You make an excellent point Barbara, but Sanna makes an even better one: life DOES get in the way, be it positive or negative.

My own excuses:
In late november I started to get into what I'd call a winterlow, not knowing then it would descent into a stay at the very abyss. Believe it was bad, and though I'm getting better every day, I still feel it's throes. Full blown depression.
Besides that I seperated with my gf (now ex) and phantastic supporter for three hellish cycles. If it weren't for Sonja, I had already tightened a noose to the ceiling between hits hahaha. I'll always love her for that, and off course other things.
In march my father's gf died off cancer, the poor man's second woman that died in a little over ten years. Hard times on us all.
Lastly there was a thread some time ago which put me off somewhat. It just didn't feel as much at home to me at the time. Dunno what it is, but it gets the hair in my neck upright when I see people gang up on one person, whatever the cause was.

I did lurk however here, but somehow could not bring enough energy to the table to make some coherent support to anyone.
I'm planning to change that now, wanna become a full member again and see if I can help where ever I can.

Best to you all, Pascal.

That was just beautiful Cathi -- you said a mouthful kid...

Hugs BD