New York\|USA Gender:	Re: You can leave your condolences here! Reply #11 - Apr 21^st, 2009 at 3:31pm Man. And here I thought Buddy had a head on his shoulders. Even if it WAS shiny. ADIOS CON EL CORAZON Buddy!
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Re: You can leave your condolences here!
Reply #12 - Apr 21^st, 2009 at 3:55pm

E-after all these years, my thoughts are going another way. Keep him.....train him to wash clothes, clean toilets, wash windows, vacuum floors, cook meals change beds and clean up........at least what he wants YOU to do is 8-5 work......... you could have HOURS of idle time if you simply tell him..."I'm the maintenance person. I'm off the clock at 4. Leave me a msg for tomorrow. I'll be in at 9am"...........ohh.and tell him you want a raise!!!!

Men, can;t live with em, illegal to shoot em..........
come to think of it,
RIP, Buddy.....we'll miss ya!

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Re: You can leave your condolences here!
Reply #13 - Apr 21^st, 2009 at 6:53pm

My condolances. I'm from Holland, if I send some tulips they'll have faded by the time they reach you, so I'll leave it at condolances.

BTW my partner and I share duties... If something's wrong with the washer or something like that I call him, if he has trouble playing his A-Team DVD's he gets me to play them

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E-Double CH.com Alumnus Offline Are we ourselves? Posts: 6948 Commack,New_York Gender:	Re: You can leave your condolences here! Reply #14 - Apr 21^st, 2009 at 6:56pm Dayum sistah you need some "captain" to come and git them in gear
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LeLimey Ex Member	Re: You can leave your condolences here! Reply #15 - Apr 22^nd, 2009 at 1:52am He deserved it ppppffffffffffft Jury = me Christy Carolyn Langa Cathi Linda Melissa Pep Barb Carol Steph Cat.... Verdict - It was a horrible accident Come on E baby, it's party time LOL
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Big Dan CH.com Alumnus Offline SMASH BRAIN! Posts: 1519 Columbia, MO Gender:	Re: You can leave your condolences here! Reply #16 - Apr 22^nd, 2009 at 10:45am So I'm back in the runnin'... ... hellll yeaaaah.
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Guiseppi CH.com Moderator CH.com Alumnus Offline San Diego to Florida 05-16-2011 Posts: 12063 SAN DIEGO, CALIFORNIA USA Gender:	Re: You can leave your condolences here! Reply #17 - Apr 22^nd, 2009 at 11:02am Just remember what gets everyone convicted Elaine...shallow graves...the headlines NEVER read body found in DEEP grave.......take the time to dig it right! oh buddy.......we must talk Joe
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LeLimey Ex Member	Re: You can leave your condolences here! Reply #18 - Apr 22^nd, 2009 at 3:06pm Big Dan wrote on Apr 22^nd, 2009 at 10:45am: So I'm back in the runnin'... ... hellll yeaaaah. oh so you're finally showing your face are you??!!! pfffft - we nearly had to send out the search party!! (which translates loosely to you've been missed!!)
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Jackie CH.com Moderator CH.com Alumnus Offline Go For It!!! Posts: 5903 Goshen, IN Gender:	Re: You can leave your condolences here! Reply #19 - Apr 22^nd, 2009 at 3:12pm Now, Elaine.....be sweet. You go hug Buddy's neck. He doesn't deserve a killin'.....ain't nuttin new now is it? Love ya.........and poor ole Buddy too Jackie
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HappyElaine

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Re: You can leave your condolences here!
Reply #20 - Apr 23^rd, 2009 at 4:01pm

OK he still around, but a much nicer LOL.

Big Dan Buddy said if you can build stuff, change cat litter, cut grass, do pluming, fix cars, come on, you just can't sleep on his number bed !

Joe, you so have a point there. We laughed our butts off when we read that.

Jackie, yea Buddy has always had a way with words LOL.

For all who don't know me, I post stuff like this hoping to make you guys smile. Buddy says things like that joking and I know it. Most of the time Buddy says the right things. We were made for each other.

Buddys a good guy and we love each other dearly. Buddy even irons his own cloths, he helps a lot around the house. Just certain things he knows nothing about and he is a smart man, he doesn't want to learn LMAO!

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Re: You can leave your condolences here!
Reply #21 - Apr 23^rd, 2009 at 5:32pm

Glad you decided to keep Buddy around!

Whenever I think of Buddy, I think of a post he put up, way back in November of 2003. He went to a gathering that we had at NancyC's house, down in South Carolina. His post was about how it affected him.

I LOVE that post, and will NEVER forget it!

Just read his post, and see why those of us that have been fortunate enough to meet this man, LOVE him:

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(WOW! In reading the responses, look at all the people that we don't hear from anymore ...)

Yup, Buddy is a keeper!

Chuck

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Lefty CH.com Alumnus Offline Posts: 759 Gender:	Re: You can leave your condolences here! Reply #22 - Apr 23^rd, 2009 at 6:11pm Multimedia File Viewing and Clickable Links are available for Registered Members only!! You need to or Wow excellent post Buddy...! Very nice reading... Sorry Elaine I think buddy has earned a stay of execution...! Lefty...
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cavalier Ex Member	Re: You can leave your condolences here! Reply #23 - Apr 23^rd, 2009 at 6:24pm Shittttt i didn't know where that was going and that's saying something for me!! Still puzzled!!!! Colin.
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